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>Moving to house with gf
>Shes never moved out of her parents house
>Recently left college and managed to find a job after 4 months
>Has barely any money
>before she got the job we agreed that i'd pay rent while she looked for work and she said shed cover groceries
>Fast forward to now
>Before we move in together she insisted on moving to the city for a month to be closer to her job's office
>While talking to real estate agents I ask her to contribute $100 to rent while I pay the other $450
>She says "fine" but is annoyed at me and the situation of her having to pay $100 for rent
>I tell her $100 is nothing
>She says shes broke
>I tell her you got a job now so pay the rent next month
>she says fine
>has a fit about not understanding men and sarcastically asking that in future if we split the rent we have to split the bed
>tell her not disrespect me
>she says if she was a man she wouldn't let her partner pay anything
>realize that groceries cost like $50 a month where we'll be moving
>realize she might be trying to avoid paying shit and wants me to live rent free while she "saves"
>go to bed
>wake up
>check instagram and see her instagram story about wanting a guy to treat her like girly and not like a tough dude
>I equate that to mean that her having to share rent is un-girly or something
>dont even bother to reply just get out of bed and go on 4chan and listen to music

What would you do in this situation? I cant tell if she's taking advantage of me. Mind you, I earn about $60k a year in a remote job and have supported myself indie since 18. I have reasonable savings and looking towards investing in the S&P500 soon.
Shes almost 24 now and just got her 1st "real" fulltime job after working in the service industry as a waitress for years or in retail but id ont give a fuck. Am i making a good financial decision moving in with her?

>> No.56055394

>>56055385
She'sgoing to cheat on you. Dump her.

>> No.56055397

TL;DR
Is that pepper on the other donut?

>> No.56055406

>>56055394
this
dont be a money pig.

>> No.56055412

>>56055385
>has a fit about not understanding men and sarcastically asking that in future if we split the rent we have to split the bed
>check instagram and see her instagram story about wanting a guy to treat her like girly and not like a tough dude
She's a bitch at heart. I'm guessing she's somewhat hot if you let her behave that way without controlling her appropriately. Get rid of her and build yourself.

>> No.56055414

>>56055385
Where the fuck do you live at that groceries cost 50$ a month. I'm a poorfag and I drop 150€/month on breakfast (I make my own though it's 1700 kcal)
>inb4 fat faggot
I'm litterally underweight bmi 16

>> No.56055417

>>56055385
i would put my foot down and demand that she help pay for her share. i do the same thing with my bitch. if she refuses, kick her out. shelter is de facto priced for multiple incomes, bitches can deal with it.

>> No.56055419

>>56055385

For the love of god don't click on op's pic

>> No.56055425

>>56055385
>check instagram and see her instagram story about wanting a guy to treat her like girly and not like a tough dude

This is the dealbreaker. Your disagreements about money matters you could talk about and come to some mutually satisfactory arrangement, but this behavior of publicly bitching about you behind your back 100% means she will bottle up any resentment and ultimately use it to justify cheating on you.

time to break up friendo.

>> No.56055426

>>56055385
Op sorry.
Yeah she's looking to replace you (after cheating ofc).
But now pls tell me wtf do you eat. I obv need to save on food

>> No.56055443

>>56055414
maybe he only eats rice and beans kek

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>>56055425
>>56055412
The instagram shit made me so mad that i couldnt be bothered to be mad anymore. I literally closed my phone and just got on with my day. I dont know how immature one needs to be to be making such posts at 24 years old. Thats high shcool drama shit

>> No.56055455

>>56055385
>50$ a month for groceries
What??? For 2 people as well kek. Sounds like bullshit anon, unless you're eating the absolute cheapest shit and buy in bulk

>> No.56055466

>>56055385
bro wtf is wrong with you, you're going to kick yourself later down the road if you don't put your foot down right now. Don't let women treat you like that

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>>56055385
>tells her to pay up
>don't disrespect me yo
It's faint, but I think there's an expensive bill on the radar, kind of a... fuely bill almost...

>> No.56055488

Lmao OP invested in a 24yo baby. Enjoy bagholding for the rest of your life

>> No.56055489

>>56055385

I make twice as much as my gf, and I still make her pay half of everything. And I'm 100% sure she respects me more than you OP, as I don't act like I'm the lesser person in the relationship that needs to pay for the others' time, kek.

But yeah, basically, she sounds like a spoiled little princess, and I doubt there is anything you can to fix that. So just do whatever you want to do. You're going to end up bitter or breaking up either way.

But for the love of god top acting like a cuck.

>> No.56055501

>>56055385
She's broke and has a shitty attitude but if you're splitting hairs over a few hundred bucks when you clear six figures you're being a niggardly miser. Tell her she doesn't have to pay for anything if she lets you fuck her up the ass twice a month and call it a day.

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>>56055385
get rid of her asap. you sound like you never get any pussy which is why you're putting up with her child tier temperament in the first place.

>> No.56055506

>>56055385
Ditch the bitch. She is already looking to jump ship.

>> No.56055516

>>56055385
Fuck off nomie

>> No.56055529

>>56055385
please ditch her, all of men on this planet will thank you for not simping

>> No.56055536

>>56055385
dump the stupid bitch. she's beyond retarded

>> No.56055613

>>56055385
50/50 split rent. Don't pay for her dumb life decisions wtf are you doing.

>> No.56055637

>>56055450
You need to realise that many women don't really mature much in their 20s. She's also part of a generation where women have been told that being an entitled bitch is part and parcel of every relationship they have. You're doing the right thing in not rising to her childish behaviour. It's times like these you should be thankful that you're able to recognise this BS instead of bowing down to her demands. And if you truly do want to be with her, you really have to be shut down her attitude as soon as it rises. Kind of like moulding her through behavioural conditioning. However, she does sounds pretty awful.

>> No.56055649

So rent is 550 and she should be paying 275 but instead you pay 175 for her every month.
2100 per year spend on her and she still bitches.
No really, what are you doing man.

>> No.56055669

>>56055455
They're paying $550 a month in rent, obviously they're thirdies.

>> No.56055732

I had a similar relationship in my early 20s and she ended up cheating on me. If you notice she stops initiating sex, it's already too late.

>> No.56055762

>>56055397
it's likely poppy seeds

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>>56055536
>>56055613
>>56055637
>>56055649
>>56055669

>> No.56055801

i had a little bit of hope until the instagram part
well that hope went away fast
dump her

>> No.56055816

>>56055397
Looks like a lemon frosting with poppy spring.
Lemon poppy donut

>> No.56055850

>>56055732
> If you notice she stops initiating sex, it's already too late.
lol this is so true holy shit

>> No.56055873

>>56055385
Fucking loser. You cant even support your woman and expect her to pay the bills. You are expecting her to "man up" and deal with the harsh reality of this world and pretty much suffer while overcoming it but this is not a way to treat a woman you fool. You are treating her like another man.

She is going to cheat on you and eventually dump you for a superior man who is gonna take care of her financially and you deserve it.

>> No.56055882

>>56055873
>You cant even support your woman and expect her to pay the bills.

Are you mentally ill?

>> No.56055900

>>56055394
>>56055406
>>56055412
>>56055417
>>56055425
>>56055466
>>56055489

Bunch of losers. You cant even take care of your woman. You disgust me. You expect her to work and pay the bills because you as a man cant do it.

Bunch of morons bitching about wanting a "trad wife" but cant even fulfill the basic traditional masculine role of providing for her. Why would she suck your dick and cook meals for you if you cant even fulfill your basic masculine duty?

Pathetic.

>> No.56055909

>>56055900
Show tits woman

>> No.56055912

>>56055882
If you can financially provide for her which is the #1 traditional masculine duty, then why dont you?

The only explanation is that either you dont have enough money (which would be okay) OR that you DO have enough money but you are not willing to take care of her.

>> No.56055933

>>56055909
Im a man. Its just that I respect myself enough to not expect my woman to take on masculine gender roles like providing and working.

I want my woman to be hot and beautiful, to create a positive athmosphere in my life, take care of me sexually and emotionally, to take care of the household, cook me meals, suck my dick, get fucked by me and just sweeten my life in general. In return I will gladly take care of her.

Thats how it was done for thousands and thousands of years before all of you fell for the feminist meme.

>> No.56055936

>>56055385
tell her real life doesn't work like in her instagram stories, and that a man doesn't owe her shit
and if she really believes you SHOULD subsidize her for living with you, then she should find someone else.
but yeah, get rid of her. she won't change her mentality.

>> No.56055937

>>56055933
LARPer

>> No.56055940

>>56055882
Let me guess, you also expect her to split the bill with you at a restaurant?

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>>56055933
>I want my woman to be hot and beautiful, to create a positive athmosphere in my life, take care of me sexually and emotionally, to take care of the household, cook me meals, suck my dick, get fucked by me and just sweeten my life in general. In return I will gladly take care of her.

>> No.56055955

>>56055933
Based.
But you know that's no longer possible for most people.

>> No.56055956

>>56055385
>$550 in rent
>$50 a month in groceries for two people

Where the fuck do you live, Mumbai?

>> No.56055960

>>56055385
>>dont even bother to reply just get out of bed and go on 4chan and listen to music
Call her a tramp, and tell her to pack her things, on Instagram.

>> No.56055979

>>56055937
>LARP

Nope. This was the basic reality for thousands of years (and still is in my parts of the world). Man is responsible for providing and protecting and taking care of a woman materially while she takes care of the house, the children and takes care of him sexually and emotionally.

This is how it was done before all of you fell for the feminist meme. Now you are bitching about not having a trad wife but here you are expecting her to pay the bills.

Fools.

>> No.56055985

>>56055979
Do you live under a rock or something? Have fun taking care of a narcissist woman like in OP's case, cuck yourself idgaf you simp fuck. chivalry died long ago, times are changing, adapt or stfu

>> No.56055988

>>56055900

Kek, I bet this is you:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nBcGiFTQGdA

>> No.56055999

>>56055933
shut up hole

>> No.56056004

>>56055985
>chivalry died long ago

This is not about chivalry you idiot. You obviously get things in return since she also does things for you. Its just called gender roles and it was normal for thousands of years up until a few generations ago.

>Have fun taking care of a narcissist woman
Obviously you find yourself a loyal, loving, beautiful woman and not a narcissist.

>> No.56056018

>>56056004
50/50 split is the way to go, women work in modern times, equal is best for a healthy relationship

>> No.56056035

Maybe don't try and take a woman out of her family home if you can't support her basic needs? She should live with her father, or a man who can take care of her - where does a loser who can't support himself fit in?

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56056040

>>56055394
>She'sgoing to
It already happened guaranteed

>>56055504
this.
fucking simp dick bitch zoomer faggots don't even know the basics of women behaviour and act like the fucking children you are when it hits you in the face.

>> No.56056051

>>56055385
First of all, you shouldn’t move in with a woman you’re not married to. That’s not God’s way and it is sinful. I am not judging you; I am no one to judge and made this very same mistake twice. Neither ended well. The second time we did end up getting married and things have worked out ok, but it was a long and rough road to get here. May the Lord guide you with His Spirit.

>> No.56056063

>>56055385
Does she clean the place? Does she cook for you regularly? Does she provide anything to your relationship other than her vagina?
You should have a serious talk with her, if she wants you to pay most of the rent, fine, but then she has to be the one who does most of the work around the house. If she doesn't want to cook for you or clean the place either, break up as fast as you can.

>> No.56056068

>>56056051
>First of all, you shouldn’t move in with a woman you’re not married to. That’s not God’s way and it is sinful.
you christcucks are insufferable, you think marriage was around when the bible was written? you're following made up human concepts. fucking low IQ subhuman who just follows his elders/parents. Visionairs are one in a million people because they can think for themselves

>> No.56056132

>>56055385
There is apparently only one factor common (and predictive) of divorce or breakup in relationships and that factor was found to be: contempt

Any partner who, in the balance of things, is looking more at what is 'missing' from the situation rather than looking at what is 'there' has already begun a process which will erode the relationship until there is nothing left

I certainly used to do this until I learned about it and took active steps to think on what was nice about my later partners, life, and things

Your gf is already pining for something else, which may not exist or will never come, and you cannot make her see this any more than you can tell a heroin addict to just stop bro

>> No.56056133

>>56056068
You sound like a 23 year old retard.

>> No.56056152

>>56056068
Btw marriage was absolutely around when the Bible was written.

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>>56056133
>NOOOO MY PARENTS WERE RIGHT ALL ALONG, NOW THAT I'M AN ADULT I CAN SEE TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE IS THE WAY TO GO WAAAHHHHHhhh

you're weak

>> No.56056170

>>56055900
Moron
If there’s true love
Money doesn’t enter the equation

Love comes first, the money stuff, you just deal with that both

Relationship is for relationship intrinsics value. Not for external value (money, sex, other things)

Pursue an AUTHENTIC relationship

>> No.56056203

>>56056018
>50/50 split is the way to go, women work in modern times, equal is best for a healthy relationship
You are a fool and you know nothing about relationships. Shut the fuck up bitch

>> No.56056224

>>56056203
you're an old dinosaur, probably live in some amish village or you're an ar*b

>> No.56056236

>>56056224
And you are either stuck in a loveless, sexless, dispassionate marriage headed for divorce or a virgin incel.

>> No.56056237

>>56055385
If this is real, just leave.
She's completely disrespecting your efforts.
You shouldn't live with your gf in a single home anyway, typically you enter a dead bedroom relationship at that point.
In general, stop being a cuck and demand respect and obedience since you literally decide her sustenance.

>> No.56056260

>>56056236
and you're a troll, well played

>> No.56056263

>>56055385
I hate saying this because it's an overused insult by the pajeets that have been shitting up this website since the 2017 run, but holy fuck is this some ESL pasta. Take some fucking English lessons, Paco.

>> No.56056280

>>56056018
>50/50 split is the way to go, women work in modern times
>he doesn't know about "work husbands"
>he doesn't know what she's doing for the promotions
Top jej

>> No.56056345

>>56055873
Pathetic simp.


OP you should end it now before wasting more of your time, but I know you won't until you feel max pain. You sound like a europoor, but if she's bitching over $100 it's already over. Let's be real it's not even about the money to her, she doesn't see you as worth it unless you throw in some cash. Let that sink in. She wants you to pay a monthly onlyfans fee for her 'services'. This won't end well, whether it's today or 5 years later. There are plenty of girls who won't blink twice about paying 50/50 for living expenses. Hell, my 8/10 gf is in med school and she pays half of major expenses, I take her out to nice restaurants every now and then.

>> No.56056362

Just dump her by the time she realizes you were a good guy she will hit the wall and ride the cock carousel.
It's hard to quit someone but when it's flawed better not waste too much time. Continue improving yourself, dump her, install whatever meeting app, fuck girls have fun and sooner than later you'll find a good one you know why ?
Because you already have been with a girl which mean you're not an autistic social loser and you know amd experienced girl's language.
Like any job, don't settle, if it's shit aim for higher simple as that.
Emotions kill a man.
I think the fact that she is disrespectful is the fact that she thinks you'll never be able to dump her and you'll be a loser all your life.
If you want to prove her wrong and make her learn a lesson, dump her.

>> No.56056424

>2023 and STILL moving in with a girl
you deserve to get fucked

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>>56055385
>>56055900
Times have changed. Back in the day, a woman would spend her time:
>hand washing all the clothes
>hanging the laundry to dry
>ironing everything, from shirts to socks
>starching pants, which nobody does anymore
>preparing three meals from scratch
>doing the dishes by hand
>cleaning the house
>arranging her husband’s social calendar so he didn’t need to plan parties
>looking after 2-5 children

Today:
>we have clotheswashers and dryers
>most clothes don’t need ironing
>nobody starches their pants
>most people buy premade meals or order out for at least one meal a day
>we have dishwashers
>housework is much lighter due to vacuums, stronger cleaners, and smaller homes
>men are expected to plan their own social events, or in the case of work events the company plans for everyone
>most couples have 0-2 children

What is there left for my “trad” wife to do? Day drink and push buttons on machines? Why would I subsidize such a lifestyle? Like it or not, what was once woman’s work is now the work of machines and paid labor. This is an inevitable outcome under capitalism, because unpaid work done out of love and respect for your husband doesn’t profit any corporations, but the same work done by an underpaid laborer is extremely profitable. This also raises the cost of living, which means both spouses have to work to cover that higher cost.

This doesn’t even touch things like sexual purity, spousal rape laws, or the heightened risks of divorce and STDs you’re facing. Hell, back in the day her father would give you a dowry — he would literally pay you to take her off his hands.

If she’s got a 100-year-old mindset, drop her. She’s expecting you to hold up a bargain that society hasn’t honored for a long time.

>> No.56056509

Keep your girlfriend until she breaks up with you after she cheats on you and stop posting gay threads on /biz/.

>> No.56056542

>>56055385
>gf is active on instagram
dealbreaker. disregarding rest of your gay story about your ungrateful harpy.

>> No.56056560

>>56056260

you will think back and cringe at this one day, lol, broke child from a broken home

>> No.56056588

>>56056560
cope projection, my life is actually great unlike your larp. you'll find yourself one day and think back to MY comment and think fuck, i've been cucked this anon was right all along

>> No.56056632

>>56056477
>he would literally pay you to take her off his hands
Or
>look after
Would be another way you could put it

Tbf... there are a large number of bum guys around that just sit round getting baked every day and playin' vidya.

I've been hand washing my clothes for over a year after moving due to space problems etc getting a washing in. Given all the building work going on, they get even dirtier than normal.

It absolutely sucks balls. I don't actually put my hands in there it's just a bucket with an old skool plunger type stick they used to sploosh it round.

People might says things like, now you know what it t'were like etc but if I also wasn't trying to patch the house together simultaneously it wouldn't be so bad plus in ye olden days you could just chop trees down for heat and at least rinse it off in a stream or something. Trying to do it in a bucket with five or ten litres of cold water takes about a week and several changes of the water before its even close to running clear.

Saying that, people don't routinely see the water emptying out a washer anyway so there's no guarantee it's a million times cleaner but yeah.... I would serious like a washer. I even realised the importance of them way before having to hand wash it all. And by it all, I mean literally a couple of t-shirts and pairs of socks, boxers and a pair of trousers at a time

>> No.56056640

i'd leave her. simple as

>> No.56056650

>>56055385
OP, do you love her? That’s all it matters. If you love her post her bob in this thread.

>> No.56056753

>>56055385
No ffs, put your foot down right now
>sarcastically asking that in future if we split the rent we have to split the bed
The correct response is
>why don't we start now?
If she can't give you sex she has no control over you dude. Don't even give her the time of day.
I've found that chastity and silence are powerful weapons in dealing with hysterical female nonsense. Either she will wise up, in which case problem solved, or she will cheat, and you promptly leave her ass.
This shit is not complicated. Women are manipulative by nature and you have to manipulate them back. It doesn't matter how compatible she is with you or how much she has "your interests" at heart, hell she might not even realize she's doing it.
Anyway you win, I replied to the bait

>> No.56056818

>>56055385
btw, OP, she handed you the scissors to cut the relationship with that instagram story. Do it or you'll regret it.

>> No.56056954

I ya bitch on Instagram, next stop onlyfans

>> No.56057085

dump her , been there , she will be worthless , you are warming a whore to her next dick.

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>been single for years
>have a son
>life is comfy
>see op's gay ass thread

Yup, still dont miss that

>> No.56057402

>>56055385
She's texting another dude.

>> No.56057623

>>56055873
Imma just leave the west.

>> No.56057631

>>56055956
Rural area probably.

>> No.56057644

>>56055385
kek you sound like a pussy, OP.
No wonder she doesn't respect you.

>> No.56057649

>>56056152
Yeah but so was buying and selling people.

>> No.56057763

>>56056477
Checked. Good post anon

>> No.56057782

>>56055385
The fact that she’s bitching at all shows that she doesn’t respect you or view you being annoyed as a bad thing
Get rid of her

>> No.56058176

>>56055385
you've already had the best years of her life, anon. Just dump her and find a similar whore to leach off you for 3-4 weeks and dump her too. This is the way life works now. Pump and dump these entitled whores and replace them every month. Eventually she will come back and you can fuck her again, just never get back together in any way. There's statistically nothing special about her. Her height doesn't matter, her income doesn't matter, her sexual preferences and body don't matter. Just stop with the relationship cuck shit.

>> No.56058420

>>56056477
>>56056588
You’re close but not reaching the final conclusion. Traditional relationships will be replaced by modern relationships, but those in turn will be replaced by a new system of no long term relationships at all. If both partners are equal and self sufficient, and there are no real economic or social repercussions to separating, then there is no reason that most relationships will last for decades. 50/50 financial splits will be a meaningless term because everyone will just take care of their financial status individually with no joining together permanently. Like most social mammals, social groups will be made up of females and their children, with loner males competing angainst each other, occasionally dropping in to mate, and then leaving after a short while, never committing or contributing resources.

>> No.56058467

>>56055900
based trophy wife enjoyer

>> No.56058513

>>56055385
Sounds like you are going to be squeezed dry by a lass with no real world understanding. You're in for a tough time and judging by her Instagram post she is already fishing for someone else. Sorry.

>> No.56058547

>>56055873
>>56055900
Lmao have a (You)

>> No.56058557

>>56055385
she's a whore who sees you as a wallet, leave her in the dust retard

the attitude shoud've been the moment to leave, and the disrespect of airing out dirty laundry and advertising her pussy to other men should've been the second time.

i say this because I care anon, if you stay you'll not only be retarded, but broke

she also doesn't respect you and will cheat on you anyways

>> No.56058573

>>56055900
this

its hilarious when 4chan incels talk about trad wife but then they act like total faggots and want the girl do anything

they mean with trad wife a wife that not only cooks but also works and pays apparently

lol

>> No.56058574

>>56055873
she'll cheat even if he does pay you retard

>> No.56058598

>>56055933
based

>> No.56058600

>>56056035
women want all the benefits of a traditional man with none of the benefits of being a traditional woman.

If she wasn't an entitled whore that airs out dirty laundry on social media she'd already be married with a baby.

>> No.56058607

>>56055955
This

most girls arent like that

blame the media and the J*ws

Finding a girl that isnt rotten, spoiled and social media addicted echochambers talking with other 'le strong women' is like finding an unicorn

>> No.56058618

>>56055979
Dude it's so cringe when these people talk about "trad wife" but then they expect her to also work and do half

Its like they dont even know what tradition used to be

>> No.56058634

>>56056424
not everyone likes moving in with their gay boyfriends

>> No.56058635

>>56058618
this whore obviously isn't Trad you cuck

trad girls aren't advertising their relationship trouble to new suitors on social media. if that's all it takes she was never going to respect or stay loyal to OP anyways

>> No.56058643

>>56056542
>>gf is active on instagram
>dealbreake

and this too

social media girls are big problems

fuck them, but dont expect anything serious

>> No.56058649

>>56058635
No im not saying she is trad, im saying people here bitch about wanting a trad wife but they want her to work for herself and pay 50% of all bills because that is not what trad wife means

>> No.56058674

>>56055385
you literally need to get away from her now or else you're going to have a rough few years "living together" before you actually breakup. Get out now and save the headache and money problems

>> No.56058745

>>56055732
exact same thing happened to me as well after she quit her job with no backup plan.

>> No.56058754

>>56058649

we all know what trad wife means, and the truth is your average grandpa managed to get a trad wife as the default. even if he was a big fucking loser or deadbeat.

the standards for women have just dropped

>> No.56058799

>>56055900
Most based post itt, the truth hurts

>> No.56059163

>>56057649
That's still around.

>> No.56059950

>>56055912
The jews made that impossible you fucktard. If you cant support a family with a full time job then thats not my fuckin problem. The bitches are gonna have to start learning how to hate jews like us if they want their dream guys.

>> No.56059958

>>56055385
>>Before we move in together she insisted on moving to the city for a month to be closer to her job's office
Yikes

>> No.56060020

>>56056132
Good post

>> No.56060033

>>56056632
>Tbf... there are a large number of bum guys around that just sit round getting baked every day and playin' vidya.
Yeah? and I pay my bills and stay out of trouble, the fuck is wrong with staying home and staying out of trouble.
At least some stoners grow their own weed.

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>>56058573
>they mean with trad wife a wife that not only cooks but also works and pays apparently
My grandmother could hunt and fish as well as gut and skin deer.
Modern women cant do shit, they cant even wash dishes.
LOL.

>> No.56060058

>>56055900
based and prostitution-pilled.
All men pay, that's why you should rent instead of buying a depreciating asset.

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>>56058618
>Its like they dont even know what tradition used to be
A women USED TO work, they USED to raise the children, tend to house chores and even go out and skin deer/flay fish.
What the fuck kinda tradition do you think we're talking about?
Traditionally, that is what women did, men shot the deer, women gut and skinned the deer, kids cleaned up.
EVERYONE works in a family or they can get out and be a bum someplace else.
EVERYONE works in a tradition family, EVERYONE.
What the fuck are you fucking smoking?

>> No.56060080

>>56058649
>im saying people here bitch about wanting a trad wife but they want her to work for herself and pay 50% of all bills because that is not what trad wife m
THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT TRADITIONAL MEANS.
Men work, women cook and clean and raise kids, kids go to school, go to church and do chores around the house.
Are you smoking crack? Do you think "trad" means cucky simps beta bucks?
traditional
trə-dĭsh′ə-nəl
adjective
Of, relating to, or in accord with tradition.
Of or pertaining to tradition; derived from tradition; communicated from ancestors to descendants by word only; transmitted from age to age without writing.
Observant of tradition; attached to old customs; old-fashioned.
My grandmother was a avid hunter, fisherman, worked a factory job her whole life, while pregnant for 8 months and still tended to her husband and children, which she had ten kids.
What the fuck are you smoking?
What the fuck do you think "trad" means?

>> No.56060086

>>56055425
By posting it on Instagram shes already calliung for her female friends to support her opinion, and any willing males to come forward and sweet-talk about "they will always pay like true gentlemen" (if she fucks them).
Dump her already,. disagreements about money are the #1 relationship breaker and you've already started on the wrong foot. Use the instagram story to explain it to her (being not loyal and exposing you in public).

>> No.56060183

>>56058420
>occasionally dropping in to mate, and then leaving after a short while, never committing or contributing resources.
You have just described the African American mating cycle
Also
>An entire generation raised by single mothers
shit fucking sucks man

>> No.56060239

Having a girlfriend is gay.

>> No.56060270

>>56055385
your gf your pb

>> No.56060443

>>56055385
>Shes almost 24 now
Why are you looking to invest in the future when you can't see this is a terrible investment. Date an 18 year old and invest in that relationship

>> No.56060451

>>56055385
is this booby trap kid form the goonies?

>> No.56060487

>>56055385
Thanks OP, for teaching me the lesson that should always treat women as equals and never go soft on them because their small and soft. Maybe if you started by demanding it to be 50/50 things wouldnt have gotten to that.

>> No.56060490

>>56055385
>have your whore gf pay rent and not utilities
It's ogre. The court will give your whore gf the apartment when she files the restraining order. You still have to pay for it tho it's in the lease :^)

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thank god my gf makes as much as me and we just split everything 50 50.

except when we leave the house, those bills are still on me somehow.

>> No.56060912

>>56055385
>Moving to house with gf
dumbass

>> No.56060945

>>56060058
if you think women cant love you, youre probably right and should stick to whores. but some people are lovable

>> No.56061243

>>56060945
haha get a load of this fucking retard.

>> No.56061250

>>56055873
this woman doesnt sound like she cooks or cleans or does ne thing like that tho lol this was prob bait but she sounds like a spoiled cunt and the instagram shit is a deal breaker

>> No.56061260

>>56061243
you should stick to whores too

>> No.56061294

>>56055385
probably a larp as usual
but in the 1% chance it is not
you need to re evaluate yourself and ask why you decide to tolerate/ put up with things that are clearly making you unhappy in the relationship?. if you agree to tolerate this kind of behavior, which apparently makes you quite unhappy, then in some way you are telling yourself that you are not really worthy of receiving the happiness you want in a partner.. and where is that going to lead later on? how much more you going to put up with and why?
there is usually some shit you put with but it should probably be negligible stuff, not things that make you post a thread on a basket weaving forum.

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56061635

OP here. I spoke to her yesterday about the situation and she sort of went quiet for a couple hours. She has since deleted the instagram shit and apologised for how she acted, said she understands my concerns etc and wants to adapt to the situation the way i see it. She also started to look for a higher paying job. Not sure what to think of this but its better than nothing and at least shes willing to change. Like i said, ive known her for years and this behavior was out of line and weird. Thanks to the anons who gave genuine comments

>> No.56061663

ask her to split it and then kick her out when she doesn't

>> No.56061856

>>56055397
idk but for some reason after reading your comment i could really go for a nice cold Bu5ch L1ght

>> No.56061860

>>56061635
she's likely starting to consider her "plan B" so you should throw all her stuff out on the curb, change the locks and block her number

>> No.56061884

>>56061635
I mean no insult but is this all a LARP anon?
I'm surprised at how she much she changed so quickly. Then again many women are incredibly bipolar so maybe I shouldn't be.

INB4 >She realised that the offer was too good and decided no to sabotage her good deal
Women don't think logically.

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>>56055385
>rents 550
>50 bucks a month in groceries
>jew woman into helping cause its too expensive
>she dries up
>she has an instagram
>she disrespects you on instagram

you both sound like faggot retards, but women are expected to be retards. but she doesn't respect you.
break up with her. then get back together. it mashes the reset button on respect.
try not to be a penny pinching kike and realise all women want a provider. also where the fuck do you live nigeria?

>> No.56061908

>>56061635
god youll be single in 3 months. youre so poor she has to get a career and you allow her to have an instagram, literally the biggest dating app in existence. hopeless cunts need the cringe redpill.

>> No.56061925

>>56061860
this. after a decade of failed relationships you see the signs coming a mile out.

>> No.56062058

>>56055385
Was nothing special until
>check instagram and see her instagram story about wanting a guy to treat her like girly and not like a tough dude
Dump her. It would take too long to explain why but trust me, just leave her and find a girl that understands. They are out there.

>> No.56062074

>>56061896
Do not listen to this retard. Once you break up it's changed forever. Do not go back to the woman who COMPLAINS ABOUT YOU ON INSTAGRAM, A JEW DOPAMINE-TRAP WEBSITE, FOR EVERYONE TO SEE.

>> No.56062092

>>56055385
>he lets his girl work and have other men have authority over her
imagine letting ur girl work and have a boss, cant imagine something more cucked. buy her a cupcake or an art gallery to give her smth to do. having ur woman serve others like a slave would piss the fuck out of me.

>> No.56062112

>>56058420
we need to legalize rape

>> No.56062231

>>56055385
Tell her how it is. Contribute or get out. And if she doesn’t, actually kick her out

>> No.56062236

>>56056068
>you christcucks are insufferable, you think marriage was around when the bible was written

Adam and Eve were married by God ya unrepentant dingus

>> No.56062244

>>56055385
if i would pay 100% of rent i would need to butt fuck her everyday and BJ every morning

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>>56055385
araki forgot

>> No.56062294

>>56056362
Based anon. Emotions do kill a man. So many losers in here talking about “true love”. The only person that will “truly love you” are your mother, and maybe if you’re lucky, your siblings and father. Falling in love with a woman is a fast method to getting cheated on and disrespected. Women should be emotionally invested and men should be logically motivated.

>> No.56062318

>>56055385
Fuck her, hard
Like wrestle fuck her and show her who's the boss and also impregnate her

>> No.56062482

>>56055394
This lol
This is so obvious
She is using him
But the retarded OP wants the sweet puss puss so he wont do shit and will be left devastated when she does cheat

>> No.56062491

>>56061908
>youre so poor she has to get a career

Women who want to have a nice life should get a career and not rely on men. I dont like having women rely on me for things they cant afford

>> No.56062494

>>56062231
Will do this is push comes to shove. If she loses her job or some shit happens where she cant afford $100 she will need to go back to her parents. I dont like freeloaders

>> No.56062515

>>56055385
you'll get bad answers from anons that are angry about their poor investments (chainlink, mostly) if you ask here, better go to /adv/

>> No.56063638

>>56055933
...it worked for thousands of years before because of children and social pressure to become parents at a young age.

I get as a guy where you are coming from but my grandparents never wore protection, their parents before them didn't. Almost all relationships being made back then were to create families.

You desiring just the woman is actually a cause of the problem with modern women too. Many of them will just never want to work for a guy who doesn't want a family. In your whole post, it never mentioned at all about wanting her to bear your children.

Almost all men back in those days were men that stuck with their choice. They fuck a girl, in hopes if actually marrying her to start a family. Most times maybe kid first.

Even those asian tradwives white men obsess about. Guess why they are so tradwive? They want families.

Filipina girls especially due to religious beliefs all think they can find a strong white man to have a family with. Many of them get fucked and end up having hapa kids left in their third world shithole, but some lucky ones get out and move to the US/Canada.

It's a mix of a lot of social issues, but the decline of men wanting to be fathers until their 30's to 40's is a big reason. Along with the fact it's almost a luxury to have a family now with so much financial burdens.

>> No.56063657

if you're a retarded faggot who's sweating money you can make her pay half, you just have to put the words nicely and make her feel listened
if you had any wisdom you would not bother creating a wedge between you for the sake of $100. man is supposed to provide anyway. arguing about petty money problems dries the pussy like nothing else
either way your problems are your own creation. this is an extremely simple solution to handle, just snap out of your pretend autism

>> No.56063692

>>56055385
>$50 a month on food
wtf? where are you moving to? Africa? I spend $50 a week home cooking for 2

>> No.56063713

>>56055816
That looks incredibly delicious. I wish I could experience the innocent joy this woman is having.

This is a bait thread

>> No.56064025

Get out of there. You already failed too many shit tests and she doesn't respect you anymore.

>> No.56064102

>>56055900
I thought this was bait but then I read your other posts and I realized you are dead serious lmao

You're a fucking retard, kill yourself, that's not the world we live in. Your world involves me making the equivalent of today $200k salary and the wifey staying home. In no place in these 50 states is it cheap enough to afford that lifestyle single income, on $60k?????? LOLLLLLLL

This is what women wanted and this is what women get, they wanted independence, they wanted boss babe, they hated being "objectified" and being "forced to sit idle at home" and all that other shit. Now they pay half the rent.

>but bro she'll cheat on you

Then it sounds like OP should consider dumping her and switching over to escorts. It's probably a lot cheaper than what he's shelling out now for this one. That's currently what I do and I'm perfectly happy. I've been ordering escorts for like 4 years now and it gets the job done, sure sometimes you are sad about the state of the world, maybe you give a girl your number and see where it goes, but then you are soon reminded that every western woman is a boss babe and a housewife at the same time. They want to have the cake and eat it too, they want to work, to spend 100% of their money on themselves, while you work, to cover their bare essentials. No they won't pay towards bills. This has been a common occurrence in my last couple relationships as well and yeah I just end up kicking them out and blocking them on all socials because this is a team effort nowadays and if we aren't a team then you can get the fuck out.

>> No.56064936

>>56055385
I bet she wants all the traditional lady treatment but isn't cooking and cleaning at all just watching netflix all day looking at other guys on social media
Leave asap like rocky

>> No.56064939

>>56057649
What the fuck does that have to do with anything?
Plus it still happens now so whats your point?

>> No.56065278

>>56064102
Minus the escorts, this has been my experience too. Actually most of my friends' experience as well. We just rotate new women in once the old ones become too big of pains in the ass and they all, always, all of them, become pains in the ass. And they all tend to pull the exact same shit. It's maddening. It's like they're all a hivemind or collective consciousness or some shit.

I could probably write a book at this point called "The Bullshit of Women" that talks about the broad categories of bullshit they bring and every guy would read it and swear we're all just dating the exact same woman who can somehow exist in multiple places simultaneously making all of our lives miserable.

It's not even little stuff where you can shrug and go "oh okay...I'll let that slide" When you actually examine this stuff it's huge knife-to-your-throat shit that someone who was your arch-nemesis actively trying to fuck with you or sabotage you might do, but certainly not someone who has the expectation of you eventually signing up for a life long commitment with them.

These women all run around acting like the only way your love is real is if they can make you bleed. And then, they're grossed out by the sight of blood. It's complete fucking insanity. I can see why you use escorts.

>> No.56065320

>>56055385
Don't pay a cent for that whore