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>work 6 days a week
>Gf nags me for being lazy on my only off day

Why are women so restless and want to be doing something all the time and can't just be ? Financially speaking

>> No.54963951

>>54963941
>okie babes
Your vagina is smellier than your gf's

>> No.54963957

>>54963941
Have you tried dating men? Might be more up your alley.

>> No.54963963

>6 days a week

That's a yikes from me

>> No.54963967

>>54963941
I'm 30 and I've never had a gf before in my entire life.
Are they really this annoying?
I literally don't do anything on the weekends, I just sleep in until 12 because I can.

>> No.54963983

>>54963951
fpbp
>>54963941
OP you are a faggot, please just leave.

>> No.54963990

>>54963967
Unironically, this woman is based and OP is a faggot. You can rest when you’re dead. Even if you’re not at work, you should be finding something productive to do with your time.

>> No.54964003

>>54963941
My wife is the polar opposite of OP. I actually wish mine was more like this. I sometimes wonder if I’d do better in life with a different wife.

>> No.54964013

>>54963941
she wants you to lose weight fatty

>> No.54964021

>>54963941
Sorry you're dating a bitch, and you're a bitch. Break up with her. She's the kind of women who always is gonna want more.

Unless you've been neglecting her or something, then you should probably spend time with her. Bottom line is, if she was really happy she wouldn't complain about anything you do. We're not getting the full story here OP.

>> No.54964024

>>54963941
>woman encourages man to do better by himself
this is the kind of woman you marry, you stupid, snivelling faggot
mine encouraged me to get off my ass and finally get fit and learn piano and doing those things kept me out of a really dark place when my dad died

>> No.54964030

>>54963941
It sounds like she likes you but youre a fat fuck who needs to eat less cheetos and lose weight.

I work a shit ton and still have time to lift. If anything lifting is my #1 passion when when im tired. I rather lift than sleep or eat

Its alqays been my coping mechanism

>> No.54964033

>>54964024
>kept me out of a really dark place when my dad died

boohoo, whiny faggot

>> No.54964046

>>54963941
She is right. Also, find a better job and stop being a fag.

>> No.54964063

>>54964033
>kept me out of a really dark place
>thinks im whining
nice reading comprehension skills, you knuckledragging hylic

>> No.54964072

>>54963957
Kek. All women are like this. So many virgins here

>> No.54964073

>>54963941
Perspective: because you don't better yourself you'll be stuck with annoying dumb bitches like this the rest of your life.

>> No.54964216

>>54964072
maybe women that arent kept in check, op is the female of this relationship

>> No.54964228

>>54963967
only if you are a beta
if they love you they will do everything for you
sometimes they still can be annoying but they make up for it

op is just whipped and will do anything for a bit of hole action
pathetic but expected from a wagie
after all he is conditioned to take orders

>> No.54964230

OP that woman is a gem

She wants you to turn your playstation/netflix off and do productive things

You're missing a huge opportunity here.

If you're in your 20s get your shit together

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>>54964003
>I actually wish mine was more like this. I sometimes wonder if I’d do better in life with a different wife
No you don't bro, women like this are fucking hell

Easy going women are far better

>> No.54964238

>>54963941
Ur a fat fuck arent you? And shes even uglier isnt she. Thats why she sticks around

>> No.54964260

>>54964238
lmao this

sounds like an angry ugly reddit blue haired bitch saw her friend fuck a muscular chad, and she's thinking

>Why is my lard fuck working 6 days a week at mccdonalds not like chad

so she complains to you

>> No.54964275

>>54964260
And you take it OP, you take it just like when she pegs you with her BBC dildo

She senses you're a weak man and can easily yell at and control you. wouldn't be surprised if she starts fucking a buff guy while you work 6 days a week

>s-s-sorry babe

KEK

>> No.54964286

>>54964072
My gf doesn't do it

>> No.54964287

>>54963941
You’re most likely an out of shape loser? Who gives a fuck if you work 6 days a week? If all you do is menial household chores and play video games during your spare time you’re a bum.

>> No.54964297

>>54964072
Wizard reporting in!
Is there a reason to pursue women?

>> No.54964327

>>54964275
>OP
This board has IDs, Chang you mongol mutt.

>> No.54964345

Everyone in this thread with a smegma grindset is retarded and OP’s gf is objectively a bitch
Tell her to fuck off instead of snivelling like a beta
Tell her if she doesn’t like it she can leave
You will be happier

>> No.54964351

>>54964287
what do you do during your spare time?

>> No.54964353

>>54963941
Sorry to say but your GF is right. Most people don't just plop down after work and "relax". That is a weak mindset and poor discipline. You should be waking up BEFORE work to work out and not have your GF nag you to do it after work. Take control of your life. This post is fucking pathetic.

>> No.54964357

But then again I’m /fit/ so if by doing something she means getting in shape then she’s right
Not for her, for yourself
If she means going to bars and clubs tell her to fuck off

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>>54963941
I wish I had a girlfriend who cared enough about me to push me when Im slacking off.
Man some people really dont know what they have.

>> No.54964365

>>54963941
All men were involved

>> No.54964376

>>54963941
>1pbtid
OP bailed on the thread, I guess his gf made him go outside and consoom

>> No.54964377

>>54964353
I can guarantee you most people absolutely do NOTHING after work. Have you tried talking to your fellow wagies? Sometimes I wonder what reality you retards are living in. And working out before work like some fucking wannabe goggins sigma grindset loser is retarded unless you’re naturally a morning person. Working out after work is much better.

>> No.54964380

>gf
hey OP good news I found your problem

jk she's going to cheat on you though. don't ever let a woman tell you you're not good enough, tell her to go make more money. fuck that bitch.

>> No.54964382

>>54964327
He replied to his post to continue. Are you retarded?

>> No.54964409

>>54963990
>You can rest when you’re dead. Even if you’re not at work, you should be finding something productive to do with your time.
unless you work in manual labor, nothing you do is "productive" faggot. enjoy living in misery to contribute to numbers on a chart

>> No.54964412

Ass

>> No.54964415

i'll be honest I wish I had someone in my life to push me to do better & be better, and to follow up and make sure I'm staying on track. It's way easier to be motivated to act when you have a commitment or obligation to someone else, and when others are expecting things from you. I always follow through if I make a promise to someone else, but promises to myself are worthless. If I know there will be a follow-up I'll make sure to get it done to avoid the shame of having to make excuses, but when nobody is there to check in it's like "why bother?". I always get everything done at work cuz I know the boss will eventually check in, but when it comes to my own life I just can't be bothered cuz I know nobody will ask about it. Really bizarre how it's easy to do things for others but an enormous struggle to do things for myself.

i came across this app called Boss as a Service where you basically pay someone to check up on you every day and make sure you're doing the things you said you'd do. Having another human following up and checking in seems like it'd motivate me to actually do what I said I would. Thinking about giving it a shot. the thing is I also hate being nagged so I might just end up tuning it out.

>> No.54964468

>>54964021
Only anon itt who fucks

>captcha HPVMP

>> No.54964516

>>54963941
Stop being so conciliatory. If someone gets away with treating you badly once, they'll get away with it a thousand times.

>> No.54964621

>>54963941
You talk to her like you're a child. Be a man OP. On the ultra-rare occasion my girl tries that shit, I tell her in a calm but confident manner to exercise by pointing to the yoga mat, that she can cook something for dinner, clean something around the house, etc. My girl will drop the attitude and do as I say. Women need a leader, that's your job as her man. If your girl doesn't submit to you, she's not the one.

I've come to the realization over the years that women are basically like puppies. They need a little attention, walks, food, and small surprises.

>> No.54964644

>>54964030

Imagine relying on Women for the balance of your mental state.

>> No.54964694

>>54963967
Yes they are op. You know how girls are being know for being needy and insecure? Well all that is going to be put on you and they will look to you to be the solution to all of that when they are in a relationship with you.

>> No.54964702

Imagine being nagged by a girlfriend, especially one who is almost certainly used goods.

>> No.54964719

>>54963941
You are a pussy. If you don't workout or meditate regularly you suck. You are in a victim mindset. Who with a balanced mind tries to find approval on an image board. Hope you are trolling faggot

>> No.54964731

>>54964415
You sound like you need "Top as a service" faggot

>> No.54964736

>>54964072
No, you don't tried enough then. It all depends on your frame control. If you already are the 'right' high value man she won't nagging. Nagging means she wants you to be like the high value men she instead wants to fuck but can't because she chose losers like you

>> No.54964740

An idle man with hobbies
-isn't making money (for her)
-could be cheating on her
-might lose interest in her
-generally isn't paying attention to her

>> No.54964744

>>54963941
Break up with her immediately

>> No.54964750

>>54964731
are you able to get everything done in your personal life even when there's not a single person around who asks about it or checks in with you? No family, no friends, no relationships, no boss? If so I'm impressed.

>> No.54964768

>>54963941
Unironically dump her. I'm willing to bet she's fatter than you, works less/makes significantly less money than you, has more free time than you, but does even less with it than you... right? You deserve to be lambasted for groveling to her and being a pussy, but ignore the brown zoomer NEETs bragging about "muh grindset" when they work at jamba juice 20hr/week and go to planet fitness three times a week.

>> No.54964776

>>54964750
i believe that most people can find it within themselves to self-motivate strictly for themselves. i am just like you, though. it's pathetic but idk what to do about it.

>> No.54964782

>>54964776
i don't believe that. anyone who is motivated or self-disciplined probably has people around them who care and take an interest in them, which I don't

>> No.54964803

>>54963941
Get rid of that nagging bitch theres no future with her, break her asshole first tho.

>> No.54964805

>>54963941
>1 post by this ID
>newfags running wild with obvious bait
Only have myself to blame for believing Sergey’s bullshit and being forced to stay here through ANOTHER cycle

>> No.54964810

>>54964003

No. This is just nagging. If she wants to actually help you, she would help you relax - make you some food, fuck you good, and hand you a gym membership she signed you up for, and say that she won't be too disappointed if you don't go, just wanted to try it.

>>54963990

Spoken like a person who has never actually worked hard.

>> No.54964816

Maybe you're living too much of a sedentary lifestyle, especially in front of your girlfriend

Look busy, even if you're chillin'
Instead of:
>watching netflix & youtube
>playing videogames
>etc etc

Do:
>pushups ocassionally
>read a book
>work on your laptop
>do some shit like play chess

Same shit but one looks more focussed to the girl
Also get the fuck outta the house & spend less time with her so she appreciates time with you more

If you're busy at the gym, in the streets making deals or whatever, she'll appreciate the little time she gets with you

>> No.54964846

>>54964816
ok slave

>> No.54964880

>>54964816
If he's going to be doing all that on top of working six days a week, it needs to be for himself, not some some miserable frumpy bitch.

>> No.54964920

>>54963941
Lazy how, because you don’t want to do chores or because you don’t want to do anything with her?
Definitely understand if you’re tired after 6 days of work but on your day off if you love her why wouldn’t you want to do something with her?

>> No.54965004

>>54964345
>>54964021
>>54964621
some of the few rational takes in this thread. The fuck is wrong with biztards?

>> No.54965222

>>54964750
No but who cares? If I needed/wanted to do it I'd be doing it.

>> No.54965232

This looks like a reddit post

>> No.54965245

>>54965222
what if you didn't strictly "need" to do it and didn't really want to either, but would be ultimately better off if you did? would u be able to stick with something long-term if nobody was around to show any interest in what you're up to or asked how it was going, and there was no real consequence for not doing it? do you have an example?

>> No.54965248

None of you mentioned she said "maybe we are just too different"


She is setting the ground work to dump him

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this is my favorite clip on women. his fucking smile says it all. if you know you know. fags are probably living the dream now with all the zoomer trans butt action.

>> No.54965312

>>54965245
When I care about doing something I don't need to force myself to do it, it just happens. If it doesn't, then I obviously don't care so why worry about it? Whatever you're doing is what's most important to you rn. You can't force yourself to be someone you're not.

>> No.54965316

>>54963941
You are a simp.

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OP listen to me, this is not normal healthy behaviour. If your GF is talking to like this, she is disrespecting you openly and actively trying to destroy the relationship. Dump this bitch. In fact she might already be cheating / lining up your replacement

Yes you could probably be more ambitious and get your shit together, go do that, but you sound like you do work, why cant you have a day off? Women are crazy sometimes, and dont realize they can be abusive. This braud sounds like a typical ungrateful lazy woman looking for a meal ticket. Stand up for yourself, tell her you are going to spend the day off doing what you want and if she doesn;t like it she can find someone new. Grow a backbone, she is walking all over you

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54965345

I'm pretty sure this is her way of telling OP he's out of shape

>> No.54965478

>posting your relationship inadequacies for biz of all places to comment on
Kek, what a fucking loser. Shes probably right, and your 6 PT shifts at 7/11 shouldnt be wearing you out young man

>> No.54965538

>>54963941
Holy fuck your broad is a nagging bitch and you sound like a limp wrist faggot wtf

>> No.54965572

>>54963941
why do you care? if it wasn't this it would be something else. no man has ever had a gf that wasn't bickering constantly every single day all the time nonstop. you could be literally perfect and she would still find SOMETHING ANYHTING to get on your case about.

>> No.54965575

>>54964362
it's great when they are at their prime too, but usually they are fat and lazier than you will ever be. OP's gf just got one-upped by her friend group and wants to brag about having the best bf for her own vanity.

>> No.54965597

>>54963967
they are a challenge sometimes but make you feel nice some other times. You gotta invest some time, effort, money and stress to get something in return. For some it's worth it, for others not.

>> No.54965621

I'm 35 and never had a gf.
When I read shit like this, I'm glad.

>> No.54965628

>>54963990
>You can rest when you’re dead.
Jeez, imagine thinking that. I'm all for putting in effort and working for what's important to you but not resting at all is like not allowing yourself to reap the rewards of all you've done. That's going to get you a shitty life and early heart attack.

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>>54965345
>I'm pretty sure this is her way of telling OP he's out of shape
This. OP how fucking rotund are you? I even asked politely so you better not lie, you fat sack of shit.

>> No.54965631

>>54964816
>plays looksbusy at work AND at home
fuck i hate normies
you're all fucking sociopaths
never honest

>> No.54965639

I have fucked more than 200 women in my life

they are all fucking annoying as fuck

and now i understand the advices my uncles were giving me when i was younger like "never marry a woman my little dude"

i pity men who have to endure living with a woman who hold you by the balls with a ring or worse, a kid

wome are demons and no i dont like men fuck sodomites

>> No.54965663

I love women.

>> No.54965669

>>54963941
>gf wears the pants in the relationship

What a fucken beta lmao

>> No.54965693

>>54963941
Midwits will say OP is the woman in this relationship, bigbrains understand he's just a wallet.

>> No.54965769

>>54964297
pussy. also they can motivate you to achieve great things allegedly.

>> No.54965887

>>54964297
Your parents die eventually, women are the only way to keep having a family.

>> No.54965933

Remember your ABCs:
Always
Beat
Cunts

>> No.54965960

>>54963990
Ok slave

>> No.54966035

>>54963941
This shit thread is still up?

>> No.54967181

>>54964033
Learning how to roll with the punches is a necessary life skill.

>> No.54967232

>>54963990
Something productive for the Jews, you mean. Nice try schlomo

>> No.54967259

>>54963941
>getting nagged
>by your gf
Wew. Shes not even your wife.
You gotta be comfortable telling her "no" and sticking to it.

>> No.54967288

>>54963990
>You can rest when you’re dead. Even if you’re not at work, you should be finding something productive to do with your time.
Compulsive workaholics and speed freaks will be shipped off to fell trees in Alaska come the glorious slacker revolution.

>> No.54967364

>>54963941
My ex bitched at me for the same things and it pissed me off because she had rich Jewish parents who pay for her everything. Break up with this thot you simp.

>> No.54967399

>>54965887
Does it matter after we die if we had a family?
Having a family means wanting to transmit something into the future.
What is there to transmit that would justify such an investment of time money and energy in this collapsing world which is a simulation running from the spiritual world for immortal beings?

In the era of AIs you can just create an immortal AI to keep your will for eternity and it will do it better than multiple generations of a family slowly decaying with time as they live from the luck created by the first generation.

>>54965769
If you need external motivation to achieve great things, what you are doing is most likely meaningless to you.
If it was important you would do it without external motivation because it matters.

>> No.54967443

>>54964750
You need to discover your life purpose.
After you discover what's really important for you you will never question it again will feel attraction by an invisible force towards its fulfillment.

You can get motivation to accomplish your goals by imagining your future looking back on your past.
How would you feel over your actions if you were close to death? Would you feel regret for not doing things?

>> No.54967457

>>54963941
Mate, your girlfriend is trying to increase your drive and discipline and testosterone. You should be working out 5 times a week no matter how much you work - you can always make time for it. Women are intrinsically attracted to men who are physically fit and training it literally makes them wet and they also melt for men who work hard and don’t use it as an excuse to be lazy. If you gym then rest she won’t complain. Trust me women are mostly retarded but your gf is not. She is right.

>> No.54967464

>>54964072
maybe western women lmao but they are trash

>> No.54967485

>>54967443
i really don't know what that means. "Purpose"? my purpose is to have a happy life though it ain't going so great at the moment. Most people say their purpose is whatever stupid wagie job they're doing, as if sitting in a cubicle is what they always aspired to. What's your purpose?

>> No.54967509

>>54963941
You’re looking at it the wrong way anon. She is clearly invested in you and wants you to better yourself, don’t let your tiredness ruin a good thing!

>> No.54967536

im more disgusted with OP working 6 days a week than i am of the roasters behaviors

sickening on both accounts

>> No.54967540

Working 6 days a week doesn't leave much time for anything and rest is important in order to function properly. I don't think this gf is right to nag him but better work life balance is needed in order to maintain a relationship.
>>54963967
Many are but not all. My current gf is easy going and loves to chill and play video games, more so than I do. She also outearns me and has a more prestigious job than I. Looking good and being ripped goes a long way.

>> No.54967553

>1pbtid
Glowies are really pushing the women hate angle a lot lately. In reality it is their monetary policies and global suffering via zog wars that have cause all the angst in the world.

>> No.54968270

>>54963990
zoomers need to get jobs before typing dumb shit like this

>> No.54968977

She's going to leave you for someone better you piece of shit

>> No.54969044

>all these retards defending the whore
zoomer tradcucks were a mistake

>> No.54969049

>>54963941
Work out, you fat or skinny piece of shit. You are going to lose her because you are weak

>> No.54969519

>>54963941
Damn, OP needs a new set of balls stat

>> No.54969559

>>54963941
Dump her. It isn't gonna get better. Find someone you get along with.

>> No.54969575

>>54964072
They are, but most start bitching like this after the kids drop. This is a fat red flag faggot.

>> No.54969606

>>54963967
What's she doing with her time? If she is doing anything less than working 6 days per week and working out in between then she's crazy. To demand that from you when she isn't doing the same is downright hypocritical. It has little to do with gender.

>> No.54969693

financially speaking, you should just b urself

>> No.54969872

>>54963941
>his job doesn’t have an on site gym.

What? Do you work at a gas station or something?

>> No.54969873

>>54963990
And she's about to leave him because she's unattracted. I'm going through the same thing with my wife right now. She won't lose weight and I have five women hitting me up for sex. I could be banging 23 year old dimes and I'm stuck with someone I'm not attracted to and isn't making an effort to change it. Why waste my life?


That's what your wife is thinking right now op. Grow up and be a man. Take care of your shit or you will soon be without a wife. If it gets to this point your wife is at her limit. She's not attracted to you anymore and wants to leave.

>> No.54969881

>>54969873
You know you can still fuck them AND stay married right?

>> No.54969921

>>54963941
she is cheating and just finding an excuse to leave you.

>> No.54969994

>>54963941
I'm kind of in a similar relationship, except we're long distance. She's in Japan and has no desire to live here so basically I have to somehow work my ass off and make my own business successful so that I can get a self-employed business visa to go live there. Honestly though I do the bare minimum everyday and just spend hours fucking about. Sometimes I wish I could just get a gf here (bongland) and work a normal job, but girls can sense my extreme autism here so there's no chance. `My life fucking sucks honestly.

>> No.54970043

>>54969994
why not, I dunno, find a girl who doesn't live across the ocean?

>> No.54970123

>>54963941
dump this cunt, she'll never approve anything you do and the constant shit tests are draining. go to the pet store and get another one.

>> No.54970173

>>54963990
You're on 4chan, you're hardly an example yourself Mr Uber-Productive Guy.

>> No.54970188

>>54963941
She wants you to find a higher paying job so you can have more time and money
The difference of whether or not this is a whore or a wife is whether or not she wants you to have more time and money for vacations and gifts for her or to just spend more time with you.

>> No.54970208

>>54963941
No sympathy. You'd have to be fucking retarded to voluntarily stay with a woman like that.

>> No.54970370

>>54963941
Bro it's you! Why ado you agree with her and justify yourself? Everywhere in the world are useless drug dealers with chicks that live just for financing his lifestyle. If she nags again send her a picture of that Snapchat girl making million with her AI duplicate. Ask her why this isn't her. Tell her she's the female and supposed to bring the bucks home. Times are to different to when her parents met. She should accept that and bring you that simps money so you can lose it all buying phaggotcoin. Or she can leave goodbye simpless cunt

>> No.54970421

>>54963941
Get to work, wyboi! Raising muh chilluns ain’t gonna be free! Also bishes be craving the bbc while you grinding.

>> No.54970464

>>54963941
I used to work 60 hour weeks (sometimes up to 70) and still had time to visit the gym for an hour 3 times a week. You are actually being lazy and making excuses here. Working out frequently will make work easier (mentally and physically), help you sleep better, help your body relax better during down time, and decrease your overall stress levels. Stop being a bitch.