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>>56471539
Have you tried not being ugly?

>>56471555
why match with me in the first place then?

>>56471568
Buy Cardano

>>56471580

>>56471568
To make you suffer

>>56471539
>chat to girl on okc with my fake profile
>she replies for some reason and we have a good conversation
>asks to see what I look like
>show her
>conversation ends

I'm funny and interesting and worth talking to until they see my face

it's just not in the cards for us anon, simple as

>>56471630
It's probably the fact that they realized you lied to them by using a fake profile to talk to them and that's a huge red flag, not your face reveal. If you were talking to some girl you thought the picture was showing and then she revealed her true face after a while you'd be pissed too

>>56471539
Get off the dating apps. Why are so much men using these scams that only work if you are a chad

>>56471685
if that was true why would they even ask to see what I look like? morbid curiosity?

you think they would stop talking to me if I looked like Brad Pitt?

>>56471685
him being ugly def doesnt help

If it makes you anons feel any better, I'm 6'1 and very handsome and I still deal with the same problems as you, just with slightly hotter girls. Go meet women in real life

>>56471685
to be clear, it's not like I was using a picture of some male model, it was just some random shit. One time it was this, maybe they were shocked to discover I wasn't actually Christian Bale

>>56471698
True, but how did they know to ask what you really look like? Did you eventually tell them it's a fake profile?

>>56471539
I recently ended a two year relationship. I'm kinda scared of what I might find on dating apps.

>>56471705
Ohhhh kek, I get what you mean now. Yeah you're right. Now I'm thinking it's a confidence issue thing. Not that you lack confidence, but it's the fact that they perceive that you lack confidence because you use a meme picture instead of your actual picture because you're insecure about your real face. They like confidence, although some girls might be into your meme pic choices and think that's funny and endearing. Just keep trying with both a profile of your real face and fake profile I guess. I do have to recommend you make sure you pic a good pic of yourself for your real profile. DO NOT use some shit lighting insecure looking face pic, use a confident slight grin or recreate one of your meme pics with your own face like that Bale pic for the lols. You'll find a girl into you
>t. went through the same thing and eventually found a girl into my retarded shit

>>56471539
>>56471568
>>56471600
this >>56471703 op. its just girls- ugly, fat, short, tall, skinny, sexy, whatever. they're all the same. and the benefit to actually meet someone is in your favor, it only takes one. that's it. fail 100 times, 1000 times, 10000 times and still all it takes is just one. and you win. the odds are quite literally always in your favor masquerading as 0% (not to mention you're not running against an internal ticking clock either). when they say, "its her loss" it actually is because time inevitably obliterates her, while it crystalizes you. And her odds of letting someone good (you) slip through are far greater than yours ever will be.

also, i urge you to ignore that immediately thought that plans out your entire future when you first see a cutie. it's a fantasy. it literal movie is both of and for your desire. think realistically 3 years ahead, 5 years ahead, 10 years ahead, 20 years ahead-- all the fights, the fuckups, the crying, the coming and going, the breaking up and getting back together, the heartache, the sacrifices you will have to make and of things you love/enjoy, all in the pursuit of bettering yourself for her and her for you. That is the game you're playing with. There will be great times too, the best. Times that will redefine what you thought life and love ever was. But that is the essence of what it means to be loved, and give love. That is what you're up against.

>>56471778
for you, king

>>56471568
to humiliate you

>>56471539
I once registered on a sating site, sent messages and after 1 day ended up chatting with a girl. She was a bit chubby but good looking.
She asks for a picture, I send it to her, she starts saying its fake and its not me, tell he we can have a call the day after and she can look at me in the face and see that's me.

She goes on a rant about me being fake etc
Deleted my profile and never tried that again, don't want to deal with crazy women, I'll manage life without them
(Of course this was not the only story in my life, had real life relations too)

1. Optimise your look. Hair and clothes are easy to change

2. Swipe tens of thousands of times

3. Go out on a date, be fun and interesting

4. Never ask her out for the second date. Forget about her. If it's meant to be she'll chase you. If she doesn't, it wasn't meant to be and as a bonus you'll keep your pride by not pursuing

5. Repeat steps 2 3 and 4 ad infinitum