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I don't want to experience my parents passing away so I think I will go first

>> No.58301653

>>58301635
chicks think it's hot when your parent(s) are dead they think it makes u dark and mysterious

>> No.58301672

Your parents don't want to experience their son passing away more than you don't want to experience your parents passing away.

>> No.58301743

>>58301635
You gotta accept it, bro. You're parents need you to be there for them at the end. It's an unspoken responsibility. I didn't want to be in charge of my mother's final days, cremation, and all that shit, but I was the only man who could handle it. I miss my mom a lot, but I feel some satisfaction from knowing I was there for her when she needed me most. If I can do it, I know you can too.

>> No.58301793

>>58301672
>>58301743
these

>> No.58301814

I will dance a jig when my mom goes but not sure how I will cope with my dad going, I don't think I will and probably just rope

>> No.58301822

>>58301653
They just don't wanna deal with your family. No parents means she can monopolize you completely.

Women are evil.

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>>58301743

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>>58301823
Right on, bro.

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Hit me right in the damn feels. Thoughts like these keep me up at night very often, and they have since childhood. I know that feel, fren. But what does this have to do with finance?

>> No.58302496

>>58302327
A person's final expenses are a big deal for the survivors. Just a simple cremation with no service is going to cost a few thousand bucks. If the deceased had insurance and all their affairs set up and paid for, it's much more simple. When people die intestate, with no life insurance, all the fees and details have to be handled by next-of-kin. It can get very expensive.

>> No.58302529

>>58301635
the heaviest feels. i dont care much about anyone but my mom and would have probably given up on life if not for her, idk what ill do once shes gone

>> No.58302590

>>58302529
You live. You carry on the fight. Take it from me: The people you love never truly leave you.

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>>58301635
Speaking as a parent, do not do this.

>> No.58302669

>>58301635
This thread made me think of this. I haven't seen it in decades... THE FEELS!
https://youtu.be/sUm1WC2GVjY

>> No.58302703

I'll kill myself to make the redditors go away

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>>58301635
that's my greatest fear, i would feel alone if that happens
and if i have to die, i left my parents all the details of my personal wallet written on a piece of paper inside the main bedroom, there i have all my BTC, ETH, SOL and SUPER

>> No.58302730

>>58302704
That's very responsible, but your parents don't care about the money. They would rather have you spend it all and stay alive.

>> No.58302915

>>58301635
I feel that OP every year that goes by I am more acutely aware I have less time with the ones I love.
hug your parents OP visit them while you can.

I've personally been suicidal for a long time, no real gay or edgy reason other than just being tired of everything, I'm exhausted at the idea of going on. but my mom deserves to outlive her son so I'm gonna give her that, if I haven't found a reason to live or a new outlook on life by the time she passes I'll take out huge loans liquidate my assets and go on a cocaine and hookers tour. on the finale date when I run outta cash I'll Picasso the walls of some shoddy motel with my brain matter.

>> No.58303172

>>58302915
Damn, dude... Make a change if you feel that fuckin' bad. Get a new job, go back to school, research a new career. There's lots of ways to improve a life if your only alternative is blasting yourself. Take some risks, discipline yourself. Stick around and do somejtgd shit.

>> No.58303642

>>58303172
you misunderstand me this has nothing to do with "feeling bad" or a "lack of life improvement" I'm just tired bro all I want to do is sleep its the light at the end of the tunnel. nobody in my life knows this btw I have a VERY good mask. and this is just plan A if all else fails I likely (hopefully) have a few decades to figure it out before she goes so it's not like I'm just gonna be sitting on my ass doing the same shit day in and day out.

I am trying a new career path next year, I've been in a trade and it's been a good distraction for a while but it's recently just been muscle memory and I need a new problem to bang my head against, the one I'm gonna try next will let me hopefully travel more and talk to the people and see the sun. idk we'll see how it goes, my goal is to make as much money as I can before that point but I'm open to wherever life takes me, best case scenario I find someone worthwhile to have a kid with and I'm able to teach the little shit to do life better than I could, that would be enough to anchor me down. We'll see though.

>> No.58304114

>>58301635
Anon that's even worse. A son/daughter should NEVER go before their parents. It's just terrible for everyone.
you need to come to terms to the fact that death is something inevitable, and it's impossible to stop it.
>>58301743
THIS

i recently had to attend my grandma's funeral. i got the chance to talk to her, she was too weak to speak but she liked hearing my voice. She asked me about my day and i went all in detail about everything goin on, from my girlfriend, to my studies and job, even my gains on p2e games like ether orb. It didn't matter all i wanted was to speak more with her. i talked and asked her about some stuff about her.

In her death bed, before they gave her a serum to make her imminent death painless all she wanted was for her friends and family to be healthy and fine. She was a fucking angel
We must come to terms with death and grab that pain deep in our chest and let it burn, because that means we truly cared about them and loved them. And eventually move on and carry their memories with us.