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>30 yo wizard living with Nice elderly parents
>USD currency
>Saving/Investments 20K, I was NEET, and just got a nice job recently

>Needs:
Money/Job/Computer (Tools)
Water/Electricity/Internet (services)
Food/Clothes/House (Basics, Bath, sleep, place to stay)

>Current:
>TOTAL spendings: 200-300/month
Good Job 8K/month as Remote Software Developer, almost all goes to Invest/saving only about 200/month in spendings, services and basics food, etc
All services for cheap 70/month
Food COOKED breakfast, lunch and dinner ready to eat for about 100/month + 80/month food Job bonus (Vale)
Clothes always clean and folded in my room
House always clean by parents
Parents drive me wherever I want for free

>Wants:
Woman (sex, company)
Family (kids, future, heritage)
Car/Own House/Independence (no parents, free movement)
Degree/master/phd (Licence to my knowledge)
More money (certifications, new job)

>Sacrifices if go Independent:
>TOTAL spendings about 30K to move and then 5K/month
Woman (sex, company): requires own place, an a car
Own private GOOD NICE place (rented): about 3000/month minimum
Car: licence and NICE car (second hand) 20K
Degree: focus and decicate TIME in things you don't like but you need
More money: same as above, more hard certifications that require you to actually study
Family (can be delayed):
No more food cooked: you will need to buy and cook your own food for you and your family, unless you find a tradwife (good luck with that hahaha)
No more cloth automatically clean: you will need to clean all by yourself or pay for other to clean it 1000/month
No more house automatically clean: you will need to clean your shit always
No more drive me mom or dad: you will need to actually learn how to drive and driver her and your future kinds wherever they need or want

>Alternative:
Just masturbate in your room and watch porn for FREE 0/month
Just pay a hooker, 300/hour once a week and stay at home
Nobody should know and you will be happy
Invest/Save my your money

>> No.53304266

>>53304237
Thats a man. Also how are you 30 years old and only have 20k in investments? kek

>> No.53304322
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53304322

>>53304266
>only 20k
I was a NEET in my 20s and just started my first job a few months ago

>> No.53305707

>>53304266
not everyone is rich as you lol

>> No.53305757

>>53304237
so you just want a hole that doesn't work? you seem dumb and naive for being 30yo might as well just keep fapping in your room

>> No.53305966

>>53304322
What did you tell to recruiters and coworkers about your past life?

>> No.53306341

>>53305966
I like to collaborate with Open Source Projects for free
I spent almost all my time on it
I have a good Github profile and they liked it so they hired me

>> No.53306396

>>53304237
lmfao a literal 30 year old child

>> No.53306428

>>53305757
and you want a career woman? you seem like a redditor with a dead bedroom.

>> No.53306467
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>>53305757
>hole that doesn't work
Yeah, I feel women are just going to wreck my live
I'm too stupid to live alone with a woman
She will probably make me her simp

>fapping in your room
Any recommendation on how to become a man?
My elderly parents are religious old school, I'm from a rural town, they just don't match the current way of living.
Almost all girls that I know go to the city to "study" and marry a rich man to never come back again.
The guys all get married at 20s and have 2 or 3 children. They all work in the fields

>> No.53306473
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>>53304237
You started too late to get everything.
You need to define your priorities.

If you came to /biz/ then you should try to min/max your financial situation to become wealthy as quickly as possible.
Trading and investing is completely abnormal for a human mind and your ego will be your bigger obstacle to this.
Mindset is 90% of the work to be successful on /biz/ and without it you will fail.

Your goal should be to reproduce FIRE with the help of crypto and to become a millionaire in the next 5-7 years.
Once you have a way to semi passively increase your wealth without being a wage slave you will be able to focus on other topics.

Women are a distraction and a money pit. You clearly don't have the luxury to even think about them in your dire situation.
Don't move out from your parents and invest the money for a few years until moving out does not have a big impact on your savings rate.
Focus all your energy on learning investing with a bit of trading, and doing mindset training to cure your ego from greed.
Find a trading/ investor mentor who is not an "influencer/scammer" and check their track record.

>> No.53306475

>>53304237
why is asleep() a function?

>> No.53306494
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53306494

>>53306467
Read this book to become a man.

Read Manipulated man by Esther Villar to use the rage of being made into a simp to improve your life and never be again taken advantage of.

>> No.53306503
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>>53306428
Idk anon
Yeah I was a redditor I just deleted reddit
I don't know what to do with my life
I just want to have a someone to share my life and good sex but I'm afraid I have to lose everything I have and fail to become a man
I have paid for onlyfans and shit like that
I'm not proud of myself

>> No.53306511
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53306511

>>53304237
You will unfortunately have to lose money at least one time to reduce your greed and get the ability to make money.
Losing money in the market is like paying for a lesson.

The rules of money never change.
Be wary of jews in everything and don't let them trick you and steal from you.

>> No.53306523

>>53306503
Do the self authoring from Jordan Peterson to get a picture of your goals with a plan.
https://www.selfauthoring.com/

>> No.53306569

>>53304237
Do not listent to the fags who are trying to demoralize you and are likely neets. With 20k I would well iinves in crypto and survive the next two yeas. but also i wold start going out more frequently so you are not allien depiste what faggots here say you do not really need money to meet a woman that will like you.. Only the most of underisable of the men hope that wealth will bring puusy to them.

>> No.53306618

>>53306569
If you want girlfiend all you have to do is to go out and talk to them. rejection? accept it... all the fags who tell you otherwise never talked to women or are in relationship where they are just obedient pets. Fucking losers will tell you that you need weath when in reality all you need is honesty.

>> No.53306671

>>53304237
Thats literally what I do, I use humaniplex

>> No.53306684
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53306684

>>53306475
>why is asleep() a function?

what programming language?

I develop mainly in C++ and Shellscript

>> No.53306735

>>53304237
I'm in the same situation at 27
It's really not as dire as people in the thread make it seem.

Just save up at home and invest wisely and you'll be better off than 90% of the population. Who cares if you are starting a family at 35? We live longer than ever just stay fit, stay social and grind a bit.

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53306742

>>53304237
>Woman (sex, company)
yeah that's not gonna happen so don't waste your money on it kek.

Do what makes you happy that doesn't involve that. Maybe travel :)

>> No.53306747

>>53306494
thanks anon

>> No.53306760
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53306760

>>53306735
Lol same at 26

>> No.53306848
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>>53306473
>>53306494
Started reading
thx again anon

>> No.53306961
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>>53306618
>53306618
>talk to them
I will try it anon
I'm 6'2" 200lb skinny guy. I have never been in a bar or a party, never did alcohol or any other drug.
I'm good talking with older people. I have no ig nor fb or any other social media.
I think I will focus in making more money tho. I have spent my 20s doing nothing living from my nice parents.
I love them they are the only reason I'm alive

>> No.53307017
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53307017

>>53306742
>>Women (sex, company)
>not gonna happen
Why?
Don't Women like sex like men?
Am I delusional because of fapping porn and onlyfans?

>> No.53307042

>>53304237
34 year old here and in the same position.
I've been saving up for 10 years and will probably buy a house next year once prices finally go down.

>> No.53307097

>>53307017
Wait, I thought u fuck hookers anon?

>> No.53307109
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53307109

>>53306684
>asleep() a function?
Oh I got it, slow anon here
That's just a marketing t-shirt most probably

Also
>tits

>> No.53307121

>>53304237
You can have all your wants and needs without giving some jew thousands for a dilapidated cube. It's all in your head

>> No.53307122

>>53307097
Never tried, I'm scared because it's illegal and also because STDs

>> No.53307156
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53307156

>>53307122
Nah its cool , its scary the first time but there's a whole community of mongers out there that gives some pretty good advice. Just don't do street walkers or massage parlors and you'll be fine

>> No.53307233

>>53306467
Why don’t you just rent an apartment for a month in a big city and bang escorts? With an 8k/mo salary you could afford the lifestyle until you have exp to enter the dating pool. Otherwise you’ll end up with the loser Disney princesses over 200lbs on dating apps looking for a chump with no experience making enough to leech off of.

>> No.53307241

>>53307156
Cool anon, maybe some day
Btw, I hate tattoos. Nobody I know in person have them. I learned to associate tattoos with hippies and bad people

>> No.53307277

>>53307233
Is 8K/month enough for a big city?
I feel I'm going to be surviving and spending it all in less than a month
Also I would probably get robbed

>> No.53307295

>Man escapes NEETdom, gets the financial backing to finally go out into the world and make something of his life
>Asks /biz/ for advice on how to do it
Game was rigged from the start

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53307300

>>53307241
Well hookers are bad people kek

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53307385

>>53307295
Yeah, I think it may be better to meet some teen girl at church and start something with her. City is too corrupted. Wish me luck anons.

>> No.53307455

>>53306735
>Who cares if you are starting a family at 35?
who wants to start a family at 35 with a women in her 30s?

>> No.53307484

>>53307385
You showed your hand too strong here m8, now it's blatantly obvious

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53307512

>>53307455
>to start a family at 35 with a women i
Is it weird for a man in his 30s to date a girl in her 18-19 or 20s?

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53307556

>>53307484
Yeah, I'm probably started this thread because I was bored.
It is indeed pretty obvious what things I need to star doing to stop being a loser living at my parents home
I'm just too lazy to start. I will probably save enough and move. Meet some church girl and stop being a child

>> No.53307573
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53307573

>>53307556
Just bang an escort, church girl is too much time and it probably wouldn't happen anyway

>> No.53308642

>>53307512
just ignore the bait, your life afterall

>> No.53308752

>>53304237
Holy shit you're so autistic lmao. Just put yourself out there man. You won't accomplish anything romantically if you stay busy writing out plans at home.