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52523637 No.52523637 [Reply] [Original]

I've already made it. Have a couple of million dollars.

How do I get a good woman now? I'm a kissless virgin in my 30's btw. How physically attractive do I need to be to be able to get a good woman? How do I gain the confidence to attract women normally? I already have the money at least. Or am I retarded for even chasing women in the first place? I care more about a good woman for a long term monogamous relationship rather than some sort of one night stand btw.

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>> No.52523677

>>52523637
>/biz/ - Business & Finance
It's business so it ain't free if you want advice it costs money sorry bud how the world works.
Off topic by the way.

>> No.52523710

>>52523637
>I care more about a good woman for a long term monogamous relationship rather than some sort of one night stand btw.
Sorry but long term monogamous relationship ONLY works if you are good at sex, there is no other way, if you are bad at sex you are never gonna make it pass the first year, this is an open secret that all normies follow but comment on very rarely to retardeds

>> No.52523740

>>52523644
This was written by a faggot

>> No.52523760

>>52523677
How is it off topic? Millionaire need love too, anon. This is a business board of people who make a lot of money and have questions related to what they do when they make a lot of money. Don't tell me you invested heavily in FTX, anon. You're not that dumb, right? I can feel the jealously through the screen, lol.

>> No.52523770

>>52523710
How do I git gud at sex? Is there somewhere I can learn/practice now that I have money?

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>>52523637
how much do you need to make it? I’d think at least $5 million

>> No.52523876

>>52523637
I don’t know. My exwife was a total mistake on my part. Tried to make it work but I feel like she didn’t have her heart in it.That was a decade wasted.
I still want kids but I’m older now, and the women who are interested are also older, fatter, have kids of their own. I’m happy I am not with her now, just hate how much time and money I wasted.

>> No.52523965

>>52523710
It's easy to be good at sex just remember the sommerville bowline and get some nice jute from etsy or something

>> No.52524356

>>52523876
>My exwife was a total mistake on my part. Tried to make it work but I feel like she didn’t have her heart in it.That was a decade wasted.

This shit fucking terrifies me. Please don't turn me to the side of being the eternal bachelor, anon. Give me some hope.

>> No.52524493

Nobody is happy in a longterm relationship. Have you ever heard a single person say "thank God I'm married?" If you want to have a legacy, find a woman to have kids with but don't get married and ffs don't expect it to last forever or be monogamous. Don't give a woman access to your money in any shape or form. Consider some women will try to murder you to get your money. Once you have kids your freedom will be gone so forget your hobbies too.

>> No.52524525

>>52524493
Lol ok schlomo. I love my wife and she's absolutely dedicated to me on the biological level. Marry a virgin who loves her dad and pump her full of babies. This is the way.

>> No.52524630

>>52523637
I'm sure only the finest women will go for a kissless virgin in his 30s.

>> No.52524648

>>52523770
Have sex but don't cum, only do it for the physical challenge

>> No.52524733

>>52524525
>Marry a virgin who loves her dad
Where do I meet a virgin who loves her dad?

>> No.52524781

>>52523637
You'll have to work real hard, bro. You're gonna need to socialize a lot and above all, don't let the urge to form a family make you fall for the first cunt that shows you the goods. Dedicate 20 years to get to know women more or less and if you do it well, at 50 you might be ready to settle down. By then, you will probably know the one. You need to put them and yourself to test, bro. You need to become a player and play the game. You need to break some hearts and be a piece of shit in order to find the one. The one is the one that forgives you in spite of all of your sins. The kindness true love can't be found without wrecking it first and getting wrecked yourself too. You need to become the worst version of you and also know what heartbreak feels like a lot of times in order to be ready for long lasting love. Otherwise it will be like a delicate object in a child's hands, it'll keep breaking because of mishandling. In the meantime, pick up good habits. Do some excercise, eat well, strengthen your spirit. And remember: the secret for successful love is not finding it, or finding the one, but being aware of it when you do and then knowing what to do once you've found her. You have to learn to give and take both ruthlesness and forgiveness, and that will take you a long time.

>> No.52524784

>>52524733
>Where do I meet a virgin who loves her dad?

2nd'ing this. I feel like I just need to become Amish at this point to get any sort of guaranteed loyalty out of a white woman. #metoo and The Pill kinda ruined everything imho. just look at the current backlash against Roe v. Wade. women want to kill babies nowadays, it's just fact unfortunately. as a man idk how to compete with that.

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>>52524781
idk bro. if that's the case, it doesn't seem worth it. seems like a high risk low reward trade if you catch my drift. you're not giving me much hope. all current empirical evidence seems to point to YOLO so why dedicate 20 years of my life to maybe be able to settle down at 50, assuming you're even right and any of this shit even works and isn't just some anonymous bullshit? seems like i need a miracle to find a good woman nowadays.

>> No.52524945

>>52524812
I'm talking about dedicating 20 years of your life learning to be a social, well-lived, experienced human being. There are countless treasures hidden along that path, not just your primary goal. It's quite easy: either go out to the world and look for what you want or stay inside your oyster and die. None of them are inherently good or bad, but if you're here asking questions it's because you've been waiting and waiting, and satisfaction still hasn't come to your door. No one is forcing you to do anything, you've got money and means of survival. You can keep waiting, maybe tomorrow it'll come...

>> No.52525319

>>52524945
I'm not saying you're necessarily wrong, I just need more convincing. 20 years is a lot of time if we only get this one life, especially in my adult years. Is it really going to be worth it? Is there anything you can say that can prove that it will be worth spending those 20+ years being social, like you say? That's the question. My main problem is that modern society, especially when it comes to women, is just so fucked up. I don't trust anyone. I need something that counteracts my distrust because I know too much, I've seen too many horror stories. Here, you know what, I'll give you an example:

>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_CP8sIC-8U

I've got plenty of example like this, and this is the type of stuff that makes me feel like maybe I'm just better off on my own. Better than my wife successfully accusing me of raping my 3 daughters and destroying my life with a lie. Because that's real life and that's what really happens to some people. And whether or not whoever I get with does this or something similar to me (plenty of examples of spousal murder too, for example) is just a roll of the dice. Sad but true, unfortunately. I just don't know how to find a high quality woman who I could be confident would never do something like this to me, would never betray me in the cruelest manner. And if I can't find that, well, then you're just asking me to roll the dice and if I get my life destroyed, well, I just get my life destroyed and that's that. You see my problem here? I'm just trying to be realistic. I have money, but what does that even matter nowadays besides some woman trying to steal it from me through the woman-slanted US judicial system? How do I deal with that?

>> No.52525537

>>52525319
You watch too much TV

>> No.52525701

>>52525537
What do you mean?

>> No.52525755

>>52523637
>garden
>library
Reminder that every hobo living in the park has this. If worst comes to worst you can always become a library hobo and have everything you need in life for free.

>> No.52525872

>>52525701
You're making life choices based on something you watched on YouTube.

>> No.52525910

>>52525319
>making life decisions based on a YouTube video of niggers

>> No.52525919

>>52525872
that's just one example, anon. there are plenty of others.

would you rather me quote divorce statistics? or how much the western court system favors women? assuming you're ignorant of such matters.

>> No.52526034

>>52525919
You can quote whatever you want but all I see is confirmation bias towards not doing anything. I already told you that finding a decent partner requires a good amount of effort, experience and feel and even then you might not succeed. Will it be worth it? I don't know. Can you spare yourself the nuisance? Certainly. Just keep doing what you've been doing all these 30 years.

>> No.52526080

>>52523637
fly to south east asia

>> No.52526104

>>52523637
I'll help you out op unironically, but I'm broke, I'll help you become more social and tutor you through it in exchange of fixing with a few bucks my JUSTed situation

>> No.52526543

>>52524733
I spent 3 years looking for one until I found her. In the choir of my parents's church lmao. Ngl it is rough out there. Gotta put in the effort though so when she does appear you're ready to snap her up. Dated so many useless thots that were a chore to be around.

>> No.52526851

>>52526543
>a chore to be around.
What do you mean?

>> No.52527218

while OP is getting some of his questions answered, can anyone tell me how to 'make it'? honestly, I'd be very satisfied with 1mil or even half a mil, I'd leave it in spy or other etfs. I'm working towards a stable career real soon and but it's no tech job (6 figs/year).
I want to pick up another skill or maybe go back to school to study chem, but I'm at a point where I have no social circle to help guide me let alone a competent mentor. thanks

>> No.52527270

>be not a kissless virgin
>only ever have sexual contact once in your entire life
I can't tell but it appears to me that I'm in an even worse position than OP

>> No.52527619

>>52523637
goes without saying all women are whores so forget pure loyalty and disney bullshit
if you're in america, you haven't made anything. you either be content dying alone or you leave
white girls = poland
swarthy girls = portugal or spain
beautiful asians = south korea or japan
jungle asians = thailand or philippines

>> No.52527632

>>52524493
a lot of people literally say that and love their partners, you're a jewish faggot
men can't turn off their desire to fuck new women but if you're successful and honest you can find a girl that'll be content enough letting you bang other girls once in awhile if you don't fuck her friends and cause drama

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>> No.52527737

>>52524493
Jewish hands typed this.

>> No.52527811

>>52525919
Are you white anon?

>> No.52527961

>>52526851
You psyche yourself up, get all emotionally psyched up too, go meet this chick, and then all she wants to talk about is marvel movies or something. Probably 90% I did not text back after one date as it was obvious to me that it could never work out long term. It's very draining and I grew to dread it. The longest I kept talking to one during this period was 3 months but I ended up dumping her too. When I first started dating my now-wife I was very surprised how much I wanted to go see her and how fun it was to be around her. We would spend hours out in the cold sometimes just because we didn't want to say goodbye.

>> No.52527984

>>52523637
1. Create meaningful bonds with older men who have single daughters or nieces.
2. State your intentions and ask if you can be introduced to their daughter/niece.

Good women are not on the open market. Most intelligent people don't let their daughters participate in the sacred prostitution of Babylon. You have to network to find them because they are protected by strong families and know to marry within The Community.

>> No.52527996

Consider your money worthless for getting girls. You need to approach getting women kind of like a tech startup. Try things, quickly iterate, constantly improve.

Talk to women every fucking day. Try the dating apps, go to bars, try to cold approach. Develop a thick skin and the ability to get turned down without it affecting your own self worth.

Look up some good pickup artists.

>> No.52529084

>>52524493
>don't expect it to last forever or be monogamous.
>Laughs in islam

>> No.52529139

>>52523637
just be you but without being a bitch, stop asking advice from losers here

>> No.52529153

>>52523876
>Tried to make it work but I feel like she didn’t have her heart in it.That was a decade wasted.
Yeah you have no power the second you marry her, it's over and she knows it.

>> No.52529187

>>52523637
Forget women and relationships. For libidinal needs, invest in a good VR setup and a fleshlight, or find a few hot escorts you like and enjoy chatting with before/after fucking. Long-term relationships with women are an awful waste of time and energy. It's like buying in during the bull market, everything's amazing and full of wonder for a few months, then it levels off into an endless crab market and you'll never feel the same level of joy ever again with that woman. She'll also emotionally manipulate you and eventually you'll end up marrying her and she'll run off with your half your money and your kids. Don't fall into the trap, anon.

>> No.52529229

>>52523637
if your a millionaire then you should get in the best shape of your life. If your not walking 5 miles or swimming a shit load and then lifting weights 6 days a week your wasting your time. Especially if your goal is to get a woman.
Once you get your diet (i just mean your calorie count for either getting jacked or losing weight if your a fatass you can eat what ever you want) and exercise routine decided on you can start dating. Learn to pick up girls in real life, church, grocery stories, take up cooking/dancing classes what ever. And then you'll get a girl pretty easily

>> No.52530532

look up coach corey wayne, thank me later

>> No.52530700

>>52523644
>words words words words
I'm not reading that.