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Hello everyone, my name is Temirlan and I am from Kazakhstan. For the last 3 years I have been living with thoughts of suicide, due to the fact that I lost many people close to me (brother, father and mother in an accident 3 years ago and a girlfriend a year earlier). At first, I was held back by the thought that I wanted to help my close sister and did not want her to grieve even more. I had large debts, over $9,000, left over from my parents, so it was a difficult period for me. And now I’m already at rock bottom and on the verge of suicide, I think about it every day and try to think positively, because I still have a little sister. But I am still under pressure from the guardianship authorities due to the fact that our living conditions are poor; if this happens, I will definitely fold my arms and give up. I hope for your support, if there is work, I am ready to work. Give me advice on where I can invest my last $50. Maybe I can get out of this if I invest it correctly.
my telegram: @swuter

>> No.58033745

>>58033684
cool, enjoy your ban and we'll see you again tomorrow night

>> No.58033763

>>58033745
for what? I don't beg for money

>> No.58033874

Go back to Islam, бpaт

>> No.58033910

>>58033874
I believe in God, but God does not always see the suffering of others and he does not always help

>> No.58033961

>>58033684
Brother has a stone struck you on the head and made you forget the teachings of Allah? Under great times of misfortune, a little sister's sphincter can provide comfort and prosperity. You now know what needs to be done. ALLAHU AKBAR PBUH

>> No.58033996

>>58033961
What's wrong with you man? It seems like I didn’t do anything wrong towards you, I’m just asking for advice on the forum

>> No.58034042

>>58033684
Allah does not give to those who quit on the life he has granted them. Invest in kneepads brother and his mercy may save you inshallah.

>> No.58034188

>>58034042
I honestly don’t know anymore, every day I bend over backwards so that we don’t just die of hunger and I live with the thought of how to live tomorrow. If he existed, he would have given us such suffering and so much pain now, these are problems with money that I really cannot solve on my own and I don’t even see a way out of all this

>> No.58034356

>>58034188
Buy a Bus Ticket, go to Russia and volunteer to fight in Ukraine.
Thats probably the fastest and easiest way for you to make money.

>> No.58034599

>>58034356
I thought about it, but I have no one to leave my little sister with. The conditions in orphanages are terrible and there were often cases of rape and death, because of this I am very worried that the guardianship authorities will take her away from me. There have already been a couple of warnings that it is necessary to improve living conditions, but I simply do not have the funds for this

>> No.58034790

>>58034599
how old is she?

>> No.58034832

>>58034790
9 years old

>> No.58034839

>>58034832
She can live with me. No problem bro

>> No.58034840

>>58033684
Kill yourself faggot. No one here has it easy.

>> No.58034853

>>58034832
and you literally have no other relatives?
no uncles no aunts?
no grandma etc.?

>> No.58034864

>>58034853
See:
>>58034839

I already provided a solution to his problem. He needs to stop complaining when the answer is right in front of him

>> No.58034911

>>58034853
We have few relatives, and all of them have long refused to help us when I asked them for help, just like friends. Although we helped all of them when they needed it as best we could

>> No.58034941

>>58034911
thoughts about pimping her out to this guy >>58034864 ?

>> No.58035008

>>58034941
I'm afraid but it's worth a try, maybe he's a good person. I just have no other options

>> No.58035024

>>58033684

Please don't kill yourself. The fact that you have enough brainpower to contemplate suicide means that the world would probably be worse off without you.

>> No.58035061

>>58034839
Can you dm?

>> No.58035069

>>58035024
Thank you very much for your support, it really means a lot to me

>> No.58035184

Have you checked websites like weremote, and similars maybe?

>> No.58035218

>>58035184
Yes, I looked at many types of work, but I don’t have a laptop/computer. I sold everything a long time ago to cover part of the debt and am currently on my phone. I work as a cashier during the day and as a courier at night, I only have enough money for food and housing

>> No.58035633

>>58033684
don't have a bankruptcy sort of thing there?

>> No.58035672

>>58035633
Unfortunately, I can’t do that, otherwise my parental rights will be taken away immediately, and so will my sister. I'm in a difficult situation

>> No.58035704

>>58033684
$50 can buy you a good pair of kneepads. are you actually willing to work or just complaining?

>> No.58035727

>>58035704
I actually work two jobs (as a cashier during the day and as a courier at night), and in between jobs I take care of my little sister.

>> No.58036108

>>58035672
if you are in danger could maybe try getting asylum, but idk don't really have any other ideas

>> No.58037427

>>58036108
Unfortunately, they will think that I just don’t want to pay the loan and are unlikely to help

>> No.58038183

Honestly, I don’t even know how to get out of this situation. I’ve already gone through all the options and now all I can do is hope for a miracle, because right now I’m ready to fold my arms and give up

>> No.58038197

>>58038183
do it pussy

>> No.58038211

Just sent 50 LINK good luck fren :)

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58038273

>>58033684
do a flip faggot

>> No.58038306

whatever solution there is to ur financial problem it wont happen overnight or very soon. the best investment u can make right now is anything to keep ur spirits up and to give u the confidence to keep pursuing. dont kill urself. dont stop trying. keep seeking. good luck. inshallah

>> No.58038313

and if u are gonna gamble with ur money learn and practice bankroll management over anything

>> No.58038333

>>58038313
I never bet, it's not the best use of money in my situation

>> No.58038337

>>58033684
Fuck off you fucking stupid cunt.

>> No.58038350

>>58038211
I don't understand what you mean

>> No.58038700
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58038700

invest those 50 bucks in kneepads. You'll very easily x69 that money in a short time

>> No.58039098

>>58038700
Not funny

>> No.58039205

>>58033684
How old/tall are you?
Are you physically capable/in shape or overweight/underweight?
Have you competed in combat sports or done any other sport at a high level?
Where do you live in Kazakhstan?
Do you have military training?
What level of education do you possess?
Do you have any work experience outside of being a cashier/courier?
Are you not eligible for social assistance?
https://egov.kz/cms/en/articles/social_help
How many languages do you speak?
How good is your english?
How good were your grades, any subjects you were great/amazing at?
Have you tried reaching out to charity?
https://dara.kz/about/
https://www.avsi.org/en/what-we-do/countries/kazakhstan
Do you have a budget?
Do you have any history of substance abuse/encounters with the law?
Are there any jobs near you that offer on the job training?
Do you have a drivers license?
Does either of your current places of employment offer promotions?
Is your sister in school, is she doing well?
Do you have access to a public library near you?

If you want us to give you advice, we need more information about you.

Don't invest the remaining 50$ into stocks/crypto whatever. Invest that into yourself:

- Buy a gym membership, get big and eventually start coaching other people.
Or maybe you can work out a deal with the gym owner where you help him/her clean the gym instead of paying the membership cost.
- Buy a shitty laptop and start doing something with it. Maybe learn to program?
- Become a security guard, or join the police/military. (if that pays more than what you are currently doing)
https://unjobs.asia/jobs/un-jobs-security-guard-kazakhstan-2023/
https://almaz-security.kz/en/
https://www.kmg-s.kz/eng/karyera/podgotovka_sotrudnikov/

Don't become a criminal. It is not worth it. You'll either end up dead or in jail. Maybe if you get lucky you can get out with your life. But only few can do that.

>> No.58039586

>>58039205
I am 23 years old, 176 cm, 76 kg, I have an athletic build. I used to play basketball and box, but I didn’t graduate from university with a degree in Computer Science because I had to leave to work, look after my sister, and pay off loans. I know 3 languages: English, Russian and Kazakhstan. I have no problems with the law or am not registered anywhere. Life is just such a thing that it broke me with all these losses and at the moment I am fighting for survival with my sister. Of course, I’m trying and looking for a better job, but so far cashier and courier are the most optimal jobs for my schedule (sleeping, cooking, washing, looking after my sister)

>> No.58039773

I remember you posted a while ago. You are one of the strongest people I know.
Do not kill yourself, your sister needs you.

Here's a tip, seeing as you speak English, look into trying to get into Canada. As it happens, the border is essentially wide open. See if you can talk to the consulate or something, embellish your story if you must to make it seem as if you and your sister's lives are in imminent danger.

Same with the US, it's even easier. Literally just fly to Mexico (not sure how you'd get the money for this, to be fair), and walk through the border. NGOs will give you whatever you need. You don't seem like a parasite at all, which is why I'm advocating for illegal immigration in this particular circumstance.
Perhaps try Russia if you haven't already. I imagine the pay is probably better with regards to menial work, so if nothing else you could survive for the time being, or even start saving up for a ticket the fuck out.

Never lose hope. Do NOT kys. Your sister depends upon you, and one day she'll realize how much you've done for her.

>> No.58039911

>>58033684
Good luck Temirlan.
I wish you all the best.
Don't give up

>> No.58040013

What a miserable country and existence.
>>58038333
You're asking for a long shot bet, there's nothing else that 50 dollars could do.
In your position I'd leave the country.
At a minimum I'd leave the property where government goons know where to take my sister.
I spent a year on the run when I was 16 and lived with a guy who was on the run from child services with his little brother. We stole from supermarkets and I worked a fast food job casually where I overcharged each customer 1 dollar on any order over 20, kept track of it and pulled the difference out of the till before my shift ended.
I landed back with family after that.
Do you literally have no one else? No grand parents, family friends etc?

>> No.58041180

>>58039911
Thank you for your support, it is very important to me honestly

>> No.58041417

>>58040013
shits like you are the reason I use cards nowadays

>> No.58041758

>>58033684

This thread is pure glownigger bait of the highest order.

>> No.58042479

>>58041758
You can call me or dm any time for proof

>> No.58042884

>>58041758
Asking where to invest is glownigger bait? How?

>> No.58043343

>>58042884
I didn't understand him either

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58044350

>>58039586
Honestly, I don't think there's a future for you in kazakhstan.

As the other anons have said:
>>58039773
>>58040013

Your best bet is to research the migration policies of countries that are most likely to accept you (USA/Canada/Australia/...).

In the meantime:
Have you tried contacting a helpline?
https://findahelpline.com/countries/kz
How much are you paying for rent?
Are there any jobs near you where you could leverage your language skills?
Do you have coworkers that could help you out?
Are you religious?
Could you reach out to your local church/mosque?
Did you try reaching out to law schools?
https://www.kimep.kz/school-of-law/en/legal-clinic/
Did you try negotiating rent with your landlord?
Did you not find any government assistance program you could apply for?

Don't neglect your physical health, go to the gym, if you cannot afford that go running.

I believe in you. Don't give up fren. There's more to this life than the hardships you are facing now.