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It's ok but you get bored of the same pussy after a while

I’m gonna get a gf in 2023

what does it feel like to hold a girl's hand?

>>53078437
I would tell you if I knew

>>53078437
Pretty comfy when you fuck and times are good.
Can be bad.

>>53078445
I don't think I would ever get bored of pussy

>>53078437
bags of sand

>>53078437
It's good but the breakup always brings me close to offing myself.

Kinda irritating most of the time.
Divine when she's not being a spaz

>>53078437
It sucks. You lose a bunch of your free time and money. The intimacy is lovely, but to me it isn't worth it. Personally I can't really hold one down for more than 6 months because I need my alone time otherwise I start going insane.

>>53078437
It’s based, but also cringe.

>>53078437
insufferable

>>53078437
You get the silent treatment for days when you did something wrong but then they pretend like they were fine the whole time afterwards, I just ignore her and enjoy the peace when it happens

>>53078437
Feels good when your penis is inside her
All the rest of the time it's annoying and hassle

>>53078693
She finds reasons to do that so she can bang bbc on the side

>>53078437
Nice to always have someone to do stuff and cuddle with. Mine had been with too many guys to marry though

>>53078709
Don't know how she manages that when she's chained to a radiator

>>53078723
You had to set her free because she was too good at sex??

#10 no thigh gap. DQ'd

>>53078739
I don't have a radiator so I have to use the towel bar in the bathroom.

>>53078791
>i'm going to marry up a post wall roast and I'll be happy about it the post
>>53078723
right call anon. We call those practice gfs

>>53078791
I'd have been cool with it, my body count was higher, but I knew most of the dudes she been with because we grew up together. Big deal breaker plus 2 we're black

>>53078437
You stop worrying about nogf and start worrying about anoying gf
>>53078488
Like petting a dog who learns into your hand
>>53078562
Your pee pee can and it will think for you

>>53078818
Holy fuck die nigger

Penis feels good mhen you fuck her in the vagina

>>53078800
>right call anon. We call those practice gfs
100% I have so much confidence during one night stands because I know I've had so much practice

>>53078831
Why?

>>53078437
It's like a cheat bro. Everything becomes easier if you have a good gf or wife. But if you fuck up and pick the wrong woman then you get nerfed to shit.

Before my wife:
> Loner
> Impending sense of doom late at night
> Nobody to talk to at home
> High cost of living
> Masturbating
> Constantly chasing incompatible women
> Wasting time

After my wife:
> Happy
> Can share my thoughts at any time
> Halved cost of living
> Still masturbate but rarely (periods bro)
> Still find other women attractive but realise none would make me as happy long-term
> Expanding family
> No longer existential crisis

Also there's nothing quite like somebody loving you so much that she begs for you to put a kid inside of her. It's unreal bro. Just the realisation that I'm loved.

If I were to quantify it in a way this board would understand, it'd be like finding gem of a coin nobody has found yet, and you poor every cent into it, and shortly after it moons x100000.

Depends on who you're dating. I've had it be both utterly awful and a ton of fun.

>>53078835
kek. I always wonder if those models on the dinosaur erotica novel covers knew what they were posing for.

>>53078849
This post gives me hope... thanks anon.

>>53078437
Hella less personal time, more responsibilities, more expenses and the need to balance not only your mood but hers aswell. All in all it's like drugs: short term gains for long term suffering

>>53078849
But how did you find her? I'd definitely put betting money into
>Met in highschool/university
>Met through my large extended friends circle
>Met through work (oh btw my job isn't wage slavery, it's actually a cool upper middle class job I got because the owner knew my Dad and my parents were loving and not crazy christian lunatics who drove me out of the house at 18 for playing the devil's videogames, teehe)
It's all so tiresome. I tried all the online shit, and got lots of dates but the women were so disgusting on a spiritual level. I would try irl, but even though I live in an okay location all the women I see in public are 38 or white trash who don't shower. It's all pointless, I'm tired of putting all my energy into finding a wife and just getting occasional one night stands from women I was apathetic about to begin with.

>>53078849
2nded. Found her in the choir of my parents's church. 2nd son is on the way and I go to sleep holding a boob every night.

>>53078437
I was a lone explorer of the universe but now we're dual explorers. So what do you think, anon? It's pretty awesome.

>>53079188
> Posting from phone

I’m not going to lie man. It’s like you say.
I met her in high school but we didn’t start dating way later when we met again through mutual friends. You’re also not wrong about being upper middle class. My dad was a banker. He actually got me my first internship at the bank where he worked. If it’s any consolation my parents died early. My mom at 44, and my dad at 60. But it’s through their connections even after death that I got a lot handed to me.

>>53078437
I haven't had a gf in 21 years.

>>53079582
I'm 34 years old and I haven't had a gf in 34 years.

>>53078849
I had this and my wife died.
>feelsbad.jpg

>>53079636
Technically that makes you a master of not having a gf. You could teach others

>>53079654
I’m sorry man, what happened, and have you tried dating again?

mostly annoying, barely worth the pussy, I am tempted to go back to escorts desu

>>53078437
Woman becomes less attractive when you realise theyre a snake just like a man is,theyre not the angels that you think they are,though they have been evolved to look like one

When you find a great partner it is transcendent. My wife is my favorite person. She will listen to me talk about anything, no matter how stupid or how pitiful. No matter what happens to either of us we will always be there for one another. Even if everything were stripped from us, we would be there for one another because we've made a commitment to do so. That is an extremely freeing feeling to know no matter what you do someone is always in your corner. You can trust their intentions, and you can express your affection without any reservations.

>>53079870

>>53078437
It's not as great as you imagine

I can tell you how it feels to lose one (of 5 years)

>>53078562
and that's because you never had a gf so your opinion is irrelevant.

>>53078437

Get an ugly gf it’s super comfy and you never have to worry about her cheating or leaving you

>>53078437
Eh, it's nice to have someone to walk around with, go to movies, take to dinner, etc

Sex is very overrated, I can only enjoy if if I'm not sober.

>>53078437
No idea
I've been crying myself to sleep daily for 8 years. Next year I become a wizzie. If I dont kms before my birthday.

>>53078849
>Still masturbate but rarely (periods bro)
>not having sex with a girl on her period
Why not?

>>53080040
Are you me? Never cried or showed emotion in front of her, and she always commented on how I need to open up more. Went to a wedding with an open bar, got shitfaced, and apparently sobbed a bit. When I sobered up she was acting super cold, but I just rolled with it. Next day she dumped me

Pretty crazy. If you falter for even a moment, you can lose 100% of a woman's attraction and respect in an instant. I don't even know what made me that upset in the moment, but I haven't touched a drop of the liquor jew since

>>53080262
Its because you got emotional in a situation where you were publically vulnerable and didn't have a handle on yourself. You have to be emotional with her alone in complete privacy, and she has to know you well enough to have faith that no matter how emotional you appear to be, its not going to stop you from doing what your supposed to do.

Getting drunk and crying shows that you have a lot of emotional baggage, which is normal, but you don't know how to shed it in a healthy way. As a woman, part of her work and primal desire is to work through your feelings with you so you can go through life easier and support her more readily. She was disappointed that you didn't give her an opportunity to do that.

Its also a lizard brain thing where if you're stoic 100% of the time and don't allow her to peep into your soul every now and then, there's a fear that you may eventually snap and take it all out on her all at once suddenly. She wants to protect herself from that.

tldr show emotions and vulnerability but not to the point that it shows you don't have a handle on yourself.

>>53078633
6 months is good this last one I had was literally 6 weeks and 4 days. Ghost me on Christmas and wanted to talk about it the day after lol fuck that

>>53080327
This. Cried thrice in front my gril alone (just had a few tears drop, no complete sobbing) and she felt great trying to help me through it. Never overdo emotions though anon

>>53080327
There's two ways of looking at it - some armchair psychology explanation where getting drunk slips the "real you", when your defenses are lowered. Or what most likely actually happened; alcohol fucking nukes your test and spikes your estrogen, temporarily making you a retarded troon when in a blackout state.

Either way, I conceded that I was a clown and it was not a good look. I apologized and thought we could move on (apparently another mistake). I supported her through worse shit than being a drunken fool for a night, so thats why the whole thing felt like a knife in the back. The whole experience really reinforced a lot of negative views I have on the nature of women and how men are allowed, or more specifically, not allowed to behave around them. Either way, never touching alcohol again so this situation thankfully won't be a problem ever again

>>53078437
Shitty sex, the facade of femininity fades quickly when you realize women have disgusting hygiene, and they look like shit in the morning. You get sick of having to treat them like a child that is incapable of doing anything for themselves. Oh and btw when they’re not at your side they’re fucking someone else behind your back and accusing you of being the unfaithful one to deflect. Then you get the privilege of getting married so she can get her hooks in you, birth you a kid (if your even lucky enough for it to actually be yours), then later on divorce you, take all your money and you don’t even get to see the kid. Bottom line is all women do is take, and they will never offer you anything in return that you can’t do for yourself.

>>53080419
A lot of women lack emotional maturity and are extremely harsh on every single mistake their man makes. I don't know about your situation but you should probably know what caused it, if she was a bitch then there would've been signs of that before the alcohol incident. Just move on and don't drink again like you said.

>>53078437
no modern woman have less than 2 boyfriends at the same time
so its like you are eating a nice meal at the restaurant but leaves at 50% full then go back home and eat some leftovers to fill the gap

>>53078437
all ur free time is spent with the gf, whether it be with her or texting. getting laid feels amazing. u have to go to a shit ton of boring ass weddings and functions. if ur gf is jealous, say bye to time with friends, especially other girls.
u have to be pretty family oriented for a gf to make sense desu. i have been through a handful, some for years at a time, and i've decided a life of solidarity is for me

>>53080262
Sorry you went through that anon. Women can be brutally unforgiving when they smell even an ounce of weakness on you. If it makes you feel better, I mixed Adderall and liquor on my 18th birthday when I was a skinny motherfucker, apparently threatened to jump off a bridge, and woke up in a sober cell (my parents never found out and this secret will go with me to the grave). What's weird is I'm not depressed nor have I ever been. I can laugh it off now, but being shitfaced can make you get possessed by demons. Thankfully my country doesn't count getting chucked in the drunk tank as an arrest record, or my future would have been ruined.

But coming from someone who cleaned my life up, all I can say is - hit the fucking gym and focus on you. Within 1 year you can be a sick motherfucker and flying in the heavens with physical and financial/career/school progress

>>53079654
Sorry for your loss anon.

>>53078437
>practice gf is 17

>>53078437
good, best thing is hugs, worst thing is supporting her when she is acting like a bitch for no reason at all.