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I make 300k a year at 26 as a senior software engineer and can’t get a single match on any dating app

>> No.51302875

just start fucking your dog white man

>> No.51302884

>>51302864
did you make sure to list your salary on your profile?

>> No.51302898

>>51302884

That would come across as being extremely cringe and desperate. I would otherwise

>> No.51302901
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>>51302875
You are my dog Tyrone

>> No.51302910

>>51302864
Have you tried using that as your opening line?

>> No.51302926

>>51302864
you're being rewarded at work for the same reason that women aren't choosing you:
>you're a faggot

>> No.51302932

>>51302864
start meeting people irl

>> No.51302937

>>51302864
You must be super fucking ugly and awkward/creepy then
At least now you know that you’re a hideously grotesque monster that inspires revulsion in every woman who takes one look at you.
So in the future, if you do end up with a girlfriend, you can be sure that she’s only after your money and will let you finance her lifestyle while she has wild monkey sex with Tyrone and Chad behind your back.
Well maybe not behind your back because even if she does it in front of your face, it’s not like you have a choice but to sit there and take it.

Take care

>> No.51302940

>>51302910

Just stating your salary would be like saying you have an 8x6 inch dick on your profile. That’s a positive but you can’t just outright say it

>> No.51302979

>>51302898
girls dont even know you exist. 95% of dating app females will never see your profile. you work around men all day, you spend no time around females, you have to stand out somehow

>> No.51302989

Most women care about more than money when it comes to a relationship.

>> No.51303000

>>51302864
You're probably pretty decent overall too. Maybe 5'8"-5'10", average build, no gosling but OK looks. Capable of witty banter and romance but can play the hot/cold game too. Photo game probably sucks because you're not a narcissist who thinks about getting photos taken every time you're doing something fun and you don't have any real female friends that do. Otherwise you're probably pretty normal but in an above average way other than the nazism/ antisemitism. And you would genuinely care for a woman who loved you.

Understand that they hated us so that they designed the entire system with the explicit purpose to genocide us out of existence. But they gave us a cheat code if you realize it, just set your hinge profile to Jewish (but don't display it) and watch all the hot shiksas flash across your screen instead of fattooed pit mommies.

>> No.51303014

>>51302937
Money buys happiness and I fuck dimes without any care or investment on my part without disclosing my wealth to vermin like you. I’m also exceptionally handsome and ripped and wealthy and enjoy private groupsex

>> No.51303016

you must be insanely ugly

>> No.51303028

Hire me, I’ll guarantee you girls or your money back.
Just finished sex rn, browsing biz on my phone (don’t ask for pics Virgin)

>> No.51303030

>>51302864
Same anyways. I hate social media though.

>> No.51303050

>>51303000

>fattooed pit mommies

Why are there so many of these vile creatures? I did see some Jewish chick with absolutely fucking huge milkers who I messaged but no response. Your post is on point though, kek

>> No.51303079
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51303079

>>51302864
You tech faggots are so hilariously overvalued. Can't wait for when the zero-value financialized zombie economy crashes, taking your useless jobs with it.

>> No.51303111

>>51303079
I have friends in trades and a backup, software engineering is boring as fuck anyway, so I'd love for a reason/excuse to be forced out

>> No.51303114
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51303114

>>51303079

Yeah just 2 more weeks bro

>> No.51303122

I make 85k a year working construction
I have a loving wife and two beautiful children
I own my own home
I got hit on by a bunch of twentysomethings at a wedding I went to alone.
Start working on yourself and stop thinking money is going to solve all your problems.
Verification not required.

>> No.51303143

>>51302864
Most women are fucking horrible. You have no fucking idea. You're better off becoming a faggot. Men are more rational and straightforward about what they want, they also have more interesting hobbies and aspirations

>> No.51303147

>>51302864
get a passport

>> No.51303150

>>51303114
What is it exactly that you think you do here?
Does dashing emails off to other Pajeets truly demand 300K?

>> No.51303175

>>51302864
Wasn't there a study/chart that showed that techies and doctors got like no matches when compared to finance bros? Among "rich" professions, that is.

>> No.51303229
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>>51303050
>I did see some Jewish chick with absolutely fucking huge milkers who I messaged but no response.
Shiksas are goy women. Seriously, if you use gone set your profile to Jewish but don't display religion. You'll be astounded at how much different and higher quality your search results are.
>Your post is on point though, kek
Of course. That's like 90% of this board not in a shitcoin thread: high quality decent men of workmanlike virtue, the kind of men that form the backbone of any healthy civilization. And we're being dispossessed. Intentionally.

>> No.51303245

>>51303229
>use gone
Use hinge*

>> No.51303304

You can't just maximise career gains..you have to diversify into social and fitness gains.

Think of women like clients for your business. Why would you bother with tinder when there is 1 client for every 3 competing business.

Online dating is just for a passive lead generation it would be like using google AdWords because it requires paid boosts etc.

But a good business will do cold approach in the beginning to get initial clients and then also network.

Thus if you have no women in your life you should cold approach while working building a social network that brings them to you.

>> No.51303305

>>51302937
>Mutt and his fantasies entered the thread

>> No.51303499

>>51302864
its because your photos are bad

the sole reason

so fix that, get in shape if needed

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>>51303114
>Yeah just 2 more weeks bro
actually correct

>> No.51303553

>>51302898
you are cringe and desperate though, so I would just spin it as you being yourself

>> No.51303560

>>51302898
might seem cringe but it works
splash out on a expensive car and other rich guy shit and make sure to include pics of it on your profile
at worst you'll become someones sugardaddy

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>>51302864
jesus christ can zoomers do anything minus a smartphone app these days?

>> No.51303825

>>51302898
You will start getting matches if you put in your salary. If you can't get any now, you must have little to offer looks wise. Emphasize your professional success. Play to your strengths.

>> No.51303840

>>51303079
tradie cope

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51303887

>>51302864
new hairstyle, lift, smily photo, cool clothes, better caption/hook? good luck anon get that pussy

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51303935

>>51303523
>actually 3 weeks

>> No.51303945

>>51302864
Dating apps are absolute cancer. Unless you have specific tailored pics to show off that you are a cool high valued male (party pics with friends, pics in exotic locations and doing interesting things, etc) and have really good looks you ain’t going to get any attention.

>> No.51303973

probably a balding manlet with glasses. many such cases

>> No.51303980
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>>51302864
> 26
> senior

fucking KEK

80% chances of Pajeet

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51304041

>>51303973

>> No.51304059

>>51302864
>senior developer at 26
you're probably insufferable

>> No.51304114
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>>51302864
Get better pictures. I know you have shitty pictures. Pay someone money to take them and go outside. Well-lit clear photo of you doing something interesting in a place that costs money to go to.

Redo your bio. It sucks. Strip out all anime and gaming. Put in something stupid like art or hiking or travel. Change your favorite songs to something on the top 100.

Change to "bisexual". Men will increase your score in the algorithm. Swipe right on the occasional man to get a match, send a message then ghost them.

You are competing with the hottest single men within 20 miles. Ask yourself honestly if you would fuck yourself or this guy. Then change yourself, your hair, your clothes, your body, your lifestyle so that you would fuck you over this guy.

Otherwise, you have no chance. You have to talk to women in real life. Get a hobby, join a club, go back to school. Learn to listen. Get female friends.

>> No.51305002

>>51302864
start getting noticed that you have money, or you can invest in any shit these days to make even more money, even nft projects like deo arena would work for you.
the point is for the hoes to notice it and want some of it, and for that they would have to go through your cock

>> No.51305051

>>51303000
Based trips of truth pit nutters are a total boner killer

>> No.51305848

See OP, this is what happens when you believe in the meritocratic system. You do everything right and think you deserve something in return. It doesn't work like that in real life. Some people are born losers, some are born winners.
Telling your wage on tinder will only attract the worst kind of femoid, you may be rich by today standards, but you are not interesting, funny or strong, you don't exude trust. People look at you and see a weak nerd with a lot of money, it's pathetic. Your existence, and the existences of the hundreds of other son of bitches like you, is the reason why some onlyfan whores are millionaires now.
Please, do yourself a favor OP, and read one (1) book in your life : "Whatever" ("Extension du domaine de la lutte" in french) by Michel Houellebecq.
It has also been adapted into a movie for people who can't read, here's one of the most important life lesson you could learn OP :
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zYL-XylC74

>> No.51306407

>>51302940
You'll die a virgin

>> No.51306442

>>51302864
Put your job title and company name in your profile.

Girls will know how much you make, but they will probably be gold diggers, be ready.

>> No.51306446

>>51302864
just buy hookers.

>> No.51306509

>>51302864
Do testosterone, go to the gym for six months (this step is optional but makes you 100x times less of a faggot). Then get a vacation and go to SEA country of your choice.
PS. Only works if you're white

>> No.51306521
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>>51306407
>be in a relationship
>bloody, sewage stink of tampons in bathroom wastebasket
>using the bathroom after she done blew up the bathroom blecchh
>the stench of improperly wiped anus when you do her doggy style
>the pungent flavor of UTI pussy
>the sensation of hair growing back on her legs after she shaves making your skin crawl
>long strands of hair everywhere you look, annoying af
>gives birth to your kids and you witness the baby popping out of the oven in a basket of her shit which comes out of her asshole when you try in vain to push a human being out your pussy hole
dying a virgin is not so bad

>> No.51306553

>>51306521
Ur describing a gf not sex

>> No.51306566

women are super super super picky in them. just approach irl the hotties you want.

>> No.51306587

>>51302864
there's trade offs in life, there's someone out there broke as fuck that probably gets a lot of bitches just based off looks and charisma alone.

>> No.51306624

>>51302864
dating apps are on their way out fren. I got matches and dates before corona but after it stopped. i deleted long time ago

>> No.51306636
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>>51302864
>dating app
Just program yourself a gf

>> No.51306738

>>51306624
what do you do to meet women now?

im wfh so i have no clue how to start

>> No.51306763

>>51306624
lol i have to keep myself from downloading a dating app cause i always find a few girls on there, i disagree with you so strongly. You're just ugly or uninteresting.

>Bumble annual users 2015 to 2021 (mm)
Year Users (mm)
2015 1
2016 8
2017 12
2018 22
2019 35
2020 42
2021 45

>> No.51306771

Are you an Indian?

Make sure you aren't doing the "rape stare" in any of your photos jeetbro, girls find it icky.

>> No.51306798

I am 28 years old and I never even kissed a girl

>> No.51306829

>>51302875
he didnt say he was canadian tho

>> No.51306847

It's 2023-0.25, women don't need your money anymore. Women below age 40 make more money than men now lmao

>> No.51306895

>>51304114
thats actually a nice advice, thank you anon

>> No.51306908

>>51306798
i am 25 yo ser

>> No.51306911

>>51306895
Chicks dont wanna fuck faggots anon.

>> No.51306926

>>51302864
>I am a materialistic workaholic why can't I find love?

>> No.51306940

>>51306911
Thats blatantly false.
Younger women fawn over and get infatuated with faggots all the time.
Then get heart broken when they learn he is a faggot and doesnt care about women.
My coworker at the beach before corona chan was always like that when some Dutch fags arrive.
>oh look these two lads are so hot and tall and well built and dressed
Then I rent them a boat and they sail off into the sunset and she looks at me and asks and I just laugh and she is all butthurt and blue about it.

>> No.51306944

>>51302901
based and buckpilled

>> No.51306955

>>51302898
as a software engineer you're bottom 10% when it comes to attractiveness. the pay literally exists to make up for that. you've got to show it somehow, mate

>> No.51306965

>>51304114
what if im like 4/10 tho?

do i really want to go for the most photogenic possible when its basically a catfish? surely girls will just be disappointed first date

>> No.51306969

>>51302864
Get a nice car and take a picture in front of it

>> No.51306995

>>51302864
cool story bro

>> No.51307008

change country, here in thailand i get like 100+ matches easily and they are normal looking women. they even msg first sometimes and are much easier to take on dates than women back home. i am from finland and there i get maybe 20 matches, with 10 being landwhales with tattoos. insane difference. my profile is just two pictures, other one being a selfie. profile is also honest about gaming, etc. you don't have to jump all the fiery hoops like in the west.
the fact is that western countries are by far the hardest when it comes to online dating, absolutely ridiculous stats that were posted in reddit some time ago, very good looking guy got smallest amount of matches in like germany, sweden, usa etc western europe, while in the eastern europe and asian countries such as japan, thailand, korea etc, he got a lot. the dating market is just completely fucked for the non top 5% in the west.
best investment in terms of women is to just switch the country, if you are software dev, get a remote job. my work allows me to remote many months per year. or just go to travel and experience it for yourself.
desu i never expected the difference to be this drastic

>> No.51307019

>>51305848
thanks

>> No.51307028

>>51303000
Checked
>designed the entire system with the explicit purpose to genocide us out of existence
but take your meds
Give one example of this. If it's explicit, you can give several examples. Be as detailed, precise and high resolution as you can

>> No.51307038
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51307038

>>51306969
no joke, its disgusting how well this works.

>> No.51307074

also btw, the western culture doesn't respect being smart that much or having a good career in math, software dev etc. western society respects the complete opposite, the career or education is almost meaningless. while in japan having degree from tokyo university is looked very favourably in the dating market, some chinese even lie to have graduated from there and get girls pregnant.
you really need to introspect the modern western society and draw some conclusions, what kind of things the society values?
if you are software dev with high salary, travel around a bit and run tinder in different countries, or even just change the geolocation and see the difference

>> No.51307083

>>51302864
have you made it obvious how rich you are? shallow women love that shit

also if you're really desperate buy cocaine and imply somehow that you do it. coke whores will suck your dick.

>> No.51307127

>>51307008
are you are going to marry/kids a thailand gf tho?

do you plan to move back?

>> No.51307134

>>51302864
Doesn't OkCupid have salary range? The women there are also usually slightly higher quality than your average tinderella.
Also what is your height?
Are you disfigured?
Do you have unmanaged beard/hair?
Let me put it this way. Take a random baseball team in the MLB and look at the men. Some are fat, some are short, some are bald. But you know for sure that 100% get laid every single time they want because they are loaded and are mostly not buttfuck ugly. It doesn't take much to get as fit and as kept as a baseball player. You won't get laid as much as them because they are also famous but you get the point.
>>51303079
We literally automate your non-job. Enjoy basic income and public housing (pod).
>>51303499
One of the better reasons. You get half a second before being swiped and you need to stand out against the other hundreds. I am willing to bet OP's pic is something autistic with his back turned. Get a woman photographer take pictures of you OP.

>> No.51307144

>>51302864
Why can’t you go to a bar ot club? Apps are a ghost town

>> No.51307169

>>51307127
i am not really sure yet desu. i guess if your goal is to marry, maybe best place is eastern europe. i was in poland on work trip and lots of slavic women look really good and would probably make good wives. i am personally ok with marrying a thai woman but the kid would be brought up in asia. in the west if you are a mixed white/asian, or just asian in general i guess, you are basically in worse position especially on dating market. while here a mixed white/asian kid would be really popular.

i have been thinking of getting the investor visa to thailand and just remote working or finding onsite/hybrid job in some asian or eastern european country.
i don't want to return back to finland for a longer period of time, it's just getting shittier and shittier every year, and it's quite noticeable just walking around in Helsinki. western europe in general just seems not very good anymore from what i have seen on my work trips mostly

>> No.51307192

>>51302864
I earn 120k and have a wife and kids. Want to swap?

>> No.51307304

>>51307169
thanks for insight

>> No.51307445

>>51302864
Nobody dates software engineer nerds, switch to a cooler profession like a fireman or cop, or even teacher

>> No.51307470

>>51302864
>he’s in the top 0.01%
>wonders why he can’t match up with the bottom 1%

You’re not an engineer.

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51307493

>going for 3D women while they still have rights
shiggy diggy

>> No.51307504

>>51307008
everyone knows how many hookers are there in thai aren't you worried about stds?
I got 3 small ones thanks to tinder and I fucked 30 so 1:10 ratio and this was years ago
also check the criminal rates..

I will prob visit after vaxxport requirement is over but can't imagine living there

>> No.51307528

>>51307192
This guy knows

>> No.51308534

>>51302898
correct.

outright saying you make 300k in profile is retarded and any anon suggesting this is a turboautist.

what you can do instead is list your role in your bio as senior software developer, most women know this means $$, and for the ones who dont, make your first pic you in a nice suit/nice watch at some swanky place or beside part of a nice car, doesnt even have to be your car.

despite what many believe when it comes to sniffing out successful men women actually arent that stupid.

>> No.51308583

>>51302864
>I make 300k a year at 26 as
Your are inferior. You believe that make it is about have money.

>> No.51308758

>>51307008
This is true.
It's incredible how inferior the masses are.
If you are in a place that the beauty's is more linear, the culture is more flexible about sex and arrogance and ego feeding don't prevail, certainly this will lead you to fuck a lot more.

Change country could potentially help.

>> No.51308951

>>51308534
Another mistake.
He believe that womens go after money.
Everyone that says that womens loves money is pathetic as a male.

Only common stupid whores goes rampant after money like that and the sex with them is terrible generally. Its fucking clear that all i read it's about incels with no true* experience in life.

Women's are a complicated thing unfortunately. This is true. Sometimes you want to hit them with a baseball bat because they are over complicated and retarded and all mans want it's just fuck. And fuck is free pleasure and quite simple to do it. But... anyway.

Attract womens and fuck them is a art. It's not about one factor and that is not even about money.
It's about confidence. And you can have without money.
In fact you can easily even fuck the common wife stupid whore of the guy who "buyed" his "wife" with money.

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>>51302864
ironically, one of the best times i ever did was when i put my credit score on my profile.
before that, it was when i was in better shape, and posted shirtless pics.

basically i learned women want the worst kind of partner. even the fatties and uglies. and they are the worst. the internet has filled their little heads with unrealistic expectations.

>> No.51309389

>>51308951
it's true, women really smell if you are not confident or too clingy etc. nowadays i just don't really care that much and everything is so much easier. it also helps that if your dating pool is larger, it doesn't really matter at all if some date goes bad or whatever

>> No.51309418

That's still not enough to overcome all deficiencies. If you had like $50M in the bank that would be another story but you're still just a nerd wagie.

Present and promote yourself better OP. Get a better haircut, good clothes, nice pad, work on your people skills and learn to put yourself out there because dating apps are unnavigable unless you're a clear top 10% male.

>> No.51309460

>>51308951
>nly common stupid whores goes rampant after money like that
all women are whores you mid wit.

>> No.51309489

>>51304114
>Change to "bisexual". Men will increase your score in the algorithm.
giving this a shot bros lets see what fags pop up

>> No.51309597

>>51307038
qrd on your experiance?

>> No.51309633

>get matches
>dont message any of them
any sames? couldnt be bothered desu senpai

>> No.51309693

>>51302864

Money doesn't buy the women you are looking for

Charm does