/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>56537706
Imagine going for a degree in 2023. I'm a senior full stack software engineer earning $105k and the only education I have is some courses on Codecademy. It's literally that easy.

>>56537706
bieng a screen glued computer nerd sucks. don't make your wife unhappy with taking on a stresful IT job. fucking tard. make her pregnant.

>> I"m A ClOuD EngInEER
youz a f fucking loser nerd.

>>56537706
>my wiife

> Decent income + happiness
vs
> wealth + misery

Depends what you aim for in life. Both choices have their merits.

>>56537706
your wife has a setup she's happy and stress free ad enjoys. you want her to give all thta up so she meets your arbitrary money amount standards. yup you're the lame one in this story. you're so selfish and autistic you'd ruin her happiness with her job which in turn will shit the home life up all cuz you want her to make more money. some dudes are bad husbands and will do anything they can to fuck up a good thing being a retard.

>>56537724
What's life like collecting government benefits? Broke little kid

>>56537706
i hope she listenes to you and then becomes depressed and sad and then cucks you with the concierge chad at the office.

You're a fucking stupid ass. She will hate you forever if you convince her to leave her happy job and you'll deserve it.

>>56537756
Why dont you tell us mr.still paying student loans despite your big boy job?

>>56537756
I wouldn't know, I don't collect government benefits. If I did, I would express my gratitude to you for paying for my lifestyle.

>>56537706
>Am I dick for asking her to make more
yes faggot
you are supposed to be the bread winner not her

>>56537706
>she says she doesn't want to do that and being happier and having good work life balance is more important
She’s banging someone at her current job

>>56537706
Honestly working for the school system and getting to avoid la creatura browns sounds like a good deal.

>>56537706
don't stress your woman out with shekel chasing or your life will turn into a living hell. she has a comfy job making okay money, let her be.

>>56537756
kek, triggered debtie

>>56537724
>senior full stack software engineer earning $105k
Must be a europoor. In America you’d make 400k
>t. Junior making 200k

>>56537706
>Wtf do I do.... Am I dick for asking her to make more?
1. You're a dick for not understanding that she probable wants kids.
2. If she ends up making more than you she'll see you as undesirable partner for creating these kids.

OP is a jew

>>56537706
>cloud engineer
kek what do you guys do? Orchestrate containers with kubernetes all day? Write scripts for cloud deployment? Must be boring as fuck

>>56537706
>>She's extremely happy, loves her job, has zero complaints
Are you even human? Do you have feelings? Empathy and joy for other peoples joy, especially someone you claim to love, is a vital part of being normal.

>>56537706
it sounds like you guys are making plenty of money, if the investing is sound, why not let her be happy in that job?
I'd understand suggesting getting more $ if you guys are idiots with a horrendous amount of debt. But seems like you can both live comfortably.

>>56537706
You sound like a faggot that can’t provide

Thanks for the feedback fellers. I think I'll back of and let her enjoy herself.
>A third grader wrote her a thank you card for fixing the digital white board so she could do her presentation
>My boss told me he wants to see more "agile innovation from the team next year"

>nooo our household income is over $200k/yr we will never make it!

kys

>>56537706
>Wtf do I do.... Am I dick for asking her to make more?
Yes. Why do you need more money?

>>56537706
If your wife is to work, it is to keep her sane, not to make money.
You should be asking yourself why she feels the need to work in the first place.

>>56537728
spbp

>>56539348
>more "agile innovation from the team next year"
LOL

>>56538466
This

>>56537777
checked

>>56537706
If your wife makes enough money that she doesn't need you, and feels miserable (and blames you for it), she will leave you. Then all the investments you made in her both monetary and otherwise are a loss.
Even worse, if she is around higher wealth men you are introducing her to your potential competition.
I would advise to play on the womenly need for a sence of security rather than your own desire of optimized wealth, instill in her the idea that it would be a good idea to keep some improvement of her CS degree as a backup if she wants to progress further or if she needs to monkeybranch elsewhere. Women love the feeling of security more than ambition itself unlike men.

>>56537706
The fact she was able to get the degree in that field at least means you are dating a girl who sort of has a brain. Let her make less than you because it's a turn on for women to be with a guy that makes more than they do. It's also a benefit that she is happy with her job because the last thing you want is a worn down, depressive, moody bitch of a wife. If I were you would parlay her happiness and satisfaction and the energy that comes with it into her regularly exercising as well. Set up a home gym and let her get to it. You'll have a girl who at least was able to pull off a CS degree, who is bringing in some money, who isn't an annoying cunt you have to be a personal therapist to, and she'll be toning up that ass for you to plow.

>>56537706
Wtf does an "Azure Cloud Engineer" even do? Are you just an engineer that has shit hosted in cloud? Do you set up Azure services and mess with IAM? Like what do you even do?

>>56537706
You’re practically asking for the divorce you didn’t you know you deserved

>>56537728
this post is perfect and should have ended the thread

>>56537706
>his wife works
>actually wants her to work more/harder
Enjoy having kids that are disconnected from all sense of culture and morality since making a just few more shekels in the wage cage is more important. Just marry a man who meets your criteria; a lot of them are even better than most women at being women anyway. Faggot.

>>56542863
shut the fuck up obese teenage spic /pol/ enthusiast

>>56537706
>azure cloud
>engineer
choose one or move to aws

>>56543041
Azure IS cloud.

>>56537706
Bro you’re using the logical male brain. It’s true that what she’s doing doesn’t make financial sense, but she’s a woman and has different priorities in a career than what a man would. If she’s happy then let it be, your combined salary is decent and you shouldn’t need her to make more. In fact instead of complaining, you should out there trying to make more

>>56537706
>my wife
Wtf she didn't tell me she was married

>>56537706
>Wtf do I do
nothing
she got a cs degree because she want to be perceived as le smart woman
i doubt she really cares about having a career and she probably want to stop working when the kids come

and yes, that's a good thing

>>56537728
BASED

>>56537706
>money is more important than being happy
Anon i think you're a retard and you are lucky to have a wife for now, don't lose that you greedy fuck

>>56537706
What you will say
>Babe, it would be cool if you made more money
What she will hear
>I'm a little beta bitch thar can't take care of you and want you to watch you fuck Jerome

>>56542874
>id: gay slime
Kek has spoken, you are a faggot
also literally zero (0) of those are true

I finally started making six figures and the first thing I did was make my wife quit her job. I’ll provide. She will cook, clean, and take care of herself and get ready for kids. She’s 22 and I’m 32, and I don’t want her wage slaving her best years away

>>56537706
women shouldn't have to work - you make 150k a year your fine stop being a greedy faggot

>>56537728
Kek, based and wise in every measure of the post.

>>56537706
if my gf was making 150k$ out of the bat i'd unironically clean around the house and shitpost on 4chin all day while preparing my dick venom for her every day

>>56537728
best post ive seen all month

>>56537706
She’s doesn’t want to leave that job because her side dude is there. Sorry to break it to you.

>>56537706
Whining, bragging in the form of a complaint. Fuck off. Also what is this unsettling image from?

NU MALE

>>56537706
>Am I dick for asking her to make more?
>I'm a an azure cloud engineer and make $150k.
How is money a problem then? The fuck you spending it on?

>>56537706
Anon idk about you , but i work in hopes my wife doesn’t.

I make pretty good money in tech myself in europe and want to find a career wise useless gorl who is a virgin, like 18 and can stay at home, take care of the kids.

Why woulx you want your wife to work too, arent you saving like 4k a month just from your own income alone?

Not sure abt taxes and expenses in your country, but me making 70k a year can save 3k a mk rh euros easy

>>56545907
$150k is the new $100k. It's not exactly a path to great wealth, just allows us to "get the job done" so to speak. Investments, monthly bills, kids college, etc. An extra $50k per year would allow us to aggressively pay down debt.

>>56547012
Yeah ok lmao you're just a retard larping

>>56538173
that's india and that's poo, right?

>>56537706
>Wtf do I do.... Am I dick for asking her to make more?
as a man, yes you are.

>>56537724
sounds like bullshit

>>56547078
Have you been living under a rock? What year do you think it is?

>>56537706
>I want my woman to make more money than me.
You are a massive flaming faggot.

>>56547662
Reddit consensus opinions will destroy your relationship.

>>56537706
>I'm a an azure cloud engineer
Azure is still a thing? Why? AWS is far better.

>>56537777
witnessed

>>56537724
Based

>>56537756
Lmao, you're projecting.

>>56537706
leave her alone bitch. she is comfy.

If you let her stay at home, she starts ruminating on why you’re not home and decides you must be fucking other women during work hours.

If she has to work, she starts ruminating on why she has to work and why you don’t make enough on your own, and decides it’s because you don’t want her home so you can fuck women at the house.

Not being rich is seemingly a lose/lose proposition in life unfortunately

>>56537706
Be careful OP, when a wife starts making more or the same as her husband she usually divorces and starts looking to marry up.

>>56538184
This. Big tyrone the 18 year old still in 5th grade is getting her pregnant through the ass. Enjoy child support.

>>56538221
>t. unemployed larping retard

>>56537728
based
>>56537706
keyed

Ok guys I got the message, you can all take it easy now

>>56537728
/thread

>>56537706
>azure cloud engineer
>I'm a retard that knows stuff about an off the shelf product.
I'm with your wife - taking advice from an Entra spastic is self defeating.