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>>56805608
>love letter
I hope you didn't include your name.

>>56805608
please dont be real

>>56805636
I mean we were in the same class, and I gave it to her. I feel so cringe now.

Man, I remember being in college and hopelessly in love. Then I grew up and now I can't imagine having to live with a human woman. I can't wait for a wA.I.fu, though

lol. as long as you learn something it's all goood fren. life is all about mistakes after all.

All women care about is how able you seem to be able to take care of them. If a girl doesnt want you its because you seem very incapable of taking care of her sexually, emotionally, and/or physically. If you want girls to like you you have to project this quality. Simple as

>>56805608
Don't give up anon
Another girl (the one) will find it romantic and flattering

>>56805608
Share it bro

>>56805647
Best you can hope for is that she won't share it with all of her friends. Dropping class seems a little excessive, but without seeing the letter I can't say for sure. How bad was it? To answer your question you can profit from this by learning to never do it again and instead just ask the girl out.

>>56805665
>>56805660
Thanks anon

>>56805663
something to consider I guess.

>>56805669
>>56805683
It wasn't stalker-ish or anything just talked about how seeing her would brighten up my day and that I'd like to get to know her, other cheesy stuff you'd find in a typical love song. I didn't think it would make her feel uncomfortable, wasn't my intention.

i might expect that from a 14 year old, but in college..??

im sorry anon, its over

>>56805702
Sounds like she was overreacting (which is typical). I wouldn't read too much into how women react to things or you'll drive yourself crazy (like them).

>>56805702
How many hours after the most recent of multiple forcible sodomies was that? Was it 10,000?

>>56805642
Please be real. OP is a hero in my eyes. Never back down, You will have no regrets.
Fuck the dumb bitch, you are the main character in your life, that girl is some npc.

Keep having this go getter attitude and you will be ahead of 99% of your fellow zoomers and aooomers. They wish they had the 1% of your courage.

>>56805608
You made me smile, OP. There's positivity in you're failure.

>>56805783
If OP didnt want to back down, he would have just asked the girl out then and there, but he pussy footed around with some faggy "letter" and this is why she got the ick

>>56805736
Yeah I did this at 15. In college most girls just want to ride the carousel. “Love letters” will get you a rape accusation lmao.

>>56805608
Hopefully this will make you feel better OP.

When I was in college I tried picking up girls using my acoustic guitar- except I couldn't sing an play at the same time.
So in order to woo this girl I sat next to in my class, I made I song in Audacity using the guitar and my laptop mic the night before class.
After class ended, I showed it to her and told her to put an earbud in.
Of course it didn't work, and she was so scared hearing the song she hid behind her friends and they all gave me shameful expressions that I'll remember forever.
I went home and immediately downed a cheap bottle of honey jack daniels listening to linkin park. I never showed up to class again.

Every young man does cringe shit in the pursuit of pussy anon. Don’t beat yourself up, learn from it and move on. Don’t give a woman any more than you’re receiving from her attention/effort wise for the most part. You gotta typically jestermaxx some unfortunately because the dating market is so fucked these days but don’t go writing love letters for some chick you aren’t even dating.

>>56805608
There's this cute femboy in one of classes, I want to tell him he's a cutie

>>56805839
by this logic...
he wouldve proposed marriage on the spot
nay, he wouldve simply taken by force the fair maiden

seriously though just think love letters were a real legitimate thing 4-5 generations ago, they were enough to generate scandals

>>56805663
mhm yes that's why they autolubricate prior to rape, yes

>>56805608
stop writing love letter you fucking incel

are you fucking kiddng? it's 2023 not 1920

You don't look romantic, you look creepy. anything taking longer than a few minutes of your time for someone you didn't have any interaction with means you are a stalker thinking about these people. Even if you are crazy in love ( which can't be because you need to get to know a person to be in love, we are not living in a fucking cheap movie) you shouldn't show it right away...

>>56805967
ESLbro, what if... just what if, love isn't real?
what if every prior civilization considered love irrelevant to marriage for some reason?

>>56805608
Bro, pretty girls are everywhere. Autistic retards are not. You’re the prize not her.

>>56805967
Cringe and last man pilled
>>56805996
Based

>>56805702
Good for you. You will only regret the chances you don't take. If it works out, great. If it doesn't then you know you can take bold steps in the future and are able to try and make something work with a person you like.

>>56805884
Cringe shit is what men do for LOVE. Most guys can get pussy, even incels. I knew a guy who was the archetypical incel, he had fat chicks and a girl with eyes too far apart trying to bang him. If you asked him he'd agree that he was incel but I think it's mostly a mismatch of expectations.

>>56805860
Again bro huge props. Did you die after being rejected? Nope, it made you stronger. You know you can overcome even greater fears in the future after overcoming that.

>>56805608
Jesus Christ what have you done, well, it's not the end of your life, just learn from your mistakes, you're better telling all those things to the girl in person, with the calmest and most relaxed expression, and with all honesty, that's how I managed to take my ex out, she broke up with me after 5 years cuz I spent 40k on IQT instead of an engagement ring tho KEK

>>56806048
Based advise except for the last part, that's highly unfortunate anon

>>56806029
I'm glad to see more retards with this mentality

>>56806048
I took the risk like the idiot I am and now I'm waiting for a baby next month I didn't think I was gonna get this far

>>56806048
Did you hint you were gonna ask her to marry you? If so, you're a jerk

>>56805996
the unexplained extraordinary rise in autism incidence would like a word with you
whatever it is it's not male genetics or it wouldve been perfectly eliminated before it ever began

>>56805608
Love letters can be nice, if they aren´t corny. I recommend dabbing into Bocage, there ought to be english translations of that absolute madmen.

>>56806041
im bout to ask out the cute barista should i just not give a fuck and ask her straight up in front of everybody (pretty busy time in the usual time i get coffee)
or find a time when it is less busy so it will increase my chances of a yes?

>>56807138
How do you know she actually likes you you know they need to be special to everyone right, i am not saying don't do it but if you are like friends and you have talked a little then there may be a chance but if you barely know her you will creep her, do it after talking to her a little bit

>>56807205
Yeah I don't, when you say talk to her bit does that mean build small talk and get to first name basis to increase chances?

>>56807138
Keep it short and sweet and remember thats its nbd either way and you cant go wrong regardless of the outcome. Dont get analysis paralysis. You dont even know if someone youve been dating for a few months is even worth the time, let alone someone youve only met in passing. Scheming for a certain outcome is the source of failure. Become outcome independent by finding your success in the process itself, rather than the results. The results you want will appear eventually as long as you dont quit.

>>56807228
>>56807205
This is bad advice imo. The women I've dated including my wife knew my intent from our first real one-on-one interaction.
>Im not interested in being your friend, I'm a potential romantic partner, the best you'll ever have actually, so play your cards right, here are mine
Thats the idea, expressed subtly without forcing it. Theres no play by play because everyone is different. Even if you're good you'll strike out most of the time for any number of reasons that have nothing to do with you or your worth, so just start today with any single women you meet and you'll figure out how to act in a way that makes you not cringe or regret.

>>56807301
I see what you mean yeah I think your right to just go for it I don't even have time to build rapport since I go rarely thanks anon

>>56807324
You got it anon. If they're interested, they know when they first interact with you. They've already decided. You want a woman that wants you from the beginning, not a constant uphill battle with insecurity. Be the man you need to be so that happens more often with all women. Glhf

Sadly cringe in the price of having an independent personality, it's the years of trial error and development. The only way to never be cringe is to be an npc who just does what everyone does. Hence why girls tend to be less cringe, less neurological deviation.

It's not some defence of being cringe, but guarantee someone like Bezos has more hidden hard cringe than your average estate agent.

>>56805702
top kek you filthy creep

>>56805608
Here is a song for you, OP.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zD8MnvyAi6I

>>56805608
Life isn't anime

>>56805608
life isn't like in the movies anon. you're not the main character.

>>56805647
delete social media in advance. its time for damage control desu.

>>56805702
wouldn't have been a big deal 20-30 years ago anon but in this day and age stuff like this can haunt you for the rest of your life.

I'm feeling generous so here is an advice from a sec haver.
If you guys just ask out random women like baristas or women that you just happen to see every now and then, on the way to work or to college - that shit only works like 1 out of 20 times. The normal way to get a gf is by having a MIXED GROUP OF FRIENDS, males and females and whatever genders there are now. hang out with them often and eventually one of the women or a female friend of a woman from your circle will like you and you will know it.
You are welcome I don't need money from you

>>56807502
>sec haver
kek. I meant sex haver

>>56807520
>Touching a random girl without their consent

okay, some people are a lost cause lmao

Is it ok to get a gf from cryptotwitter?

>>56805608

>>56805702
Why didn’t you just go up to her and say that without the poem bullshit? Just the “hey I’d like to get to know you more as seeing you brightens up my day” would have at least got you one of her socials. You went too hard man

>>56807502
Yep, this is the only way I ever got a gf in the past. I need to be in proximity to a number of them for some time and eventually one thinks I'm ok.
Approaching randoms, dating apps, and all that shit resulted in complete failure for me.
Regular proximity to as many females as you can is key.

>>56807520
Wonder how fucked in the head this guy is now, I see he didn't get jailed just community service, a fine, and sex offenders register for 5 years.

>>56805608
Is she black?

>>56805702
If I’m ever tingly for a chick…and I’m not getting vibes from her. I just imagine her getting face fucked by a previous guy she dated and I lose all interest.

>>56805860
This is the gayest shit I’ve ever heard. Are you still this gay?

>>56806081
Is it mixed?

>>56807138
You need to go in a lot and get a good rapport going first you dumb bitch. Give it a couple months. Stalk her if you can’t wait that long to see her outside the coffee shop but don’t let her know you are there

Bro! Weak move but you'll be fine.

Going forward understand that women want one thing: confidence. Guys can be fugly and land hot ass. One of my best buds is ugly af and regularly dated 9s and 10s because he was very confident. Women AREN'T LIKE US. They value confidence 10X more than looks. That's the secret that guys learn when they get older. Young guys can save themselves a lot of grief by learning this early.

Beat on her door and then break in if she doesnt answer. Dont let her ghost you like that!

>>56805608
HOLY KEK. I don't care if this is a larp, that was a good laugh OP. In case you're serious, god help you.

You've been suffering from limerence due to childhood PTSD probably abandonment issues OP. You gotta change your inner self. Same goes for the rest of the tards on here.

>>56805650
Same here friend. Fell hopelessly in love with a girl. Now the only solace I have is robowaifus :)

>>56805608
can you play guitar? start learning.
turn the lyrics into a song.
never mention her by name to anyone.
become successful hot musician.
she'll hear about you, eventually
and you won't even care.
if anyone itt has the ICP necklace pic post it

>>56806034
>he had fat chicks and a girl with eyes too far apart trying to bang him
Literally me.

>>56805608
Shooters shoot nigga. On to Cincinatti

>>56805608
I am going to be honest and straightforward on this site for once.

You striked out, so now what? you may feel cringe but the important thing is that you wanted to do something and you did. that by istself should be reason enough for you to feel acomplished. trust me its better to make a fool of yourself than never knowing what could have been. Go with it and try to get better at it but dont let this discourage you, we unironically dont matter, you dont matter what you do doesnt matter and even if you make a fool of yourself nobody that isnt a crab mentality neet loser will remember after 2 months. So go out there and do shit you might feel dumb for after.

pic related.

>>56807520
Jesus...

>>56807665
This is a good tip

>>56807520
I hope that girl gets raped by a pack of feral Muslims so she knows what real sexual assault feels like