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I work 5 days a week and in the weekends I do literally nothing but browse the internet to pass the time, and it gets boring after doing this for a decade.
The problem is I have no idea what to do to pass my time, I think I have anhedonia since I can't seem to be enjoying any movies, TV series or videogames, everything feels like a waste of time. Got a home, car but no gf ( dont wanna use dating apps I dont like modern women)

advise me as you would advise a friend, im out of options

>> No.54520367

>>54520359
Live a rich inner life.

>> No.54520372

>>54520367
Too vague, what does that mean and how would you go about doing it

>> No.54520378

Get a hobby, preferably something outside. Ride a bike, go hiking, kayak. Get your ass outside.

>> No.54520391

>>54520359
Leave your comfort zone. Start by going to a gym or a bar

>> No.54520397

>>54520359
Stop masturbating

>> No.54520399

>>54520372
There is no way to happiness, happiness is the way.

>> No.54520406

>>54520391
>Start by going to a gym
I already go to a gym, have done so for the past decade, everyone got their gay earphones in and minding their own business, I just go in there and do my workouts and leave, still leaves me with a bunch of free time after

>a bar
I never frequent bars, I dislike them because they're loud and filled with alcohol drinking bums

>>54520397
NoFap is a meme i've tried not nutting, lasted exactly 30 days and only thing i got out of it was be frustrated

>>54520399
vague non-answer, doesn't mean anything

>> No.54520408

>>54520391
Second the Gym, being in better shape makes you feel better. You just have to stick to it.

>> No.54520416

>>54520406
Get a dating app and get a girlfriend.

>> No.54520419

>>54520408
Yeah exercise is great advice, I already do it, I need to socialize more or get to know more people but everyone is antisocial these days it feels like, social media got us all hooked up to dopamine but lonely, i dont know if im the only one feeling this way

>>54520416
women ahve too big ego it's demoralizing as fuck

>> No.54520424

i too share this sentiment OP, i work full time, i should be happy. no debt, good job, getting my teeth replaced in a week or so. i feel we are in that category of feeling old whilst still young. stupid trivial shit that matters to normies doesnt tickle our fancies the same i guess.

>> No.54520426

>>54520419
Okay then. Stay a coward and don't change anything.

>> No.54520430

>>54520397
also this. When you masturbate, you're giving your vitality away to a sock or your boxers or a dirty towel. You're also engaging in impure thoughts that make you weaker. I always thought these no-fap chuds were not only wrong but also were full of shit and full of themselves. Just try not masturbating for a week straight. Your perspectives will start to change dramatically. Women/men will have less power over you. You will have more power over yourself. You will feel more in control because you are. Also, remember, there's always more to fall. There's no safety net in this world, horrible things can always be right around the corner, so spending the time doing nothing might actually just in fact be wasting the otherwise good days of your life. The older you get, the worse life gets at a certain point. Pray you never have illness, those who are in good health are so lucky and don't even realize. I pray for all the good people in this world and the next.

>> No.54520433

>>54520424
>i feel we are in that category of feeling old whilst still young.
fuck yeah that sentence hits close
> stupid trivial shit that matters to normies doesnt tickle our fancies the same i guess.
100% you know what im talking about, i think other people in this chat are in their teens or young 20s

>> No.54520436

>>54520359
hobbies & goals

>> No.54520438

>>54520359

you're me.
even agree on the dating app/women thing.
If a woman isn't wife material I don't even want to talk to her.


It's lonely, forsure. I used to cope by gaming but my gaming friends have moved on aswell.
Now I just work, workout, browse 4chan/youtube, and sleep.

I do like to read though. So maybe get into that.
It won't cure the loneliness, but it does help with the boredom if you find a really good book that you enjoy

>> No.54520439

>>54520430
I'll give it another go, but the notion that not masturbating will somehow fix my life is laughable ngl

>> No.54520446

>>54520438
>I do like to read though. So maybe get into that.
one of the only things I still do, it helps a bit, do you read fiction or non-fiction? any recommendations?

>> No.54520449

>>54520359
substance abuse

>> No.54520450

>>54520446

fiction, mostly.

Read Red Rising or Stormlight Archive.
Two of my favorite series

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>>54520359
learn to play the drums

>> No.54520457

Find something you want to do. Easier said than done. Most things are boring crap.

>> No.54520467

>>54520450
cheers anon, I will try them, godspeed and good luck to you too

>> No.54520468

>>54520450

also if you have some recommendations on books, lmk aswell. I've been looking for something new to read.

nonfiction is cool too if you have recommendations,
biographies, philosophy, etc

>> No.54520469

>>54520438
I think the not talking to women without being a wife mindset is not a good one. Imagine you find this great girl, she's gonna have some flaws at least and not be a man and unless you find someone with autism, which is probably not a terrible idea but you have to have experiences to relate to the normalfags and exploring hoes is not a bad idea.
Not for the sex specifically because they can be ugly but for the life experience, and speech and charisma stats increase.

And even if you don't learn anything new at all, at least your days didn't disappear and blend on the computer

>> No.54520480

>>54520439
things you might easily mock at one time in your life may be things you regret having mocked later in your life. there's more in life to be open to than there is to be closed to. unless it's degeneracy, you can close the door confidently on degenceracy.

>> No.54520485

>>54520468
I don't feel like im in a position of giving good book advice since my taste in books is a bit weird, but I'm currently reading:
What's our problem - Tim Urban (writer of waitbutwhy.com spent 7 or so hours writing this book)
and some programming book to understand certain aspects better

>> No.54520491

>>54520480
I'm not mocking people who do nofap, if it works for you that's great, I just found that people online tend to think nofap cures their life problems, it doesn't, there's more complexity to life than ceasing to touch your willy and making it a personality trait

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>>54520469

you're right, but dating apps don't work for super manlets.

But that's a whole other problem and I'm not trying to derail OP's thread

>> No.54520497

>>54520485
7 or so years*** fuck, wouldn't be a good book if he only spent 7 hours kek

>>54520493
you can branch off i don't mind

>> No.54520506

>>54520359
I'm the same but going outside into nature and doing sports (mountain biking, trail running, rock climbing) make me feel amazing and like life has purpose.

>> No.54520511

>>54520430
>When you masturbate, you're giving your vitality away to a sock or your boxers or a dirty towel

If you're young sure, if you're like 30+ you're just doing it out of habit

>> No.54520519

>>54520493
I'm saying in general, you can still talk to women anywhere even if they reject you or not, or just going out with friends to fuck around if you have them because if the probability of having fun is 0.01% you probably won't get killed or anything dramatic like that so it beats procrastinating on the computer and your days all blending together forever.

>> No.54520531

>>54520419
>women ahve too big ego it's demoralizing as fuck
so do you

>> No.54520557

Just reading your replies I can tell you're egotistical. Go join some club. Like a jogging club or a cycling club or rock climbing. Go with the intent to improve your social skills aswell. Give your life the opportunity to have novel unique experiences happen as opposed to doing the same thing but slightly different and hoping for some trajectory change.

>> No.54520563

>>54520359
An outdoor activity is very very important for your body’s physical health

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>>54520519

don't have friends to go out with. I also live kind of far away from the city.
I guess I could go out alone but the thought of taking an uber for 45 minutes to go a random bar in the city just to sit there drinking alone sounds depressing as fuck and I'd rather just work out or relax

cold approaching women in those settings, especially as a solo male who's really short (5'5"), it's just not a good look. And maybe pride is an issue that I have but I refuse to simp for women who go to bars/clubs.

If there was a way for me to meet wholesome girls, I'd absolutely do it. But society is degenerate as fuck and girls like that are extremely rare and the ones that do exist probably sit at home too so it's unlikely I'll ever meet them

>> No.54520572

>>54520436
This pretty much. You only need to exercise two times a week to maintain a decent physique, if you're hellbent on not getting a wife and.children the only thing left is to create something new and a unique artistic expression of yourself. This could be a web business, art, music or a physical hobby. Otherwise you're just going to be wasting time wageslaving your life away

>> No.54520602

>>54520359
Kill yourself nigga.

>> No.54520603

>>54520557
Good advice, i'll try be less egotistical

>> No.54520612

>>54520359
You’re on the other side of the coin. I have a wife house and kids. Good job and good prospects. Should be happy yet most days I’m miserable. I think that maybe I miss freedom or not having anyone depending on me, but then given enough time, I’ll just end up like you. Life is weird like that. I haven’t found the answer yet, but I’ll keep searching. Godspeed.

>> No.54520614

>>54520612
Why are you miserable? Having a loving wife sounds like what i'm lacking, someone you cuddle up with and have sex with sounds good to me

>> No.54520626

>>54520485
>>54520438
fucking hell you're literally me. beware tho tim urban is a literal harvard jew so take everything he says with a grain of salt. he's like Lex Friedman in blog form.

>> No.54520630

>>54520626
What coping mechanisms have you tried so far, what is your plan for the future?

>> No.54520634

>>54520614
Maybe at first, but once you have kids things change. Wife becomes Mom and kids need day to day attention. As dad you also have a new role with obligations and responsibilities. The days of carefree fucking and hanging with the wife evaporate quickly. Then as she ages her sex drive takes a dive just when yours is beginning to peak. She remarks that I would be happier if we never had kids, she’s right to some extent, but I can see how carefree fucking would get pointless after a few years due to the void of not procreating. I think I’m beginning to understand why old nobility would ship their kids off to fancy boarding schools most of their life, best of both worlds.

>> No.54520636

>>54520634
Strike a deal with your wife that u get to bang around, or go to hookers, in return u be a good dad to ur kids, maybe im retarded though

>> No.54520637

the china virus/clotshot hysteria completely deflated my social impulse. not that I had much of one before, but now I have absolutely zero interest in other people. I don't care what they think, I don't care what they do, I'm not curious about how they live their lives. my narcissistic aversion to socialization was proven correct in a thorough and irrefutable way and I can't get over it. I have to avoid thinking about it or i'll be short with strangers and coworkers and my motivation to do anything, even for myself, will completely die. I place my faith in God, but I realize it's empty if I'm not helping and serving these people I can't even bring myself to be interested in. the love has to come first and I just can't feel it. I didn't even mention the dystopian nature of mass surveillance and social media completely demolishing the concept of public vs private, intimacy is COMPLETELY dead. and the solution that you will be offered is "um lol just stop thinking about it :p :p ;o :p".

the basic calculation is: it's becoming riskier and costlier to participate in society and the rewards for doing so are becoming less and less, so the winning move is to just avoid people and relationships. I can spend hours thinking about this and I always come to the same conclusion. not to demoralize any of you, we're all gonna make it, but I hope anyone out there can relate. maybe you found a way out.

>> No.54520646

>>54520612
It's your human bias that there is good and bad. There is only experience. Look to nature and see the praying mantis rip off the head of it's mate after copulation. Know in your mind that evolution is brought about by pain death and suffering. Know that we wouldn't be here today without it.

Life is what you make it.

>> No.54520658

>>54520359
do something where the result could theoretically be meaningful, and whether or not it exists at all is up to you.
in my case it's drawing. my first question was 'what can i do with my life that would have something to show for at the end', and my second question was 'what requires the least amount of capital'. writing and coding and some fourth thing i can't remember failed for different reasons. drawing passed the initial barrier probably because i wanted to bang the girls i draw. but as a result, i could now make characters, which i could hang other drawing endeavors on.

in the end it's not really in any 'thing' in a materialist sense. it's deciding on a certain way to think about your place in the world. what can you do that no one else can do? look for that and then do it.

in this sense "what to do" "to pass the time" are wrong questions. and generally speaking problems are solved not by getting different answers but by asking different questions. imagine someone that is happy in general, and appreciates nice little things, someone everyone would want to be. do you think they get there by having the perfect "pastime"?
i don't. they're doing something else entirely, and they do it for everything in their life.

>> No.54520659

>>54520658
I like your input

>> No.54520661

>>54520636
Nah that’s not it. I’m telling her that we have to start doing things on our own outside of the kids. Taking her on a cruise this summer for our anniversary, telling her absolutely no talk about the kids. Just us, booze, clear waters, and lots of fucking. Boomers at least had that right, it’s important to be greedy sometimes.
>I have fucked hookers though, it’s alright but doesn’t address anything long term

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>>54520359
Because you have no impulse control.

This is a consequence of the Jewish financial system that has forced both of your parents and pushed them into the work force, so that they did not have any time to spend with you which means the state takes care of you, and raises you and since we know that the system is the great satan you were raised by Evil, a system that wants to make you suffer.

So today you are a product of this evil.

The reason they got women into the workforce was not because of Feminists, as much as they like to think that they were in charge it was about fostering a sense of empowerment and freedom from "men" which was true to a point, but the main reason was isolating the child of these broken homes so your enemies could raise you.

Your parents due to the lack of time, being tried and lethargic from the poisoned food that they consume found it easier after the 9 to 5 to fill you with cheap thrills, TV, computer games, and you candy, so now you suffer because you were never taught by people who cared for you, you were engineered by the system to become a slave and the less you feel and the more you suffer the better.

You have to realise that the system is the great satan and you were essentially raised by the greatest evil the world has ever known.
The children of this system, the Jews are the children of this great demiurge and they feed of your suffering and misery.
That is why you are here, so their god of materialism can feed on your anguish and misery.
I am sure I can sill pull out of you some hate, can't I anon?

You don't realise but the Jews were playing the long game, by taking control of the financial system, they are able to isolate our children from the parents and educate them, your boomer parents allowed our enemies to educate you.

>> No.54520689

>>54520646
Id love an existence where I’ve fulfilled my biological imperative with my chosen mate and am rewarded with a healthy dose of dopamine/serotonin every day without the need for pharmaceuticals. I’m halfway there, it’s securing the happy chemicals that I’m having a problem with.

>> No.54520691

>>54520685
based schizophrenic

>> No.54520693

>>54520689
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-GUjA67mdc

You do realise that you can secure it from any local supermarket, if you know a little bit of chemistry.

>> No.54520700

>>54520691
> If only I was crazy anon.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j800SVeiS5I

>> No.54520706

>>54520693
I said no drugs. Based song tho, added it to my playlist thanks anon

>> No.54520727

Go knock up a bunch of women? You’ll feel more occupied if you have kids running around to make life hard, especially from multiple women. If you’re a fag, tough shit

>> No.54520777

>>54520449

This is the only thing that works

>> No.54520778

>>54520777
what kind of substance? 777 check

>> No.54520796

>>54520359
try a sport. Before you do it you won't want to do it but you'll enjoy it once you do it and you'll feel good once you've done it. Exercise is also good and practicing a skill can be fulfilling. I used to play tennis but I busted my knee and can't anymore, and I miss those days.

>> No.54520802

>>54520796
sports is fun in your 20s, but doesn't give fulfillment anymore in your 30s

>> No.54520812

>got a home
Start brewing alcohol and cultivating drugs in your garage

>> No.54520813

>>54520693
Good song anon

>>54520700
Good film, I agree with your overall sentiment but you lose me when you start talking about demons and demiurges or some shit, I'm a realist, explain in autistic terms. Human condition is brought on by our collective greed and incompetence, it's not a secret group that is doing all le evil, i don't believe that

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>>54520706
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SVbc_Fwbt50

You can always try music, also if you have aversion to chemical highs, you should really try and remove sugar and low GI carbs from your diet.
This includes pasta, white bread, white potatoes, sugar, soft drinks and any sort of candy, cake, milk etc.

Sugar is a drug and the Jews put it in all our foods to poison us.

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>>54520813
> but you lose me when you start talking about demons and demiurges

Ok so to start with, I imagine that you understand how your body is made up of different organs that all work together to function.
And these organs are in turn made up of cells, these cells are made up of a collection of instructions which you likely know is called DNA and this DNA are long polymers of nucleotides which are again made from molecules and atoms.
Now you can see how you can be broken down into simple atoms, do you really think the structure stops at you?

Lets draw your focus to another part of nature, in the form of tree roots and fungi and how the interact with each other to transfer food between rhizoid structures in the soil.
Now this is where it gets exciting and where you can start to see abstract lifeforms if you allow your self to be opened minded.
When humans get together and create organisations, like governments, corporations and religions, you can start to understand how these Abstract entities work.

The devil isn't something that exists in the next life, well maybe it is I don't know, but it sure exists in this life.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yQTGyYg0_E

>> No.54520970

stop being an npc siiting at home

>> No.54520978

>>54520406
>NoFap is a meme i've tried not nutting, lasted exactly 30 days and only thing i got out of it was be frustrated
Fuck but dont fap
Trust me bro
This works

>> No.54520992

> Move to Asia
> get subservient 10/10
> ensure she aint a cheating whore(the amount of time she spends on social media will clarify
> continue browsing the internet at the weekends
> get your dick sucked on demand

>> No.54521001

>>54520978
No fap is useless if you don't go out and utilise that energy actually getting your balls drained

>> No.54521022

>>54520359
I also had a problem with switching from work to relaxation for a while. For me boozing helped. I get drunk Friday night, I switch from work to entertainment mode. For movies get a comfy chair to sit in, a big screen a dark room, makes all the difference. Turn all distractions off and you'll really enjoy it. For games just play the ones you like and they'll draw you in, just give them a chance
>waste of time
Everything in life is, waste time on things you enjoy

>> No.54521025

>>54521022
based, got any game recommendations?

>> No.54521033
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54521033

What even is a country?

It has no body, it has no soul, it exists entirely in the minds of people, when an individual crosses a so called "border" nothing actually happens, because the border does not even exist.
It only exists in the minds of men who have been brainwashed by the images and ideas that they have consumed, there isn't actually such a thing as a country.

Men are killed for betraying this abstract entity.
Men go to kill other men for this abstract entity.
Men ill shoot at other men over it.
And yet these men say that there is no such thing as God, even though they created their own God and worship it, kill for it and even die for it.

So you can see, that when men and women are blinded and have their mind filled with images and thoughts they give over their authority to an entity that they work for, that they pay taxes to, that they feed when they extract resources and incorporate these so called "liberated" people into their system through war.

Its really is a truly hideous thing when you finally see it.

The great Satan, is like a tree root structure, the people work, consume and maintain its body, focusing on themselves and what they can get from the system, while the collective structure moves the people around just like the tree root structures move through the soil.
The demiurge is the system, the system that rewards men for Napalming children, because they were able to dominate a people rich in resources and man power.

You have to realise that our ancestors were not idiots, they created stories and metaphors to share with us you just ignored them because Jews made "fun" of the stories and blinded you to the messages.

> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=faOUDoRmK_E

>> No.54521088

>>54520359
you have brain atrophy from consuming useless garbage media and not using the parts of your brain for creativity and self improvement. Try and learn or do something new everyday for your weekends and suddenly you will feel like a different person. Humans were meant to discover and experience new things not sit behind a computer staring at screens, this is evident by our evolutionary history going back centuries.

>> No.54521095

>>54521088
What new things do you do every weekend? name some for inspiration

>> No.54521098

>>54520419
There is nothing left to say. It's unironically over, coronahoax was the final nail in the coffin for this globohomo civ.

>> No.54521102

>>54521095
He goes to a different kebab shop and hooks up with a different whale on tinder.

>> No.54521104

>>54521025
Stop talking to me and just play something. You're addicted to talking to people. Just shut up

>> No.54521123

>>54521104
Got any recomendations on what to play?

>> No.54521140

>>54520359
Go volunteer your time. There are plenty of groups helping the elderly, poor, children, animals, war refugees, etc.

>> No.54521154

>>54521140
i dont get paid to do it fuck that

>> No.54521202

Men need meaning in their lives to be fulfilled, that can come from family, from an artistic or challenging hobby, from an impactful job, etc.

Find your meaning. Also stop being a little bitch and just go get laid, I don't care if you get an escort to start with and then switch to tinder roasties, just do it, it'll clear up some of the loser mentality you have going on.

TL;DR: go play Streets of Rage 2

>> No.54521225

Get a dog so you go out to the park every day

>> No.54521554
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Stop using porn (or anything else that sexually arouses that isn't a real person in real life). Use of artificial sexual stimuli causes anhedonia. https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/miscellaneous-resources/start-here-evolution-has-not-prepared-your-brain-for-todays-porn/
Read this.

>> No.54521571

>>54520359
Pick up another hobby for sure. I've been hiking a lot and I only play games with friends.

Just get off the screens more dude, it ain't good for you.

>> No.54521613

>>54520406
Nofap is not about not fapping, unironically. It's about quitting porn. That's how and why it started. 30 days isn't enough for your brain to rewire itself after years or porn use since you were an adolescent with a highly malleable brain. Be honest with yourself. Are you not coping because you don't want to give up using the stimuli? You suffer from the exact symptoms of porn use, yet you don't believe it causes these symptoms in you, and that since you didn't feel better in 30 days it's not related. After 30 days you still have withdrawal syndrome.
>>54521001
While preferable to the alternative, it has nothing to do with healing a brain that's addicted to a supernormal stimuli which has caused literal physical brain changes like reduced gray matter and dopamine receptor down-regulation.

>> No.54521631

>>54520359
Get a trans gf to keep you company and serve you meals

>> No.54521633

>>54520424
Why are you having your teeth replaced if you don't mind me asking? Is it all of them?

>> No.54521675

>>54520359
you're probably depressed.

anyways, you need a blend of hobbies. something autistic, something outdoorsy with the potential for socialization, and something mindful or passive with the potential for socialization.

i jump back and forth but mine are electronics/3d printing/cooking/thinking about learning woodworking and metalworking; lifting weights/hiking/thinking about getting back into fishing; and reading books and watching "old" movies.

>> No.54522044

>>54520419
This is not true. You watch too much highlight reels of whores talking shit to average men because they were deselected by chad. A majority of those women are larping or capping and they do it to imitate a persona they see in female rappers and other millionaire divas. They are performing for the show and they don't actually act like that. Bodycounts are exaggerated for women in a specific age group that got caught up in the tender trend but the highest reliable number is 30 for most of these women. They aren't attracted to enough men to rack up the numbers. Not in their youth. Stop taking blackpill and redpill prescriptions and go talk to a real woman firsthand. In my experience divorcees have the lowest body count and are a prize. There's so many of them. They still look great and many of them have culture shock from the abrupt changes in the dating market, mainly revolving around lack of participation by men. I have dated a couple really beautiful 38 year old divorcees (i'm 37) and honestly the only issue has been that they can't go on 3-5 day trips with me because they are usually working mothers. Otherwise I can spend all the time I want with them.

>> No.54522116

>>54520359
Grow up faggot

>> No.54522227

>>54520634
but /pol/ says having white babies is the most rewarding thing you can do in life
are your kids not white?

>> No.54522244

>>54520637
>my narcissistic aversion to socialization was proven correct in a thorough and irrefutable way
Care to elaborate?

>> No.54522951

>>54521123
Get a weapon and hunt an animal, you need your balls to drop fren.

>> No.54523228

Just keep doing you bro haha
Keep fapping! It's good for you bro. Scientific studies even said so

Also don't forget to play lots of videogames haha!

Dude going to the gym sucks! We only have so much energy! Don't waste it on the gym! Play cool games instead

>> No.54523437

>>54520359
>Can't enjoy movies, games or TV because they are a waste of time
That's literally the point of entertainment homie, surprised it took you this long to figure it out. You aren't enjoying it because the thousands ofhours you waste on it could be spent learning a skill or doing something productive
Stop being a consumer you nigger.
Start being a producer, in whatever capacity you can.

>> No.54524265

>>54520359
there is nothing, you were lied to

the one thing that gave people meaning (relationship with a loving caring faithful wife + children to raise) is mostly gone now because of female entitlement and social media

strive for that because there is nothing else that will fill that void

you sound like you're doing well in life so go abroad and find a good woman over there

>> No.54524353

The only answer is to accept Jesus Christ, our Lord, into your life.

>> No.54524873

all you have to do is feel a glow about yourself most of the time (ideally all the time)
Live such that this naturally occurs. So that you have a strong positive aura in everything you do. It's the best bro. do it!

>> No.54524885

>>54520359

Get in your car and walk around the beach, or park for a little bit and look at the sky. Take deep breaths. No music, or distractions.

>> No.54524946

>>54524353
based
Christ is King

>> No.54525114

>>54522244
I believe all anti-social behavior ultimately stems from what we call "narcissism", which is just the self preservation instinct taking control, usually at some cost to the narcissist's social capacity. we develop our unique form of "narcissism" based on the traumas and anxieties we're particularly concerned about, in my case it was mass surveillance and the public's sheepish reverence toward authority.

my concerns couldn't have been more explicitly validated than it was in 2020 and everything I do is filtered through that knowledge now, it's incredibly hard to get over it. there's an inescapable sense that there's no "forward", that we've already launched off the cliff and only think we're making progress because we're flying further and further before the crash

>> No.54525143

>>54520359
I have dysthymia too. See a psychiatrist (not a psychologist). Treatments don’t really work so great but better than nothing.

>> No.54525155

I just travel. For some reason I'm able to talk to women and make friends very easily, in a completely different place than where I live. It's only temporary, but it breaks the monotony. Also it helps to get your dick wet.

There's no pressure because everyone else is not from there, they're also on a vacation. So they're down to do whatever with you, it's very low stakes.

>> No.54525323

>>54522044
>38 year old divorcees
bitterness and man hating are such attractive qualities

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Blessed thread

>> No.54525761

>>54520637
Way out is to disassociate with the broad mass of people and only empathise with your tribe

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>>54520359
become a Crypto Wagie Extremist and start spending 50%+ of your wage earned income on RSR
https://youtu.be/oS3HBmwFFDQ

>> No.54527031

drive for uber retard

why are you so fucking lazy

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>>54520359
literally me

>> No.54527101

>>54520359
Everything you’ve listed involves some level of consooming
Stop consooming and stay to do or create things instead

>> No.54527121

>>54522044
>In my experience divorcees have the lowest body count and are a prize.
>honestly the only issue has been that they can't go on 3-5 day trips with me because they are usually working mothers.

Divorcees as in women who were divorced rather than women who started the divorce? Most divorces are initiated by women, the majority again for the reason "dissatisfaction". Any women (or man) who would screw up a kid's life for that reason is not someone I want to be with.

I'm 35, never dated a women with kids, but if you can convince me there's an exception and how to spot it I'll give it a try.

>> No.54527141

>>54520359
get a foreign girlfriend

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>> No.54527770

>>54520572
this is a really underrated post

humans create. if you arent gonna create more humans, you have to create *something*

get some clay or pencils or learn to code or do something that creates, otherwise of course you'll be unhappy.

writing on here is creative but its very low effort.

>> No.54527790

>>54520359
grow a garden, build something new

>> No.54528492

>>54520802
mofo, stop putting up barriers like that, you know that in kendo, to reach 8th dan you must be over 65 and have reached 7th dan 10 years ago? those 70 years olds are still sparring with 20 year old men, but I guess I'll go tell them that sports don't give fulfillment in your 30s, ppppffft, brother you just have to take care of your body more and more, you can still do sports and shit, just know when to back off.

I pity people like you cuz you put up barriers, and preach it out like it's gospel, all the while you could be having more fun and fulfillment outta life if you thinked for a second. I want you to get more outta life, bro.

I go by the old victorian standard for gentlemen, you must have one activity that stimulates you mind, body, and soul, either separately or all together. For me that means I have one physical sport, one mind sport, and then an art that can be practiced but never mastered. I'm working a lot lately, so I shouldn't have too physical a sport, so I do darts, then I play Go and that shits hurts my brain, and for an art, I cheat a bit and practice penmanship during work because part of my work requires me to fill out forms by hand.

>> No.54529300

you need a hobby. or an adventure. i highly recommend the latter. no i wont elaborate further.

>> No.54529388

>>54520359
Find a hobby that makes you feel stimulation that either nothing else offers or that you haven't experienced since you were a child.
For some people it involves reading classic literature, watching obscure arthouse films, woodworking, botany, or making music.

>> No.54529392

>>54520531
>no u
stfu faggot

>>54522044
>In my experience divorcees have the lowest body count and are a prize
Why would you believe what a post-wall whore tells you about anything? You're naive.

t. on dating app and hate it, women ARE hyper egotistical, boring and money sinks

>> No.54529447

>>54520359
You have to interact with life as if it were a living person. Express love and gratitude for the life you do have and it will respond

>> No.54530138

>>54520359
try to go into meditation

>> No.54530184

>>54522044
You’re old and have no idea what your talking about with young women and their body counts, egos, etc.

Shut the fuck up

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>>54520397
>Stop masturbating

Suggest something realistic!

>> No.54530319

>>54520637
I found a 19yo girl when I was 25yo and she’s pretty great, we get drunk together watch normie anime together and play vidya on my projector. I’m well off monetary wise and only work 2 days a week so we spend time together enjoying each other’s company. Otherwise I’m reading on my porch in the morning sun surrounded by the sound of birds chirping.
Life isn’t that bad man, you just gotta appreciate the little things. Not all of society is lost, just the majority of it. I mainly hate fat people in society, going to the gym is easy. Like brushing your teeth or showering.

>> No.54530381

>>54522044
RETARDED TAKE, maybe if you had value as a man and STANDARDS you wouldn’t be dating divorced single mothers. Is this post ironic, putting old single mothers on a pedestal? I would never date a girl over 25, improve your life and maybe the women you date wouldn’t be such shit. I bet you brag about the butterface ham planet you bang, disgusting.

>> No.54530403

>>54530220
i hate that, but i like that it usually revolves around baseball

>> No.54530424

this is a common phenomena among men in their 30s. its just over. we werent meant to live this long.

>> No.54530435

>>54520359
Start sucking off strangers from the internet

>> No.54530444

>>54530319
you spend the first paragraph of your post bragging about how great your life is and this tranquil life fucking some young slut - then follow it up with 'life isn't that bad man' - kek very helpful anon.

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>>54520359
Sorry but I do not befriend homosexuals.

>> No.54531460

>>54520566
Why not go to church? Volunteer to help out with the youth group or other church activities. Even if you don't believe, religion does a wonderful job of cultivating wholesome cuties without daddy issues and the community is very supportive.

>> No.54531510

Challenge yourself by going on a vacation outside of your comfort zone. A location with a lot of sunlight and good beach.

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>>54525114
You're not alone brother, there are many of us who feel the way you do, we may not be united in person but we still exist.

>> No.54531623

>>54520359
There used to be a poster like you (from London I think).
I wonder what happened to him, he last posted on 01/01/2023.
>>/biz/?task=search&ghost=&search_text=%22binge+food%22

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>>54520778
The ones where you can do daily and it doesn't affect your wallet or health...at least on the way of ending up homeless or dead at 30 to an overdose.
>Stick to Cannabis

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>>54520359
Anon, There's no harm trying out this quest for some CHUNKS gem to be yours. Participate in this gamified experience and enjoy 5% supply of real mature titties.

>> No.54533419

Read Bronze Age Mindset.