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54676830 No.54676830 [Reply] [Original]

gf is turning 30 soon. im making more money than i ever had before but can i really enjoy it? I guess i have to propose soon and start having kids? I'll have to continue to work with no end in sight? is this all there is to life?

t 30 yr old

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>>54676830
Ditch her and be a pleb

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>>54676830
>30
>not already having at least 5 children

>> No.54676847

Just cut out the pediatrician and don't vax. Boom, healthy easy child. And for the love of God, remember the 2nd hand baby stuff market is huge.

>> No.54676850

>>54676830
Your 30 yr old gf is like your first car. It should have been a beater and you hopefully got some decent miles on it but the time comes to let go and get something a little newer. Or else you'll start getting weird looks where ever you go.

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>>54676836
Why is this Pleb character so memeable?

>> No.54677600

>>54676830
dump her and get a 20 year old gf. if you aren't married now she probably isn't worth it so go for something more fresh.

>> No.54677621 [DELETED] 

>>54676830
When i was dating my wife, i made it clear i never wanted kids. She quizzed me a lot but accepted. Its clear she prioritised her career over kids anyway.
years later, she got pregnant due to condom failure, but miscarried. it was fucking a nightmare for her and me. she wanted a child after that. i didnt. i said i would think about it in the moment as she was in hormonal agony.
a year on she never mentions it and seemed to have got over things. now ever few months she busts my balls over it saying she wants a kid, that i "lied". fucking pisses me off. i made it clear form the fucking start. I tell her no, i wont change, yet she does it again later.
I tell her she can go find a guy to give her kids, and she gets super angry when i say that. what the fuck? Like its a simple situation: you want kids, i am not giving them to you, another guy definitely will.

Fuck this shit.

point of my blog is if you do not want kids, make it clear from the start like i did, and get a fucking vasectomy.

>> No.54677638

>>54677621
>not wanting kids

>> No.54677639

>>54676830
I'm 32 and dating an 18 year old. I cant imagine having a 30 year old gf.
30 is way past the wall.

>> No.54677642

>>54677621
Are you retarded, whats the point of relationship if you dont want kids

>> No.54677664

>>54676830
unless you are a failed human or reinventing the wheel or something that will give your name everlasting fame you should do the normie thing and breed because that's the only way you'll "live" past your death
also two people gave you the gift of life and you should pass it on
your kids can be an investment for when youre old too.
>>54677621
this brainlet is gonna get abused by nogs in a state care facility until the end

>> No.54677682

>>54676830
>>54677664

Thing is 30 year old roastie is way past expiration date, unless OP really loves her its better to get 18 year old gf

>> No.54677704

>>54676915
Because somehow the wojak had too much soul for zoomers and this finger headed worm represents them better

>> No.54677782

>>54677621
Its her human instinct and biology, dont fight it you wont win

>> No.54677804

>>54676830
Be thankful you have a gf that is halfway decent. Do not let her go just get married and have kids. It’s horrible out here.
t. 29 y/o chad who had a few serious relationships but not is just left with whores and idiot zoomers to date

>> No.54677813

Have kids. They’ll grow up quick and you can have adventures with them. It’s really not that bad.

>> No.54677814

>>54677621
>I made it clear from the start

>this leads to the same arguments as lying

>point of my blog is... make it clear from the start

Uhm okay

>> No.54677822

>>54677642
>Are you retarded, whats the point of relationship if you dont want kids
SEX

>> No.54678062

>>54677822
Prostitutes are better choice financially if you just want sex

>> No.54678073

>>54677600
>dump her and get a 20 year old gf
this
>>54677639
>I'm 32 and dating an 18 year old
based

>> No.54678093

>>54676830
30 is way too old for a woman to start having kids. Trade her in for a newer model.

>> No.54678522

>>54676830
Do you trust her?
Do you love her?
Everyone is going to turn 30. You think you're hot shit now but you won't know what you have until it's gone. I fucked up thinking I needed money to make my relationship worth it. Now she's gone.

>> No.54678556 [DELETED] 

>>54677638
>>54677642
>>54677782
Nothing wrong with not wanting children. Probably a little selfish, but in the end, life is what you make it. i dont believe in this myth of dying in a care home surrounded by my children. grow the fuck up nigger you will die alone just the same as people with kids do most the time. im not so weak to pump out kids to latch on to a woman, im happy as i am by myself. its the most pathetic thing ever when guys get a woman pregnant to keep her. thats incel shit.

>>54677814
I guess there is more to learn. Unless a woman seems fully on the same not just "ok, i dont have strong opinion" then move on. otherwise what happened to me will be possible.

>> No.54678685

My gf is 37.

I want kids but she is unsure, and at this point we are running out of time.

The thing is... I love her bros.

>> No.54678759

I don't understand why people have a problem with those that don't want kids.

It's more selfish to have children and let them suffer/not bring them up properly.

If you've had a hard life, why would you risk inflicting that on someone else...

>> No.54679171

>>54678759
have you had a hard life? If so why didn't you just kill yourself?
Perhaps because you thought even with the hardships life was worth it? If you really believe life is not worth it then kill yourself. Or are you too much of a coward to be consistent with your 'philosophy'?

>> No.54679328

>>54678685
my gf is 19. I'm 41 :)

>> No.54679484

Yes it's the male duty.
Men are happy to spend their life competing for women. this is not an atheist thing.

this competition is literally the heart of any society.
Men even love more to compete for women in atheism thanks to the jewish shows like how i met your whore mom where the crowd cheers for the gay actor competing for whores lol
In atheism, women are at the center of the society, because according to atheists, women are not ''objects'', so this coupled with the innate male devotion to whores, women are bound to dominate any atheist republic.

Women will always sit at the top of the sex market, & men will always like it.
Over thousands of years men have developed a neurotic narrative where somehow they are the stronger sex for putting their energy into pleasing women and the ruling class. Men are the one talking about hooooonor and how seducing women is awesome. Again even fucking Casanova took pride into a being free dildo to whores.

The day men stop putting women on a pedestal is the day society dies forever. And normies are fucking obsessed with living, with '''transmitting genes'''', like any atheist NPC keep saying, with building crap to fill up their lives with.
And women love to sit on the top of the sex market. Women get free easy life just by existing. That's how fucking insane their life full of privileges is. & women will never ever let this go.
You even had 2 fucking top military guys from Rome fighting over the egyptian roastie known as Cleopatra. that's 2000 years before atheists took power. That's how pathetic military guys are. And how men in general are pussyslaves and wageslaves.

>> No.54679906

>>54679171
I think it would cripple my parents and I don't want them to feel guilty. I would seriously consider it once they're gone.

I wouldn't want my kids to feel the same obligation to me.

>> No.54679928

>>54678759

No it isn't. If you consider yourself a good person and are doing well for yourself, it is much more selfish to keep it all for yourself, commit to a life of looking after #1, spending everything on yourself, having all your free/lazy time, and not rearing the next generation of decent people to keep humanity going. Don't fool yourself into thinking laziness and selfishness are virtues, you want to be a manbaby until you die, at least own it.

>> No.54679953

>>54679928
I'm not doing well for myself, I'm just about getting by.

I don't know whether people are getting triggered or trying to bait me - I have no problem with people who choose to have children.

I'm just saying, in my opinion it's not as black and white as everyone should breed - it's their duty.

>> No.54680031

>>54679928
This is some self righteous bullshit. You have NO control over children in this day and age especially once they reach adulthood. It’s practically a meme that middle/upperclass kids turn out fucked up and go get facefucked on camera(sound familiar?).
How many people have kids and struggle to get by and they end up not much better? Its also way more common than not for wealthy people to have lost it all by 4th generation as the families become entitled spoilt and mentally ill and fight over it, meanwhile the one who built it is long dead and their ethic has been lost through to 4th gen. I know several families like this, my friend even married into one.

My point is that self righteous bullshit has to end. Its a fucking gamble how they turn out no matter what you do.

I’d much rather enjoy my life with a woman or not, and give my wealth to my other family members who i think have potential once they have already grown up. Or even just help people in other ways with my time and money. That leaves much more of a legacy than spitting out kids on some self righteous delusions and having them give birth to hoodrats or squandering all wealth by the 4th generation and hating each other in games of backstabbing over inheritance

>> No.54680060

>>54680031

Lmao, right I'm self righteous for suggesting you step up and do the thing that human existence literally depends on and has done for thousands of generations, you're not self righteous for creating some kind of megacope that the nokids life is the righteous one.

I mean this unironically, if you think life and humanity are meaningless, kill yourself. I have no clue why you remain living on this rock if you see no point in it. Just kys. Not reading any more of that stupid childish bullshit, there is nothing else to say.

You aren't fucking helping anyone. You aren't out there using your two hands to help people every day. You play video games, stream shows, do drugs, and post on 4chan. Fuck you you coping retard.

>> No.54680093

>>54680060
“Step up”. That kind of term is exactly what makes you self righteous you fag. You are self proclaiming it as a higher status because you just personally think so.
People have hd kids when they should not for as long as people have existed. Congrats. Sex feels good and condoms never used to exist. Humanity probably would have died out long ago if sex didn’t feel good. Guys would not care on the whole enough.

>> No.54680139

Also why is it always people who want kids who antagonise people who dont? Like i dont mind if people want to and i dont judge. Its common. However whenever people say they dont want kids, you always get some self righteous faggots barge in and go crazy telling them how wrong they are and how pathetic they are for not wanting kids. Its so fucking weird.

>> No.54680148

>>54680093

It is a step up. It's a job. It's a responsibility. There are 3 major maturing moments in a human's life: puberty, entering the workforce, having kids. That is it. If you neglect the 3rd you're missing a major component of being a human and an adult, there is no cope that can dance your way around that.

If you consider yourself an utterly incapable piece of shit, fine, don't have kids. But for the love of God do not pretend you are "unselfish" or righteous for choosing to live a life of immature self indulgence and laziness, please. Childrearing is active work and it's necessary to keep humanity and good societies going, we aren't islands, we're part of the same chain. Thinking you're a special snowflake that exists to CONSOOM is a uniquely modern and selfish concept, don't kid yourself otherwise.

>> No.54680173

>>54680139

Nah, don't whine now, I responded to someone who had the gall to pretend that he's the unselfish one for choosing the nokids life. Life would be tremendously easy if you could just spend all your time and money on yourself and not give the slightest care to your other duties or responsibilites as a human. Just video game, stream, consoom, and jack it all day, let nigger hordes take over, so fucking hard!!! Thank you for your service!!!!

>> No.54680195

>>54680148
Mate, you need to fucking “step up” your self and realise there are many ways of life. Imagine the poor fucking soul that would suffer your parenthood.

If im gonna be so judgmental as you, i’d say most guys i know and talk to fall into the camp of: dont really care or want kids but wife/gf does so i will have them.
Its pretty uncommon for me to bump into guys like you who have such strong ideals on it. My theory: you lack power or abilities to leave your mark, and you feel very uncomfortable about it rather than just not care, so your “solution” is to have kids no matter what.

>> No.54680222

>>54680195

Being a parent isn't a death sentence. It doesn't mean you suddenly stop doing all of the other trivial bullshit you concern yourself with.

You can consoom, travel, hike, paint, write books, do community service, all while being a parent. This isn't a matter of this or that, it's a matter of you choosing to live a life focused solely on yourself. You are the end of the line. You are the genetic dead end of a thousand and million years. How does that feel? You might as well have never existed.

Kek, the arrogance is astounding. You are the weak link in the chain, the end of the line, and the cancer consooming everyone else's resources without contributing the next generation of good people, and are still pretending like you're somehow a positive influence.

I will do all the things I want to in life and still have a family because that isn't hard to do. History's greatest men still had families. You're just a worm, sorry.

>> No.54680230

>>54680173
What do you think having kids in this day and age is? Its a GDP boost and if you dont they’ll import a muslim anyway. They exist to be groomed into a consumer with ipads and clickbait from the moment they leave the womb. Stop kidding yourself.

A wealthy person with no kids can do a lot more good for society if he wants by actively getting involved where it matters rather than having kids and child rearing only for it to evaporate in selfish silver spoon backstabbing by 4th gen.
Bill gates is leaving nothing to his children. Get it? Neither is Jackie chan. They know what i said will happen unless their kids pull it off on their own and learn the lessons

>> No.54680240

>>54680230

If you're so nihilistic and pessimistic, again, kill yourself. Not sure what you're doing here. Apparently life is just pain suffering and doom, so go die. Leave living for those who want to do it. Life exists to continue life, not write paragraphs as to why we should collectively die. You're top to bottom cancer.

>> No.54680248

Another example: Arnold schwarzenagger. Hes done more good for society than anything his kids will ever do who are just consumers from his wealth.

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>>54680222
>You are the end of the line. You are the genetic dead end of a thousand and million years. How does that feel? You might as well have never existed.
Opinion instantly and irrecoverably discarded

>> No.54680276

>>54680240
You are incenting qualities about me based on nothing but not wanting kids and having a different view of life. Thats not nice. Its self righteous. Literally telling me to kys because i see it differently and dont want kids? Grow some self awareness faggot. Man i feel fucking sorry for your future kids.
Meanwhile i’ll keep my dream of opening an animal sanctuary open if i ever make it. Fuck you, go back to pol

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>>54680222
Your blood line isn't special, nigger. If you don't breed, your siblings will. If it's the end of the blood line, there's still 8 billion humans on earth to breed. You are not special.

>> No.54680313

>>54680260

Yeah that really hurts, coming from another genetic dead end lmfao

>>54680276

No I'm not, reread what you've been saying. You reveal a lot more than "I'm not having kids." You've developed a whole ego around it. You've justified it by casting doom on all of humanity. If that's your outlook you should stop existing because apparently life isn't worth it. These aren't my words, they're yours. I'm a cautious optimist and understand I don't know enough about the universe to make these grand judgements like I'm some kind of omnipotent God.

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>>54680283

Then kill yourself! KYS

K
Y
S
KYS

Put your money where your mouth is you disingenuous little piece of shit! Apparently "life is meaningless and terrible" and yet you're still here! Fat, lazy, an arrogant little piece of shit who fancies himself a humanitarian even as he decides to check out from the very continuation of humanity.

>> No.54680335

>>54680313
Im not casting doom on all humanity. Im talking in extremes that you are and using your own rhetoric. Thats probably why you view me that way because its hitting too close to home for you.

>> No.54680359

>>54680332
>Imagine your father being like this over having a different opinion

I can almost understand why the child might become a tranny in protest kek

>> No.54680376

>>54680332
>Put your money where your mouth is you disingenuous little piece of shit! Apparently "life is meaningless and terrible" and yet you're still here! Fat, lazy, an arrogant little piece of shit who fancies himself a humanitarian even as he decides to check out from the very continuation of humanity.

Nah, you're the disingenuous nigger. I never said life is terrible and meaningless, you can check my post ID. Elon Musk (or any other people who has done work) has a BIGGER impact for humanity then you or your blood line ever will.

Catch my drift you little "I need to breeeeeed' nigger?

>> No.54680382

>>54680335

Kek, you make me in no way feel insecure. I'm living a normal human life and you're not. If anyone needs a whole tome full of cope to feel good about withering away off into the ether with nothing to show for anything it's you.

>>54680359

Trannies come from fatherless homes. Kids without a good role model are aimless and come to bad life conclusions. Do you qualify?

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>>54680376

Elon Musk has 10 kids... and is still a world beating billionaire. How on Earth is that a point lmfao you're BTFOing yourself. Catch my drift nigga the only thing you're going to be catching is a bullet when you're 50, utterly washed up, forgotten, useless, and realizing the "fruits" of your selfish insular life choices. Thanks reddit!

>> No.54680443

>>54677639
Yeah I'm thinking gross anon.

I'm 37, My wife and I have two kids and she hasn't even hit 30 yet.

You are losing the game bro.

>> No.54680448

>>54676836
>>54676915
what is that meme called?

>> No.54680450

>>54680398
Bruh. You are never having kids anyway. In my humble experience, its always the guys who are adamant on having children and push for it that women leave and they struggle to get a woman to take their sperm.

Its almost always the indifferent men or dont want them but wife said she’d leave/ had an accident types that have them

>> No.54680498

>>54676836
>>54676915
>>54680448
ok im naming it
Wormjack

>> No.54680540

>>54679928
my dad lost his father at age 5
got me and established a connection of a rock with me, just sat in his room

last time i visited, i overheard some guy from down the street talk with him about some kid that was acting up. heard my dad respond: its the parents fault, they are opting out, they are to blame.
me gobbling up all that cognitive dissonance, complete lack of susceptibility regarding life and the world robbed me of my adolescence. my adult life constitutes of artificially bolting things together to have some type of resemblance of fractional quality of life

>good person and are doing well for yourself
dont make assumptions about people how they appear from hearsay and you talking with half a hour twice a year

>> No.54680670

>>54677804
im also a chad so the thought of settling for one woman is tough but yes i dont want to end up dating dumb zoomer whores who worship trans people

>> No.54680696

>>54676830
Your girlfriend probably can’t have kids anymore. She waited too long.

>> No.54680705

>>54679328
>I'm in love with a child at 40
ok good for you bro

>> No.54680709

>>54680450

I have kids, dummy. Why do you keep spiraling off into some delusional monologue on what you think all of the normal people with families are like out there lol.

I'm not going around banging on doors demanding people have kids. I'm also not going to sit here and listen to some NEET or lazyfag talk about how they're ackshually at the top of the righteousity pyramid due to their choice. Don't kid yourself, you aren't a selfless paragon of virtue, you don't want the responsibility and think "someone else is going to do it", pretty much peak Western rot mentality.

>> No.54680723

>>54680696
thats not true, 30-35 are still child bearing years, anything after that gets risky

>> No.54680727

>>54677639
Imagine being fucking 30 and still wanting to date immature teenagers.

You know you can fuck them and not date them? Can't even imagine the dumb shit you talk about.

>> No.54680745

>>54679906
ok then I can see why you don't understand it
hang in there tho bro, life is worth living. I've been where you are when I was younger. But this world is filled with possibility and beauty that you aren't able to see right now. You only need to reach for it.

For me, I got to a breaking point where I realized: if I'm really considering death, is whatever I'm anxious about more scary than that? Hell no.
When I stopped giving a fuck about my anxieties and began to start living to see better things, my life became better

Love is out there anon, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. And it has nothing to do with your looks like some anons here will tell you. They only say that because their own soul is empty. It's about souls. I got no girls until I began to nurture my own soul. Nothing to do with looks.

>> No.54680763

>>54680705
Massive cope.

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54680764

> tfw 32 and never had a relationship

Uhm, alright guys...
Now that we talked about it.. uhmmmm... what do you think of Sergeys outfits?

>> No.54680784

>>54680763
not really, I've been with 18 year olds.

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>>54676830
no kids by thirty? idk dude, better get cracking

>> No.54680834

>>54680709
As originally stated: its always people with kids that go on your self righteous tangents and call people who dont want kids to kill thenselves or other fucked uo shit while people who dont want kids often dont have a problem(as i dont) if people want them. You have proven that all thread. Why is people not wanting kids so offensive to you? I only started getting “mean” long after you started the self righteous shit and insults and calls to kys.

You dont have to answer it. Its always tue case for some reason. For the record i am married, i dont play video games for over 10 years since i was 20 or so, and spend my time working or on side business. Not everyone fits your stereotype. Why are you faggots so fucking uptight about people not wanting kids? Its not an rejection of you and everything you stand for just cause someone doesn’t want kids and views life a little differently on “doing good”.

>> No.54680845

>>54680834

>always

Except not. Read the thread. I started nothing, I replied to a self righteous poster. Fuck off

>> No.54680855

>>54680845
And immediately you went into hysterics. Even now you are telling me to fuck off. I really feel sorry for your kids. You’re unbearable.

>> No.54680875

>>54680855

Nah, not hysterical at all. Although you are a tedious bunch. Imagine having a God complex about being a fat lazy consoomer faggot that's shaming his entire ancestral line.

>> No.54680922

>>54680875
So to you it all boils down to
>my duty to serve my ancestors
>i owe my ancestors kids
>its the right thing to do
>its wrong to not

>> No.54681008

>>54680723
That’s if the woman has already had children. The reason for this is because women have a limited, finite amount of eggs that they continually shed each time they have their period. When they’re pregnant, they don’t shed eggs during their pregnancy, and for roughly 6 months after they give birth due to breastfeeding. So, when they tend to still have healthy eggs well into their 30s. Women who wait to have their first children in their 30s have already wasted most if not all of their healthy eggs.

>> No.54681054

>>54680922

No it boils down to:

>I am life and I should continue life if I value life
>I should continue humanity if I believe in it
>If I believe I am a good person then it's my responsibility to raise good people, because someone has to do it
>My children are my legacy and the continuation of a shared experience and line

It's a simple concept, if you don't value life or humanity, then why are you even here? If you do, why are you neglecting to do your part?

Don't give me cope about "well I don't really want to die but really I do", it's a simple thing. Dying is easy, not existing is easy, it's existing that's the hard part, and part of existence is ensuring its continuity. If we consider ourselves good people and the evolution of the line before us even moreso.

>> No.54681099

>>54680875
>>54680332
Why should he kys himself? He's the one that considers life to have value besides having kids. Since you've had your kids now you may as well kys.

>> No.54681135

>>54681099

No he doesn't. His reasons for not having kids involve the futility of life and the lack of its point. And again, kids don't stop you from continuing to live a full life. They are part of it.

>> No.54681156

>>54676830
if you are not going to make a child then having a relationship is pointless and will ultimately fail. after a few years you stop loving each other and if you don't have a child then you will never stick together. even if you have a child theres a chance at divorce but if you have created some children you might stay around and care for them with your partner.

no children = its over (your relationship)

>> No.54681171

>>54680148
>There are 3 major maturing moments in a human's life: puberty, entering the workforce, having kids. That is it.
Lmao you must be very pure slave worker goy breeding stock. Do you realise you are like a farm animal, toiling away and breeding and toiling so that a smaller group of others can reap your toil and use it to actually live?

>> No.54681193

>>54681171

What do you even exist for retard? The Goymasters and Co. are advocating for childless whites and the endless infusion of 3rd worlders while you manbaby cocksuckers sit at home and play with your fleshlights and Nintendo.

>> No.54681198

>>54681171
there's nothing wrong with not having any children. but then you should also not have a relationship. its pointless.

>> No.54681212

>>54676830
>30
>making good money
>doesn't have 18 year old girlfriend
what even is the point

>> No.54681227

>>54681054
So what would be the difference between having kids or spending that money and energy you saved up to save the lives of many more by using it effectively? That arguably leaves an even bigger legacy than just genes. Nobody but your direct kids will remember you, but the above example will be remembered by many for longer
Essentially it boils down to
>my own opinion of what is right and I want kids

Nothing wrong with it but why larp?

>> No.54681229

>>54681212
I recently got a 26 year old girlfriend that wants to have a family with me. before that waging was pointless. now I am ok and happy to wage. I went on holiday for 18 months before going back in the cage. I only went back into the wagecage cause I aquired GF. no pussy no work. fuckem.

>> No.54681261

>>54681198
>>54681193
I'm actually pro children and especially pro good people having children, I just think your arguments are funny and your ass pain is embarrassing.

I don't know how much point there is to having kids today if you're complacent though. You should really have some edge that you can pass on to your kids. Knowledge, money, genes, etc. If you're not top like 5% it's doubtful your kids will make it anyway. Can't just be firing them out and hoping they figure it out.

>> No.54681275

>>54680763
Nobody is coping about not dating immature, vapid zoomers. Get ahold of yourself. You have been mindbroken by 4chan.

>> No.54681299

>>54681227

>So what would be the difference between having kids or spending that money and energy you saved up to save the lives of many more by using it effectively

Nobody does that. I look around me and see tons of people using this line and yet no one is over here handing 50% of their income to charity and working soup kitchens every weekend and fostering kids. Give me a fucking break.

On top of that, you can be a good, charitable, helpful person to your community, AS WELL AS raising good charitable people to continue that mindset.

>>54681261

Trying to help lost people consider something else in this utter nihilistic consumeristic abyss isn't "ass pain", I will happily live my life as I put it together. This time is the anomaly, not me, the things that I say were common truths in the past.

>> No.54681327
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54681327

The older I get, the more I am veering towards spirituality.

I used to believe my goal in life is to "win" the game; make a lot of money, get a beautiful wife, have lots of kids.

Now I think my goal in life is to achieve nirvana and break the eternal cycle of reincarnation. What the fuck happened? Where am I going?

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Reading the number of grown men here with barely legal gfs reminds me I am thankful my husband is liberal and reminds me you can have a low IQ and make it.

>> No.54681379

>>54681198
Never been in love, bro?

>> No.54681381

>>54681299
>the things that I say were common truths in the past.
I'm saying the present situation is not the same as the past

>This time is the anomaly
Yes.

>>54681299
>yet no one is over here handing 50% of their income to charity and working soup kitchens every weekend and fostering kids
Quantity of people is not so important now. Many things would be more helpful to humanity than the usual charity.

>> No.54681409

>>54681340
>my husband
Faggotry shouldn't be legal. You can't talk.

>> No.54681431

>>54681381
>in the past
People glamour it up as if perhaps they had kids for more just an natural reasons
>legacy
>life purpose

As if. The vast majority of kid’s in history were had either by accident, for free labour(no 1 reason by far) or out of force to sell off into slavery for money.
Its fucking modern privilege and mindset to view it as anything but how it was back then.

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>>54681327

>> No.54681473

>>54681431
It's modern cope. Like believing in democracy.

>> No.54681498

>>54676830
>gf is turning 30 soon
>I guess i have to propose soon and start having kids?
you mean attempt to have kids some women are infertile by 30

>> No.54681565

>>54681498
>some women are infertile by 30
Yes and this hasn't happened by accident. This relates to all my posts itt. The ones that own us have their reasons.

>> No.54681601

>>54681379
>> love
lmao ive had multiple girlfriends. love is just chemicals by the way. the feelings of love will stop after a few months to a year or two. you are supposed to make her pregnant in this period

>> No.54681645

>>54680222
>do community service, all while being a parent.

>> No.54682028

>>54681299
So do you just make up everything you say as you go?

>> No.54682040

>>54680335
That's exactly what I noticed from how he writes all his messages

>> No.54682065

>>54679328
Thanks for the hopium
Maybe my life can be salvaged if Sergey finally delivers...

>> No.54682611

>>54680709
I like you bro, based. Fuck these self deluding, righteous weakling faggots. Keep hammering

>> No.54682633

>>54676836
>>54676915
Lmao it looks like the environment helps

>> No.54682709

>>54682028
>>54681645
>>54681381

Just let me reiterate, I don't care if you decide you're too inept/broken/poor whatever to take on the role and responsibility of parent and that you want to expire meaninglessly off into the ether, just don't huff your own farts and pretend like spending all of your time and money on yourself is some kind of noble and selfless act. It isn't. The world relies on kids and their parents, you were one once, you can't be one forever no matter how hard you resist. Your grim reality has yet to settle in.

>> No.54682802

>>54682709
Lurker here

I agree with you, but you're being a massive faggot about it. Did your wife not fuck you last night?

>> No.54682816

>>54682802
Not saged, I'm just retarded and didn't clear my fields

>> No.54682820

why even have kids, the state just takes them and poisons them, steals their foreskins, experiments on them etc. its like having kids on hardmode these days, why even try to be a father. seems to me the best way is just going deadbeat dad and knocking up as many women as possible. how much money can they really take for child support if you have no income and are on welfare or something.

>> No.54682871

>>54680727
>age = maturity
>thinking women mature in general
Lmao

>> No.54682936

>>54676830
I live in mexico, have $5 in my bank account currently, fuck 18-20 year olds regularly and consume the strongest psychedelics in the world once a month. Happy as a clam. You're doing life wrong.

>> No.54682982

>>54681327
if you werent deep learning spirituality in your 20s then its the boomer effect, you will fall for every retarded concept and buy merchandise made specifically for people like you. You will achieve a big nothing because you fell for modern buddhism (the pseud's standard go to religion)

>> No.54683032

>>54680540
Grow up sissy, men don't need emotional women shit.
>>54682820
You don't need to try hard, just raise the boys to adulthood and send them off.

>> No.54683182

>>54679328
My gf is 18. I'm 67. I take two Viagra everyday. I give her allowance to go shopping and buy vape and I pay for her acne treatment

>> No.54683358

>>54680824
what's this from, financially speaking?

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>>54676830
Sadly all that is left to life is the hopes that maybe, by some dumb streak of chance or luck you'll make it.
I mean look at me, i have an average salary of 13k per month and the only way i can make ends meet is by gambling my money on Pool Party (PARTY) and hoping to make a pretty penny... So far has worked but what happens to me when it doesn't?

>> No.54683677

im 29 and i live in 3200 square feet house. i have a wife and two kids about to start school. im retired running a small online business just for fun. life is great.

>> No.54683698

>>54676830
start making children