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>job interview today
>constantly stutter autisticly
>several moments of awkward silence/staring
>failure to effectively communicate why in qualified for this job im probably over qualified for
>sound like a bumbling idiot the whole time when i actually have 145 iq
>y-you too
It’s so fucking over. Why cant i just be normal. FUCK
>just keep working on your social skills
>tfw they’ve only gotten worse the more i work on them
I’m going to die alone and homeless

>> No.56416919

>>56416883
Nobody cares if you're weird

>> No.56416951

>>56416883
if you cant properly speak and articulate yourself you dont have 145 IQ sorry, you have delusions of gandeur thats all

>> No.56416955

Iktf
Actually improved a lot in the years before covid. Talking lots with normie colleagues, clients, managers.
Now I'm more shut in than ever before.
Maybe have job interviews below your level, so you have nothing to lose, feel more confident. Then blow them off if they make an offer

>> No.56416968

>>56416951
IQ has nothing to do with speech skills. Some of the dumbest mother fuckers have speech/charisma stats of 100

>> No.56416970

>>56416883
>was the same at 22
>still got hired somehow
>26 now and the polar opposite
The trick is to just become jaded and stop caring about your job and as a side effect you'll never have any anxious moments and people will mistake your confidence for competence

>> No.56416980

>>56416968
you're a fucking retard

>> No.56417004

>>56416980
Ok I’m sure that’s why i scored in the 99th percentile on my SAT

>> No.56417013

>>56416968
it does. if youre a dumb nigger with no skills its bc of low IQ
same reason why niggers cant articulate themselves
das rite wy boi

>> No.56417017

>>56416883
Your problem is that you are likely applying for normalfag jobs. I'm currently doing an internship in risk management for an asset manager and some of the guys there are the biggest autists I have ever met. It's probably the same for some CS/STEM jobs that require their employees to be at least somewhat smart.
I like it working with guys more autistic than me, I had to work with ultra-normalfags (especially women) before and I wanted to kill myself every day I had to deal with them.

>> No.56417022

>>56417004
You're socially retarded even on 4chan. Impressive work, Anon!

>> No.56417141

>>56416883
Apply for a bunch of jobs that you don't even want just to get lots of interview practice, just ghost them after they give you an offer

>> No.56417186

>>56416980
>>56417013
The OP is right. There are two ways to sound or be confident
Being stupid enough to not be able to even comprehend your limitations, or be high enough IQ to be past them, I.e. Dunning-Kruger.
Guess which one is easier?

>> No.56417283
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56417283

>>56416883
I feel you, I'm in a similar situation.

I can't stop screwing up interviews.

Keep on trying and getting better.

We'll get a good job soon anon, we can make it.

>> No.56417360

>>56417283
You aren't important enough to have an agent, nobody cares about you

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56417394

1. Go to a bar, preferably a small one in a downtown area frequented oftenly by guys that look like they listen to Dinosaur Jr.
2. Order something pretentious
3. Wait for a group of random 30-somethings to show up. They're probably already there.
4. Say the phrase Warhammer while walking by them.
Congrats, you've got social gathering practice solved for the next six hours.

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56417662

>>56417360

>> No.56417694

you fuckers all need to do 1 thing: lay off the caffeine.

it's literally that simple, give it 6 weeks and you'll feel like you were reborn and say

>what the fuck was I drinking all those years

coffee is NOT good for your mental health

>t. long time social anxiety sufferer
>t. teeth grinder
>t. add/adhd/autism spectrum

all went away after I stopped drinking coffee daily.

Now I drink decaff. V60 pour over. beans from specialty stores.

your life will change

>reddit spacing

>> No.56417705

>>56417694
Respectfully disagree, the right amount of coffee dials my verbal fluency up to 11

>> No.56417746

>>56416883
>I’m going to die alone and homeless

Yes, yes you are. And that’s a good thing. See, despite your fanciful nazi ideas, you were born on the wrong side of the equation. You’re a rounding error, a remnant of something that should exist. Life fixes it by shoving you in a social closet with no door handle on the inside. Ssshhhhh. Just sshhhh. Accept the darkness. Accept the eternal silence. When an incel cries in the closet, no one hears it and no one cares.

>> No.56417749

>>56417694
>drinks decafe
>opinion discarded

>> No.56417778

>>56416883
Did you rehearse or practice for your interviews?
That's how you overcome nerves.

>> No.56417809

>>56416883
>>56417283
just give a firm handshake and maintain eye contact

>> No.56417830

>>56417746
What made you think OP is a nazi?

>> No.56417963

the trick is to not give a single fuck even though you do. This applies to all aspects of life. This is the theory i cant do it for shit myself

>> No.56418695

>>56416951
>>56416980
You guys are retards who don't know what you're talking about. If you've ever seen a real psychologist or taken a real iq test they'd tell you that stuff like anxiety and autism can interfere with an iq tests ability to accurately discern your iq. Speech would doubtlessly be a similar case.

>> No.56418706

>>56417963
This right here.

>> No.56418713

Test