/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>54635210
Wish I could do the same, but I'm a coward and would hate to see her destroyed. We live together, so the impact would be immediate.

>>54635210
How old are you?

>>54635240
I can just fly back to another country once I do it. Sometimes it kills me inside, and sometimes I just don't care at all.

>>54635275
28 years old. Younger hoe would be my 2nd gf in this scenario (she genuinely loves me, but has had promiscuous past).

My first gf has been with me for over than 6 years together. But I haven't had anyone else besides her despite my good looks. Social anxiety paid a huge role in missed opportunities of course.

>>54635288
Make her fucking cry and rope FUCK women

>>54635288
Dont breakup lol just fuck the slut as a sidepiece
Almost never worth it

>>54635276
>>54635288
Man, we have some similar personal story... I'm older than you but I'm in a similar position, other than the young gf, which is something I could easily have if I was not a shy dumbass.

>>54635240
>>54635360
Thank you for sharing your stories anons as well. Any advice on general direction in this type of situation?

Except from dumping a current gf & keeping a younger hoe for some temporary time? Verification not required. Is 30s the new 20s?

>>54635210
Godspeed. I told myself I was gonna dump my useless 33 year old roastie of a GF on April 15 but we ended up fucking like monkeys this weekend. I'm so tired bros.

>>54635408
What the fuck is wrong with you why would you waste time with a woman over 30 besides a one night fuck god I share a board with cucks

>>54635404
I am in same situation, also 28, gf is boring and doesnt do it for me.
I wish I get some fat stacks next bullrun so i can disappear to asia. Fuck US

>>54635420
My plan was to look like a normie to my parents and coworkers/friends by having a gf for 6 months. Then I'd go back to secretly banging hookers in foreign countries. But here I am almost 2 years later.

>>54635483
Two years down the drain. Sad!

>>54635408
Sounds like she is not so useless after all

>>54635404
Why are you asking us pathetic retards for advice lmao
Just pretend to be nice and to care about women, and try to fuck everything that moves

>>54635556
My current gf didnt do anything wrong besides being my only one. This is just sad. But what is the alternative? Being with her forever?

>>54635574
Maybe. It sounds like you're going to regret this later. Why not just cheat instead and not let her know?

>>54635464
Thailand? Vietnam? Korea?

>>54635588
Yes, it sounds better.

>>54635588
I wouldn't do this because I'd hate being dishonest and manipulative, and I'm sure I wouldn't be able to keep lying.

>>54635623
News flash: women are expert liars and never get caught. Maybe that will help you

>>54635636
Maybe, but as long as I don't find evidence of that, I won't do shit, cuz a broad generalization is only that, a generalization.

>>54635674
I just told you. They don't get caught. Nimwit

Bros after 4 long years of being single and going on several dozen first dates as a now 32 year old I’ve finally found a viable candidate

She’s 22, good family, wholesome and humble social media presence, 8/10 with an extremely pretty face that gets comments from others when im out on dates with her. She revealed to me she’s only ever dated one other person in college, because she had very strict parents growing up and was a shy bookworm

And she always texts me first. I’m in disbelief at the thought I could be with the one. But only six dates in and really afraid of messing things up

I hold only INJ and BTC btw

>>54635744
Have you fucked her yet?

>>54635288
You should just break the heart of your current gf and be honest to her. It's not fair to her to waste her best years with someone who's not faithful anymore

>>54635744
Here's a cheat code - when fucking her missionary, preferably the second or third time, when you're thrusting deeply and slowly, look into her eyes and tell her that you think you love her.

It will be hardwired into her psyche that sexual pleasure equals strong feelings from you, for life.

>>54635763
You're an idiot

>>54635799
You're a genius

I took my gfs virginity. So im not selling

>>54635757

Yeah man. Weve been fucking like 3-4 times a night when she sleeps over at my place. I held her down and coomed raw inside her the most recent night (she’s on the pill) and it was a crazy euphoric feeling

I’m worried about getting too needy or talking about my exes or something and ruining everything. I’ve been trying for a decent girlfriend for so fucking long man

>>54635574
What kike convinced you to believe this?
>This is sad
Idk maybe don't try to leave a rather stable relationship just because it doesn't provide 110% dopamine every second. Don't apply FOMO to real life. Kys nigger

>>54635799

I will consider this for when she comes over next anon, cheers

In a way I feel like she is a blank slate mostly and I can mold her. She is naturally more introverted although she has some normie interests (harry styles, unironically enjoys Loki movies from marvel or whatever the fuck). Nobody’s perfect I suppose lol

You're going down a path you cannot turn back from. I've always had good, stable gf's and ended up finding a side piece that I fell for and juggling two gf's. It's a ton of work and paranoia. Even if you break up with gf #1, regret will creep in around ~3 months. just a heads up.

>>54635210
its over rated. women that young are hard to be around unless you are that young too

>>54635861
Ok cool yeah stay on your toes. Talk less. Don't let her run your life but keep getting her addicted. Good work man I'm jealous

>>54635288
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

>>54635210
If you haven't made a baby with a girl after 6 months, then breaking it off is the kindest thing to do.
Break it off and send her to me, I'll keep her in my ChainLink based smart contract harem and get her pregnant. The contract pays out money to her for life as long as she keeps raising my babies and keeps her house tidy (the house is a rental, I stop paying for it if she starts getting uppity)

>>54635954

Thanks brother I can’t tell you how many mistakes I made up to this moment. I didn’t realize how starved for connection I was until we were laying in bed together

Talking less is key and I’ve been hyper aware of playing it cool, not over texting etc. I hope we end up dating but I don’t wanna get my hopes up

>>54635732
The women who have been murdered and or physically abused because they were seeing another man are evidence that women never get caught cheating themselves.

>>54635867
I dont think OP is after the dopamine/adrenalin rush of a new relationship.

It seems like OP feels like he has missed out on a certain part of life and for whatever reason he now doesnt feel whole/complete/good enough. He wants to go back and re-experience those feelings in order to fill this void within himself with a different person, except this shit never works. You will end up still with the void/pain inside but now you are also haunted by regret of having lost a stable loving relationship with a comitted woman for some teenage drama. It is never worth it unless your current relationship is already shit and theres nothing to lose. But if current relationship is good, it would be best to heal your childhood / teenage wounds and find wholness and peace within. Although hollywood movies and hook up culture have convinced people otherwise, your self worth, happiness and fulfillment do NOT depend on how many girls you have fucked. In fact if you decide to go for it OP, you will realize just how empty and shallow it is in reality. Disappointment will set in, followed by despair once you realize what you have lost. You will end up like one of those old people on TV who talk about their biggest regrets in life. You will be haunted by regret that you traded a stable, loving relationship for chasing an illusion of happiness that doesnt exist.

But it really depends on the quality of your current relationship OP. If its a really good relationship with a loving, comitted partner that you also love then you absolutely should stay.

Only if you are actually unhappy in your current relationship and you actually dont love your partner anymore, only then it might be a good idea to bounce

as a foid why should I even get involved with a man if they pull this shit
how hard is it to find a man who wants to commit holy shit. I'm never gonna give anyone my virginity at this point

>>54636414
both men and women do this shit all the time. Its a story as old as time itself. The key is to find a mentally and emotionally stable partner.

>>54635861
>Coomed raw inside her
>She’s on the pill

Maybe in your situation you want to trap her, but anon this is exactly how she ends up pregnant

>>54636212
This is good advice, I'd just add that if he does leave her, it should be because the relationship is bad and he's unhappy with her, and that the wanting to sleep around shit shouldn't play a party in his reasoning.
He should be looking for a girlfriend with whom he can be happy, but it's okay to have some fun in between, I guess. But the fun in between shouldn't be a reason for scuppering a good relationship with a good woman.
OP should bear in mind that 99% of men in the Christian West married their first love and lived happily, never having done the hook up culture bullshit.

>>54635744

Marry her asap she sounds like a catch. Go to church together, follow Christ, so you don’t mess this up after ten years together.

>>54635210
I've never had a girlfriend. 100% LINK here.

>>54635757

Get her off the pill man. That shit is poison and causes cancer. Work on your pull out game. Also, get married.

>>54635210
Do it anon. Casual sex is the way forward

>>54636414

Find a serious man ten years older than you

>>54636212
>chasing an illusion of happiness that doesnt exist.
God damn why does biz keep hitting me with these existential dread feels.

>>54635210
I'm dating a stunning 20y old who looks like 15y, virgin and socially awkward + introvert. gonna have the time of my life (I'm 30).

I hold only XEN 100% (since bottom). not staking, not minting.

>>54635240
>I'm a coward
>would hate to see her destroyed
Cowards are afraid for themselves. You're kind.

But always remember that women don't really have feelings. They only pretend to have them. Your gf would cry for a few days and then hop on a new dick within 1-2 months (unless she's fugly). You in her shoes would be devastated for years.

>>54636547
Yep. It used to be perfectly fine to have few or even only partner, even for men. Oversexualization of society promoted by hollywoold and subsequent hook up culture makes people believe that casual sex and hooking up is the pinnacle of happiness and the point of life and if you have missed out on that, you missed out on life. This is not true at all and its really not the big thing that its made out to be. While providing superficial and shortlived fun, it certainly is not going to make you feel complete or fulfilled.

That being sad, it is still normal to feel curios about different pussy OP. It is both biologically and psychologically completely normal for a man to desire pussy. This might come at the sacrifice of your existing relationship though.

You gotta make the call.

The only alternative to have both is to become a rich as fuck multi millionaire boss. Rules change if you play in that value bracket. Bitches will gladly accept that you have a harem of hoes that you fuck on your private yachts/jets while being on business trips.

>>54635210
>I missed out on teen love & fucking & dating scene
retard, that's the best thing that can happen to anyone. don't you realize that is just a coping mechanism for subhumans not able to hold a stable long term relationship?

>>54635288
i personaly think you will regret getting rid of the loyal one later.

>>54635288
You'll quickly lose both, I learned the hard way

>>54635210
Same position except I got dumped by her so I have no choice. Been trying one year to get her back.

If I get tired of my current girlfriend I just cheat on her and make it obvious, till she "catches me" and "breaks up with me".

>>54637142
its over fren. let it go. Your mistake was : you dind't get her pregnant after a few years of being a couple.

if she didn't want a baby anyway you lost nothing! if you don't want to be a dad you don't even need a girlfriend!