/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>55760735
Have you tried not being autistic/ugly?

I'm from central-eastern Europe and it's a bit more trad but I find girlfriends at sporting events/organizations. Met my ex-gf at a tennis event.

Girls who are into sports and work/study don't have THAT much time to rot on social media and absorb various secular humanist poisons.

>>55760749
Honestly I'm not that autistic/ugly. Just not that well spoken.

I feel that people often underestimate the skill of flirting and being well spoken :(

>>55760735
do you regularly speak to women?

>>55760735
>socializing doesnt come naturally to me. very happy with being alone but obviously not long term sustainable
>have to work at getting good social skills. act super outgoing. start to look like a natural social animal
>burn out from talking to people. hole up by myself for a couple weeks to recharge
>social skills dogshit again
have yet to figure out how to win this one. people are exhausting

>>55760735
kek no offense anon but are you retarded? There's ugly, fat, skinny, broke and short guys who are getting laid with no prob. You gotta be awkward af if you're failing.
Maybe outsource your online dating convos to AI? Literally have AI talk to the girls for you.

>>55760897
domains are the new meta

>>55760899
domains?

>>55760901
Burgers?

>>55760861
of-course anon. You.. don't?

>>55760885
this, but I'm incredibly unhappy and depresseb being alone, and don't get any better so it's groundhogs day everyday and there is no escape

>>55760904
business?

>>55760897
I've literally tried using AI to get convos (cupidbot), and girls literally give their numbers to the AI within like 3 messages, it's fucking insane, I try to tailor my messages to them and flirt and the AI literally just mechanically inserts a cliche catchphrase with a very direct prompt asking or her number.

AHHHHH

>>55760735
Women are attracted to your immune system. Read Ray Peat

>>55760935
go back to fucking jewtube nigger. i have have to hear that name one more time i stg

>>55760931
>found the solution to his problem
>doesn't use it
do you enjoy your suffering?

>>55760943
He was a doctor and he never was a youtuber. Wtf are you smoking skin

>>55760907
They can sense the desperation and it's a turn off. Women dont want to be smothered early on and they want a man they need not who needs them. Remember you're dealing with illogical animals

Yeah it's far easier to make 200k/yr than to find a 5/10 gf

>>55760931
topkek well if AI can't help you like this, maybe invest in AI
pic related

>>55760956
I don't want a fucking aI solving my problems, it can't do that forever. And also the number of matches is still extremely low.

>>55760993
probably the most useful reply. thanks anon, really making me think. I'm doing nofap for a month now, and honestly it's making me more desperate not less.

>>55761053
just read a bunch of ai outputs and then kinda copy that. thats essentially what learning to socialize is anyway, except instead of copying ai youre copying the dumb idiots you have to talk to irl

>>55760735
It's probably over for you, but not because of something you can't fix.
You're probably just poorly socialized, have you had close female friends as part of a mixed-sex friend group before?
The things you'd need to change about your personality are probably subtle even if you gave us enough information to know what they are (you haven't).
It'd probably be possible to learn now, but very difficult at your age.

>>55761109
honestly had very few really close friends (and no close female friends) :(

easy to make acquaintances, but hard to make really close friends, although I'm starting to realise maybe I set my bars as to what close friends are, too high. Most people have scumbags for friends that won't take trouble for you, and will rat you out at the earliest available opportunity.

>>55760993
> Remember you're dealing with illogical animals
I don't women like OP either nigga, OP needs to get a grip and fix himself

>>55760735
>get a zoomer haircut
>grow your beard
>stop using glasses at all
>upload profiles pictures in which you're next to a car or travelling somewhere like (preferably Europe)
That's literally all you have to do, if you truly want a GF you'll do it, otherwise deep down you are scared about having a relationship and all the drama involved and you love being alone

>>55761239
>Grow a beard
Beard fags get ugly gfs

>>55760735
Bro you just need to increase your net worth so you can finally get a woman willing to spend time with you :^)
Tell you what. you could probably really get yourself a nice 5x with kava if you're willing to wait until their incentive program pays off.

>>55761239
sauce...?

>>55761733
>have to wait until a bunch of ETH developers decide to bring their talent/skills to this chain
crypto is so fucking boring