/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>52998731
Tried SNEED aaaahhgrirbejdh AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHGH

>>52998731
I think its mostly genetic, some people are introverted so it's harder but it's easy to fake it with practise. That's literally all I do fake it. I hate socialising so much.

>>52998731
Kek no. You have to actually go out and have conversations with normies first. After you fail a few times you get what works, and what doesn't. Afterwards you come back to this lifestyle magazine read, laugh at the absurdity of such retards who read such goyslop, including your faggot father

>>52998731
Learned. Being charismatic is profitable

>>52998731
he's trying to tell you ur autistic

If anybody legitimately wants to get better at socializing and becoming more charismatic, I recommend waiting tables or becoming a bartender. You can make pretty good money too if you get good enough, Biz hates jobs though so this will get shat on.

>>52998842
I did that and manage a restaurant. I’m more antisocial than I was when I started 15 years ago

>>52998731
>>52998826
>>52998842
What if I enjoy being uncharismatic? I like to watch people's skin crawl when I talk to them. It gives me a little jolt.

>>52998906
That’s pretty based then we need people like you in the world I find that being silent does the trick just fine

>>52998731
>how to make friends and influence people
it works. idk what i did but im a magnet now. weirdos and strangers just come up and start talking to me.

>>52998931
How to win friends and influence people is the real deal.
Other books don't even compare.
That book transformed me from introverted pos to a person people call at parties.
You have to practice each chapter though, just reading won't help

>>52998793
>You cannot learn from the experiences of other people!
You are retarded.

>>52998983
>You have to practice each chapter though, just reading won't help
This. All self help books are like cookbooks or manuals, they are useful only if you do and follow what it says 1:1. They dont build understanding of topic as much. You can choose a theoretical knowledge but you need to pick real psychology material. Instead of faster, this makes you more aware and understanding and still you need practice but it's easier

the best way to learn charisma is disciplined use of mdma. key word disciplined

>>52998731
>92 little tracks
KWAB

>>52998731
My heirloom book is guaranteed to give me an interesting life.

Was everybody on /biz/ homeschooled or something? High schools ARE FILLED WITH FUCKING PEOPLE. If you don't learn to function there, well, better make good friends with Mom. It's trading foot rubs for tendies, bruh

>>53000904
Have you ever been in a school retard?

>>53000904
>Was everybody on /biz/ homeschooled or something?
I was.

>>52998731
>Can charisma be learned or is it genetic?
Neither, you fucking sperg.
Why aren't you normal? Why do you need a fucking book?

>>52999396
>You actually have to go out and talk to people.
You're retarded.

>>53000904
aren't they all glued to their phones

>>52998892
why dont you OWN the restaurant?

>>53001007
>Have you ever been in a school? retard.
Fixed that for you Mister public education system.
>>53002669
>>Was everybody on /biz/ homeschooled or something?
>I was
You homeschooling kids are very basic.

what is charisma anyway i never really got what it is

>>52998731
everything is genetic

>>53003271
Many things are environmental, environmental factors are required to express genes.

>>52998731
>Can charisma be learned or is it genetic?
It can be learned. But it is relative to status.

My highest-level charisma came when I held a public-facing position at a Fortune 50 company. I was "charismatic" and people laughed at my jokes, invited to tons of exclusive places, speaking engagements etc. When I left for a more interesting, but lower-profile job, I was less "charismatic."

Since being on /fit/ and reducing body fat greatly, with more muscle, I am again more "charismatic."

Get it yet? The best thing to do regardless, is practice talking to people, anyone. Start with old ladies in the supermarket and work your way up to C-Suite/hot women. Get your conversational reps in- that's all it is.

>>52998731
If you are autistic you need to do shrooms to reset your brain

>>53004554
just fry your brain goyim

>>52998731
Learned. Find the most charasmatic people you know. The ones who make you feel good talking to them and deconstruct their body language. Imitate until it feels natural. If you have high extroverted feeling then this comes naturally.

>>53002713
>Have you ever been to school, retard?
FTFY
You homeskies should’ve spent less time fantasizing about fucking mommy and more time studying.

>>52998731
Can you give us a few samples of these 92 little tricks?

>>53004838
probably all stuff like "smile" and "be nice"

>>53004529
>Get it yet? The best thing to do regardless, is practice talking to people, anyone.
yeah, I'm trying to improve my social skills, airport bars are great since everyone knows there's no future commitment. had a good time, talked to alot of people, and got some drinks in.

alright. here's my shill for what got me out of a social rut.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q-AzgjYQrzo
^hypnosis for social anxiety

this track changed me overnight, first time. but I really wanted to get something out of it and tried to do the exercise as best I could. it'll change your life I promise

>>53000889
do not mansplain to me on how I can be beautiful

>>53005219
>airport bars are great
Nice. Keep it going and you'll be ok. Forgot to mention, the trick that helped me as a more introspective type was to learn to take internal thoughts ("That's an interesting watch') and constantly project them outward ("Hey that's a cool watch, where did you get it?").

>>52998731
>mfw $10 saved
https://archive.org/details/HowToTalkAnyone/page/n66/mode/1up

>>53005608
yeah, noticing things isn't my strong suit but getting better at it from learning to read people. Two of the best tools I learned was from

>Never Split the Difference

Open ended questions to get them to elaborate at length, and mirroring, repeating their body language and repeating the words they say to get more elaboration. Those were the most practical ones at least, and immediately applicable