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I am seriously considering moving back in with my parents for a year or two and just work and save up for a down payment and savings. I am in my mid 30s & just broke up with my GF

>> No.56131589
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My parents divorced

>> No.56131590

>>56131485
I moved back in with my parents when covid happened and still haven't left.
>t. 30 year old remote swe

>> No.56131596

>>56131589
So are you a chud or soi?

>> No.56131605

>>56131485
>>56131590
Based

>> No.56131738

Dont move back in with your parents, they will destroy you.

>> No.56131747

There is literally no point moving outside of your parents home if you’re an incel

Better off just saving and investing everything so at least you can retire at 40

>> No.56131766

>>56131747
What if you're moving back at 42 because you got divorced and she got the townhouse?

>> No.56131774

>>56131738
posts like this smell like poo but not the curry kind

>> No.56131783

I did a few months ago. Sydney rental market was getting too baked.

It's not that bad desu. Fuck paying rent

>> No.56131798

>>56131485
>am seriously considering moving back in with my parents
Have you considered ever having a gf again? You can probably forget that after moving back home.

>> No.56131821

>>56131485
It gets worse in your 30s. Think about your mental health a little bit and work hard and pay your rent. 10 hrs a week shouldn't be more important than your mental health.

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>>56131485
this will never work retard. ur priced out.

>> No.56131845

>>56131485
What makes you think they'll take you back?

>> No.56131850

>>56131798
This only applies if your ugly. Chads can fuck girls in a floor mattress in their parents home no prob whatsoever bro

>> No.56131852

>>56131821
>just make $200/hr

>> No.56131857

>>56131852
Is rent $8000? Live in a small apartment, away from city center maybe.

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>>56131738
>>56131798
>>56131821
>>56131845

You guys are from broken homes aren't you

>> No.56131886

>>56131589
that pepe us super based fren

>> No.56131991

>>56131485
Once you go back, you’ll never move out. Don’t do it.

>> No.56132828

>>56131850
Can confirm.

>> No.56132848

>>56131485
Similar story op and I did this and now have my own home

>> No.56132882

>>56131485
i'm 34 and dream about doing this. i waste $22k a year just to live in an 800 square foot cuckpartment.

>> No.56132948

i have been doing this for the last 10 years
rent 1000e/month
food 300e/month
utility bill 200e/month

money saved=180k

>> No.56135044

>>56132948
That's low for ten years

>> No.56135169

>>56131485
I'm about to turn 40, anon. If I could give advice to anyone younger than me who is not married and has no children, it is to do exactly what you're saying. Move in with your parents, don't ever fucking move out until you are going to go insane from it. EVEN if you get married and have kids, if you have enough space living with your parents, just keep saving.

My financial situation is my only miss in life, and it destroys my happiness. If I could have just lived with my fucking parents in my mid 20s to mid 30s I'd be retired right now and have beautiful kids and a wife and I'd be living the dream.

Instead I am trapped in the wage cage. I barely get to see my kids grow up as a result. I spend most of my mornings in misery at the thought of having to spend the majority of my time FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE doing things I don't want to do.

>> No.56135232

>>56131485
Anon, it's okay to do that. I grew up in an Asian household and it's perfectly normal. Don't think too much and don't be ashame. You're okay and you got it. Do whatever works for you. If you are concern about a new potential gf thinking you're lame for living with your parents, she's probably not the right girl for you.

>> No.56135323

>>56131766
It's over I'm afraid.

>> No.56135333

>>56131589
same, so i'll inherit two houses now instead of one.

>> No.56135343

>>56131850
true. also it seems to be mostly an american thing. girls in europe don't care if you "live with your parents" i fucked a girl upstairs when my dad was mowing the lawn once.

>> No.56135441

>>56135343

OP said he was in his late 30s though

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>>56131485
good idea. or make it all back in one trade.

>> No.56135525

>>56131485
don’t do it anon. I did it and I spent 5 years there spinning my wheels. I saved a ton of money and helped my mom out, but that’s about it. You lose the drive to improve and succeed. COVID hitting was also bad timing, but I basically lived like a hermit. I’m in my own place now and much happier.
Unless you’re broke/your salary doesn’t afford you the opportunity, try living on your own and work hard to keep it that way so you can stay somewhat independent.

>> No.56135544

>>56131850
can confirm. My brother ruined his shoulder surfing, lost his job, and moved back home to live in my mom’s basement. Within a week he was banging 8/10s who snuck in the side door. They were very accomodating to his condition. I am unfortunately not that successful.

>> No.56135547

>>56135441
doesn't matter. especially if your dad has a huge house. the generational family home will make a comeback. imagine moving moving out instead of working together with your family to accumulate the most amount of wealth, imagine paying a literal rent jew in the city 2/3 of your paycheck instead of just staying at your home.

>> No.56136813

>>56135547
now imagine having parents that want you to pay them rent

>> No.56136875

>>56136813

I give my parents $400. They didn't ask, Just wanted to help around the house

>> No.56138307

>>56135343
>girls in europe don't care if you "live with your parents" i fucked a girl upstairs when my dad was mowing the lawn once.

I'm moving to Europe

>> No.56138824

>>56131862
My parents are Baby Boomers, so yes.

>> No.56139130

>>56131485
do it. I did it after I broke up with my gf. You will be surprised at the mental clarity and how quickly you will be back on your feet. I highly recommend it

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Moved back in with my mom at 29. I am almost 32 now. I went from paycheck to paycheck with 20k debt to 70k liquid cash. A $500 bill use to cause me stress, now I don’t check my bank ever. There’s always about 2k in my checking.

After getting debt free I cut all expenses to nothing. I have no car note and no debt ever now. I save 10 percent to Roth 401k and 50% of my net income. I see no reason to move out, why pay some boomers retirement when I can help my mom out with groceries and stuff.

As far as people looking down on me, 60 percent of Americans can’t come up with 1k without debt. I know it’s true because it was me. They can suck my fucking cock.

>> No.56139369

>>56131485
serious question: what happens if a young person inherits a house in a 55+ community?
Are they required to turn 55 by a certain date or can you just find 55+ roommates?

>> No.56139413

>>56131485
same thing happened to me anon broke up with my gf in april. I recently moved back to my parents. If they will accept you should go for it.

>> No.56139447

>>56139413
>If they will accept you should go for it.

why wouldnt your parents accept you?

>> No.56139624

>>56131485
If your folks are alright, do it. If you loved her then you’re in no shape to rush into a relation right now either. Save money and work on yourself, gym, kick bad habits and eat healthy. Good luck.

>> No.56140312

>>56139369
>what happens if a young person inherits a house in a 55+ community?

You are forced to sell

>> No.56140338

>>56136813
This only happens of your parents are extremely poor or big assholes. Or if you are an American of course. There it's normal to fuck your offspring as much as possible

>> No.56140370

>>56139359
In Europe literally no one cares. I mean some dumb idiots do of course. But they drop existing in a few generations anyway, milked to death by the rent jew. Things will go back to how it was in the past. Successful families are those that work together. Paying rent to somegreedy slime bastard Jew is not favourable for the family wealth. Everyone moving out is not favourable either. Imagine having to pay some stranger to watch your children, grandma can do it if she's around. Your brother or sister who doesn't have a job (yet) can do it when you think about the family as one working together. Some Muslim families work like this and they become extremely rich in the west cause the competition is all paying rent jews

>> No.56140666

1. you should've never left. just go calcuate how much u lost
2. u should've move with ur GF
3. what are you waiting for?
there are 0 benefits to moving out to rent ur apartment and then having to do all chores and pay bills like a fagggggggggg


live with parents, eat cooked delicous food that is not goyslop, no need to pay bills, can save and use every penny etc, why aren't u doing it whenever u have the options?
Only turbo losers who fall for social pressure by jelly renters move out of their parents house, the other ones don't have the option or are homeless etc

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1. you should've never left. just go calcuate how much u lost
2. u should've move with ur GF
3. what are you waiting for?
there are 0 benefits to moving out to rent ur apartment and then having to do all chores and pay bills like a fagggggggggg


live with parents, eat cooked delicous food that is not goyslop, no need to pay bills, can save and use every penny etc, why aren't u doing it whenever u have the options?
Only turbo losers who fall for social pressure by jelly renters move out of their parents house, the other ones don't have the option or are homeless etc

the way I see it, people who rent house are cuckholds slaves. the reason is they go to work to finance their master landlord passive income NEETbux
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>> No.56140748

>>56140666
you can also be productive at your family home. just step away from the screens jew. I didn't move out but i buy my own food, cook my own food, I plant things in the garden, I do many little works and things to add value to the property i will inherit one day. I am not a cost to have around, but beneficial to the family wealth. and yes I fuck my girlfriend in the bedroom upstairs whenever I want. and now she doesn't care about the old man sitting in the garden. imagine caring about that. holeee shit.

>> No.56140756

>>56140748
i also accumulated 11 bitcoins in a few years. basically securing my future. while a lot of the people I knew got a mortgage debt contract and are paying that off. for the upcoming 20 to 30 years. they will own a house in 20 to 30 years lmao. I already can buy one without a mortgage. but i wont. I buy more assets that appreciate harder than houses. (currently, bitcoin). I am currently travelling and haven't worked the past 3 years. I also only spent about 8 months of that 3 years at home with my dad. I'm so free. and its all thanks to NOT moving out and stacking bitcoin. meanwhile some of my friends are paying off the mortgage jew and can't take a holiday for more than a few weeks a year. KEK.

>> No.56140765

>>56140756
they were laughing at me for staying at my dads mansion. who's laughing now debt slaves? who's laughing now wagie cagers? KEK. I'm eating steaks on the beach. enjoy the next 30 years in the wage fucking cage KEK. ULTRAKEK.

>> No.56140770

>>56131485
Wise move.

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>>56131485
>Be me, 35.
>Built, sold, bought new house.
>Still live with family.

Don't worry about it, honestly. Do it at your own pace.

>> No.56140826

>>56140765
You’re still a loser and an incel.

>> No.56140867

>>56140826
i have a GF and don't have to work. I won.

>> No.56141238

bump

>> No.56141283

tfw can't move in with parents
every time I see someone say something about living at "home" I rage a little

>> No.56143369

>>56141283
>tfw can't move in with parents

Why not?