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Woman manager took me off projects and gave me all routine jobs. Revoked my WFH privilege, have to go to office 6 days a week with mandatory overtime. All this because I called her incompetent. I fucked up real bad bros... I can try to request for a transfer but she might just block any attempt to force me to quit.

>> No.58284075

>>58283676
>he doesn't work in a place with high turnover in managers, but the competent technical people stay for decades
Do I even need to say it?

>> No.58284086

>>58284075
Its my first job, come on.

>> No.58284113

>>58284086
Oh. In that case you really need to consider jumping ship. Remember, in your 20s it's just as important to figure out what you don't like as it is what you do like. Don't let the cunt get you demoralized bro. Consider going to her boss and explaining the situation. It either backfires horribly or she gets put under the microscope. Make friends.

>> No.58284116

>>58283676
>Revoked my WFH privilege, have to go to office 6 days a week with mandatory overtime
lol slave

>> No.58284122

>>58283676
Kek wagie back in the cagie.

>> No.58284133

>>58284113
Her boss is very good friends with her. They go out for lunch and dinner everyday. Pretty sure they are fucking but nobody knows.
>>58284122
You have no idea how sad I am

>> No.58284144

>>58283676
Just go HAM and tell her to get back in the fucking kitchen. DAB as you do it too, like really go insane and unhinged. It would be hilarious.

>> No.58284149

>>58284133
>she's socially entrenched with the higher ups
>I called her incompetent
You gotta play the game. I hope you learned a valuable lesson.

>> No.58284168

>>58284144
>just sabotage your career and your future bro!
No.
>>58284149
Yeah I wont forget this but learning from the past doesn't solve my current predicament. Im guessing I have to find another job if she blocks my attempts at a transfer.

>> No.58284200

>>58284168
>Im guessing I have to find another job if she blocks my attempts at a transfer.
I never encourage to post their personal shit here, but if the pay is good, or you need to reach a certain work milestone to be fully vested, consider hitting it. Your personal circumstances matter. Make sure to have a plan before quitting, and as much as you want to, don't burn any bridges.

>> No.58284316

>>58283676
I've learned women are always going to be a pain in the fucking ass in a work place. doesn't matter how nice they appear, they take shit out of context and get weird ideas, expect you to pick up their slack, can't handle confrontation and will go tattle to bosses about issues you could've easily resolved fave to face, and are generally just unpleasant to be around. I've actually legitimately come to despise women having worked with them so much, and every fucking job that isnt dog shit is flooded with them. I hate women. I'm not joking. They're lazy, incompetent, cowardly, and neurotic.

>> No.58284326

>>58283676
Just leave. It's not hard to find another job if you are currently employed

>> No.58284612
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58284612

>>58283676
Whats the story that lead up to you calling her incompetent and in where did you say it? Either way, you fucked up big time by calling a superior retarded basically.
Best option for you if WFH and overtime are not worth it at all is to start job searching on company time and fucking around. Take 20 billion bathroom and smoke breaks, and let your performance degrade just enough to be noticeable but not enough to take action to correct.

>> No.58284692

>Corporate slave begins to understand that he’s a slave
Enjoy waging you faggot. You want to 180 this shitshow? Set up a proton mail and pay me faggot

>> No.58284721

>>58284316
I thought I was the only one. Yeah this has been my experience too. I worked at Twitch and had not one but TWO back to back female managers. Both terrible and both got fired.

Not to mention that all the female engineers I worked with started drama and would fight all the time

>> No.58285142

>>58284612
>Whats the story that lead up to you calling her incompetent and in where did you say it?
They were in charge of a project to automate a manufacturing process buy buying a machine to check for defects. They didn't tell the vendor exactly the load which the machine will bear and the total number of different SKU that little scanner has to scan. There are duplicate GTIN and the software can't handle duplicates. So they try to get the vendor to fix it but vendor told them rightfully to fuck off or pay up since they completed their job to the letter. They didn't have the budget for it so the machine they spent a couple hundred grand on last year wont be operational until next year. A dozen interns and contract staff had to be hired to do manual checking because we have to go live. Called her fucking incompetent in a fit of rage because this shit is so hard to fuck up. All she and her team had to do was to list out the variables and constants for the vendor. Im fucked now.

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58285164

>>58283676
that's your cue to get out, wfh? go neet, full gamefi with blocklords and many other games, its doable baby

>> No.58285168

>>58285142
The point which I called her incompetent was when she kept dismissing my solutions and just saying we have to wait till fucking 2025 to fix it. There is only 1 extra GTIN number to deal with so we can use the machine to check half the products and the other half we have to check manual but that there would still be ROI. >uugghh anon what is it you don't understand we cant do it we just cant! theres no point if we are only checking half uuuuugghghh
We had this many iterations of this conversation we me trying to convince her to turn that fucking machine on and her refusing to do so. I called her an incompetent leader and that it was surprisingly that the longest lasting subordinate she had lasted 3 years instead of just 1. Told her this in a team meeting. Lost my bonus for this year and im have to work in office now. Took sick leave but im going to have to go back eventually.

>> No.58285240

>>58285168
>>58285142
Based. I too hate women in the workplace, but I’m not chad enough to say it out loud

>> No.58285312

>>58285168
>Anon doesn’t know how to navigate modern workplace the post
Hey faggot, set up a proton account, post it, pay me, and all your bullshit work drama problems go away. Alternatively continue to live through a living nightmare in your workplace destroyed by stress and your superiors. Your boss will make your life hell btw. Your stuck between a rock and a hard place. Your choice.

>> No.58285328

>>58284086
get a condition or bribe a doctor to signg you off on diabetes to take infinite breaks to "check blood sugar" or to get snacks. theres probably a better condition to fake.

>> No.58285427

>>58284316
It depends really. My boss is a 40-something year old roastie while I’m 6’1 and /fit/. She obviously wants to fuck me so she lets me get away with anything really (no I will not fuck her)

>> No.58285487

Bare minimum your shit until they fire you.
Also, wtf are you doing calling your manager incompetent. You deserve this.

>> No.58285500

>>58285312
Yeah naw fuck off jeet.

>> No.58285503

>>58285487
Because she is incompetent. My biggest flaw is I am unable to to keep shit to myself. If this were medieval times my head would be on a spike for calling the King a fat dunce.

>> No.58285542

>>58285168
>being so desperate to simp for your employer and do work that they have repeatedly told you doesn't need to be done that you rage in a team meeting and publicly insult your boss
lmao you deserve everything you get, you autistic weirdo
you will literally never find another fully remote job
20 years from no you'll look back and wonder how you were so stupid that you ruined the most comfy job you've ever had for literally no reason

>> No.58285566

>>58285503
>am unable to to keep shit to myself.
Yes. You are a low self-control faggot who thinks his opinions or 'solutions' are important.

>> No.58285595

>>58285168
Real talk.
Part of management is to make the call. Manager says this is the plan, fine. Even if you disagree it's their job to make the call and take responsibility for the fuckups.
How does this inconvenience you? You're taking a corpo's problems personally. It's a recipe for mental disaster, since all corpos from small to large are run by incompetents. Part of the human condition, I guess. It's a miracle the economy still remains standing.
You get paid for doing the little tasks they assign you. In exchange, you get to sit at home and get paid to pretend to do work while fuckers break their backs in the coal mines every day.
Sounds like you fucked this one up, but I advise you shift your mindset to prevent blowing opportunities in the future.

>> No.58285608

>>58285503
Unironically toxicity is the ultimate killer of the workplace. You shouldn't be proud of it. It doesn't make you cooler, worsening your quality of life so you can insult people.

>> No.58285717

>>58285542
>>58285595
You dont understand. Because of their fuck up my workload doubled because I have to assist in the manual check which is retarded. I have to work on weekends to help cover for her fuck up for a full year. 4 months in and I couldn't stand it anymore so I lashed out because she kept refusing to do stop gap measures because she would have to revise the SOP. I offered to do everything for her and she basically just ignored my emails. When I talk to her face to face she would say shes busy with work or whatever or my solution doesnt work. When I ask her why it doesnt work she can't answer me.

>> No.58285743

>>58285608
Shes literally the one being toxic by refusing to listen to my kaizen and literally ignoring me. The fuck bro? What am I supposed to do? Work 12 hours a day for 6 days a week and do it in silence because the bitch is too incompetent to care? I only get to WFH on Wednesdays but now I cant WFH anymore. Her claim is that I have to support production because the machine cant be used when in actual fact I know it can. Ive seen it done. They did all the fucking qualifications and everything passed. I took it up to her boss and I was given a scolding for not going through the proper channels. Fuck me man. I guess its all my fucking fault.

>> No.58285809

>>58285717
Ah, if your workload was affected then I would just lazymaxx. Say things take more time than they do and such.
With the extra context, it sounds like she's the one being neglectful or spiteful. Might as well lazymaxx until your firing, where you can collect unemployment.
Although you did mention that you only got punitively sent back to the office after you called her incompetent, right? So you wouldn't have been sent back if you didn't say that?

>> No.58285823

>>58283676
>female boss
Every single time

>> No.58285828

That's what you get chuddy

>> No.58286724

>>58285809
I probably would have been sent back to do the manual check regardless but its the part where Im relegated to routine stuff. I think if I stay here I will end up doing that shit for years without promotion.

>> No.58286738

>>58284075
kek, my first team had a time when all 6 levels of managers (lmao) including the CEO got replaced at once

>> No.58286809

If it's your first job I wouldn't really worry. It seems tough now but in 6 months time you'll look back and be glad you don't have to work with an incompetent retard.

>> No.58286827

>>58285142
sounds like an honest mistake, why was there nobody to double check it

>> No.58286913

>>58286827
Because we dont have the budget to hire more hands. We have the budget to hire 12 people to do the manual shit though. Baffles me but thats their explanation.

>> No.58286965

I understand why you're upset but instead of lashing out and fucking up, why not do the bare minimum until you get fired / find a better job?

>> No.58286974

>>58284086
>Its my first job, come on
Why are you calling your manager (a woman, too, someone obviously sensitive) incompetent? You fucking retard? Doesn't matter if it is true, you have to understand how stupid that was. You deserve to be poor.

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58286979

>>58283676
Best time to look for a new job is while you're still in your old one.

>> No.58286987

>>58285142
You sperged out bro hope you learned...

I made a mistake by oversharing my opinion on the Rus/Uke war to a veteran, told him Rus will win
He tried really hard to get me fired and even had the Feds hack my gmail to search for spy traces

Now, I don't say anything personal and pretend to be a straightedge normie

>> No.58287519

>>58285168
that sucks anon, but working with other people is the hardest thing about any job. I would've told the bartender after work rather then her at the meeting, only way to make sure you keep your income secure.

>> No.58287534

>>58286974

Yeah, never shit where you eat. Most of us hate our manager. We still know who cuts the checks, you give them the lip service they want and pretend it's all great and then move on with your life.

>> No.58287606

>>58285168
lol autistic retard. stop being emotionally invested in your job.

>> No.58287630

>>58285743
>>58285717
>>58286724
I mean it’s retarded to stay at this position at this point, minimum as long as this boss is there you will move no where, worst case she filed shit with HR so every time you’re up for review you’re getting that flag reviewed and taken into account to stifle you.

Unless you have the money in the bank to say fuck you, it’s not a wise decision usually. Sucks but you essentially have to castrate your emotions in a modern workplace.

>> No.58287695

>>58285142
Now you literally have to go big or go home. You're already fucked, so double down, go over her head to her boss, and detail her incompetence and stress how much $$$ she cost the company. In this fucked up world doing this is more likely to work in your favor and land you her job rather than earnest hard work.

>> No.58287720

>>58285743
Well you have two options here:

Start CC'ing her direct boss in every email that you send her, showing that it's pure negligence on the retards part that ultimately costs your company time and money.

Or

File a sexual harassment complaint against her, citing that "she's making me come into the office 6x a week because I refused her advances once, but she still comes by to hit on me... it's making me very anxious to be forced to work in such proximity to her" (if they fire you, then you get to sue and you'll win)

>> No.58287916

>>58287720
>>Start CC'ing her direct boss in every email that you send her, showing that it's pure negligence on the retards part that ultimately costs your company time and money.
Her direct boss literally told me to my face to suck it up.
The sexual harassment thing is way too absurd.

>> No.58288139

>>58285717
>>58285743
>>58287916
>autistic retard in his first job is given every opportunity to learn from his mistakes and stop being an autistic retard but instead chooses to ignore all advice and double down on being retarded
Jobs, especially corporate jobs, are about politics first and your actual job second. This is your opportunity to learn some important lessons about how the world works.

Some people never learn this lesson. Unless you want to be the guy in his 50s complaining about how every job he's worked has treated him "unfairly" then learn your lessons now.

>> No.58288384

>>58285743
>he thinks waging is about being the best and brightest
I can undoubtedly say that you are a raging faggot and you boss is right about you, you little shit.
You get what you fucking deserve you faggot. Enjoy.

>> No.58288418

>>58283676
I was always excellent in math and hated English. In college I had this English teacher that was gay as fuck. Now you have to understand that I tolerate gay people but they're fucking disgusting to me, vile decrepit pieces of shit. I was smart enough to keep my mouth shut and go out of my way to be nice to this cat. I made an A. Anon sometimes in life you have to go against what you want in order to succeed. Play the game so to speak. Don't ever call your boss incompetent especially if she is BFF with the big boss. By doing what you did your nigger ass is truly the incompetent one. Think about your actions before you do stupid shit next time.

>> No.58288429

>>58287916
You have much to learn about the corporate world, my child. You can be two things in life. If you can't be smart, you've gotta be strong.

>> No.58288479

Just get a new job idiot

>> No.58288867

>>58283676
>Calling useless roaster boss an incompetent she really is
Based retard

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58291209

>>58285168

>getting this assmad about a company that is just renting your time

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58291593

>>58285142
>>58285168
Actually based

>> No.58291618

>>58283676
My supervisor and manager are dudes.

Only woman I have to deal with is in HR.

>> No.58291639

>>58284133
Ask them to invite you to a threee way.

>> No.58291683

>>58285168
I'd take it to HR. You've nothing to lose if you're thinking about leaving anyway. There are witnesses to you calling her incompetent. You didn't call her a cunt. (Or did you?) All of her actions are retaliatory and that (allegedly) is a big no no.

>> No.58291713

In the last 8 years all my bosses have been women and all of them were the most incompetent, diva retards I've ever seen in the workplace

>> No.58291721

The workplace isn't 4chins, you can't just go around calling people whatever you like. Your manager might very well be the most incompetent cunt on the planet, you don't go and tell her that though.
Terminally online zoomers are so fucked.

>> No.58291801

>>58285142
Hahahah I know exactly who you are OP. Small world heh. Try not to post your personal stories on here next time.

Reported :)

>> No.58291882

>>58283676
kill her, it's really that simple

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58292272

>>58291721
no they are real & honest which is based ya loser wagie

>> No.58293142

>>58291801
Kek. As if anyone in office is savvy enough to navigate anything other than facebook

>> No.58293289

>>58293142
Dude it's so obvious you're a 20yo white knight. You just learned a lesson. We're not in 1980 anymore. You acted out of rage because you lost control and men need the feel of control.

You really need to find an extra activity in which you can sense the feel of control : cam be golf, chess, running whatever and you focus on being better and better at it.

So when you're at work you're here to do 80% of the real job and collect the fake societal token ($) so you can enjoy your extra life and maybe if you earn enough and find a trad gf (almost impossible) and have a family.

That's scenario 1)

Scenario 2) you're a hyperactive dude and very ambitious and doesn't care about dying at 40yo then you go to the "entrepreneur" path : leave your job, fund your company and try and fail until you might (1%) have real success.

Scenario 3) the best one, you learn a lot about the corporate game and learn to use girls incompetence to your advantage so you can show leadership skills and it pumps you to a high position in your fagman job (no need to be good at the job you need to be desirable). I know some highly skilled engineers and they're basically mid-paid ants workers because they can't show leadership skills. This path is probably the best but given your current low EQ you might need 2-3 differents jobs and a solid 10 years to get there (it's normal tho).

Enjoy the process, it's all a game nothing is real

>> No.58293385

Also this is not the end for you if you don't fuck it up :
When I started my job this year a lazy cunt told me on the phone basically a stupid useless task (it showed she didn't know what I was doing) and I carefully saved what she asked me to do in details etc etc so I can eventually show to high managers how she fucked up. Then I sent here an email with extreme details where she fucked up and called here on the phone. Basically on the phone I told here she was stupid and she made us both lose time for nothing and told her to not fuck up with me again with useless tasks.
She was furious and immediately told all managers I was aggressive etc... But I didn't got any feedback.
Then after telling this to my gf she told me I should have handled it better but it was not over : I had to sent her an email glto explain I was sorry and my reaction was inappropriate then I had to call her and make an excuse.
I did that and it worked really really well. She's not my best friend now but she never ever asked me anything after that and actually some people in the management like me because I asked to work at some special hours so I can train for my triathlons and they agreed. I thanked my gf and nobody at work is fucking with me again to ask me extra hours etc ... (They ask others, the ones who never say anything)
Welcome to the jungle

>> No.58293388

>>58287695
>>58287720

This. Just don’t sperg out here. Be calm cool collected and analytical about this. Also bring in HR. Next job, go work at a startup. You’re more likely to find people who appreciate your directness. Regular corporate america is hell. The average person is so fucking retarded and egotistical.