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[Anonymous No.10630001]

Can money and workplace success help you "catch up" with the social development you missed out on?
I'm 25 and a hugless kissless virgin
I never really made much of an effort to get girls because I thought I was unattractive (I was fat until highschool, got /fit/ afterwards though) even though plenty of girls told me I'm attractive
I also spent much of my time watching anime and playing vidya
I feel like I missed a vital point in my development and I will end up an old man with the mind of a child in a few years
Can money be used to correct this? What in the fuck do I do? I have a decent job now if it helps

[Anonymous No.10630007]

>>10630001
Sorry not reading your post but provide more asians like that and I'll read it

[Anonymous No.10630014]

sex is overvalued

[Anonymous No.10630016]

>>10630007
It's /biz/'s mascot Momoko-chan
I was the first to post her on here and I'm a bit proud of that

[Anonymous No.10630020]

>>10630016
Liar

[Anonymous No.10630025]

>>10630001
Literally go outside and enjoy your life

[reluctant kneepad girl No.10630027]

>>10630025
what can u do outside?

[Anonymous No.10630033]

>>10630020
Why would I lie about that? I first posted her on February 9th, you can check the archive if you don't believe me.
>>10630025
I go outside every day, I love going for walks. Doesn't really help change my situation though

[Anonymous No.10630041]

>>10630033
the only way you remember the date is by checking the archive yourself,proves nothing

[Anonymous No.10630047]

>>10630001
>I will end up an old man with the mind of a child
Nothing actually wrong with that. I would give a lot to have the mind of a child again.

[Anonymous No.10630051]

>>10630027
>>10630033
work out, go to events, learn stuff in courses

[Anonymous No.10630065]

>>10630001
Ill list you ways in which money can help
Height Surgery for 5+ inches: 200 k
Chin and Jaw inections: 20 k
Hair transplant: 10 k
Fancy Clothic Wardrobe: 5 k
Sexy Car: 100 k

Next come houses. Obviously, a big ass mansion for 2 million is the ideal. BUT
Girls love guys who hosts party. If you host a party, youre gonna get laid. FACT

Then, for getting people to like you, start buying everyone nice lunches at work. Buy them beer after work. You can literally go up to coworkers and be like
>anyone want to try this 5 k wine?

[Anonymous No.10630066]

>>10630041
Oh fine, who even cares. As long as people post her from time to time I'm happy with that
>>10630047
Tell me more anonymous. What makes you say that?
>>10630051
I do go to events, I wish I knew how to be more interesting so that people would be amused when talking with me though. I seem to fail pretty hard at that part

[Anonymous No.10630077]

Stop obsessing over some jap with an overbite.

[Anonymous No.10630081]

>>10630066
In order to be more interesting, go outside and experience shit ffs

[reluctant kneepad girl No.10630088]

>>10630051
but all that is done inside generally? i go to gym (inside), uni (inside) etc...

[reluctant kneepad girl No.10630092]

>>10630088
Don't forget your mom (inside)

[Anonymous No.10630095]

>>10630088
>what's the point of going outside
leave your fucking mattress

[Anonymous No.10630119]

>>10630066
>be more interesting
have you ever thought its with how you talk? the ideal way to talk is like this:
-Slightly Fast
-LOUDish
-smile
-never mumble or hesitate

Anyway, being interesting is knowing how to make the situation your in interesting. If you go to an event where some guy is speaking. lean to the next person behind you and say something like
>do you think hes wearing a wig? i swore i saw his hair fall off
shit like that. be creative.

[Anonymous No.10630124]

>>10630066
Having sex or not is irrelevant unless you're some dumb fuck who believes in afterlife. Stop comparing yourself to other people dumb shit

[Anonymous No.10630136]

>>10630066
'social development' is a meme. All you need are one or two good friends in order to be happy. I was at my happiest when I was young, anxiety free, and enjoying recess with a couple friends. 'growing up' isn't necessary beyond being able to provide the basics for yourself. Go read some epicurus

[Anonymous No.10630177]

>>10630001
Nope you cant. Lost it at 23 with a club hookup out of despair.

I was fat too in middle school and got fit afterwards. Its especially true if you are otherwise attractive because you missed what was rightfully yours to enjoy (because you and your parents made no effort addressing your weight).

But you can still enjoy life and relationship while being socially retarded, it will take some effort on your part though.

[Anonymous No.10630198]

>>10630092
brutal

[Anonymous No.10630489]

>>10630016
>thinking dumping images of some girl is making it the 'mascot' of a board
what a claim to fame anon

[Anonymous No.10630517]

If you use your money to travel, dress better, get interesting hobbies then sure. Otherwise no one cares about your money, unless they want to take them.

[Anonymous No.10630531]

>>10630489
I’m sensing some faint hints of jealousy in your post.

[Anonymous No.10630542]

>>10630001
No.

https://www.sciencealert.com/this-is-the-age-at-which-you-start-losing-friends

Fact is if you haven't had any core group of friends when you were a teen, you're likely not going to make new ones now. Industrialization and extreme individualism in western society also has made things worse for the average man. Gone are the days when you lived in a community or town all your life. Now you move from city to city looking for a job where you barely know each other.

[Anonymous No.10630549]

>>10630119
>>>do you think hes wearing a wig? i swore i saw his hair fall off

Cringe.

[Anonymous No.10630555]

Just fucking hit the gym, everything else will deploy on it’s own

[Anonymous No.10630577]

>>10630066
practice makes perfect.

just keep trying being social and shit. You'll get better. Go out and do stuff every now and then,then you can talk about interesting stuff that you've done. if you just sit at home, you probably won't have much interesting to say.

[Anonymous No.10630578]

>>10630177
>you missed what was rightfully yours to enjoy

This is true. There is a book by Houellebecq where the protagonist says to a virgin guy in his mid-20s that even if he were to get laid now it would solve nothing. He is orphan of all the teenage loves he never experienced; he will never be "normal".

Once you reach this point, you should just focus on money and fuck hookers.

[Anonymous No.10630610]

>>10630578
Or become some underground criminal kingpin and be the leader of a criminal group. If society shuns me and considers me not "normal" might as well go all out.

[Anonymous No.10630625]

>>10630542
>https://www.sciencealert.com/this-is-the-age-at-which-you-start-losing-friends

>The phone data of some yuropoors are a good basis to measure friendship

[Anonymous No.10630764]

>>10630001
tip:
everybody else is developmentally retarded
Your problem is one of self esteem and not believing in yourself
so ironically, you will have to socially develop yourself, not because you are inferior, but because you believe you are
most adults are retarded

[Anonymous No.10630806]

>tfw 25 kissless virgin

I blame the housing market. I refuse to be in debt forever, slaving away to afford my own place. I refuse to pay the Jews rent. I refuse to use a hooker. I refuse to fuck a girl in my mom's house like a beta.

Reeeeeeeeee

[Anonymous No.10630870]

>>10630001
She is so weirdly pretty

[Anonymous No.10630881]

>>10630517
This

[Anonymous No.10630928]

>>10630806
Been there I def wasn’t a virgin at 25 but my body count was under 7 at the time and from 24-26 when I moved home I didn’t get laid for that entire two year period. I moved out and have fucked 4 diff girls in the past 6 months(not all were attractive and I regret it sort of honestly). You gain confidence when having your own place and it actually makes you want to pursue women but yea paying some kike land lord sucks.

[Anonymous No.10630939]

>>10630806
Bro, just hire out a hotel/ motel room for the night

[reluctant kneepad girl No.10631422]

>>10630806
tfw in this exact same situation

[Anonymous No.10632280]

>caring about women
This is your biggest problem
>I also spent much of my time watching anime and playing vidya
This is your second biggest problem.

>>10630517
>>10630881
Backing these. I was a virgin at 25, but I had also been completely independent, passed my PhD candidacy, took myself around the world and had several hobbies. I had tried with a couple girls since my late teens, but they were awful. Fag hags, suicidal, etc. Finally said fuck it and got a nice normal girl and it's boring as fuck. They just like to watch Netflix and want to raise a puppy. I'm glad I never spent much time chasing girls, but I regret playing so many video games.

tl;dr Just do things, but don't freak out over women.

[Anonymous No.10632334]

>>10630001
>Can money and workplace success help you "catch up" with the social development you missed out on?
It can help, but don't expect to start having major success with women. For that you have to put in extra leg work to have good conversation skills and seem more interesting.
>>10630870
>plastic surgery

[Anonymous No.10632348]

>>10630025
>go outside

[Anonymous No.10632461]

>>10630119
>do you think hes wearing a wig? i swore i saw his hair fall off

[Anonymous No.10632546]

>>10630549
>>10632461
i bet youre the type of incels that are the boring silent type whose too scared of saying anything that isnt formal.
i know comments like that trigger your autism online. but i gauranteed, if someone said this next to you irl, you would have laughed and it would break the ice. Girls want to be slighty surprised and entertained. they dont want to be formally approached by a boring scared incel whose too dumb to come up with any sort of joke (You)

but fuck it. you losers want to remain 25 y/o virgins, who bore girls to death, be my guest

[Anonymous No.10632559]

>>10630001
go outside and eat acid

[Anonymous No.10632573]

>>10632546
No that's literally the cringiest shit you can talk about. Why the fuck would you even shittalk people you never met, to a girl you are hitting up? Makes you look like a fucking tool.

It wouldn't be far from truth to say that you have never touched anyone of opposite sex in your life before (your family doesn't count you perma-cringe virgin)

[Anonymous No.10632628]

>>10632573
saying you think someones wearing a wig isnt an insult, you sensitive baldie
look. if that type of joke isnt your style, say anything that isnt make you seem boring.
i can tell youre someone whose never been on the club scene beforez where you can practically say anything to start up a convo. i knew a guy who literally got laid by girl, whose first thing he said to her was
>i think i shit myself from this tequilea

i mean, have you incels ever thought for a moment, that when you do this
>hey.....
>what do you think of this speaker......
>(hears response) yeh, i think hes good
that, thats generic and has no personality at all? thts the number one problem with you losers, you are all just some bland slightly polite people. girls are attracted to guys who are entertining and stick out, you dips

[Anonymous No.10632655]

>>10632628
>i think i shit myself from this tequilea
Obviously it might work because he's not a little insecure beta (like you) who has to gossip about other people in the club/pub/bar whatever lmao

[Anonymous No.10632660]

i want an asian gf

[Anonymous No.10632720]

>>10632660
Good times

[Anonymous No.10632732]

>>10630119
Liek omg stacy is that guy wearing a wig? Like I swear I saw it fall off hahahahaa!

That's not "creative" that's just acting like a bitch.

[Anonymous No.10632772]

>>10632628
Did he shard his pants?

[Anonymous No.10633070]

>>10632655
>>10632732
oh, im sorry, i forgot i was talking to a bunch incel virgins. i should have realized youre all balding.
>thinks im sensitive
lol. you know how many people have insulted me irl and called me an asshole? i still pull ass anyway cause im not an embarassed bitch like you fags
>Oooooo i really wish i said this joke to a girl, but that would make me look like a girl
^what goes through your mind everyday
only beta incel faggots actually analyze crap like that before they talk
>omg stacy that guy is totally wearing a wig
i see you love impersonating girls. are you a trap in training?
also
>unironically using stacy as a term
i see we have r9k crossborders....
>>10632772
no. because them his pants would stink and drive the ladies way. at least thats what he told me

[Anonymous No.10633191]

>>10630001

>Fetal alcohol syndrome

[Anonymous No.10633230]

>>10633070
>triggered anime fag
>calls others incel virgins
Yep.

[Anonymous No.10633234]

>>10630016
>>10630033
ANON KUN! WHY YOU SPEND ALL OUR MONEY!

[Anonymous No.10633307]

>>10633230
only failed normies hate anime, like (You)reself. they think by bashing anime, it somehow makes them cooler in the eyes of society. Even though it just makes them look 10x more pathetic.

I love seeing the look on guys like you faces, when they see im a weeaboo, yet fucking way more pussy than any of them.
And fyi, there are literally republican congressman and senators who tweet anime reaction pics to their twitter, i shit you not. You think politicians dont get pussy? Connecting and interacting with people is the #1 important thing for them

But youre a brainlet anyway, so you probably cant comprehend 1% of the things i say

[Anonymous No.10633333]

>>10633307
>responds to a simple comment with paragraphs of bullshit that I didn't read, trying to justify his life to some random anon on 4chan
Yep.

[Anonymous No.10633334]

>>10633307

*SNAP* Yep, this one's going into my cringe compilation

[Anonymous No.10633361]

>>10633333
you got quids. so you get a pass from me wrecking you
>>10633334
>posting that boomer reddit meme that died out after 2 weeks
May 2018 was 3 months ago, gramps

[Anonymous No.10633391]

>>10633307
Lmao get a load of this nerd and his cuckime

[Anonymous No.10634628]

>>10630001
nah honestly you're doomed I used to think so but then I realized it's not possible. I've seen myself and older men try tooth and nail to compensate and you literally can't. You will wind up a joke of a man with an asian wife.
>>10633307
anime is a dead meme just kidding sry

[Anonymous No.10634667]

>>10630001

I used to fuck hot bitches for free because I was a Chad.

It's overrated you pussy.

[Anonymous No.10634784]

>>10632546
Lol you sound like the biggest loser ever, mr know-it-all

[Anonymous No.10634839]

>social development
completely arbitrary, normies actually just learn to ignore reality more and be dishonest shallow scum as they get older.

[Anonymous No.10634975]

>>10630001
Research how to avoid being creepy, then go spam dating sites. You'll find someone.