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8811926 No.8811926 [Reply] [Original]

I've always thought it was easier to become rich by staying single and living the player life.

But after a while, I realize having a family and kids would give me a strong focus and lots of energy that I sometimes cannot bring myself.

I've felt that the "single player wolf"mindset is praised around here but is not as efficient as you'd think.

Any fag with kids here can share his experience of before/after?

>> No.8811960

>>8811926
This is a tough question to answer. Coming from a healthy family will make you better off in terms of support and mindset, and will give you a natural propensity to start your own family. But the money required to raise a family often makes it impossible to climb the socio-economic ladder for anyone making under six figures, or living in places with a high cost of living.

This isn't really a question that I can give a definitive answer on. It depends on the circumstances really.

>> No.8811977

>>8811926
Kids soak up a lot of time. Especially young kids do require daily attention.

>> No.8812007

>>8811977
That's what women are for. You help out a little when the kids are really young but then take up more of the burden when they can walk and talk and learn abstract things.

>> No.8812157

>>8811926
Have a 6 month old daughter. Honestly the life changing meme is real. The moment I saw her I knew that I cared more about that wet little spawn than about anything else. I’m the same guy, just with an added need/desire.

Just be sure to find a conservative, loyal and stable mom for your kids.

>> No.8812186

>>8811926
naw they leave you spiritually rich and financially less well off.
kids take up a lot of time, and no amount of hired help or nannies is a good replacement for what you, as a father can do by teaching and spending time with your kid.
the ideal would be to have wealth built up and then have kids ASAP. but you can shoestring it with help from family and the community (so much easier if you have neighbors or friends close by with kids around the same age).

>> No.8812196

>>8812157
insert ultimate cuck pasta here

>> No.8812222

family with perfect partner > single with extraordinary willpower > family with good partner > single with discipline > single and lazy > family with bad partner

>> No.8812250

DINKS are objectively the best off financially. But if you want a family have one.

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>> No.8812257

>>8812222
check'd. tfw i'm literally at the end of those quads of truth

>> No.8812283

>pay for your kids everything
>pay for your retarded wife's stupid and useless bought shit
Perhaps it makes you richer in a metaphorical sense, but definitely not richer in economic-wise.

>> No.8812313

>>8811926
> having a family and kids would give me a strong focus and lots of energy

A dad here: yes, you get focused and energized... And then you'll spend all of it and then some on the kids. And end up more tired and wishing for your own death than you ever thought possible before.

Pick your poison.

>> No.8812517

>>8811926
Buy a really cute cat, it's the same as kids but you fucking up has less consequences, is cheaper, and worst case scenario it'll die after 15 years.

>> No.8812616

Having a family is great, but there are several major problems that you really have to be on the ball about.

The first problem is the female. This single choice makes or breaks your entire life. Marrying a thot or selfish woman will ruin your life in a worst way than a meth addiction. You've heard all of this before from the countless beta incels that have flooded this site, but there is a lot of truth to what those virgins say.

The next problem you have is the overall degeneracy of the west. Some nu-male will get mad over this, but you're on schlomo's wild ride, whether you like it or not, and your children are going to be exposed to this trash non stop, and it will only get worse as we become an even more digital society.