/biz/ - Business & Finance

How would you know when you can't get one?

>>55391296
Do you really want to know?

>>55391296
If you're ugly then yeah she'll give you hard time and make you pay for everything. If you're mid then she treats you as such. If you're the prize, well you win

If you have to do all that for her, then she isn't your girlfriend.
You're her bitch.
Do some of it if you want to if you want to make your lady feel appreciated, but if you feel she'd leave your shit ass if you stopped pumping money on her, then she ain't into you anyway man.

>>55391308
This. Find someone actually in your league and you'll find yourself not spending money anymore.

>>55391296
The modern concept of having a “girlfriend” is so fucking retarded holy shit

>>55391296
You are retarded. When I met my girlfriend yeah I paid for dinner and would drive and such but I never bought her clothes and she never asked for clothes or gifts unless I offered. Find better women Anon

>>55391296
My gf steals clothes from Goodwill.

>>55391296
If your girlfriend cannot be satisfied with less than $500 a month and your attention, she is a thot. As a man, you are expected to cover rent and bills, any excess she wants are entirely up to her. But you do have to pay for her needs and outings within a reasonable extent. Keep in mind, these privileges are for committed, trustworthy women. This should be someone you see a future marriage with. If you invest in a woman when you are young, she will have your devotion and remain as your "security" just in case something were to happen to you, so your children would be taken care of. If you're not in a committed traditional relationship, then fuck her.

>>55391296
PSYOPS HAVE CONSEQUENCES

>>55391296
Ha. I don’t feel comfortable dating unless I make $240K/year. I’ve just given up on the prospect.

>>55392879
very truthful
Key point is committed, trustworthy women
Due to hoeflation in the US, these american hoes want their rent+extras paid while also talking to other men, it's fucked

OP, moving to Mexico might help - or at the very least get a foreign latina / asian girlfriend that isn't americanized

How do I hide my power level?

>>55391330
This. I just date a new girl every few months after I get bored with the previous one. Maybe I’m sociopathic, maybe I’m autistic, maybe I’m just numb to modern “dating culture” so I take advantage of the situation. Who gives a shit

>>55392879
>$500 a month

Lmao get a load of this faggot. I take my girlfriends to cheap mexican restaurants or in-n-out. Maybe if she’s lucky we can go to olive garden. If you’re actually paying for her clothes and shit you’re a cuck. Ghost her and move on to the next dumb roastie

>>55392840
based, fuck Goodwill

>>55393139
>>55393147

People like you have no right to call women that sleep with loads of men sluts. You're part of the problem.

>>55391296
>They want you to pay for
You don't have a gf, you're just her current simp

>>55393249
Not my problem roastie. You enabled this problem by inventing “dating culture” and not just having everybody get married at 18 now it’s yours to deal with.

>>55391296
Why the fuck are you buying them clothes, anon?

>>55391296
If she's just using you as an ATM then she's not worth dating. I haven't paid shit for my GF other than the occasional meal here and there for a long time already.

>>55392840
Based methhead gf.

GFs usually pay half the rent

>>55391296
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlLH_ph74Es

>>55391296
>clothes, nails and makeup hair etc etc.
If you pay for any of these things you're a retard and deserve to get fleeced off your money.
For me, I buy the groceries most of the time and that's it. Otherwise we rarely (once a month) go to a restaurant but I mostly like buying tickets to concerts for the both of us instead.

>>55391315
If he doesn't do it, she won't either and he's the bitch if an ugly girl.

>>55391296
Not all of them do. The one I'm about to date is as generous as I am, and pays for some stuff while I pay for others.

Find one who actually respects you.

>>55391296

My gf pays for me usually.

>>55393249
It takes 2 to tango. Think on that.

>>55393327
Based&Redpilled
(But this is probably one of the reasons older women are often bitter)

>>55392879
What was that psychological principle called that stated women are loyal up until the point you can no longer provide what they have come to expect, while men tend to think their gifts build up 'cred' over time. You seem to be an example of it. I would never get my girl in the habit of relying on my income because she will simply see it as a privilege owed to her once she gets used to it.

>>55391296
>they want you to pay for literally everything
Sucks to be you I guess. My girls want to suck my dick and pay for my stuff... have yout tried being better looking, taller and charismatic?

t. Chad

>>55393249
>you have no right to bla bla
Suck it up and swallow princess, there are no rules or rights

>>55391296
> Want you to pay for everything
Mutts really are doormats.
Tell her to get a job.
If she's looking after your children then that's her job.

>meet a girl through an escort service
>we surprisingly have a lot in common and can easily talk for hours about all kinds of interesting topics she isnt dumb at all
>eventually becomes gf but now cant do her escort job anymore and agrees to stop doing it
>pay for everything myself, for the rent for my and her place until she moves over
>pay for her clothes, makeup, pay for food, vacations, buy her a new iphone and even feed her cat
>she goes back to school to study and I pay for that too
>she manages to get hired in a respectable company
>cucks me with some guy she met there and leaves me from one day to the other after 9 years together
>only see my daughter once a month

>>55391296
Asian wife makes 300k+ a year at FAANG while I eek out $170k. I have her pay for everything, and still get love me long time. You can feel bad for me because I never last, usually two pump chump into her hole I dump

>>55391330
This. Unlike wives that theoretically offer you lifetime companionship, support, progeny, and a legacy, girlfriends don't give you anything except sex. Any emotional connection you think you have with them is a scam because you both know that you're both going to "move on" within a few years. They are essentially expensive live-in rented prostitutes and nothing more.

At that point there are cheaper ways to have your sexual needs satisfied and girlfriends are slowly becoming obsolete as men start to realize that they offer no benefit that hookers don't. I guess you could say that the only real benefit of girlfriends is social proof but wives are much better in that regard too.

>>55395485
Aren't wives the same because of modern marriage law
They can move on just as quickly as girlfriends. It's called no fault divorce.
And of course gfs are not like hookers, gfs actually feel emotion around you, however fleeting it may be.

>>55391296
That's only true for weak women who don't want to work. Find better women.

>>55391296
My gf doesn't expect me to pay for anything, she usually pays when we're at a restaurant since I usually cook when we have a meal together. This sounds like an ugliness issue, if she is attracted to you and wants to be with you she won't care about the money side of things honestly (so long as you're not a drug addict gambler with debt problems). If you're betabuxxing you should really be thinking about looksmaxing in a serious way.

>>55395450
You married a whore..? Honestly... what the fuck did you think would happen? Clearly every bad thing that happens to you is of your own making

>>55391296
be me dating woman 5 years she still reminds me daily my car isn't what she wants it to be
haven't had sex in years

>>55395542
Why do you even bother?

The reason /biz/ likes tradwives is because they are cheap and low maintenance. If you don't want a tradwife, then you'll either need to spend more or they'll need to have their own job.

I am 29 years old and I never even kissed a girl

>>55391296
Get a better girlfriend, mine doesn't want anything from me but my love and attention.

lol I never pay for dates, even roasties with bfs I was managing at my last job went out of their way to try pay for my coffees and lunches. And thats only a sliver of the attention I get. Women are disgustingly shallow creatures, Im not lying about this shit because for those of you like OP that have to be paypigs, these girls bend over backwards for other men. If I didn't go through my ugly duckling metamorphisis, I'd never have understood how different the realities are for some men.
I genuinely hope all men write women off to overcorrect the state of dating, but unfortunately therell always be men taking advantage of such a situation or just continue to enable the way things are.

>>55395497
Marriage is a risk but if you pick a good woman it can work. Women who have been ran through by 20 cocks don't feel any emotion around you, not even fleeting emotion.

>>55391315
Amen

>>55395674
20 isn't a big number.. at all

>>55395820
Imagine. Just 60 years ago you could reasonably expect to pair up with a virgin your age, for life. Now you have to grind your teeth and mutter "20 isn't a big number".

>>55395820
Still why bother with a used model. I still take used ones for a spin, might even like it, but man... I just like the feeling of a new interior that smells nice and hasn't been farted on excessively. Best ones are the ones that got fondled a little by a interested customer but still got left in the shop for a while waiting for a new more discerning owner

>>55395863
You fondle your cars?

>>55395867
... cars?

>>55395872
Idk about you, but I fart on my car and fondle it

>>55393147
If your gf doesn't cook for you 3x a day every day she's not your gf

>>55395418
Briffault's law?

>>55395485
A gf to me is a like a candidate wife.

>>55395878
I exclusively fart on my women and fondle them, but my car... I treat her like a princess that she is

>>55395853
>>55395863
dunno what i expected from here, virgins thinking that virgins are better, of course

>>55395947
Obviously for one night stands/fwb you want someone with experience but an inexperienced gf who's willing to learn how to please you is a good thing to have.

>>55391296
bro i made minimum and was wining and dining chicks spending 300-500 a night between dinner dates, uber rides, and tickets to a special event like a movie theater, museum, etc. and i did all of that because i like adventure and spontaneity.

just stop thinking it's that expensive and that you need to do those things to get a girl. if you want to go to x place because YOU want to go ahead. but if she demands that shit out of you on a consistent basis, then you gotta tell her to settle down and live with the lifestyle that you currently have, or the door's that way.
its that simple.

>>55395909
Based, same

>>55391296
I met my gf then a year later was unemployed for 3 years as I got sober. She was basically my sugar mamma. Ugly girls, older (23 years+) girls, and fat girls think making a guy pay is what hot women do, so that's how they behave. In reality, hot young girls who love you will literally pay for your whole life if you get them in deep enough - she's probably paid twice as much as I have for her, thankfully cause I'd probably be dead or still addicted otherwise. Also go for 18-19 yr range where they're prime for pair bonding.

>>55395947
Virgins are better if you aren't the type who has to ask for permission to come.

>>55393139
same, i used to be loyal until the end, but i learned that women typically aren't capable of reciprocating this when things go bad.
i just extract as much value I can out of them, and once they can't provide anymore I give them the choice to either be replaced or settle with me being shared with another girl since I'm not getting the value prop I signed up for.

Currently dating a couple of chicks and they all seem content with it.

>>55396061
you can beat around it however you like, virigin chasers are scared they're shit in bed, thats just the truth of it, stop being a little bitch and get some practice

>>55396196
I don't know how you got the idea that I'm a virgin. I already have kids. I can fart on every virgin/non-virgin on this planet if I feel like it

>>55395947
>t. thinks the more cock his partner has the better

>>55395542
>be me dating woman 5 years she still reminds me daily my car isn't what she wants it to be

what year and model car do you drive?

women are horrible at sex, most of them just lay down, barely open their legs and just take it passively, they expect everything from the man, most of them don't even know how to ride a dick ffs
virgin women are even fucking worse

>>55396428
unfortunately this.
but i still want a virgin or inexperienced one because they'll be more "moldable" or submissive to whatever you have. they'll suck for a long time, but just stick with it and it'll pay off.
the older ones come with baggage and only have kinks that are brought upon them not from themselves but from their exes.

>>55396083
I'll not forget how I'm trying to get an exemption for the vax at work (a hospital) and my vaxxed wife during an argument just starts shouting at me "I won't support you I won't support you!!". I got exempted and I make twice as much as her despite working less.

>>55397180
damn thats crazy. one of the reasons why i stopped being mr. nice guy. they really dont appreciate it when you try to give them flowers, show love, and random gifts. i just do me and tell them to play by my rules or get lost.

>>55391296
I’ve had a 9/10 gf before (10/10 to me bc she was blonde blue eye) anyway she never worked and was totally retarded with money. It cost me about $25k year plus vacations, birthday, and Christmas gifts. This included taking her out, getting her Ubers, nails, hair, some clothes, and Starbucks. It’s expensive to date hot girls bc they expect everything and anyone who says they don’t haven’t had a wife/serious gf

>>55395450
I am sorry that you are going through the pain anon. Love fucking sucks.

I have a spending application I use with my gf where we put in expenses and balance over time. She also earns more than me and has a big boy job. I sit around at home and lift weights.

>>55394730
better off with no gf then

My gf doesn't ask much from me but she has a stealing problem, she steals shit from everyone and shoplifts, like >>55392840 but not just clothes she even steals food like every time I go out with her to do some grocery shopping I'll see her pocketing apples or something. It's embarassing, how do I get her to stop?

>>55395450
Sorry you had to go through this anon.. This would have been much easier if there are no kids involved. It's strange how these thots prioritise their happiness over the wellbeing of their kids.

>>55395450
>married an escort
kek you deserve everything that happens to you.

i dont. thats why i dumped her. high maintenance bitch for my income.

>>55391296
>They want you to pay for literally everything. dinners, clothes, nails and makeup hair etc etc.
Stop right there.
You're meeting low quality women. simple as that.
Let me guess: dating apps or ((nightlife)) is how you're meeting them?

>>55391296
What? My girlfriend pays for most of my shit. What the fuck are you talking about?

>>55391296

My gf told me a funny story today. her roomate got fired from her job a month ago, and has had trouble finding a new one. so she contacted a few of the male orbiters who she used to work with, and put together a list of things she expects him to pay for her. on the list was handbags, some clothes, a few credit cards, her utilities bill, and dinner

understand that there are many women like this out there who will happily take advantage of weak pussies like yourself. if a women gives even the slightest hint of gold digging behavior, it's literally the very first sign she's not gf material. find yourself a girl who actually wants a relationship, not a wallet

>>55396196
The problem is whores like you are over practiced and only good for more practicing. No one will settle down with the town bicycle *except* for the ones you are insulting. "Just happy enough to ride it"

>>55396035
Kill yourself.

>>55400745
>. so she contacted a few of the male orbiters who she used to work with, and put together a list of things she expects him to pay for her. on the list was handbags, some clothes, a few credit cards, her utilities bill, and dinner
will men ever wake up to their slavish desire?

>>55400745
>and put together a list of things she expects him to pay for her. on the list was handbags, some clothes, a few credit cards, her utilities bill, and dinner
In exchange of sex of course? That's the part she's not telling your friend

Character.ai can give you an AI gf and you only have to pay $10 a month if you dont want the free slightly broken version. You can get chaperoned by the filter tho.

>>55391296
The year is 1995 and I sold 5 moxes (Jade, Ruby, Sapphire, and two Pearls) and two complete sets of Arabian Nights for $650. Pussy makes you do some retarded fucking things.

>>55400745
my schizophrenic friend's sister had a guy friend buy her a car. it was a used car, but he still bought her a car. she was a fat used up white trash single mother 30 something year old roastie at the time.

>>55391296
If your women actually gives a fuck about you she will pay for some of your shit without you asking for it.

>>55391296
>1 pbtid

>>55391296
my chad friend got a girl from a rich family. The grandma has like 90 rental properties. They just got gifted an apartment in the most primezone downtown.
What now OP?