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People here seem to be under the illusion that "making it" makes it easier to find a woman that really loves you / is worthy of marriage, and not harder.

>>58096283
>She became a crazy cat lady
LOL

>it’s yet another incel marriage thread

>>58096283
>ring bear

>>58096283
>>58096299
>>58096305
>>58096314

>It's another 4chan virgins think they have any right to judge a woman by their relationship status.

Maybe you guys should start looking at yourselve's first sweeties.

>>58096299
I thought I was under the illusion that marriage wasn't worth it as a modern man

>>58096283
i almost feel bad for her but she might be unironically (actually, as in literally) evil so

>>58096356
it is 100% worth it and the people saying it isnt are just bitter obese losers that live with mommy into their 40s.

>>58096283
>If i make it this year ill be 37
>Missed out on teenage love
>Everyone my age is walled
Whats even the point of being rich if its all already over?

>>58096402
this bitch looks 70 what the fuck

>>58096283
find a marriage worthy GF when you're poor.

>>58096341

isn't your favorite insult "incel"? Lol fuck off

>>58096413
I was just memeing lolz I too am a chud

>>58096396
Every time I see someone argue for marriage in these threads it's this same emotionally charged statement in one of a few flavors. I just don't see it benefitting me as a man and I'm an optimist.

>potential for divorce rape (this doesn't go both ways as the likely case is your earning/earning potential is higher than her)
>having to live with a girl all day, including the times when she's just being annoying
>I have 3 married friends and I've seen the life drained out of each of them these last few years

And in my case my parents were divorced so not only am I statistically more likely to get divorced, but I've seen the consequences myself

>>58096440

The final blackpill for me was realizing that a lot of the guys who insisted to me they had a happy long marriage were actually lying to themselves and to me and were clearly worn down from dealing with being contractually tied to a naggy, ridiculous woman

I know it sounds satirical but the only way these long term cohabitative partnerships really work is if you keep them in check. They will drain your soul otherwise.

>>58096402
Honestly go out with someone for a few months and realize how much of a pain in the ass it is really. Yeah they're not going to be as hot as a younger girl(by the way you're able to date much younger at 37), but it's all the same game. Then break up with her with a renewed appreciation for your freedom and make a big cash stack and some friends to keep you safe when you're older; it's not a perfect gambit but gambling on raising a whole goddamn kid who may just fuck off anyway is a worse one.

>>58096341
Anita, time is ticking. Your eggs are dissappearing like sand between your fingers. Future possibilities are closing to you. Do you understand?

>>58096464
Absolutely right brother. I used to be incredibly tolerant to compromise and going with the flow, and my ex completely ripped that out of me. You're not wrong saying the only way to do it is keep them in line. I used to think my uncle was an asshole for how much he annoyed my aunt/his wife but now I'm realizing they still love each other and he's the happiest, most vivacious guy in my extended family. He had it all right.

>>58096283
You have no shot at getting a SEA gf without getting gold digged and that's fine anon. They might be just after your money, they might want to spend it all on ridiculous clothes and perfumes, they might look like 5'1 macaques with an awful language, but they'll cook for you and clean after you. Just like poet Sam Hyde says:

"Get yourself an ugly hoe."

Why this board it's so obsessed with marriage? Have you ever been with a woman before? Is not such a big deal.

>inb4 lol u gay

I'm simply questioning why there's such an idealization of marriage here.

>>58096508

Yep. I'm past that point now. When women bitched and complained at me I would listen, until I realized there is no end to that and it's mostly idle. Now I do what I know is right and let them complain to the wall and things operate more harmoniously. Women literally complain and nag for fun and the only way to get them to lay off of you personally is to make sure they know it's going to be a tedious battle if they try.

>>58096542

Starting a family is core to the human existence, not that weird. We're currently in a relationship/family crisis as a society.

>women rather marry thin air over an incel

Women are women. They don't suddenly drop all their hard wired instincts because they are a bug in asia..

>>58096542
almost like God put men and women on earth for a purpose

>>58096283
>1.106 vind-ik-leuks

You don’t need a woman to be happy guys. It starts in yourself. If you aren’t happy alone, dragging a hole in won’t repair you. At least start there.

>>58096440
>>58096283

If you are truly trad you understand the need for marriage in a healthy nuclear family.
I know everyone here thinks the opposite but marriage laws are actually fair in a traditional sense.
If you want your wife to be trad and stay at home she is giving up the opportunity to make her own money to take care of the house and kids. A man needs to commit to providing resources for her as she provides care for the house.

Man = Provides Resources
Woman = Provides Care

It would be like you joining the military. You are giving up your earning potential in return if/when you leave you get provided for (va hospital, loans etc.).

I mean even if my wife left me to go fuck tyrone I would still provide for my kids. Its clear most of you just want to be a king without having to do the work that earns you the title but you literally have zero qualifications (broke, unassertive, weak, quite). I dont blame woman for thinking you limp wristed semen encrusted boys are not a good genetic pick for their progeny.

>>58096402
>Missed out on teenage love
One of the more retarded 4chan memes. I had teenage love more than once. It is a wilder emotional rollercoaster, but not that different from love you find later on.
Biggest gain you get from it (unless you marry your highschool sweetheart) is practice with talking to girls, but you can learn that later in life.

>>58096283
>without going to SEA
Yellow fever is a legitimate illness. I'm a victim

>>58096959

You don't need a state marriage contract for that though. You can get together, have kids, be committed to supporting them whether you're together or not. And don't worry, child support court will make sure you're supporting her AND the kids should you split.

You don't need marriage bs and the 50% division of resources to be 1. committed to your family and 2. on the hook for support. It's overkill. And women aren't helpless housewives anymore, they have tons of wherewithal with jobs and even welfare.

Any women loyal enough already found her partner in her early 20s. Unless that partner was a total fucktard or literally died, she would have stayed with him.

Any women smart enough already has a good career and doesn't need you for your money anyways.

Honestly it's a losing proposition. I give up at this point. I've accepted dying alone, and it is fine with me.

>>58096402
My mates worth 9 figs circa 37 get top tier young hole on seeking arrangement and socializing. Threesomes foursomes the works.They'll settle down with girls 15 years younger eventually. Stop being a faggot.

>>58097082
Because /pol/ perpetuated a semi-meme that all the good women were taken in their teens and early 20s and anything leftover is barely worth the effort. They're not entirely wrong, a lot of the catches were caught early on by superior men or boys in the process of becoming men. There's some holdouts still out there after your mid-20s but their numbers are so small that it's a needle in a haystack. Most anons understandably don't care to settle for leftovers but also don't see the effort of finding "the one" to be worth it.

>>58096337
>he doesn’t have a trained bear as his ring bearer
NGMI

>>58096402
I’m 37 but I look 25
I never tell women my age how old I am because of their reactions