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I do this
I just browse 4 cham 24/7

>>57964172
oh yeah this is so smart to spend all of your time looking at 4 chan because you have nothing better to do with your life i bet you're probably poor and live with your mom and never had a real job you're a degenerate like the rest of us hoba token is the only reason your parents even love you

>>57964203
oh yeah this is so smart to spend all of your time looking at 4 chan because you have nothing better to do with your life you probably live with your mom never had a real job and are a degenerate like the rest of us honey badger makes my dick bigger bigger than your pathetic little peen and my token is literally the only reason your parents even love you or else they would have aborted your ass the second they saw your tiny penis in the womb

>>57964160
i tried living alone and found the same thing. I get self destructive and drink all day or do drugs or masturbate.

and really, why would you want to? you should be finding a girl you like to be around. Ive never met a single guy i want to be like. the better i got to know them, the more i pitied them.

>>57964241
i'm gay sadly. it seems like it'd be fun and worthwhile to date a girl

>>57964324
you have ass worms that make you gay

>>57964160
>I need to go to the office to be a functioning human being
The absolute state of wagies. And this isn't just OP, I see this type of argument everywhere. These people have no friends or social activities outside of their workplace. Go ahead and quit, move to a company that enforces RTO, make room for normal people who don't lile the thrill of commuting and being under office lights 9 hours a day.

>>57964160
I've been doing this since 2015. you need two things: routine and a social life, otherwise the loneliness gets to you.

>>57964160
Get a roommate. It saves money too. Also, if you're cutting yourself shaving, you should consider waxing or shave powder.

>op
>faggot
real

>>57964160
>>57964324
Being socially isolated is miserable. The NEET boys who brag about doing nothing all day are always miserable without exception and their only flex is "haha you have to be uncomfortable for 8 hours while I'm not!"

We need human interaction to be healthy. We also need struggle and some discomfort. Happy people have a structured schedule, socialization, and constant "good struggles" that they overcome. By good struggles I mean something that you struggle with and overcome to improve, like going to the gym, getting better at a hobby, etc.

When I go to work I dislike it. I don't like waking up early. My job usually isn't fun, I'd much rather be playing WoW at my house. But I do it every day. Then when I get home I chill and it feels so good. If I just stayed home all day and played wow I'd be so depressed.

Get friends, get an in person job, and start dating my fellow faggot

>>57965732
most people dont have good struggles though. they have shit struggles that age you prematurely fuck up your health and leave you bitter

If you do it for too long and have no active social life you become too disconnected from society and if you attempt to re-join it, even something as simple as going for a drink, you come across as a weirdo, obviously socially inept, and people will avoid you.

>>57965732
everything is true except for the socialization bit. you disgust me. people like you who believe they need to be around other people outside of work are degenerates or completely lost and soulless.

>>57965732
I like living alone, I just don't like interacting too much. At work it can be fucking annoying with some idiots.

>>57965860
Humans are social creatures. And it’s a skill that you can definitely lose if you don’t practice it. That being said I think if every single human on earth vanished I wouldn’t get “lonely”, solitude is very nice. I seek it constantly

>>57965860
Being disgusted by people who see socialization as necessary for the human psyche is not at all normal. You may have a-social personality disorder.

>>57965732
Slave mentality. Being retired does not mean you automatically abandon all social relationships or abandon your hobbies. If you can’t fill your day with meaningful things to do and find your own struggles to overcome unless you are forced to slave away for 8 hours a day, then that is a (you) problem

bunch of retard normie advice working from home is nice i've done it for like 4 years now
some tips
>morning routine really important
>wake up at a specific time/have coffee and read/go on a morning walk every morning
Following just that makes an insane difference, morning walk in particular you need to get sunlight and go out atleast once a day or you'll get wild.
Other stuff
>Cook/clean during work so you have free time after work
>you can take naps and shit just learn how stuff works and you can keep your slack or w/e online
>Get hobbies/things you can do throughout the day, things you can practice
Things that work well for that are things like learning japanese, reading/manga, learning/practicing an instrument

and make sure you have non-computer stuff to do after work you dont want to just sit at the same desk all day

"working" from home makes me really depressed sometimes but desu I dont have a good alternative

>>57965860
Wow dude your sooo unique and 4chan dude. You don't need heckin NO ONE!

Most people aren't edgelords like you and require socializing of some sort. And when I say socialize I mean being around other people like your kids, your partner, your friend, whomever. We all need a support system, people to laugh with, to share with. Also people are like mirrors to your own personality. That is, you won't know your smart or funny or anything else about yourself if you don't interact with people. Socialize doesn't mean going to clubs after work, it means having a family and friends you can talk to.

>>57965921
I'm sure you do, but I'm also sure there's a part of you that wants a relationship or to be with friends sometimes. Being totally isolated is mentally exhausting, it's the reason why solitary confinement is now being considered inhumane. We are hardwired for interaction.

>>57966181
Nigger tier reading comprehension, it's like you just blocked half the post with your fat nigger thumb and read it. I never said you have to work, but you do have to do SOMETHING productive or stimulating. Sitting around watching anime and playing video games all day is super comfy and also a guaranteed recipe for depression. If you need proof of that spend a day on /r9k/.

>>57964160
it helps to have goals
I have a journal where I write down my weeks goals and award myself points for each one.
if at the end of the month I have 90% of my points or more, I feel like I'm on the right track
Depression comes from inaction so force yourself do to shit as soon as the day starts and you'll be on the right track
my cheat code is getting up at 4:30 in the morning, taking a shit and going straight to the gym. I walk there and listen to a nice book on tape which I look forward to.
I'm back by 7:30am and every 2 days I do a load of laundry.
I immediately have a shower, have a protein shake, and then sit down to do some work.
at noon I have a meal (I premake all my meals on saturday/sunday for the week).
after work I schedule reading time (no screens). I'm finishing "walden" right now, but also some technical texts.
In bed before 10 (no screens), asleep before 10:30. Sometimes I listen to another book on tape to drift off.
saturdays are my cheat day where I sleep in (usually I wake up by 7 since my body is used to 4:30)
I'll order a nice breakfast from a chicken and waffles place and then take a walk to digest it. soemtimes I'll go watch a movie or go for a bike ride.
Sundays is prep for the next week and another gym day but I don't wake up at 4:30 so I usually go to the gym around noon.
This is also a day I use to advance projects I'm trying to get off the ground.
a lot of this sounds like a ton of work but once you get into the swing of it, it's actually harder to not do.

Im on the same boat. Can someone please enlight me how exactly I get to know new friends from scratch? My past social circles from school and university are dried as fuck, I barely see them anymore. This is a cry for help.

>>57967149
I interact plenty of times with my family and people I work with, people I share a common goal with (that's outside online discussions such as this one, which in my opinion is still a valid interaction)
interacting with your family is normal and there's nothing you have to do, it just happens naturally so you don't have to "socialize"
and I don't think it's a need either just respect or politeness

as for "friends", that's the problem I was highlighting

>>57965732
>gay
>plays WoW

You main druid don’t you?

>>57964160
I own a blog which I'm monetizing via Adsense and Hydro Online, and I'm also thinking of quitting my 9-5 to focus on working from home.
Seeing this, I think I'll continue with my 9-5

>>57967313
I WFH alone. Find yourself a bar to go to twice a week instead of drinking at home. Have a meal out in a restaurant once a week instead of delivery. Force yourself to leave the apartment once a week for an activity. Go somewhere nice on your free days, don't stay in.

>>57967493
Oh and keep your place and yourself clean. Really clean and tidy.

>>57967426
No, that's for trannies. Gays main a paladin

>>57964324
>fun and worthwhile to date a girl
Lol. Lmao even. It's such a pain in the ass and timesink to find one who isn't mentally a child. Seriously, they reason luke gradeschool children. Instead, you should start attending classes of a go9d combat martial art. Sonething classical like kung fu. It will get you out and force you to improve.

>>57967492
I'm also thinking of using Hydro Online since it won't need me to display ads

go hit the gym kid

>>57965732
I was about equally depressed when I had a job.

I crave social connection but when I actually put myself in social situations I hate it.

>>57964160
>I can't handle wfh AHHHHHHHH GLOWIE FEDERAL MAN SAVE MEEEEEE
It's amazing how coombrains and addicts are so fucked they can't comprehend anyone else isn't as big of a loser as they are. I'm not going back to the office.

>>57965352
If you're actually friends with your roommate then maybe. I shared an apartment with random people and it was hell. I stayed in my room all the time to avoid seeing them.

WeWork is only $20/day in my city. Still nobody uses it.

>>57965732
Dude you are the biggest fucking loser on the planet. I would want to kill myself if I played WoW, regardless of having a job or not.

>>57968354
If you play any game you are basically a gigaloser. If you are bored just walk away from the screen and go outside ( do something real)

>>57968449
>dude just go outside
>the outside

>>57964160
Keep your WFH job dont lose that. If you want to meet someone. Go to the gym or go outside and do a hobby. Dont succumb to driving to another location to work. Your skillset and value is not where you will be but YOU.

>>57965732
>We need human interaction to be healthy.
we need human interaction with people want to interact with. walking on eggshells and pretending to be a wokie at work isn't healthy human interaction

>wife gone for two days for work
>take a massive dose of edibles and binge 4k calories of fried chicken, french fries, and chocolate, masturbating three times, and watching reruns of the office

I was looking forward to this for weeks and I'm 12 hours in and feel like complete shit and am ready for her to be home. I think it's important to have a partner even though they're annoying sometimes because they push you to be better and you try to live better not for yourself but because you want to see your partner succeed too.

>>57964241
>>57964160
>I have no self-control
>should I learn some? No I should find a substitute for mom (wife) and a substitute for dad (boss) and just do what I'm told
Haha you normies are so funny

>>57965732
Pure reddit cope, and I don't use the reddit meme. Genuinely, your post is devoid of all empathy and ability to reason that some people don't function well in the typical social structure, and why they find themselves on this website. I absolutely love being at home and socially isolated. I will never waste 8-12 hours in the workplace or at school every again. I will never have to constantly fake social interaction, hide any of my true feelings about liberalism or how it kills me inside to have to listen to others be so painfully bigoted and wrong about shit like racial issues they project in me by merely existing nearly every day. I will never have to dress for others or listen to their commentary down to the way I walk or be constantly forced to entertain mundane conversation or meet ups. My time is my own to do what I enjoy. Literally anything a normie does is miserable to me.

>tfw spent last week getting drunk every day from waking up to passing out again hoping that no one at work notices that i'm not really doing anything

I should probably get a healthy hobby and girlfriend and all that but whenever I try that I notice that I don't really like people.

>>57964241
>just get a gf bro
Thanks for the advice, mom.

>>57969273
legit this would be me without the ADHD meds (muh stimulants) so thank you for the reminder

>>57969466
I do lack empathy for you. I don't enjoy those things either but I do them to fulfill my end of the social contract. If you can't interact with someone without sperging out about politics or have a twenty second conversation about the weather I'd treat you like I would any other mentally handicapped person unable to do the job, unless your work was of a high quality which it never is with these types of people even though they think it is in their mind. Because if they were that smart they'd be able to fake social interaction with their coworkers.

>>57970335
>If you can't interact with someone without sperging out about politics
Yes that would be 90% of the liberal cunts you're forced to meet in an office.

>>57969838
Anon your mom wants what's best for you

>>57967493
>all of his advice revolves around drinking alcohol and buying overpriced fatty food

Yep, you're single

>>57969327
that's the way she goes

>>57965732
Kys stupid wagecuck. I am a wagie and was infinity happier as a NEET. The only reason i wage is to be permanent NEET in the future. You disgusting redditfag.

>>57968272
Damn man. Usually I get along well with people. Maybe I just have good luck.

>>57970606
I drink rarely and never eat fatty food. Why have I been single for 5 years?

>>57965133
sounds like youve never set goals and projects in your life lol

>>57964172
whats 4 cham

>>57967149
>Being totally isolated is mentally exhausting
for you. I, and lots of others here, enjoy it.

>>57964160
>Not succumbing to my most retarded desires
I feel you, something I want to swap my BTCFi and BRC20 coins with satoshisync to shitcoins just for the adrenaline
I'm a threat to my own financial security

>>57967274
based

stay strong anon, you haven't given up yet, you're still here standing strong
you can do it
trust your gut, trust your instincts, get up and live your own life by your own terms, its a slow process, its like a new coin, it doesn't start high, but low as it slowly but surely rises (MUMU plz do the same i need the money), there's up and downs and when you're at your lowest you can only rise

trust yourself, believe in yourself, believe in the me that believes in you OP

>>57964172
(formerly 4 chammel)

>>57964241
Is living alone preferable to living with parents though.
>33 and KHV, never dated because mom and dad's bedroom is right next to mine, don't earn enough to move out.

>>57965732
This is true, it’s why people were actually killing themselves during lockdowns. But for many people the 8+ hrs in an office plus commute time is way too much. Get some hobbies, go to the gym, volunteer at an animal shelter or something once/week and that’s more than enough for many introverts, even single ones who live alone. Being over socialized is just as bad as under socialized and that threshold is different for everyone. This applies to work as well, some people are very suited for wfh and some can’t do it at all. I don’t hate or disrespect people who need to be in an office setting to work but I sure do hate the ones who disrespect me by saying I have to.

>>57964160
>is it possible to enjoy life like this?
I wish it was me

>>57964324
I agree with this faggot.
>no homo

>>57976278
Story to bitch about these people. I was hired in person in 2016 and moved a state away during lockdowns and was given a remote contract. One PM was always extremely salty about remote work, she’d gush about how awesome it felt to send a big deliverable and high five everyone and we’ve lost all that “magic” with wfh. Last winter we had a huge deliverable coming up and she told the team they had to be in the office every day of that week and no one leaves Friday until the last person is finished. For me this would entail
>5 hrs driving up Monday morning (not company paid because it’s not a responsibility in my contract)
>paying for a hotel for 4 nights (not company paid because it’s not a responsibility in my contract)
>driving in and paying for parking every day (not company paid because it’s not a responsibility in my contract)
>setting up and breaking down at a “hotel” desk every day
>deal with the obligatory “wow anon it’s been so long, what are you up to?” Minimum of 2 hrs every time I come down, in addition to all the other bullshit socializing
>distracted all day by people talking, chewing, laughing, the zoomer who takes a 30 min bathroom break every hour and slams the door etc
>twiddle my dick all day Friday because I’d be done Thurs but still have to wait for the last fucking guy to finish around 10pm
>get rewarded with some shitty cold pizza
>can’t even have a beer because I need to drive 5 hrs home
When I told the PM no I was met with the most unprofessional behavior I’ve ever experienced. Name calling, gaslighting, yelling, I thought she might cry at one point? But after a conversation with my (male) boss I never have to work with her again kek

Thanks for reading my blog, I got an email from her today and it reminded me of this bullshit

If you need, of all the things, the social kabuki theater of corporate america to keep you from jumping off a bridge I really don't know what to tell you guys.

I understand not everyone is built to be an introvert, but I can honestly go weeks or maybe even months without any social contact. Society always drags me back in regardless.

I love how extroverts consider anyone quieter than them a literal basket case shut in and then all of a sudden we have to WFH and people are acting like they're in alcatraz. Do a little introspection