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I wish I just manned up and accepted the punishment for what I did but I was too scared. And another part of me hates me for even accepting the task when I knew I was autistic in that regard. But I was tpo scared to say no. But if I did say know I would've lamented how I'm not pushing myself and how I'm being a pussy. I wish I could've just succeeded. I wish someone would hug me right nowand tell me its going to be okay and that I'm strong.

>>55905282
>>55905297
It depends.

>>55905297
Jesus is the answer. Run to Jesus and He will give you strength.

>>55905391
I'm too scared. I've turned away so many times. How can I keep asking for chances when I fuck it up all the time.

>>55905391
I reject your jewish gods and false heroes

>>55905282
dude, you are so close. your post means your brain is trying to process the past trauma regarding your dad. in the end YOU have to live YOUR life.
choose fight over flight. endure pain. just make a conscious decision to not run away. a job is just a job. take pride in your work but don't stress yourself over it.
also stop "gooning" and realize that your compulsive masturbation is just another "running away" from reality.
stop running away. stand your ground.
also lay off the weed.
embrace the suck.
fight!

Once, I rang up about $300 worth of goods on the register, but didn't press the credit card thing, so the woman left without paying. The manager just laughed it off the next day. I just went and told him straight away before he could find out himself.

>>55905475
Were you anxious? Did you feel like throwing up or commiting suicide?

>>55905282
RIP her beautiful tits

>>55905297
I love you Anon, everything is going to be okay. Now that you've noticed your behavior you can now consciously try to fight it next time it happens, the trick is to grow accustomed to those situations, you probably will not be successful of the first try but you have to keep going and be strong.

I believe in you, you can overcome this.

i ran over a passengers painting they were taking with them to dubai because i didnt realize that i had forgot to close up a baggage container (pic rel) before taking it up to the plane a while back (was on hour 11 of a 12 hour shift on like my 7th day in a row so i was fatigued as fuck)
manager seemed pissed but in the end it turned out he was just mad that my supervisor didnt report what happened correctly so when the airline rep rang him he had no idea it had happened
didnt even get written up or officially warned or anything despite the fact the painting belonged to a very rich business class customer and the painting was probably relatively expensive or held some sentimental value
managers who dont understand that sometimes shit happens and get pissed over things that dont personally affect them when it was obviously a mistake are just assholes, quit the job and move on to the next thing

>immediately searched for Dem booba
>was not disappointed

>>55905505
I didn't really depend on that job - I was a uni student and it was just a store job, but I felt like throwing up, yeah. Then I thought "hey, is this guy gonna hit me? no. Will life keep going? Yeah. Will insurance pay for it? Sure."

Like, many bigger mistakes are made in the world. There are accounting teams who misplace millions regularly. It just happens. We're human. I get where you're coming from, though, but just put things into perspective when you fuck up.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCBASt507WA
STANDING ON YOUR MANAGER'S PORCH
YOU SAID YOU'D WAIT FOREVER
Ohh, when you held the bag
I knew that it was now or never
Those were the worst days of my crypto life

>>55905282
Bro, everyone fucks up at their job in some way or other. Today I caused headaches for a bunch of people because I made an error. Guess what? I played it cool and it got solved and nobody gives a shit. I still have my high paying job and do good work otherwise. As long as you don't kill or rape anyone or destroy hundreds of thousands of dollars of company property, you're fine, but you need to play it cool or else you will be eaten alive. Think about it this way, if surgeons, CEOs, politicians, etc. can make mistakes and get away with it without losing face, so can you.

>>55905417
Are you retarded? I'm an atheist but even I know Jesus' forgiveness is infinite. God you christcucks are so gullible, it's like a mental illness.

>>55905671
Based Bryan Adams enjoyer.

You need to stop smoking weed. It’s making you one thousand times more anxious and impulsive than you otherwise would be.

>>55905282
I did something that could've got me suspended for 5 days and my reaction to my supervisor telling me this was saying "shoot". He said he would just pretend like it didn't happen. Just be likeable.

>>55905417
I think it's like this:
You're not scared that he won't forgive you, or will shut you out. You're scared because you know accepting His forgiveness means repentance, and that repentance means manning up, and taking some great and terrifying resposibility in your life and living right with God. You're scared of accepting that responsibility.

Be a good and faithful servant, because the wicked, lazy servant s the one who ends up in hell.

>>55905282
You just know that bitch is fat
She is definitely scamming with her angle
Only fat girls have tits like that

>>55905837
She isn't. Look up realfrogg leak on google.

>>55905417
Luke 17:3-6 Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.
And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him.
And the apostles said unto the Lord, Increase our faith.
And the Lord said, If ye had faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye might say unto this sycamine tree, Be thou plucked up by the root, and be thou planted in the sea; and it should obey you.

>>55905282

Generally when you do make a mistake, you acknowledge it, take responsibility if you believe it to be your fault and then work towards a resolution. I train new guys on heavy equipment and have had new hires make fuck ups that cost thousands in a second, your situation was nothing.

It sounds like you suffer from a form of mental diversion from an anxiety disorder. You're never going to progress in anything or find success until you treat the root cause of your behaviour.

You're 24 now, young men are given the chance the make mistakes and learn. No one wants to teach an old man and you're a couple years away from entering that realm, in which case you will probably never change and your life will only get worse and worse as you age and deteriorate.

>>55906162
frightening words at the end there

>>55905282
You have to lay off the drugs and totally kick ass for a while

>>55905282
Whenever I mess up I first consider wether someone else can find out about it. If no, I just keep going.

If yes, I apologize and say I won't do the same mistake again.
If it's a big fuck up, I even list the steps I take to prevent the same mistake from happening again.

>>55906172
I want to scare you because in my late 20s, I felt exactly like you and almost committed suicide. A person is sculpted and develops by overcoming life experiences, if not, they just rot away. All the cheap dopamine highs you gave yourself all of the sudden come with a massive toll that is unbearable. You're no longer a teenager just fucking around who has his future in front of him, you're a deranged and lost man who has failed at everything.

You seriously need some wins in life, OP. And you need to set yourself up to achieve that. I don't know what you want out of life or what makes you happy, but for once in your life, pursue something that is important to you. And if you don't know what that is, at least find something for the intermittent you might enjoy and that will put you on a healthy schedule. Working as a security guard or driver is better than nothing and most of those will hire green guys.

>>55905282
Are you retarded? Just apologize its not that hard, people fuck up. You seem like a retard so people will probably expect you to fuck up. Stop running away lmao wtf is this

Do you run home crying and hide under your sheets? Please tell me more details this is hilarious.

>>55905282
WHOA! Did you guys see those big, fat tits in OPs picture? Far out!

Thats a man

>>55905523
WHAT? NOOO!
What the FUCK IS WRONG WITH WOMEN???

https://youtu.be/wklDd8o8HFQ

The trauma is not your fault op

>>55905845
Don't need to, her body looks like shit in the OP. Flabby as gut is already exposed. Low tier trash

>>55906477
Confirmed for faggot

>>55905282
I did this on my work experience placement at a print works. It was going so well and everyone was really happy with me. Then some delivery guys turned up to pick up a consignment and spoke to me, and I told them it had already been picked up by somebody else, so the dude drove 2 hours back empty handed. When I realised my mistake I did the same thing as you, dropped everything and ran like the wind as far away as I could in a panic.

I forced myself to turn up the next day to face the music and take the shitstorm, but got away with it as the big boss wasn't there. The other guys laughed at me but said it wasn't a big deal and told me not to worry, then dismissed me and sent me home as it was my last day anyway.

>>55905282
based. everyone should do this when some faggy little manager cuck tries to say shit to them. from now on this should be the norm.

You should only act accordingly to the consequences of your actions. Like, you forgot to give a customer their goods at a wagey job and the customer came back the next day complaining. You should ask yourself:
>what is the worst that can happen here?
You get fired over it and find some other minimum wage job. Both the manager and your own panic regarding the situation will try to up-play how dire your mistake was but in the grand scheme of things it was tiny. You caused some slight inconvenience to a customer that has already been rectified because the customer came back the next day. If you feel it was an honest mistake and your manager was deliberately trying to humiliate and brow-beat you in front of the customer over almost nothing you should stand up for yourself. Tell the manager excactly that. What is the worst he can do? Fire you? ooo no not your wagie job! You need to get used to confrontation being an option. Too many people cuck out because they feel as though confrontation is not worth it over being walked all over. Get used to confronting people you feel have wronged you or need to be confronted.

>>55905282
why does her face look like that even though she has giant milkers?

>>55905282
One time I accidentally accepted a counterfeit $100 bill at work towards the end of my shift. Told my boss right away, but the sheer disappointment he expressed towards me was so intense, I bought a bottle of liquor on my way hope and drank while thinking about how I should kill myself. I actually cried for the first time in a long while that night. Like legitimately cried. Felt really cathartic. Woke up, threw up a bunch, and that was pretty much it. In the end no one really cared much and it became a joke some of my coworkers would tease me about, so I guess it wasn't all that bad. Still traumatized me though, I'm glad I managed to get out of the retail hellscape

>>55905282
If you stopped depleting your test and fucking up your dopamine by gooining daily, you'd be less of a "cuck" and making fuckups

>>55905417
your acts don't save you nor can they condemn you, sin is innate, salvation on the cross was assured. simply believe, then go and do what seems right, and if you've found your faith then you will also find you begin doing good

isn't weed supposed to make you like, not care about stupid shit like that?

>>55905282
>My dad used to beat me
>Runs away when confronted by a man with a low tone
Gee, I wonder why this flight response could be so deeply rooted in your psyche. Go to a therapist.

Back when I was in High School, I worked at a shoe store as a stock boy. One day, I went to work high and accidentally stocked a whole wall backwards. When I realized what I had done, I just walked away and never looked back. That's what children do. Now I'm a man and I don't do that anymore.

What we all need to learn to do is apologize when we screw up. And that means take ALL responsibility and don't make excuses or throw other people under the bus. Even most adults don't do this. But that is what real men do. It takes practice and courage.

>why am I so pathetic and unable to stand up for myself
>I have a crippling porn addiction

Youre low T and high on prolactin and its turned you into a child in an adults body.

>>55905282
>>55905282
>When you guys fuck up at a job what do you do?
Recent huge fuck up here. You have to confront the issue head on, then just let the chips fall where they may. It took 2 weeks after apologizing for my anxiety to go away and I know people are still pissed at me but you gotta forgive yourself at some point and move on.
>retail
Thats not a fuck up, you dont know a real fuck up till you do irreparable damage to your brand

Also my dad used to mentally abuse me but never really hit me. Not on a regular basis anyway. If I had a crying and screaming episode because I was really distressed he'd blow up and smack me once and theatened me if I carried on so that is probably still abuse and I have a similar mindset to you where when someone starts to raise their tone with me my heartrace goes up and I feel like Im going to get hit or something. I always have this weird disconnect when my bosses are kind to me. It makes me think "huh, It didnt escalate into something overwhelming, how strange".

Low empathy dads with no emotional regulation ruin their kids. I think its especially bad now because of how poorly connected families are with the community so nobody can call them out for their bad behaviour so it escalates until they think threatening, screaming and dominating their kids seems normal to them.

Then they get mad when you tell them about how they treated tyou as kids and tell you to fuck off out of their lives, then act like the victim when you actually do it.

>>55908783
I also had an abusive father who is now my boss, forgot to add that.
In my experience you just have to white knuckle it.

>>55905282
I don't own up to it ever. I just blame it on a vague "them," like:
>oh yeah I think when they were implementing it that way they weren't thinking that things like this could happen
or "we" or "the company"
>yeah we need to work together to get this working properly
etc.

They don't pay me enough to own up to anything, lol

>>55908839
My dad acts like I'm being a horrible cunt when I try to tell him about his conduct when I was a kid. He still gets pissed when I dont just agree with him with everything and lap up everything he says. You cant fix narcissists unfortunately. He loves to brag about any success I have but never has it been to my face, only to others. Its weird

And yeah I agree you have to white knuckle stuff like this. If its ruining OP's life he may benefits from anti depressants. When they work you develop a protective shield where surface level interactions bounce right off you. Its good for working retail

>>55908858
Owning up to stuff is the right play. Especially when youre not in an endgame job.

If youre the CEO of a company or the director of your own business I can see why admitting mistakes would go against you but when youre just a drone working a middle job you should absolutely own up to mistakes.

Dont apologise though. Recognise it and say how youre going to fix it in the future. People will respect you for the honesty. most people wont show it directly but when they catch you out skirting a mistake you lose a lot of respect from them and usually youll never win it back. Youll be earmarked as that loser who cant own up to shit.

If you actually own up with dignity peopel will remember you as that guy with his head screwed on. Everyone fucks up.

>>55905282
Lots of good advice here, but at the end of the day you have to remember that nobody is really out to get you, they're all worried about their own lives.
That customer that didn't get their items? They just wanted to get their shit and gtfo.
That manager that had to hear a customer bitching at them? They just wanted them out of their face and to try to make sure it doesn't happen again in the future so she has less customers in her face.

If they start attacking you, it's just bullying and harassment to make themselves feel better about having someone to tear down, and you do NOT have to accept that. But you should accept your mistakes, vocalize your accountability, and try to resolve it. You help the customer by giving them their shit and letting them gtfo, and you help your manager by reassuring her that you acknowledged your mistake and that it won't happen again.
You should be trying to resolve the conflict but getting everyone on the side of solving the problem, distract them away from playing the blame game, but if it comes to it, yes it was your mistake.

Honestly this might be terrifying but it would be good for your soul if you approached the manager hat in hand and apologized, that you tell her the truth, that you made a mistake, that you freaked out because you made a mistake. They might not forgive you, they might not understand, but that you took accountability will mean you're taking the right steps to doing the right thing next time when you're actually in the heat of the moment.

>>55909070
In my current job I was straight up with my manager about my mental problems and because of it hes extremely accommodating and has been nothing but friendly. If anything its made him like me more. I do a lot of stuff outside of work with him. I think being open about whats going on and him seeing my improve over time has helped him to respect me.

If I hadnt done that and been vulnerable he would have just seen some half assed guy who cant be relied on. I know what I'd rather be seen as. Once you own you problems the only way is up

>>55908889
Yeah you know what, owning up at a wagie job where you will never own the company or its capital is pretty pointless and I think you're pathetic if you care how your fellow wagies "remember you."

>>55905282
That's a man

>>55905282
You just have to play the game. Don’t admit it directly just say “it’s possible there was some misunderstanding but I’ll do whatever I can to remedy the situation” then ask the manager “should we get the items now and give them to our friend here?” Then you have deflected the negative energy onto them and they are disarmed. I learned this in my corporate escapades. It’s all passive bullshit. Just play the game

>>55909129
Why do you think its so bad to own up to a mistake when people openly suspect and know youve made the mistake?

You think its a face saving thing to not own up but its actually the complete opposite and youre only doing it because your self esteem is too low to confront fucking up

Its weird because I had an upbringing where I was abused if I acted out but I've somehow turned it around and can openly air my flaws. People like me for it. Its nice to be genuine sometimes.

>>55908889
that’s not really how it works in our talmudic economy. “Expectations” are built around words, if you admit fault they’ll punish you accordingly. Not the best example, but it’s like if you go to the emergency room and say you’re going to kill yourself if they let you leave. They’re know you’re not serious, because if you were you wouldn’t have told them, but they have a professional obligation to take it seriously and prevent you from leaving. Being ignorant is considered worse than being negligent.

It’s not quite as relevant if you’re working for a huge corporation (at least not for simple wagie jobs) but in small companies you have to stand your ground or management will fuck you over to protect their ego, even if it hurts the business

>>55909247
Yes nuance is highly involved

If your boss hates you theyll come down on you like a ton of bricks. If they like you theyll respect the honesty and appreciate your input on how to be better

Lets be honest if a boss suspects their underling of fucking up. For all intents and purposes they know they fucked up. Then they give some roundabout excuse how they didnt fuck up. Youll never leave that situation feeling more respect for them and most of the time youll dislike them more for it

If your boss hates you theres probably mroe to it than having to save face.

>>55909247
Exactly what this guy says

I was actually surprised recently that I had trouble verifying the accuracy of one of my assignments with a due date of Monday afternoon and I had to tell my supervisor about it because it was taking me too long to figure out. I left it for last because it was supposed to be one of the “easy” ones on my list and I wanted to do the harder ones first suspecting thats where there would be a major fuck up.
She was really unhappy about it and told me so and how I shouldn’t have waited until the last minute if I knew I wasn’t done yet on Friday which was a weird experience because I’ve pretty much never been reproved for my work performance in my entire career.
In hindsight it would have been a lot smarter to just submit it wrong and play dumb when the error came out.

I had a coworker fuck up a billion dollars worth of trades and lost the company like 100k. Dude didn’t get fired. Moral of the story is you can get away with pretty much anything

>>55909514
Its all about networking. If people hate you they'd fire you for stealing a 40 cent choco bar from the canteen. If they really like you as a person theyd cover your ass if you accidentally set the entire building on fire

>>55907000
The problem is it seems like op got beaten over trivially small things, which is why his response to everything is to gtfo.

He does need some wins and some therapy. Weight lifting helps too. The sounds of heavy weights hitting the ground can start off scary but become therapeutic.

>>55906477
I thank god every day I don’t have low t

>>55909831
My test is higher than yours. Zinc, D3, Mucuna, Boron etc with 3 weight training sessions per week, 2 sprint sessions per week, and 1 rock climbing session per week

I thank god everyday I never have to settle to be attracted to a solid 4 fat bitch you can find in any book store in your area

>>55910396
So you admit to being homosexual

Wow she’s so ugly

>>55910423
No Anon, I'm actually attracted to attractive women. Not everyone on this website is a bottom feeding, ugly loser with bad hygiene and 0 communication skills. Sorry my standards trigger you bottom feeders so much. keep playing with your shriveled dicks to literal 4s though.

FAT BITCH I SUGLY AS FUCK

>>55905391
>Christcucks trying to go 5 minutes without marketing their feminist jewlover religion

>>55910455
Checked and factspilled. Doughboy ass bitch really has some simps on here defending her poverty ass honor

>>55910468
Cope rabbi

>>55910461
>projection

>>55910772
Whatever helps you cope anon. Go subscribe to more OnlyFans while you hide behind your bible thumping.

>>55905282
My god you are so fucking gay it's sad.

Also.... Why are this man's tits blue/purple?

>>55910811
Those are what natural breasts lool like

>>55905282
>Fucking tackle hooked in her face like an retard edgelord
into the trash it goes

>>55910798
I don’t watch porn or masturbate.
We are not the same.

>>55910754
>implying rabbis don't want more christ golems

>>55905282
Stop being a pussy. Accept the punishment, ask what you can do to make it better and that's it. You will find most people don't really mind that much when you make a mistake and nobody is going to hurt you for it. Worst case scenario you get fired, and you're already doing that yourself so there's literally nothing worst than what you already have, the only way is up!

Come on, back to worky worky, those x.com bags don't get pumped themselves you know?

I'm 34 and have always been working for other people doing stupid shit like working at home depot, roofing, landscaping etc. I am sure I've fucked up countless times but can't even remember a single incident because it doesn't matter at all. Everyone at work is pretending that what they're doing is important and matters. None of it fucking matters. At the end of the day you are slightly adjusting the profit margin for some big corporation or business where the owners are rich. Who gives a fuck?

>>55912092
When I fuck up I admit it, take full responsibility, make no excuses and just say "I won't let it happen again"
That's all people want to hear, they want you to look them in the eye, accept total responsibility and tell them you will do better.
Any other reaction will just piss people off. Even if it wasn't your fault, trying to explain how it wasn't will just annoy people.

>>55905282
>>55905297
Dude what the fuck are you talking about.
With a minor issue like that never pledge guilty. Make an excuse. If someone confronts you stare them down.

At shitty low end jobs never quit, never run. If you run it means you're a sissy loser. Make them fire your ass instead. And firther, if they have no evidence of your incompetence threathen them with a lawsuit. Free money trick. Also fuck niggers

>>55905282
>and in that very instance I bolted for the door. I just ran and kept running
i can't believe people can be that retarded. nice gpt story though

>>55905282
I did this to my girlfriend of 11 months. She started nagging me and I felt a huge pressure and realization like "this will be the rest of your life". I couldn't face breaking up with her in person -- if I didn't witness her crying (she was fully reliant on me like a daughter) then it basically didn't happen. I booked a flight home without telling her, took a day off from work without telling her, packed up my things, and left. Of course she tried contacting me after, but I didn't read the messages, not completely anyways.

>>55905282
why are white girls trying so hard to be asian these days?

>>55905671
I remember an old Jay Leno bit about a guy in a coma whose family wheeled him to a Bryan Adams concert and he actually woke up during it, which was ironic because it was a Bryan Adams concert that put him in the coma.

>>55913213
You never followed up for closure?

>>55905282
Dude you’re a retard. I’d happily beat the shit out of you.

Funny story, I’ve dated hundreds of single moms just so I can beat up their worthless autistic son. You should try it

>>55905282
Based runner.
Become a thief and steal from rich bad people.

>>55905282
You're going to get chewed out at any job including if it's your business and it comes in the form of customer complaints. Get used to it. You can say okay and apologize. You'd be surprised how hard you can fuck up before they actually fire you. Unless you do something incredibly negligent it takes a long time of multiple fuckups before they even get close to shitcanning you.

Im an engineer and got chewekd out by my boss couple times already for just generally being retarded. He was professional about it but still awkward as fuck. The trick is, just don't give a fuck but don't be a dick. You show up, do your job, get paid and go home and not think about work. If you keep fucking up and get fired who cares, life will find a way.

>>55914338
>go home and not think about work
how do i do this

never apologize, never surrender
you're the pretender

You probably have avoidant personality disorder or some kind of C-PTSD if you act in similar ways in other areas of your life. Your behavior isn’t normal and the fact that you mentioned your dad shows that you know it’s connected somehow. Basically your self worth is scrambled because of your dad’s abuse. You are so used to facing punishment for things that had no rhyme or reason that now that you have a choice to run away from any kind of judgement at all, you choose to flee instead. You’re anticipating the same kind of punishment because you have no conception of the proper consequences if you fuck up. This is classic avoidant behavior - what you actually did was not that bad but your reaction to avoid your behavior was actually the weird thing. You did nothing wrong anon and I hope you get some help, whatever that may mean to you
>t. similar childhood and behavior

>>55905282
he would be cute if it wasn't so obvious he was a man.

>>55915774
Also there’s no set path to feel better after childhood abuse but I recommend trying to make connections between your childhood and your life now (maybe keep a journal) and taking time to work out or go on walks or something

>>55910754
Jesus was a rabbi, read your own book

>>55905282
Christ anon you need therapy not a message board. Barring that maybe try some, i dont know the technical name so ill just describe it. I want everytime you start to feel that fight or flight response coming on to think back to your dad.
I want you to remember the time he beat you the worst, when you were sure you were dying. Now bring that memory up and compare it to what is happening.
Is this as bad? No
Am i gonna survive this? Yes
Sometimes a simple phrase, "I've survived worse" will be the only axiom you need.

>>55905551
Who gives a fuck about some towelheads stolen painting

>>55913360
>I’ve dated
DOUBT

>>55905282
>When you guys fuck up at a job what do you do?
I shrug and say “it is what it is, if it’s going to be a problem go talk to my union rep.”

>>55905282
when I fuck up at a job I have to fix it, so I do that and take responsibility for it.

t. executive

>>55917452
>>55917452
What do you tell your union bosses?

I spilled a grand worth of paint last week and felt nothing

>>55905282
you my qualify for disability checks!

when i fuck up at work, i plain face tell my boss i fucked up and direct the conversations on how it can be fixed and prevented next time.
i notice my coworkers seem to hide fuck ups hoping manager doesnt notice and when they do, they try to play dumb
i also noticed my coworkers always say im a great worker and my bosses seem to always not like me

my logic is that if they wanted someone to do the job perfectly, they would have to hire a much better candidate and pay them much more.