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My girlfriend found out about my gains and is upset. Is this a red flag? Any other biz bros experience anything like this?

Here's my story:

I've been in crypto for 2 years and never told a SINGLE person about it. I made ~400k in crypto in 2016-2017. I'm a young student and this is more than I could have ever hoped for. I'm living life like none of it ever happened. After taxes, I put it 90% into safe stocks and 10% back into crypto. I want to accumulate wealth, not spend it.

My girlfriend, however, found some paperwork that I brought back from my CPA; it showed that I paid a huge amount of taxes. I left it on my counter so it's not like she went snooping or anything.

She asked why I owe so much in taxes, and I figured I'd tell this girl because I love her. I told her that I've been putting a few hundred dollars into crypto every month for the past 2 years, and that I cashed out in 2017 with all that money.

She then acts like she's been betrayed. She got kind of angry and started saying things like, "Why haven't you told me any of this? How long were you going to keep this a secret? Why do you need all that money?"

I calmly tell her I was just investing for my future, etc.

The she starts getting angry about random things, like:
> Me not going out and wanting to save money by cooking meals with her
> She wanted to go to NYC for new years but I said no because it was literally $500/night for shitty rooms anywhere in the city, and plane tickets were $1k.
> When we do go out, I don't buy drinks. I'm not gonna pay $10 for a fucking shot when I can take my own shots beforehand.
> In the past I've given her shit (somewhat jokingly) about her Starbucks habit and how it's way over priced for some shitty sugary drink.

And many other things. First of all, how tf does she remember all this shit. Second of all, why am I being victimized for being responsible with my money?

This experience has shown me a whole new side to my girlfriend that I never saw before :(

>> No.8271131

>>8271105
holy fuck go back to livejournal

>> No.8271152

Dump her before she tries to get her disgusting claws on it or emotionally manipulate it out of you. Girls don't understand saving.

>> No.8271155

>>8271105
>have half a million
>dont want to bang your gf in timesquare cause itll cost $2k

i dont know mate

>> No.8271170

>>8271105
This person will ruin you financially if you cave and marry her. She does not understand what accumulating wealth means or why it's important, or what it takes.
This event will haunt the rest of your relationship if you stay with her.

>> No.8271180

Women are leeches.

It’s in their DNA spend all your money.

>> No.8271184

U fucked up lad

My girl thinks I'm negative 5k

>> No.8271186

>>8271105

She should be happy for you, but you should not be cheap and at least buy drinks for her.

Just be normal and stop being a fag with money. Don't buy the newest iPhone shit every year but also buy her a drink when you go out.

This place is nothing but autism.

>> No.8271203

>>8271155
I guess I'm just not used to wealth and I'm still used to being a stingey student. Still, I put all of it into other investments that I don't want to touch anyways. It's my money, so why can't I do what I want with it? Why am I obligated to spend it on her?

>> No.8271209

Depending on how long you've been with her, it's really none of her business. Now if you're trying to wife her and are really close then probably should've hinted at your gains at least. In the end it's none of her concern since you're not married though.

>> No.8271212

>>8271186

t. whipped cuck

>> No.8271233

>>8271105
100% red flag. why is she suggesting what you do with your money, especially when it's spending it on her. gold digger, inc. either dump or pre-nup. don't be a cuck.

>> No.8271236

my gf put money into crypto literally on the day of my ATH portfolio, and agreed we'd just peg it to my funds. She has basically lost everything, lol.

>> No.8271239

>>8271186
I see what you're saying, and it makes sense.

I can loosen up a little, it's just that I'm so used to being a poor student so saving money is engrained in my soul.

>> No.8271258

She feels emotionally betrayed becaause if you're willing to not share that you had made a huge sum of money with her then you won't share actual fucked up shit that matters. Alternatively, it shows that you have the freedom to trade her up if you so please, it's probably a little both. You're not married, you're not obligated to share your finances with her unless that's something common to you both. Then you did lie if you delibrately kept it from her which it doesn't sound like.

>> No.8271271

>>8271186
why SHOULD he buy her a drink? what about feminism? equality? and all that bollocks. bitch can buy her own drinks

Break up with this girl OP, you clearly understand the importance of wealth accumulation, and does not. Any hope you have of a long term successful future with her is non existent- if you marry her she WILL take half your assets in divorce

>> No.8271278

you need to establish that its your money, not hers, and its not spending money its future saving money.

if she cant understand that and is still angry, show her the door.

>> No.8271290

>>8271258
Exactly. We aren't married, we've been dating for 1.5 years though. We've casually talked about living together but we're not in a rush since we just wanna graduate first.

>> No.8271303
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>>8271203
Man you are doing everything right. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I understand you love your girl but she sounds like a bitch and the fact that she thinks she is even slightly entitled to ANY of your money is raising more red flags than chinese new years. Ejaculate and evacuate.

>> No.8271311

>>8271105
>First of all, how tf does she remember all this shit
Think of it as special ability of women. They remember everything when they want to complain.

It's bit of a red flag if you ask me, but nothing too big. You have to remember that you aren't supposed to be paying for her, unless your money is pooled, and should rather talk things through with her. If she wanted to go to NYC then she should have her own money to go there. Not going out is fine, but if you ask me going out every once in a while is ok. Starbucks thing seems like a joke, unless you actually were sperg about it, I'd probably tell her I didn't mean it like that or something. I recommend you guys just talk things through and see where it takes you, if you want to save up your own money then it's your own choice to do so.

>> No.8271314

>>8271105
I think you are absolutely doing everything perfectly. If she doesn't like it, tell her she can kindly fuck off. You are being very SMART by not bragging or telling everyone. Keep this mentality buddy and you will be very successful. Don't change for anyone and keep it up, man.
Y

>> No.8271315

>>8271105
That's all women. Especially the young ones. My wife spent all my money in our twenties. 3000 a month at target our first couple of years married. Regulate early.

>> No.8271341

>>8271184
LOOL

>> No.8271344
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>>8271105
You know what to do, OP. Just be sure that she can't do you any harm after you do it.

>> No.8271353

>>8271271
This. Unless she was virgin when you met here and is a conservative you should break up ASAP.

>> No.8271354

>>8271105
I feel rage on your behalf, OP. Please break up with this dumb bitch and continue setting yourself up for an amazing future.

I can't believe bitches like her exist in this world. Braindead female trash

>> No.8271373

>>8271105
Kek, bro listen to me please...now that she knows you Dont have too much choices...
If she is poor she will ask you to pay for her student loans or some shit like thta....better watchout. This is YOUR money weelll deserved money... dont give her a dime. 400k is not enough to make it...may i suggest you buy a house and rent it for continous income...dont keep that money in your bank account its a waste of time...invest your cash in a house and rent it...ull get static income all your life and in the end you sell it and get back your cash.

>> No.8271378

>>8271105
Lack of frugality is a huge red flag.
Your girlfriend is not mother material.
Dump and find a mother for your future children.

Behaviour is 100% genetic, find the right woman if you don't want your bloodline to be kikish, niggerish or both.

>> No.8271381

>>8271105

https://therationalmale.com/2018/03/07/transactional-vs-validational-sex/

>> No.8271383

Honestly, just talk with her on why she feels the way she does. I assume you like her enough to put up with her shit for 1.5 years. You'll find that he issues may come from a totally reasonable place. You have to remembr that some people are spenders and others are savers. If she's mad for selfish reasons "Why are you punishing me when you ha e so much money" then drop her like a rock.

>> No.8271399

>>8271212
>being so alpha by not buying a girl a drink for like $8

okay buddy

>> No.8271407

>>8271353

you are going to be lonely for a very long time

>> No.8271414

>>8271105
what do u do with welath when u r old fuccking u not able to hold u r penis. so spend reasonable and bang when u get a chance. given u r cheap fellow, u cant spend on starbucks. u r a poor with money, no use mate, njoy while young.

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8271415

ITT

>> No.8271431

>>8271105
Dump her, you will save shitload of money.

>> No.8271440

>>8271105
>In the past I've given her shit (somewhat jokingly) about her Starbucks habit and how it's way over priced for some shitty sugary drink.

https://twitter.com/kevinolearytv/status/937718756423462912?lang=en
>I refuse to spend $2.50 on coffee when it costs 18 cents to make! You should too!

>But there is one business to which he refuses to fork over his hard-earned dollars: coffee shops.
>"Do I pay $2.50 for a coffee? Never, never, never do I do that," O'Leary tells CNBC Make It. "That is such a waste of money for something that costs 20 cents. I never buy a frape-latte-blah-blah-blah-woof-woof-woof for $2.50." Instead, he makes it at home.

Why would your girlfriend be angry about you being in the top 1SD IQ bracket?

>> No.8271444

>>8271105
massive red flag bro, dump her. My lady is not like this at all and if she was she'd be gone. DUMP HER or you will pay.

>> No.8271445

>>8271105
Marry her, I see no possible way that she will upset you in the foreseeable future

>> No.8271446

You fucked up dude, she is going to manipulate you into spending extra from now on. Try to ask her to split the bill next time you're out and watch her reaction . This is basically the difference between man and 99% of the woman. A man would be happy when his woman has her shit financially under control and don't aspect a hand-out.

>> No.8271466

>>8271186
>buying girls drinks

fuck you're cucked

>> No.8271482

Oy vey, OP. You need to find yaself a nice Jewish goil

>> No.8271500

>>8271105
Nah she's right. Nothing more infuriating than a rich guy living like a poorfag cause "muh pennies"

What are you? A jew?

>> No.8271504

>>8271105
>He doesn't even have a based Chinese wife

>> No.8271505

>>8271415
Man I've been lurking for a few days and I gotta tell ya: get off the internet for some time, loser. You are reposting this pic in every thread. You are literally worse than those kekistani faggots. Pls end it there, find a girlfriend

>> No.8271506

Women are a meme. She doesn't understand the difference between capital and disposable income.

Constructive: Tell her to get over it - it's about how much you keep not how much you make. Maybe tell her to read an introductory book on investing

Destructive: Don't be a cuck. Tell her to forget about it. Don't be pressured to spending any of it to appease the bitch. It's a universal fact that money changes people and this one is changing like the wind

>> No.8271570

>>8271271

Dude women like when a man buys shit for her. That's what normal, healthy relationships are. Women need to be treated special.

I'm not saying buy her clothes all the time and expensive jewelry, but every once in a while women like to be taken out.

You kids are virgins for a reason. Op, don't take any of these kids' advice.

>> No.8271590

>>8271105
Take one big roll of you fucking money and shove it in her mouth, kiss on the cheek and say: "Thank for memories" give one last kick on her booty.
After that live as lonely unwanted bitard that you are. If you are not able to surpass some basic human traits in your loved ones, you are doomed for life of mysogonistic seer who knows all about human faults and indignities and lives in miserable world of his own mental creation

>> No.8271597

>>8271570
literal cuck

>> No.8271624

>>8271105
Dump her. She has now inevitably put you in the provider frame and you will never be able to be loved for who you are

>> No.8271634

>>8271590
t. 3 time homeless divorcee

>> No.8271637

>>8271258
Just to clarify, these finances were ALL mine and we didn't share a single thing. In fact, we don't share anything financially.

>> No.8271638

I’m almost in the same exact boat mate. Slightly older than you, but I’ve kept my crypto gains from my girlfriend as well and save for the future. I only spend crypto on purse.io. I always buy stuff for people in my dorm, collect the savings in fiat to buy weed/alcohol.

She hasn’t found out about my crypto gains yet, but I imagine she’d have the same list of complaints if she did. “Why do you not buy me X if you have all that money...”

If I were you, I’d make up some story about how you don’t really have the money anymore because you got hacked or something.

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>>8271290

If you aren't LARPing, OP, this is an amazing opportunity for you to have seed money for a business after you graduate. With education and hard work, you can parlay this into luxurious retirement at 40. Also, I know you love her, but you have to at least bench your GF for a few months to see if she is capable of changing. Her starbucks habit will turn into something much worse when she is an adult if she has the means.

>> No.8271659

>>8271105
She now sees you as a potential 400k and nothing more. If you want her to stay then threaten dumping her, this will spook the bitch and she will stay. You need to make it clear to her that she doesn't matter to you.

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ITT: pic related

>> No.8271665

>>8271637
She feels entitled to your money. She won't say it anytime soon, but she feels like your money is hers. If you don't leave her she will nag you forever and you risk more than just nagging. Women are ruthless.

>> No.8271699

>>8271597
You clearly don't know what either of those words mean.

>> No.8271707

>>8271105
>why do you need all that money

>> No.8271714

Dump her.
when you do tell her why:
that she is a feckless money grabbing whore
more interested in trinkets than building a future.
After report back here to tell us all the details of her reaction.
In fact film it.
For your own protection.
Many women know they can destroy a man by simply lying about rape and abuse.
and all women are spiteful.
...
She is on the pill isn't she?
You should know the pill chemically blocks a woman's ability to pair-bond with her man.
She does not love you.

>> No.8271728

>>8271570
These children grew up in a world where even their own mothers won't help them

>> No.8271730

>>8271131
>>8271105
Emotional regulation and relational regulation is key to good trading. OP should shitcan this relationship and either stop trading while he gets over it or ensure he follows his system exactly because extreme emotions either way cause you to fuck up.

OP, get out now while both the financial cost and emotional costs are low. Take your managed loss.

>> No.8271735

>>8271381
Wow. Great read, bookmarked.

Have you read Sperm Wars?

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>> No.8271749

>>8271637
I've seen a similar situation, depends on how clore you two are, if you shared everything else and just never talked about money it might be a little odd that you never told her about it, it's about trust.
nothing can be said from her first reaction, what is important is how that changes her behaviour. Let's wait and see. if she can grasp the concept of saving capital everything should be fine.
good luck OP

>> No.8271751

>>8271186
You seem to be your average woman. That is to say, a whore that supports whoredom. You are giving advice that serves you, not OP.

>> No.8271756

DUMP THIS WHORE

>> No.8271765

>>8271105
just my two cents,
you two clearly have some differences that you would need to work out.
her view of the relationship seems more short-sighted, while it looks like you are already thinking and working for long term joint success of you and a partner.
how long have you been with this girl? if it's under a year, that may be an issue, as it's less likely for you to have gotten very committed to each other.
yeah it's nice to have fun in the here and now, but it seems that you two also have a different idea of what you think is a good/fulfilling life.
you seem to be more at ease, and simple, while she is seems to be a little more of the stereotypical normie
the issue comes with the accusatory reaction that she has had.
she sees it as a secret that you were keeping from her and is now solidifying the blame onto you for why she can't be like the people she looks up to (normie tier shit like socalites and celebs probably) and see your actions in preventing those things from happening as unacceptable.

you can make this work but it would be very difficult and would require big personal changes for bot of you. and you can't guarantee that she will do her part.

the mature response from her would have been either barely any response at all, maybe a few questions but not making a big deal of it, or just letting you know that she saw and then you two could talk about what the situation is and why, but in a non-confrontationale and non-accusatory way, just to handle the new info brought to light. if the relationship was a really high quality one, there would be an implied understanding of the money as a tool to provide future security in life for the two of you, and at most it would just take a quick explanation of "I'm looking to the future" and if you are ready for it, can mention that you are looking to a potential joint future, which would be a big step in committing to this person, but this is clearly not the case.
good luck bro

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8271772

>>8271105
Fuck other women and deal with it

>> No.8271775

>>8271239
Nah brah, her entitled attitude means you should spend even less on her. There is a reason they call it "spoiling" someone, you turn them bad. You have to treat her like the little bitch she's being, slap the shit out of her during sex. Only spend money on sex toys that reinforce her as the submissive partner, You're a fucking rich, young alpha and she's feeling threatened because she knows you could get any girl you want. Remind her of that with your behaviour, and don't let her spend a single cent.

>> No.8271777

>>8271407
My gf is with me now, washing the dishes.

>> No.8271779

>>8271105
dump that roastie hoe bitch

>> No.8271782

>>8271105
Your girlfriend is a bitch and she will take your money if you don't dump her. You have 2 options:

>the smart option
Dump her. You can be less frugal after doing so but don't tell a new gf about your gains until you've been with her for a while. If she rages, repeat this step.

>the cuck option
Stay with her, get married and get divorced, losing over 50% of your new wealth. She'll probably cheat on you behind your back with Tyrone or Chad. Most women aren't loyal anymore and your bitch isn't an exception.

>> No.8271784

>>8271590
don't listen to this
use monopoly money instead

>> No.8271785

>>8271105
Tell her you put it into mutual funds that are locked for 20+years

>> No.8271793

Hahhahaah dump her now or get fucked.

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>>8271772
Continue feeling like a victim and do nothing

>> No.8271815

>>8271105
1. You need to immediately transfer your funds into untraceable accounts, not just because of your current gf, but because if you end up marrying someone else, you don't want her to be tempted to take what doesn't belong to her.
2. If you want to save your relationship because you believe that she's marriage material, you need to lay down tribal law with her.
3. Tell her that she is property because she is a woman. If she wants to marry you, she needs to accept that she is property.
4. If she marries you, you will have an iron-clad prenup, wherein she will be paid one lump sum AT THE BEGINNING of the marriage, and she will NOT be paid anything upon the termination of the marriage.
5. She must bear you three children.
5. You agree to provide her with a fixed allowance for each child that she bears.
6. You agree to provide for the financial, medical, educational needs of all the children, and she can have more children if she wants.
7. If necessary, move to a state where prenups are respected in court.

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8271816

I was in a similar situation. My gains were about half of yours. I ended up giving her like $30k to start her business. After the market went bear in January, I wouldn’t give her anymore money and she got salty and broke up with me. Feels bad :(

>> No.8271830

disregard this plebbit shit >>8271765
this >>8271779

dont get cuckd OP

>> No.8271834

>>8271399
It's about the principle, not the 8$.

>> No.8271838

>>8271637
Also, never share accounts or finances with your woman. What's yours is yours, hers is hers, regardless of how unequal the difference may be. You can give her gifts, but no sharing.

>> No.8271849

>>8271155
Very much this.
>>8271180
But this too.
>>8271440
IQ is pseudoscience.

Good luck OP.

>> No.8271862

> Why do you need all that money?
Dump here IMMEDIATELY or she will mind rape you.

>> No.8271869

>>8271777
checked

>> No.8271885

>>8271186
This women has her man KEKED. Youre the one with the money. You have the power. Make her win you over. Make her buy YOU drinks.

>> No.8271887

She's jealous of you and scared your dating opportunities have increased

>> No.8271889

>>8271849
Found the nigger cuckold.

>> No.8271891

My wife would be fucking ecstatic if I just played a few cards right and was sitting on several hundreds of thousands. She would then NOT want to blow it on stupid shit like trips for Instagram likes or whatever.

God willing, LINK has our lives set.

>> No.8271895

>>8271105
incase youre serious anon, it depends how much you love her, what else shes like and how long youve been together.

there is a difference between wanting someones/your partners money and being hurt that you were lied to. if you've been with this girl for any significant length of time and you have any significant sharings (car together, apartment together, anything official financially together) then i think its logical she is upset.


tl;dr is she upset that you were dishonest or that you didnt give her any money.

>> No.8271900

>>8271816

fucking retard, stay poor

>> No.8271901

>>8271887
this

>> No.8271902

>>8271665
yeah
She is very likely to start spending her own money like mad woman
after she piles up a ton of debt she will start demanding he bail her out.

>> No.8271918

>>8271887

Also this. I would find a woman who’s not a dumb vapid bitch obsessed with blowing money on “experiences” like seeing where they decided to put Ferris wheel is in THAT city.

>> No.8271925

>>8271105

>When we do go out, I don't buy drinks. I'm not gonna pay $10 for a fucking shot when I can take my own shots beforehand.

Don’t be that guy, you have enough money now that you can afford shots for you and your girl.

On a side note, she sounds like a fuckin roastie and you should find yourself a better chick.

>> No.8271926

>>8271105
Red flag Anon. I told my fiance about my gains and she did none of that bullshit. Find a different woman desu, preferably one that you don't have arguments with.

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>>8271482
He definitely should.

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>>8271816
the truth cost you only 30k

>> No.8271946

She's probably mad because you "hid" this from her. If you secretly had a cat and she found out she would brag about all those times you refused to get a cat or when you didn't paid that crazy cat lady some food.

She's mad because she felt her "trust" threatened and you shouldn't exactly worry about dumping her, because she's going to dump you anyways.

Bear in mind that no gold digger would stick with you for long enough. You're not Hugh Hefner, just a average guy with un-average amount of money. She can totally ditch you in favor of someone with way more money - every 8/10 up can - despite you explain or not whatever your intentions are or not.

No matter how much you buy, how often you take her out or the trips you make, the fact is that she feels you hid something that she wouldn't hid from you in her case. And if you value discretion, you're with the wrong person.

>> No.8271951

>>8271239

>I see what you're saying, and it makes sense.

I can loosen up a little, it's just that I'm so used to being a poor student so saving money is engrained in my soul.

Tell her that. But do not give in fully. just take out some of your money for doing fun things with your girlfriend. but not to much just put up a limit.

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>>8271816
Wow imagine being this much of a cuckold

>> No.8272027

>>8271105
>"Why do you need all that money?"

fkn wymin man

>> No.8272030

>>8271105
Poor people stay poor because of their habits.
They can't comprehend delayed gratification.

>> No.8272070

>>8271777
KEK approves

>> No.8272100

She's upset because of your lack of commitment to her, as evidenced by the fact that you're not open about your finances. So the lack of transparency is on you. However, you need to find someone who shares your values of stinginess and neethood, so good luck.

>> No.8272118

>>8271665
Please listen to this, its the best advice so far. It's a huge red flag. Don't make any immediate decisions yet, but pay more attention to her. She's angry because in her mind she has a claim to that money and considers anything you make partly hers. Expect to get hell every time you don't spoil her or get her an expensive gift on special occasions. If she continues to question you about money and not allow you to save, run.

>> No.8272121

>>8271105
Being frugal and having money sense are must have qualities in a partner for me. I'd advice the same for most people.


I'd let her know how you feel about frugality and saving up. If she doesn't get it, you're not going to have a healthy long-term relationship.

>> No.8272135

>>8271155
That's how people go broke, by thinking $2,000 is "not a lot of money" and pissing it away on retarded shit.

>> No.8272138

>>8272030
>8272030
I work for the banks and hands down the only women who are good with money are asian women. We meme about blacks being dumb with money but whites are just as bad, they just understand how to have good credit.

>> No.8272177

Ahahahah you dumbass. My girl thinks I ‘m actually losing 10k in crypto and she buys food and drinks to make me feel comfortable. Plot twist, I ‘m actually losing 10k so i ‘m not a manipulative liar.

>> No.8272184

>>8271440
You could make that argument about virtually anything in western society.

>> No.8272270

>>8272184
Not really
Because the starbucks mochalatte has no actual utility
It's literally just shitting away money so you can walk around with a starbucks cup

>> No.8272297

>>8272177
Kek.

I told my girlfriend all about my crypto but she knows that's my money. I set her up with her own coinbase account into which she deposited her own money.

If anything happens, she can't demand shit from me. I gave her the opportunity, it's up to her what she makes of it.

No free gibs

>> No.8272341

OP my wife is frugal like you and I'm a big spender like your gf. Don't be retarded and find a balance. Its ok to save but dont overdo it. Its ok to enjoy the small things in life

>> No.8272356

>>8272297

That’s the way to do it. Best thing you could give her to help is some of your experience and knowledge.

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>>8271105
lol fag i got an air bnb for under 100 a night in nyc nice safe jew neighborhood too.

ur just a penny pinching jew. she should take half and your dog

>> No.8272418

>>8271105
>This experience has shown me a whole new side to my girlfriend that I never saw before :(

STOP LARPING

or leave her

>> No.8272436

It’s easier to spend someone else’s money. How would she react if she had been the one who earned it?

>> No.8272445

>>8271105
You sound like a cheap ass fag.

Also
>implying girls can understand tax forms they randomly see
nice larp

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>>8271849
>IQ is pseudoscience

Its funny how only low-IQ individuals say this. Really makes you think.

>> No.8272468

>>8271105
you did nothing wrong. She is wrong for getting mad. If she doesn't apologize then seriously dump her. Just because you have money doesn't meab you should spend it on worthless shit. Why pay $10 for a shot when you can get a whole bottle, why pay $50 for a nice meal when you can make one for $10. She sounds disgusting. You should buy some land or something with actual value. Use your money to go on a date to the shooting range. If she doesn't like that then move on

>> No.8272471

>>8272356
And that's exactly what I did. Except I try not to give ultra specific advice on the precise moment to buy and sell, because I have no fucking clue what BTC is going to do. I don't want her to ask me when she should buy or sell because if she follows my advice and sells the bottom or buys the top, she's gonna blame me for it. Crypto is too unpredictable. I tell her to just hold, mainly to protect her from complicated taxes.

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>>8271891
Gott mit uns!

>> No.8272482

>>8271105
>First of all, how tf does she remember all this shit

this is how women operate anon. they never say when they dislike something, they file it in their little mental cabinet and at some point they blow up and bring up everything you did in the last 10 years that they didnt like. theyre like elephants and never forget anything either.

>> No.8272497

>>8271105
dump asap
love is not what you think it is
stay strong, anon (YOU) will make it

>> No.8272500

>>8271105
I'm in the same boat but nobody found me out yet, what you got is a female who found out about your net worth and is upset she hasn't copped a gucci sweater out of it.

You're girlfriend is clearly a depreciating asset and I advise you sell your stocks in her as soon as possible.

>> No.8272517

>>8271925
>Buying cheap shit liquor at x10 markup
>never gonna make it

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>>8271105
Women or children... I don't know which investment is worse. They both depreciate like a Rolls-Royce on fire, but it's the woman that gives you the kids and is sometimes able to take half your shit. Women and children are the biggest cash scams in the history of cash scams, maybe ever

>> No.8272554

>>8271105
your gf sounds like a huge money sink. she wants you to spend money on useless shit. she doesn't kno the whey to money. i would dump her quickly, but it's just my opinion. also, she sounds like she's trying to find a reason to take money from you in court or something. evil woman.

>> No.8272600

>>8272517

If you can’t afford a $50 bar tab once in awhile good luck in the real world once college is over. Just taking a girl out to dinner is $100. Drinks are the cheapest thing to do.

>> No.8272636

>>8271105
Lol dump her now before its too late and she leaves you. Because when she leaves you later on, she'll want her 50%

>> No.8272638

if this happened to me, id be telling her to shut the fuck up and make her own fortune, or get the fuck out of my life. any person, whether it be friend or woman, should never fucking be pissed off at learning you have a ton of money, they should be happy for you and never ask for a fucking penny until you decide theyre worth it

>> No.8272660

>>8271105
Reality is the best teacher

>> No.8272668

>>8271570
>Dude women like when a man buys shit for her. That's what normal, healthy relationships are. Women need to be treated special.
Fuck that.

>> No.8272684

>>8271570
Stop putting pussy on a pedestal.

>> No.8272687

Lol OP I bet you've been complaining about money for the last two years. "Oh no sorry I can't go I'm so broke".

>> No.8272694

dump her anon
if there's little doubt, there's no doubt
the fact you made this thread at the very least indicates there is some doubt.

>> No.8272697

>>8271816
I'm sorry, I guess I don't understand the concept... you GAVE someone money to start a business? I could understand providing an interest-free loan to someone I cared for but holy shit way to give back all the Hand you worked for. No free rides.

>> No.8272698

>>8272600
The rich stay rich by not spending their money on frivolous shit you smelly coon

>> No.8272703

>>8272138
Kek. It's absolutely baffling to see how some people handle funds. Physically painful to see someone net over 50% of the avg salary and still have NOTHING to show for it. Paying for taxi rides to a bar 500m away and such...

>> No.8272705

>>8272600
>Realising that if you bring a female your spending upwards to $70 a night

Realistically people should be saving their money and if their missus turns to this cocktail menu thats a dead give away to drop that bitch.

Realistically if you want to have a good night with your girl you should only spend upwards to $60 at the max (Depending on location)

>> No.8272738

>>8271105
Break-up with her. Seriously.

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>>8272553
I wish I could reply to all these comments but this one stuck out.

I may be frugal but I actually want children. I'm frugal because I want to give them a good life when I have them. I want to give life to a human who has my genes, teach them with my mistakes, and possibly they can be a better version of me.

That sounds amazing to me, honestly.

>> No.8272761

>>8271105

I would dump her asap. She's out for the money.

>> No.8272767

>>8271105

Waste your, and her, life by being a jew that's a great decision, you should ask to be buried with the money too.

>> No.8272781

>>8272500
Pump & dump it :DDD

>> No.8272810

>>8271105
>spends money from investments into more investments
>gf finds out and is mad that you didn't spend that money on her
bitch are you serious? she thinks your money is hers, you should be mad shes acting like a fucking child, GET OUT

>> No.8272821

If you do not break up with her immediately, you will end up a broke middle-aged cuck reminiscing about the glory days and all the fun you used to have on biz (which she will ban you from). Please bro, dont fall victim to the societal trap.

>> No.8272835

>>8271105
the fact that she thinks she can throw a fit and you'll just take it shows you have fucked up this relationship.

try again with someone else and don't be such a bitch. any demands or acting like she's your master should be met with disdain and telling her to gtfo

>> No.8272845

Rick Ross voice "Bitch u wasn't wit me hodlin in them diiips!"

>> No.8272849

>>8272684
This. Or maybe if OP post a pic of her pussy ON a pedestal we can give him better advice.

>> No.8272856

its weird that you didn't tell her, but she seems upset mainly because you haven't been spending it on her, which is a problem

>> No.8272888

>>8272705

TFW you take your wife to Olive Garden which implies that you too also like Olive Garden

>> No.8272897

>>8271203
bruh it's time to dump her cuz now she thinks all that money is something she is entitlted too.

a year ago when I was riding my crypto high and at a peak my gf found out and started getting shitty i wasnt throwing money around like candy especially at her. Aka lil miss indepdant suddently was oh so needy and helpless. She even tried to quit her job and her logic was you have tons of money I dont need to work. I dumped her asap and kept my money. Granted I lost of ton in the crash but I stil stayed the same. I dont need to buy her drinks or spend money on her. Unlike some of the eternal virgin cucks posting I know she doesnt deserve drinks or paying her bills or going out every night on my money when she herself had quit her job thinking i'll let her mooch.


I didnt and moved on and still to this day she's a hateful bitter cunt towards me cuz I didnt just throw my hand earned money at her that she somehow deserved according to her logic.


So ignore all the eternal virgins trying to shame you for not buying her things most of them bought the hollywierd lies you have to do th ose things and females deserve it cuz vagina. Nah keep your money and dump her cuz she's showing her true colors and if you marry her she WILL divorce rape you and take half your shit. I would even say the relationship died the moment you let her find that statement of money hoping she would love you more for it. Dumbass keep your finances hidden from females especially ones you date especially if you want them to keep up the act they actually love you for you

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>>8272600
>if you don't MAN UP and pay for my bastard child you won't make it in the real world!!!

>> No.8272912

>>8271105
Dump her now before it's too late.

>> No.8272933

>>8271233
You can't trust prenup because family courts are biased towards women. Dump is the only option. So pump and dump all women if possible. If you must be in a relationship never let them know how much money you really have.

>> No.8272963

>>8272888
lmfao
I get the point but still.

>> No.8272975

legitimately you two have long term comparability problems over how each of you want to handle money. are you considering marrying this girl or is this short term? if you're looking to marry, you need to address this or your marriage literally will not work. probably explain to her that you're saving for retirement / want to retire early / its not your style to be splurgy with your money. if she cant understand that, that'll be a huge problem for you two going forward.

>> No.8273009

>>8272975
I was planning on marriage, down the road after we live together and finish college. She honestly seemed like a good, conservative girl until this incident, which is really sad for me. Those kind of girls are hard to find in university

>> No.8273017

>>8271105
I ain't sayin she a gold digger

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>>8271505

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>>8272845

>> No.8273046

>>8273009
consider yourself lucky to see her true colors before the relationship went further

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OP please read

>> No.8273088

>>8271105
Huge fucking red flag and you need to drop ASAP. This girl is a dumb bitch.

You are a frugal and effective person who invests and saves his money properly. She is a dumb cunt. If she won the lottery she would blow it all in 6 months and cry about how broke she is for the local news. You cannot marry someone like this. Get out.

>> No.8273101

>>8273067
The lesson from that is to dump that entitled bitch right now, in case you didn't get it.

>> No.8273113

>>8273067
I don't really like this macro. There's a difference between being upset because she wants to waste money and upset because she wants someone serious who she can start a family with and be supported by. She's a dumb Redditor so probably it's the former, but still.

>> No.8273138

>>8271849
>IQ is pseudoscience.
kys, thanks.

>> No.8273153

>>8272135

Exactly.

>> No.8273161

>>8273067
from an evolutionary stand point, I understand how women are attracted to men with lots of resources. Having babies and being pregnant is resource intensive.

I don't think any of that happened though.

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>>8272754
I hear you, and that is very noble. The most successful Alpha Archetype is the Provider, the guy who has all his shit together and builds a strong family. However, great advice from my Dad to think about... "You want a kid, right? You know you can have a kid without a Wife"

>> No.8273174

>>8273009
you two need to talk this over. first do some soul searching. why do you want this money? do you want to retire early? want a nice house? or do you just like stacking dollars? once you understand your goals, have a talk with her. she'll probably understand if you explain why you have this money.

>hey babe I wanted this money because I wanted to we could buy a house so we could settle down together latter
>panties immediately drop

>hey babe I wanted this money so we can be financially independent and not need to work all the time and retire early and travel the world
>panties immediately drop

>hey babe I wanted this money because, fuck, I just like being rich I guess
>panties drop

Since any relationship is a two way street, you'll probably need to see her point of view, too. Once she understands why you have this money and have a goal with it, she'll understand a little. Throw on the magic of compound intrest and she'll understand why you dont like to splurge. But still, treat her well. Maybe do go on thatv acation to NY. Hell, you've earned it. Just dont go too crazy and keep stacking those dollars. My /biz/nessman.

>> No.8273178

>>8271816
>female running a business

>> No.8273182

>>8271105
love is just a hormone

she is upset because she wasn't able to parasite off your gains

just dump the bitch, she sounds toxic

>> No.8273187

>>8273067
There’s actually a follow up to this. She also became deluded and thinks she’s the one who dumped him now.

>> No.8273196

>>8273067
Holy fuck... This is crazy. Thanks.

Why do people get jealous over social media?

>> No.8273209

When you break up call her a depreciating asset.

>> No.8273212

>>8271105
she is bad with money. Major red flags. If you go all in on her you will get drained. The more money you have, the more you will be likely get drained. Find someone else.

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8273227

There is a middle ground. You can spend some of the money to experience life and still have a comfortable amount left over. Don't waste your life for the sake of a pile of cash.

>>8272135

and that's how /biz/tards waste there lives by sitting on half a million dollars but refusing to go out anywhere and living on a diet of instant noodles.

>When we do go out, I don't buy drinks.

this is just scabby though.

>She wanted to go to NYC for new years

This is expensive, but you could make a compromise. Go to NYC on a normal weekend. Offer to take here somewhere else on holiday.

>> No.8273231

>>8271816
wtf is biz really this cucked?

>> No.8273233

>>8271105

I'm in a similar situation, but the numbers are a bit smaller. Women suck with money in general and yes they feel entitled once they know you have it. It's the rare one that likes to live frugally. You have to ask yourself, honestly, "do i truly love this girl and does she deserve that love?." The first question is easier than the second.

If the answer is "yes" to both questions then you shouldn't feel bad spending a little here and there to make her feel special. In general, a girl demanding something that isn't really hers is a huge red flag. A relationship like that won't last if you want to keep even a shred of dignity. If you marry this woman and have kids, she'll divorce rape you. 70% of the time, women initiate the divorce.

If you don't see a long term future, show her the door. She'll change her tune fast. You're the prize, dude, you've made it. You can easily upgrade to a better girl as long as you stand your ground. The only power she has is that which you choose to give her.

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>>8273067
>women

not.even.once.

>> No.8273249

>>8272888
Nigga, I live downtown in a major metro and $60-70 is two entrees and 2-4 drinks at any hip restaurant. If you don't know how to eat out economically, you're just dumb.

>> No.8273261

Damn, OP. Wanting to save money is a good thing. Red flag. She sounds so goddamn spoilt.

Have her split the fucking bill if she wants to go and shit. You shouldn't be shouldering expenses.

Lastly, it's your fucking money. She shouldn't dictate what you do with it, you cuck.

>> No.8273262

>>8273138
>some correlation between some test score and future performance
>let's call it intelligence

The absolute state of psychology.

>> No.8273270

>>8271902
I could totally see this scenario happening. If she can't get the money as a direct handout she will self sabotage her own money and cry to you and manipulate your natural male urges to be her hero and save her. But don't believe her lies. Get out now and find a new girl and pretend you are poor like in the movie Coming to America. A roastie that still loves u when she thinks u are a poorfag is way more of a keeper than this current golddigging slut

>> No.8273281

>>8273249
i just spent 30 dollars getting delivery McDonalds, even though a physical location was less than 1 mile away..

AMA

>> No.8273284

Privacy coins exist because of females. I get it now.

>> No.8273302

>>8271105
tell her its your money and she isn't entitled to any of it so why does it matter? women are evil fuck them then dump them

>> No.8273303

>>8272908
>Not having complete control of your finances at all time

Fuck off /pol/tard, you're literally destroying yourself.

>> No.8273307

>>8273067
Rekkt

>> No.8273311

ALSO, NEVER GET MARRIED WITHOUT A PRENUP. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, USE PROTECTION. WOMEN ARE A DEPRECIATING ASSET.

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>>8273067
>>8273187

this is one of the all time funnies. This is the update.

>> No.8273328

>>8273281

do you have any money left? was that the last $30 in your bank?

>> No.8273354

>>8273328
ive only got about 130 dollars left in that account

yes i have money left (but lost it all in a boating accident)

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I’m surprised no one has mentioned she may be planning to get pregnant to lock you down and take everything she can. Seriously watch your shit OP or you are gonna be broke.

>> No.8273383

>>8271570
you virgins piss me off

hurrr hollywierd and moomy told me you must always worship pussy and buy them things cuz they think they deserve it just for having a slit between their legs men get too thirsty over that she passed around for years.


oh ok i'll get right on that cuck shit stuff you eternal virgin

>> No.8273384

Don't let her anywhere near your money, but stop being a tacky cunt.

Really, it's not that hard to live a little and still increase your weatlh.

>> No.8273393

>>8273383
This if you think you need to pay for the same pussy every month you are one

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>>8271902
I've actually seen something like this happen to a friend of mine.

Be very, very careful about who you let find out about your money. ESPECIALLY when it comes to women.

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>>8273187
She also sabotaged his relationship with another girl in order to ask him out again. This saga is actually amazing

>> No.8273466

>>8273233

Also: women want these nice things because they look great in selfie or on insta. It's just a competition for them. It all comes back to her vanity.

Men are romantics pretending to be realists and women are realists pretending to be romantics. When you realize this, that's all you need to know about women. Enjoy them for what they are, but don't expect them to be more than that.

>> No.8273467

>>8273445
Oops, thought that was the continuation story but i guess not. Look up her reddit username for the rest

>> No.8273503

>>8273249
I agree with you. Early in relationships I'm a master at maximizing a dollar because you'll be going out much more often. But now that I'm settled down I like to go out to eat once a month and ball out. It's a great feeling to not put any constraints on a nice dinner and the wife agrees. Maybe I'm just older but I'd rather have one $500 meal instead of going out twice a week at $60 per

>> No.8273509

>>8273467

I posted it

>>8273322

>> No.8273523

I had no idea there were so many beta cuckolds on /biz/. Must be the reddit invasion from december.

>> No.8273548

>>8271749
Love you roger

>> No.8273582

>>8271155
>cause itll cost $2k
It's not less than 0.1% of his wealth. It's significant.

>>8271186
>buy drinks for her.
no, no, no, and no. abandon the normie poor mentality. drop her asap. drinks are fucking expensive. $15 a week with minimal investment. I'd kill for that kind of payoff.

>>8271415
>paparoach_lastdivorce.wav

>>8271570
>every once in a while women like to be taken out
i hope you mean like... 4x a year tops at the best pedestrian places.

>You kids are virgins for a reason
getting engaged soon. money doesn't buy everything, and my bolognese is better than anything in the area. Gf much prefers when I treat her to a well prepped meal.

>>8271895
>didnt give her any money
entitlement to value is an absolute red flag.

>>8272184
more or less, but why not get shitty Dunkin doughnuts coffee. it's still 2x a fucking K-cup (also ass), but you could have a decent cup of half meme beans for 0.55c with an upfront cost of a chemex/french press, and burr mill.

>>8272600
>$50 bar tab
disgusting normie
>taking a girl out to dinner is $100
you didn't go for some quality shit food for a total of $40-50 nor the real expensive crap at $500 - $700. i don't understand, anon

>> No.8273591

>>8271155
Retard. You'd die in the ice ages. That's barely enough to just have a good house. he's still a student without high income. You don't spend big unless you have a big income and a big fortune. He doesn't. He'd end up a poorfag again if he listened to you.
>>8271152
>>8271170
>>8271209
>>8271233
>>8271271
>>8271378
>>8271665
>>8271659
>>8272500
>>8272975
>>8273046
>>8273088
>>8273182
>>8273212
This
>>8271186
fincuck mentality
>>8271258
one could assume a woman might feel that, but what OP said she says indicates her feelings come from something else
>>8271446
He accidentally did a lucky thing. He discovered her true colors and what she had been thinking all along before marriage or whatever and now he can dump her and invest his time and energy in other aspects of his life and if he's lucky with who he meets, another girl.

>> No.8273615

>>8271105
Sometimes you have to slap your woman OP. You are the man, you make the financial decisions. If she doesn't like it then maybe she's not the girl to marry.

>> No.8273632

>>8271184
>based pro

>> No.8273638

>you fell for the retirement meme
Look, I’m 30 years old. You need to life faggot. If you really have like half a mil and aren’t larping (which you 100% are) you need to spend some of it on yourself and your girl. You should go on vacations within reason, buy a nice dinner sometimes. Whoever made up all this live frugal in your 20s to have money in your 80s was a fucking Jew retard. They don’t want to you enjoy your youth. How much are you gonna feel like traveling at 80? You won’t. Do it now while you enjoy it. Don’t be a retard and spend all of it, but don’t be afraid to have fun.

>> No.8273652

>>8272462
those are the same people harping about the benefits of emotional intelligence

>> No.8273671

>>8271105
it is not the female's responsibility to handle finances. Don't be a cuck, hold your ground and find yourself another woman. You don't owe this girl anything

>> No.8273684

>>8273170
>great advice from my Dad to think about... "You want a kid, right? You know you can have a kid without a Wife"
it's difficult to raise kids alone, especially if you work. What kind of upbringing was afforded for you? I know that coming from a middle class family will generally make a lesser experience for children without a partner because the kids are more likely to need more attention.
I imagine that it would be cheaper with a solid partner since one would be the primary earner and the other can focus on early childhood development.

>> No.8273692

>>8271105
You're lucky bro. Dump her.

>> No.8273710

>>8271105
Nine times out of ten, wealthy people are wealthy *because* they're stingy. Just let her know it's the only reason you've managed to secure your future so well.

And of course she feels betrayed. You kept a secret from her. Try communicating better.

>> No.8273717

>>8272138

Not always true. My last relationship was with an Asian who, on a 20k a year salary, had over 5k of credit card debt from her clothes purchases and travel expenses to visit her boyfriend who traveled, on top of student loans.

Dropped her like a rock after learning that.

>> No.8273720

BREAK UP WITH HER. find a girl who doesnt care if your broke or a billionaire. She just wants your money bro

>> No.8273729

>>8271152
Women understand savings. They are more likely to start saving for retirement than men, and they start younger and put higher percents of their income. They end up with less because they are less risk averse.

No, women understand saving their own money. But they consider that their money, even if they are in a relationship. Your money, they consider their disposable income. Your savings is their disposable income.

The best women you can find truly have a concept of "our money" or "our savings." Maybe 1 in 10 women are capable of this maturity. You can tell if she actually has this philosophy or if she is pretending by how her friends act towards the men in their lives. If she is surrounded by leaches she is playing you and just waiting to show her true face.

>> No.8273755

>>8272553
>b-buh muh genes

>> No.8273763

>>8271570
Undercover roastie spotted

>> No.8273765

>>8271271
Unless your girlfriend is bringing that crap into your relationship which is already a red flag their is no reason to not treat them like a lady

>> No.8273769

>>8271105
just rape her!

>> No.8273776

>>8273710
How cucked are you? Its not about "securing his future". That bitch isnt mad because he didnt tell her about it. She is mad because he got money and isnt wasting it on her. Virgins never learn.

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>>8273467
HAHA she fucking broke up the new relationship

fake text convos

>> No.8273788

>>8271105
Do not marry her until she is old and ugly, If you do she will take the money and run off with another man, the good part about your relationship is that because she did not know about your wealth until now, you know she is not a gold digger, if you love her than stay with her, however proceed with caution anon.

>> No.8273793

>>8271155
I have a half a mill in crypto and i would not pay 2k to go to new york.

>> No.8273804

>>8272600
Where the fuck are you going that the bill is $100? My girlfriend and I usually spend no more than $35 when we go out; that includes a tip too.

>> No.8273822

>>8271570
>That's what normal, healthy relationships are. >Women need to be treated special
I really hope you are a girl because that would explain the retarded "logic" you have.
Also please explain to me why women needs to be treated specially?

>> No.8273830

>>8273804
Also, we take turns paying for dinner each time we go out to eat.

>> No.8273857

>>8273776
Depends on the woman. Contrary to popular belief, some of them are responsible with money. And believe it or not, "This shit is too expensive and a waste of money," is still valid when you have lots of money.

"I can't afford it," is a lie. "I'm not wasting money on this," is the truth. And there's a clear distinction. If he had the balls to tell her that outright and she still bitched about it, that's a different story. But he didn't.

>> No.8273866

>>8271105
>First of all, how tf does she remember all this shit.
Because women do that. They keep track of everything wrong you do for later. They are petty af. It's extremely rare to find a woman who can actually let things go and not just say it.

Dump her, OP. You're just dating. She has shown you her real colors. It will only get worse if you stay with her. Don't worry, you'll meet someone else.

>> No.8273887

>>8271105
Run. Far far away.

>> No.8273951

>>8271105
Break the fuck up with her, seriously OP you're smart with your money and you know how to keep it.

Find a better chick that won't dare tell you what to do with your money once you make even more

>> No.8273955

>>8271105
ditch her, dont look back.

>> No.8273966

>>8273638
>Whoever made up all this live frugal in your 20s to have money in your 80s was a fucking Jew retard. They don’t want to you enjoy your youth.
>The jews don't want you to spend your money and become a debt slave

This is a pretty impressively high tier of bluepilled

>> No.8273970

>>8271105
>I put it 90% into safe stocks and 10% back into crypto.
I'd be upset too

>> No.8274026

>>8273822
>why women needs to be treated specially
they need to know that they're special to you in a way that is digestible to them. If I make dinner for a woman other than my mother or grandmother, then hell will break loose with my gf. There's girls that like being "special" because you give them shitty bags and purses, there's girls that prefer vacations, there's girls that like time, etc etc. The girl that feels special because of they way you treat her with minimal cost to yourself is definitely a good choice.

>> No.8274034

wow a lot of replies for a literal virgin neckbeard board

>> No.8274052

>>8274034
A lot of loyalty for a hired gun

>> No.8274093

>>8274052
uh whut

>> No.8274094

>>8274034
STAY POOR REEEEEEEEEEEE

>> No.8274097

>>8271155
You know how richfags get rich?
They don't spend their money on frivolous bullshit

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>>8271105
Break up, 400k is not a shitload of money in the long run and you're smart for saving up and not spending it on overpriced shit.

>> No.8274111

>>8274093
what is the next step of your masterplan?

>> No.8274129

>>8274111
this post right here, then ???? i can't tell you of course

>> No.8274151

>>8274094
mindless response

>> No.8274182

Break up with her op but make sure you use a recording device when you do so if she makes any threats like fake rape allegations you can call the police with proof and get her escorted out

>> No.8274203

>>8273684
Yeah it's probably a load of work... my dad would always relocate to within an hour of wherever mom and I moved to. He always worked in cities and mom liked the country, so I'd get slower paced stability during the week and fast city exposure on the weekends. Boston, NYC, Baltimore, DC... I admit it wasn't always rosy but now that I'm out of college doing whatever it is I do by father basically lives the bachelor-prepper dream with fast toys and lots of land and guns. I probably wouldn't have had it any other way

>> No.8274228

>letting your girl find out you're a half-millionaire
I told my girl that I had $6000 invested in crypto, and she instantly goes "wait, you have that kind of money to just throw away?"

Now I'll never give a number about any money I earn ever again, if $6000 in savings is shocking to her.

>> No.8274246

>>8274151
All you deserve.

>> No.8274271

If I were your girlfriend,I would try to get money out of you to invest in my own retirement fund. Not buy drinks and hotels.

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>>8274228
>to just throw away

>> No.8274281

>>8274246
why so serious

>> No.8274303

>>8273786
Women wonder why men don't trust women when women have been publishing their diaries for centuries. No one can read a feminist work of work and respect women at all. Go on, read The Second Sex, or read In a Different Voice and realize that those books are women putting their best foot forward and they are revolting, selfish, and all about tearing men down.

>> No.8274334

>>8271105
Time to liquidate that asset anon, rebuy when a better position becomes available.

>> No.8274341

>>8274109
desu I don't think the roastie did anything wrong here

She broke up with a "grown man" who was okay living life like a NEETful child and had no inclinations of a family or meaningful future

Like she said she didn't really care about money anyway, the guy was just a loser

>> No.8274360

>>8272781
Hahaha gonna use that

>> No.8274368

>>8271407
american cuck detected.

>> No.8274374

I want my 2 minutes back reading this larp.

>> No.8274392

>>8274341
Unfortunately that story doesn't hold up as she completely changes her mind when she finds out he's loaded.
He is still the same person.

>> No.8274421

>>8273067
>disposable income
that, right there, is the key line. all income is disposable income to some people (male or female, but particularly females). those people have no future.

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>>8274097
that's not true, that is the normie thinking of getting rich, true is rich people make smart moves and blow a lot of money in cocaine in this process

>> No.8274459

>>8271105
Cut that goose loose.

>> No.8274463

>>8274341
yea nah fuck off. She was a dumb shallow cunt who expertly trolled by a smart lulzy dude. I hope he finds a nice girl that isn't trash like her.

>> No.8274501

>>8274109
should have saved the follow up where she bumps him on a friend's party and he's moved on with a younger roastie, and the golddigger gets more depressed

>> No.8274502

>>8274424
gonna confirm this

>> No.8274548

>>8271105
OP you shouldnt worry about it. Use this to your advantage and get her best sex from her rn. She is just extremely turned on and afraid of losing you so she's trying to establish control of the relationship by making you feel like you betrayed her. She knows damn well you will get better pussy than hers if you break up. Tell her to fuck off

>> No.8274667

>>8271570
You are a the biggest cuck loser retard on the internet. Congratulations on that.

>> No.8274716

>>8273270
this, wait till she sabotages herself into debt then dump her

>> No.8274719

>>8274341
Confirmed for not reading her follow up post. You're either a thot yourself or an omega male who hasn't grown his first chin hairs yet

>> No.8274828

>>8274424
Cocaine arguably isn't frivolous it's a performance enhancement drug.

>> No.8274836

>>8271105
my dad always warns me about these type of women, it's kinda funny because I'm not even rich, I'm just not completely broke

you fucked up by letting her find out your financial situation, if you're a smooth talker and she's willing to listen maybe you can get her to understand that you want to keep saving money, if not then you should cut her loose

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>>8273638
>jews want you to save your money
imagine being retarded enough to write this

>> No.8274954

>>8274026
I wont waste my time on girls that need to feel special or in realist words needs me to buy her love cuz she's an insecure hypergamy pass herself around whore.


Go take your cuck fantasy to plebbit they love that kind of unmanly degeneracy

>> No.8274955

>>8271834
right and the principle is you spend $8 on this drink and fuck her later -- this is societally more acceptable AND cheaper than a hooker.
crazy, huh?

>> No.8275005

>>8274341
spotted yet another eternal virgin that will defend shit female behaviors in hopes of sniffing her passed herself around pussy.


sad pathetic beta cuck... you probably do that cuckface smile unironically irl too.

>> No.8275163

>>8273729
this
my mom is one of those women and I think it has made me disappointed in most of the women I've gotten to know.

>>8271946
>She's mad because she felt her "trust" threatened
What does this even mean? and is it even possible to navigate this issue without her receiving some kind of appeasement handout from OP?
Because if you read the OP - which you didn't - his gf said she was upset because:
1. he accumulated 400k for himself - not her, and
2. he wasn't spending money on frivolous things for her entertainment

Her "trust" being threatened is secondary to the problems she actually stated for OP. This is not an issue of trust, it's an issue of jealousy and greed

>> No.8275274

>>8271303
>ejaculate&evacuate

>/biz/foundourguy

>> No.8275296

>>8271105
pump&dump like ur cryptos wiseguy

>> No.8275411

>>8271105
I 99% sympathize with you, except
>When we do go out, I don't buy drinks
wtf

>> No.8275479

>>8275163
>Her "trust" being threatened is secondary to the problems she actually stated for OP.
Her problem is she wanted trust she didn't earn. True trust is not earned overnight, it is not earned in a year. You have to know one through thick and thin to know if you can trust them. How they react to all different kinds of stress and good times.

>my mom is one of those women and I think it has made me disappointed in most of the women I've gotten to know.
My mom was one of the bad ones. She raised me blue pilled and it was only until I hit about 27 I realized what a vicious piece of work she is. It is women like her that are raising the next generation of conservative men, because we know what doesn't work with women, and he know how bad a working mother and a divorced mother are.

>> No.8275520

>>8275411
You say "What the fuck" to not drinking out on the town?

Let the man not drink out on the town. You are so lost that actually being a responsible drinker and good with your money causes you confusion. I do enjoy a good drink at a restaurant every know and then but I never liked going to bars and I think the world would be a lot better off if there were more people like OP and less people like you.

>> No.8275527

>>8275411
>2018
>buying the alcoholic Jew
wake up sheeple

>> No.8275616

You fucked up man. Seriously.

You've bought yourself a money sponge who might just end up cheating on you

She showed her true colours to you. A reasonable, trustworthy woman would've understood your position; and appreciated that you eventually came clean

Jesus man

Divorce her

>> No.8275690

>>8271105
OP, get out now, huge red flag, this is not a drill. If you don't set ground rules and know what she thinks about money when you're not rich, the moment she finds out that you are, you will wish you were not rich.

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>>8271105
Keep accumulating. If you love her then so be it. Just don't let a poorfag tell you how to spend your money.

>> No.8275748

>>8271105
hey, i hope you read this OP.

Dump that girl. the reason she is upset is because she was considering dumping you, has maybe been cheating on you already so she can move to the next guy, and she did this because you dont have enough money or other value.

now, you actually do have enough money. she finds out, shes's mad at you because in her mind you almost fooled her into breaking up with you and not being able to get "her" money.

look at her friends, what types are they? would you marry them? if no, shes bad.

>> No.8276016

DO NOT reproduce with somebody who doesn't understand compound interest, your children will grow up to be slaves of those who do

>> No.8276054

>>8275479
Working mother is not a problem, dude
Agree with divorce.but what can you do, really. People change yknow

>> No.8276075

you have to explain to her that it is your money and your aim is to getting rich in the future. 5dollars on starbuck is 25dollar spent in your mind, cause you can make 25dollar out of 5 in a year. then set up a wallet for her with 50omg or another coin and gift it to her, so she can be rich one day, too.

>> No.8276106

>>8273322
Fucking lmao

>> No.8276115

>>8271131
>>8271131
>>8271131

>> No.8276151

>>8271105
>how tf does she remember all this shit
lol 0 chance this is a larp. If you haven't figured it out by now by reading this entire thread. dump her.

>> No.8276219

>>8272462
big autistic red flag is people who talk about their IQ. It's like they have nothing worth beyond this value. sad really

>> No.8276238

>>8276106
OP you NEED to put even just 15-20% of what you put into stocks in gold before the deflationary collapse of all asset prices.

You are doing just about the dumbest thing ever putting it all into stocks when the market is in a huge bubble as a result of cheap money and suppressed interest rates at basically 0% for a decade.

You NEED to i repeate NEED to get some gold and silver.

GOLD is SAVINGS. And the dollar is about crap out in a currency crisis.

The gains will be HUGE if you own real money when the petrodollar dollar fails. Few ounces of gold for a home in the currency reset.

>> No.8276267

>>8273067
fuck yes thanks for posting i remember this story

>> No.8276298

>>8276219
OP is the biggest fucking kike cheap Jew nigger.

I made 60k in crypto and once a week I put a 100 dollar too into the tip jar at this smoothie place I go to for the college girls working there.

And this dude can't even buy his fucking girlfriend a drink? What a faggot kike

>> No.8276302

Dump her, seriously.

>> No.8276322

Live a little, I know people that were as stingy as you that ended up sad and lonely. Set some money aside to enjoy the one life you have pussy

>> No.8276360

>>8272135
wow must suck being a poorfag
have fun saving every cent til you’re old and dying

>> No.8276377

>>8276298
and another thirsty virgin that throws money around hoping it impresses hoes at a job.


Anon is the biggest fucking cuck unman single mom raised loser

I made 20k in crypto and once a week I dont put 100 dollars into a tip jar at this smooth place I goto cuz im not a thirsty single mom raised cuck that gives money to girls im not fucking.

And this cuck cant even stop being a cuck or save his money? what a eternal virgin cuck raised by a single mom whore

>> No.8276378

>>8274954
>or in realist words
fedora autism, stop that

>I wont waste my time on girls that need to feel special
No, no. so would you date a girl if she did nothing foryou that made you feel spechul? You may have some justifiable grounds to be critical of the general social dynamics between men and women. That said, within these constructs, men are equally hypergamous and equally shitty. In any case, you need to close the laptop sonny. Cut back on the onions. clean your room and shit. le sort urself

>> No.8276379

>>8276360
What if he actually enjoys saving every cent?

>> No.8276381

>>8276298
Holy shit I hope this is bait.
please kys.

>> No.8276399

>>8276298
Why can't she buy her own drink?

>> No.8276425

>>8276298
>$60k in crypto
>$100 a week
you have 11.5 years of this. enjoy your findom.

>> No.8276427

>>8276267
looking up just now the cunt's post history, seems she sabotaged the new relationship, and even worse, the poor bastard has agreed to get back together. fucking hell. i hope the dude at least read his own story on plebbit or here, and look up what a cunt she is.

>> No.8276540

>>8276378
calling it fedora autism isnt an arguement just a shitty opinion.


But continue to cuck yourself for girls that have passed themselves around over the years and you can man up and pay their way and think anyone that doesnt think like you is fedora autism.

kek some single mom raised faggots are born victims and will die victims especially over their enternal thirst for passed themselvse around hoes that will never love you.


but im sure once you have millions anon she'll love you for you and you can go out and cuck your life away buying her things cuz moomy brainwash you as a kid that you grow up cuck for girls and never think of yourself first only vagina.

fuck outta here unmanly pussy worshipper

>> No.8276602

>>8271570
Maybe 50 years ago. In the modern world it's just pathetic. Women are be able to afford their own shit now.

>> No.8276653

You're just a jew OP and she hates jews

>> No.8276705

>>8276540
oh my god you're so right anon! I keep looking at myself in the reflective mirror that is 4chan, the western appropriated shadow puppeteering forum. I have never thought to ask for a pre and post nup at all oh my god! You've changed me for the better anon. I can see myself so much m-m-m-more clearly with your expert advice and b-b-b-b-bitter h-hatred for the pass themselves *bBUUURP* pass around whores that that will never ever love me for being me, I-I-I never thought that mommy milkies had tained my worldview and that truly colonizing taiwanese brappers is the true to way to go. There is nothing wrong with modern day colonialism, oh my god,women will always leave you for money and when a rich man or a black man prospect my wife for colonizing her colon, she will invariably act as the fertile soil for their potent viable seed that I do not have. because i do not have it. I-I-I ammmm... *BUUUUUURP* just a shmeckle without the potent viable seed. They are the ones the viable seed. I can see now, because you have made me the intellectual man that you are because the mirror that is the indonesian butter churning blog, 4chan, is me.

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>>8271415
You ever think retards retardedly posting picts of their retarded selves on 4chan are simply the selected retards who are retarded enough to post their picts of their retarded selves on 4chan?

>> No.8276834

>>8271105
>show gf my blockfolio
>damn anon, that's amazing

she hasn't mentioned it in months but now she's hinting that she wants a ring and wants to get married. hmmm

>> No.8276839

>>8276705
wow someone got triggered hard. was it the single mom raised comment anon? did that strike a nerve to cause you to type up such b/tard replies and sound like a blithering idiot?

Go be a madcuck somewhere else I wont be convinced otherwise to not spend money on girls im not fucking but by all means tell me more about your 100$ a day at girls you arent fucking and convince me you arent a pathetic thirsty unmanly cuck that thinks that will get you a life with a girl that will love you forever. Oh wait that doesnt happen and you're just a madcuck because I dont beleive in fairy tales from hollywierd like youre brainwahed single mom raised ass.

now go cuck for girls you arent fucking i'll be here making my money and laughing at all you unmen

>> No.8277059

Jesus, a lot of fucking Virgin nerds on this fucking board.

Buy your girlfriend a fucking meal and a martini once in awhile you loser.

Why even have a fucking girlfriend or wife if you don't want to do anything remotely fun?

At before you nerds slam me for saying this guy should by his fucking partner a steak dinner once and awhile, tell me again about how you are a virgin that lives in a basement because "muh gains"

>> No.8277064

>>8276834
break up with her

>> No.8277133

>>8276839
you're obviously not making money if you took the time to waddle through the incoherent mess that is my homage to the intellectual masterpiece that is rick and morty. your words slid into my mind through my ear canal, the external acoustic meatus, like slippery szechuan sauce sliding down my throat. I was triggered, certainly triggered by your intellectual alpha manliness that reads like buttery wine. I am not worthy nor intelligent enough to truly appreciate your refined tastes in women anon! I am not worthy! I cannot fathom the depth to which being allegedly raised by single mother has hurt me! blast this dark cuck world that I have inherited in an unjust genetic lottery that you so obviously have won! I am but a brainlet! And investor in Ripple! My single mommy milkies have soured my soul, and only your divine judgement on evidence of my condemnation for women will wash away the sin. You are truly the most fulfilled and right. Nay, you are the pinnacle of man! The most savvy of anons. the salvation for bitter, salty, soured men. I cannot thank you enough for reaching out to a lost soul, a wretch like me! Amazing grace, how sweet your salty balls! I am but a madcuck, you are THE madcunt! the übermensch! You the objectivist intellectual! You, he who gives not! theMANLIEST man here! You who are GRACING ME by replying to your post! I am not worthy to have been replied to! Simply knowing that you are lurking the thread is enough for my personal satisfaction! Yes! Truly! This is the true essence of a satisfying relationship! yes!

>> No.8277150

>>8271239
She will literally piss it away, you know. $10 in the cup, in the toilet, flushed away. Might not even make it there before being vomited on the street.

>> No.8277159

>>8276054
Daycare before 3 years is neglect. Daycare over 10 hours between 3 and 5 is neglect. Maternal negelct. When it comes to raising kids mommies have to do quantity work and daddies have to do quality work. If you switch that or have someone else raise the kids it is neglect.

>> No.8277211

>>8271816
>got rid of her forever for only $30k
That’s a bit steep but not bad

>> No.8277282

>>8273233
This

>> No.8277484

>>8271105
Fucking fell for the woman meme like how could you be so beta to even tell her the truth, you should've lied. Never tell women or anyone about how much money you have!

Modern women are the worst investment ever! There was a time when women cooked, cleaned, made babies, raised babies, were virgins on there wedding day. Those days are long gone.
>women are now Pump & Dump only

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>>8271889
I creampie pure, studious, virgin white chicks and I'm white 6'+ with a masculist jawline. Nobody can compete. IQ is pseudoscience lick my factual bait.
>>8272462
>>8273138
No it is actually regarded as pseudoscience in proper academic circles. It's old as fuck and the testing methods are shit. There is something to it but autists spouting out mensa shit are generally retarded desu~. If you went to school and studied this, you would realize IQ is legit pseudoscience (ready for more butthurt?) just like Myers Briggs personality types.
>>8276219
They take online IQ tests then figure they are god tier mensa geniuses when in reality they have above average critical thinking skills.
>>8273652
No. Emotional intelligence is pseudoscientific bullshit too. Fun fact, the whole IQ theory is 100 years old....and it's shit. The tests are shit. It's easy to score well and it doesn't really measure intelligence that well.
>>8273262
It's true. Also get ready....psychology is like 50% pseudoscience as well. Oh dream interpretation...let's make that a serious subsection of psychology, that's just as legitimate and important as operant conditioning chambers

IQ is pseudoscience. Sorry autists