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>>55284645
Depends on race.

Of course it's a trap.

Half of all marriages end in divorce, and 80% of the time the woman initiates the procedures.
The other half of marriages aren't all happy either.

You aren't going to be the special person that has a perfect marriage. You're just going to be a statistic.

Do you want to marry her and have kids? If yes, no it's not. If no, leave her today.

>>55284691
>Of course it's a trap.
>Half of all marriages end in divorce, and 80% of the time the woman initiates the procedures.
>The other half of marriages aren't all happy either.
>You aren't going to be the special person that has a perfect marriage. You're just going to be a statistic

Literally an incel post

>>55284713
This but if you want to marry her, propose and begin nightly impregnation attempts as soon as she says yes.

>>55284645
that's a man

>>55284645
Just do it manchildren or you will be malding in 2 years, 3 kids minimum
Be nice with the boomers and they may help (lol)

>>55284645
You're going places. She will not improve and will probably get worse. She is a depreciating asset.

>>55284731
ok, get married then.
Call me back in 5 years and tell me how it went.

>>55284691
Half of *all* marriages end in divorce. However, most FIRST TIME marriages do not end in divorce. Some other pro tips:
>Don't have children before you get married.
>Do some kind of couples counseling BEFORE you get married. Consider this an independent third party audit. Trust me.
>Don't have a huge wedding unless you think people are actually going to show up. You should both come from big families. Otherwise, just elope.
>t. Married 5 years to the perfect woman and we have a magnificent child and life couldn't be better. I WFH and literally have gotten a blowjob every day for the last two years. With that much practice she's become an eldritch goddess of slurping cock. Seriously, get married (but don't be stupid).

>>55284645
Reminds me of that Patrice Oneal bit where he asks the dude what he does, and he says he has four degrees and makes six figs and knows 5 languages and reads all the time, and he asks the girl hes with and she says she doesnt do shit and lives with her parents.

>>55284645
where do i get a gf like this

>>55284645
Your particular situation has too many variables for any of us to say if you should or not. Some things to keep in mind though:
Do you have significant assets you are bringing into the marriage? If so, get a prenup
Do you actually trust this person or are you just infatuated? Be honest
Are your life goals and outlooks on life compatible?
Do you want to have children with her?
Are her family and friends good people?
Does she respect your authority as the leader/head of household?

Why do you have a gf if you don't want to marry and have kids
Nice bait thread

>$80k
>entry level analyst
wtf I make like $29k as a senior analyst because I live in POLAND

>>55284858
that pic is perfect

>>55284645
Wow he's cute.

>>55285088
55k cad here in leafland. cad, not usd. so like 40k usd. can't wait to get out of here.

>>55284645
>muh income
It's a trap but probably for her, not for you.

>>55285088
Same bruh I have good IT job and his retail gf only barely makes less than me Kek (also Europoor)
Burger salaries always seem really high. What do they do with all that money?

>>55285071
>Why do you have a gf if you don't want to marry and have kids

Lots of young people who aren't colored don't want kids because of the current demographics change

>>55285122
pay taxes

>>55285104
You could reverse it for men though kek
Hard-nosed capitalists online but then wonder why roasties don't spread their legs for them for free and at no effort

>>55284645
your girlfriend has swallowed nigger cum, enjoy the next kiss faggot

>>55285088
Yeah but your rent is like $200/month or you live with your family in inherited property

>>55285122
>What do they do with all that money?
to isra eel

>>55284896
>Heh, it's only 43% chance of divorce (and an unknown probability of an unhappy marriage), not 50%.

>>55284691
hol up
So you're saying that 50% of marriages actually succeed? And that you're just dwelling on those who failed because you see that in yourself?

>>55285184
>So you're saying that 50% of marriages actually succeed?
No, half are divorced. How many more do you think hate each other, have dead bedrooms, are being cheated on etc.?

>>55284645
>80k
>judging your gf but you don’t even make more than double her pay
lol

>>55284645
She's a 7 at best.

>>55284896
5 years is nothing, you will change your tune at some point. 8 years, 10, whatever it may be.

>>55284645
That's a man

>>55284781
I'm nearly 30 now with no hair loss, make good money wfh and in great shape. Most of the attractive women I knew in college are starting to get wrinkly and fat. Even women i have gone on dates with 2-3 younger are noticeably passed their prime. It's actually pretty depressing. no wonder men suffer from ED

>>55284645

3 things.

first your photo is photo shopped. second having kids is very important and not doing it is a grave sin. 3rd in a way marriage is always basically a trap, just make sure it's a comfortable trap where sex is frequent.

If what she's doing doesn't greatly harm your health, your finances, or the marriage then DON'T argue about it.

>>55284645
>GF works retail
is she as old as you? marriage is only worth it if you're marrying a submissive religious 18 year old when you're 35

>>55284872
>seething incel is seething
lol

>>55285232
My grandma is shriveled and old, just like my grandpa, and still they love each other very much

>>55285261
again, go ahead and get married.
Call me back in 5 years, please tell me how it went.

>>55285255
This but unironically

>>55285273
they probably shagged for 10 years and had their kids before either of them looked noticeably aged

>>55284731
>Literally an incel post
Nobody understands the hell that is marriage more than the married or divorced. But you don't know anything about that because you're either a roastie or a faggot.

>>55285184
How much of a zoomer are you to not fucking know this? Pretty sure it's over 50% now though.

You're an idiot if you get married in the US. My plan is to retire around 50 and knock up a 20 year old abroad. She can then choose to act right and live life on easy mode or act up and I dip and my assets are safe.

bunch of heartless faggots itt. beware.

>>55284645
>ALL WOMEN SHOULD BE STAY AT HOME MOMS AND MEN SHOULD BE THE BREADWINNER
>actually no

>>55285184
No, a good portion of those that keep being married are even worse off than the divorced ones

>>55285448
stinky roastbeef detected

>>55285165
It’s $800+

>>55284896
pics or didnt happen

>>55285504
I have a dick you fucking tool, kys nigger of the soul

>>55284645
Shit or get off the pot, marry her or dump her. Money shouldn't be a factor. Third world niggers breed by the thousands on a dollar a year.

>>55285631
>Third world niggers breed by the thousands on a dollar a year.

Yes, bring more retarded colored mutts in this world

Go in a long vacation with her lets see what she is made off

Depends on your priorities, I guess. If you prioritize starting a family over everything else, it's not a trap.
Personally, I'd never be able to tolerate being a breadwinner while my wife makes shit-tier money or has no job at all. I have no patience for leeches. We'd have to have incomes that are comparable.

>>55284645
Are you going to share your GF with us?
Because you seem to be hinged on every word we say over your own personal beliefs

>>55285701
>breadwinner while my wife makes shit-tier money or has no job at all. I

That's basically how the majority of households are. You think your wife is gonna stay at her job while paying $3k a month for childcare? Most women take careers back to become stay at home moms and raise the kids before they go to school

>>55285856
> You think your wife is gonna stay at her job while paying $3k a month for childcare?
Yes, because eventually kids grow up and costs go down, but you can't restart your career after being away for a decade. It's non-negotiable.

>>55285882
>Yes

LoL, so what your saying is your career is on upside and intend to stay at your position for years, possibly decades. Paying $36k a year for child on $52k(average female salary) is stupid. Also your post just screams you've never been in a relationship or had a conversation with a woman

>>55284731
>incel post
And that's why it's a good post

>>55285904
> your career is on upside and intend to stay at your position for years, possibly decades
Yes.
> Paying $36k a year for child on $52k(average female salary) is stupid.
If you're dating broke women, that's a "you" problem.
> Also your post just screams you've never been in a relationship or had a conversation with a woman
I'm just in relationships with better women.

>>55285946
>I'm just in relationships with better women.

I'm sure you have relationships. Your posts scream of some larping incel who thinks he knows how relationships go

>>55285856
Childcare doesn’t cost $3k a month.

>t. Daughter goes to preschool. Childcare is between $1200-$1500 a month for five days a week

>>55285991
For shitty ones, yes

>>55285952
The fact that you think women having a career is some kind of larp is telling, and frankly sad. You talk as if there aren't hundreds of millions of successful working women who value their careers at the same time as valuing their family. It's not a zero sum game where you can only do one or the other.

>>55284691
Dont listen to this retard.

The marriages that fail are those with roasties who are unable to bond.
If your girl really loves you and doesnt have any red flags, good chance you will be the 50% that stay married.

>>55285043
Hot women are everywhere.
Its finding one with a good heart worthy of marriage that is the heard bit

Not necessarily. You wouldn’t want a woman that makes as much or more than you. So the thing to consider whether you think it has a good chance at a good lasting marriage and if that’s something you want. If affirmative, consider getting married. If negative, don’t get married.

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06/14/23(Wed)09:23:49 No.55286128

>>55285043 #
Hot women are everywhere.
Its finding one with a good heart worthy of marriage that is the hard bit

>>55285043 #
Hot women are everywhere.
Its finding one with a good heart worthy of marriage that is the hard bit

>>55286014
>The fact that you think women having a career is some kind of larp is telling, and frankly sad

That's literally not I sad. You also have no reading comprehension in addition to being socially weird. Women PAUSED their careers to raise their kids BEFORE they go to school and RESUMING their careers

>>55286006
You don’t have kids.

>>55286106
Marriage in the west is playing russian roulette with 5 in the chamber. Out of those 40-50% "successful marriages" how many are sexless, obese wives, staying together for the kids, husbands with dead eyes spouting "happy wife happy life" looking like he is about to hang himself, wives acting like sluts on girls nights out and girls trips, or men that cannot afford a divorce. Most of you tradcucks are in for a rude awakening.

>>55286210
I live in California so $3k for a decent childcare isnt far-fetch

>>55284645
>analyst
What do you actually do?

>>55286186
> That's literally not I sad.
> You also have no reading comprehension

And you don’t proofread your posts. My wife didn’t pause her career. We both work from home and if we can’t watch our daughter then grandparents pick up the slack. It’s not a one-size-fits-all circumstance. Your broad-brush nonsense smacks of an arrogant young man with little experience.

>1pbtid
hide normalfag threads
ignore normalfag posts
do not reply to normalfag posters

>>55286236
Yeah, but you don’t have kids so you don’t know what you’re talking about.

And anyway, Californians are world-renowned for overpaying for shit.

I hope you rent and don’t own because your stupid state is going to shit.

>>55286266
No one cares what some NEET loser thinks. You never did anything before and you won’t do anything in the future because you’re a coward who copes by convincing yourself you’re above it all.

>>55286293
He’s above it all

>>55285856
>Most women take careers back to become stay at home moms
Is this really true in america? I thought most families had both parents working. But I never leave my room so who knows

>>55286274
Data from 2022 for 2022
Very relevant to today. Preciate ya effort, buckaroo
Paupau woud be proud.

>>55284645
>mfw I make about $16k
>mfw this in my country is a somewhat good salary
>about 64k local currency
>can live confortably alone

I'm not mad, actually. I'm a librarian, btw.

>>55286312
>over the coming year
>August 2022 analysis uses June 2022 data

If you have anything more current then I’m all ears. Was this data an accurate prediction?

>>55284645
Goddamn, she's insanely gorgeous. I doubt many dudes here could hold their nut for 15 seconds fuckin hell. Life must be amazing for people this hot.

>>55286217
You get this shit from sitcoms.
What type of weak faggot would allow his with out on girls nights. That shit is for single sluts, not married women.

My wife and i will love our life together, and all the adventures raising our children together.

>>55286405
I could fuck her for ages, never found it hard to stop from cumming even with hot women

>>55286217
You get this shit from sitcoms.
What type of weak faggot would allow his wife out on girls nights. That shit is for single sluts, not married women.

My wife and i will love our life together, and all the adventures raising our children together

>>55284896
10 years married here
Lucky if I get my dick sucked once a month
used to be weekly
used to be daily
started out being multiple times a day

>>55286506
I've had a steaming hot weekend, first of its kind, with my paramour.
She has an absurd libido, and once I came, it took me hours to get back into the mood. But her? Man... She sucked my dick and got herself wet by being facefucked.

But I think that if we were to ever get together, I'd be the one to not feel like doing that. My refratory period is far too big. And I feel like a fucking robot during that period, and it's proportional to the orgasm, there was this one that I came so hard that everything went white, I sat down, and just... Felt at peace for a few minutes. No libido. No desires. Just... Peace. Not even bliss, just peace.

>>55284691
Sad this is how things are nowadays
It's completely true though

>>55284713
Don't follow that advice. You might like something now, but later that's not necessarily the case.

Sex with the same person gets boring real fast.

>>55284645
The numbers don't lie. Marriage is the death of men

>>55284645
If it’s picrel, run. She will only be a black hole for your money and a wet hole for bbc.

>>55287107
>The numbers don't lie. Marriage is the death of men

Yikes. Incel alert.

>>55284691
100% this

>>55284645
1>2>4>3

>>55286237
He's an analyst, what the fuck do you they do?

>>55285297
who said it was irony?

>>55286445
same.
i usually come faster with ugly ones.
the uglier they are.. the faster i come..

i would fuck the one in op's pic for probably 20+ minutes very hard if i'm well hydrated.

>>55284645
is she a virgin?

>>55284645
If you think it's a trap, it is one. If I was in your place I would have asked her to wait till the next bullrun, cause I'm stacking up on a few alts QRDO, QANX, METIS, HAPI and ETH which will moon for sure. So I can get married to her comfortably.

>>55284645
nah at that rate your chances of divorce are low because both of your incomes are required for the family and anyone making enough more than you to steal your wife would just get a girl who hasn’t had kids yet

>>55286325
>64 in local salary
Lmao, I can smell a Pollack from a mile away, 64k zl is absolute poverty.

>>55288728
Both of them seems to make decent. They just have to invest and generate passive income. Or they can participate in simple zealy quest and get qualified for few airdrops too. Basically free money which will come in handy.

>>55284731
roastie cope post
next time post some counter arguments instead of screeching buzzwords like a low iq ape, nigger

>>55288831
Makes more sense to me anon. I expect the airdrop to happen soon and they are gonna launch the private blockchain next month right?

>>55288879
Yes that's right it's probably gonna happen next month. I am eager to see how the adoption is going to be with this L1.

Lot of Jews and golems in this thread.
1. Finances are a means to an end, not the most important thing in life
2. Marriage is not a financial decision
3. Having a family is the most important investment in life, next is health, then community, then other things like your job and assets

>>55284731
Dumb and naive post

>>55284645
Bro just be her boyfriend for 40 years lmao

>>55287013
Tell me about it. The only reason I even have sex with my girlfriend anymore is so she falls asleep and i have some time alone.
Looking into fucking escorts but i hate the idea of just throwing money down the drain for a wet hole.

>>55287156
>if I keep saying it it will become true

Doesn’t sound like a trap

She works, doesn’t just sit at home

With hoeflation she could easily find some 6 figure simp

Be happy you found true love with your needledick salary