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644125 No.644125 [Reply] [Original]

>So anon, this is kind of a personal question but you'll be traveling around the world for this job even 10 months a year, are you in a relationship?

I was so taken aback from such a surprising question, I just said the truth

>Yes Ma'am I am in one.

She looked at me in a slightly disappointed face.

did I screw up?

>> No.644129

You were talking to HR, who is trying to hire the 'best fit'.

This 'best fit' for a job with heavy traveling is one who is so work focused that they will not try to put their personal well being ahead. You stated that you have a life outside of work and odds are that made HR upset.

Yea you messed up, but you need to ask yourself, would you really have wanted to been in a place where they are looking for someone with no life?

>> No.644131

You should have unveiled the D.

>> No.644132

The real question here is would you want to be traveling 10 months a year and be in a relationship?

Do you have a realistic outlook what this job might mean to your personal life? First, it's a bit of a naive first impression. Second, you might become a liability to them.

Then again she can't legally ask you that, nor should it influence her decision but we both know better.

>> No.644134

>>644129
>Yea you messed up, but you need to ask yourself, would you really have wanted to been in a place where they are looking for someone with no life?

good way of looking at it. I probably did the right thing saying the truth

>> No.644137

>>644132
>Then again she can't legally ask you that, nor should it influence her decision but we both know better.

Serbian here, they can pretty much ask us anything

>> No.644144

>>644132

Yeah that's what I don't get. It seems like a legitimate question to me.

If you're in a relationship then you probably won't like being in a job where you're traveling for 10 months a year; chances are you'll cheat on her / she'll cheat on you etc.

Why would you even be applying for a job with that much travel if you're in a relationship? What you should have said is "It's not a very serious relationship" or something along those lines - Because if you're serious about the job then the relationship ISN'T serious.

>> No.644146

Dude I think what that's code for is that they're looking for closers and somebody who is tied down at a young age isn't a closer with women so how are they going to close a CEO...

>> No.644148

>>644144
The friend told me about the job offer.

I was told traveling would be involved but not 10 months worth of traveling involved!

It pays really well and in a subject I really like, if I get selected I will really have some thinking to do.

>> No.644149

>>644125
"That kind of thing won't be a problem..."

>> No.644154

>>644125

Asking someones relationship status in an interview is illegal.

contact the DOL. They broke the law.

>> No.644155

>>644154
>DOL
read this
>>644137
(this is in Serbia)

>> No.644156

>>644154

oh, nevermind. just saw you are Serbian.

as for the question, i would have just lied to get the job.

also I love your "film"

>> No.644160

>>644156
>also I love your "film"
thanks

I thought it was shit.

>> No.644169

>>644125
>someone on 4chan
>in a relationship
What's his name?

>> No.644193

>>644169
I'm pretty sure a large portion of people on 4chan are in relationships

>> No.644199
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>>644193

>> No.644296

>>644199
I don't see what is the laughing matter

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>>644296

>> No.644310

>>644303
Did you find a job yet?

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>>644310
>>644193

>> No.644397

>>644193
If you count $200 a night a relationship, then yeah; we're all in relationships.

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644424

>are you in a relationship?