[ 3 / biz / cgl / ck / diy / fa / ic / jp / lit / sci / vr / vt ] [ index / top / reports ] [ become a patron ] [ status ]
2023-11: Warosu is now out of extended maintenance.

/biz/ - Business & Finance

View post   
File: 105 KB, 1242x944, E7zb3tUWEAooFGi.jpglarge.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
51220398 No.51220398 [Reply] [Original]

I'm in my early 30s. I'm an ugly beta male. I've had no friends since school and no experiences with women ever (dates, even flirting, or had any interest shown in me) apart from prostitutes.

I become the beta male at the bottom of any social circle I come in contact with. This includes being invited to no parties and not going to prom or school leaving parties during the final days of school. And having no social life at all during university. And being the ugly beta nobody talks to during all of my part time jobs in university summers and later full time jobs after university.

People are repulsed by me.

I have no interesting hobbies or passions in life. My main hobbies for the past 5+ years have been mindlessly browsing the internet, exercising, binging on junk food or coffee, or driving and going for aimless walks. I've read more books than the average person but I'm not overly interested in anything.

I failed an absolute shitload of graduate intern and job interviews and was in menial work after university. I eventually managed to get some good jobs and now I'm paid an ok salary (much more than the UK average but that is shit tier, so it's not saying much; and not high at the company I work at).

I'm not a posh person or a generic middle class person and do not fit in with these people. I am not a lower class person and don't fit in with these people.

I can tell from my jobs that people think lowly of me, no matter what I do. In my previous job I had multiple managers treat me like shit and tell me I didn't fit in.

I managed to escape to my current job, which pays more. But I can see myself not being promoted ever. The workplace is also more ruthless, so I could potentially be treated worse than before if people dislike me.

Normies fit in effortlessly and easily glide through normie filled institutions where they're judged solely on their normieness.

I'm not stupid enough to believe in any religions or any philosophies of life.

>> No.51220431

>>51220398
I'd be your friend if we ever met anon

>> No.51220432

>>51220398
stop finding differences and start looking for similarities

stop using prostitutes, you'll never learn how to treat real people like that

>> No.51220506
File: 382 KB, 512x512, im_in_my_early_30s._Im_an_ugly_beta_male._Ive_had_no_frie_.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
51220506

>>51220398
i took your post and put into ai and here's what it made

>> No.51220566
File: 197 KB, 380x500, FF2CA653-78EB-4FCA-B16A-315202C27B44.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
51220566

What happened at home when you are a child anon

>> No.51220612

>>51220398
> I'm not stupid enough to believe in any religions or any philosophies of life.

You unironically need Jesus

>> No.51220637

>>51220566
inb4 single mom

>> No.51220652

>>51220398
Waaa waaa another demoralizing thread, get some pussy

>> No.51220679

>>51220612
This. Seek Christ and repent.

>> No.51220815

>>51220637
can someone explain why is it like this?
t. raised by single mom and am basically OP

>> No.51220927

It could always be worse
Get fit and enjoy your own company
At least you can afford to eat and heat this winter

>> No.51220952

>>51220637
>>51220815

Single mothers are incapable of raising men, for the most part.

>> No.51220972

>>51220398
Nice story post. You should write a book about this imaginary character

>> No.51220985

>>51220398
>reddit spacing

>> No.51221001

>>51220815
Because monkey see monkey do and you don't ever see a man doing man things.

>> No.51221003

>>51220398
Go into sales and take everything by force

>> No.51221010
File: 86 KB, 828x654, fren-saving.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
51221010

>>51220398
fren I am like you. We are not ugly, we just don't fit into a specific one of the dozens of "categories" out there. Most normies do. We are different, but that means difficult to find a girlfriend.
I am also a big generalist, that means same hobbies like you. Actually it had a survival advantage in generations gone by for 200 millenia. But today you need to be an uber-specialist to thrive in a career. It's fucking ridiculous.
I don't have the answers, I have been waging twice as long as you. But don't take the rope. I can't explain it but I'll go down fighting than willingly kill myself, despite the pain and how fucked up this world is.
I am more social than you, but I rely more on alcohol I suppose. But even without that, I have a handful of good friends. Any more than that is fake and bullshit anyway.
Get away from the internet, i am trying to cut down my use of it.
Ever thought of a YouTube channel? I see how much focus it brings to people. Pick anything and stick with it, why not? I might do that myself.

>> No.51221179
File: 85 KB, 1387x702, Apu fren.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
51221179

>>51220398
I love you Anon and hope you will make it. I'm similar to you and I know it sucks to be this way.

>> No.51221266

>>51220398
Hi anon, gib discord so we can talk of life sometime. Best of luck and I wish you some different perspective.

>> No.51221273

>>51221266
t. FBI groomer

>> No.51221740
File: 607 KB, 400x200, F5C6FF66-4D3A-4839-B7F6-01423E4C37EB.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
51221740

>>51220398
Just become a Wizard. You don’t see Gandalf worried about pussy now do you? He has other, serious things on his mind; like saving the Shine from Orc & Goblins. Well, we have an Orc & Goblin Invasion going on right now so get to work.

>> No.51221812

>>51220398
Be on time.
Be nice.
Say please and thank you.
Maintain good personal hygiene and wear tidy clothes.

If you do these few things you will be head and shoulders above a vast percentage of the world and succeed or make a friend or two by default.

>> No.51221867

>>51220398
> I'm not stupid enough to believe in any religions or any philosophies of life.
Enjoy being miserable

>> No.51221903
File: 77 KB, 640x640, 1633018099246.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
51221903

>>51220398
>Here are all my problems and I'm miserable
>Also I'm not stupid enough to believe in any religions or any philosophies of life.
Thanks for the blog post you fucking genetic dead end

>> No.51221972

>>51220398
If you ever feel down feel free to hit me up on tg @sergeybetray

>> No.51222014
File: 286 KB, 957x1205, 12733AB2-2405-4885-8E60-E5268153C022.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
51222014

>>51220398
>1 Corinthians 1:27-29 KJV
27 But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty;
28 And base things of the world, and things which are despised, hath God chosen, yea, and things which are not, to bring to nought things that are:
>29 That no flesh should glory in his presence.

>Romans 2:11 KJV
11 For there is no respect of persons with God.

>John 8:23 KJV
23 And he said unto them, Ye are from beneath; I am from above: ye are of this world; I am not of this world.

>1 John 2:15-17 KJV
15 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.
>17 And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.

>John 8:36 KJV
36 If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.

>> No.51222016

>>51221867
i dont want to pick up a religion to be fake happy, if thats what youre saying

>> No.51222058

>>51220566
I'm almost the same as OP (never fucked prostitues though). Had a normal home life. Parents were together, never fought with each other, never abusive towards me. Dad worked a lot and I was never close to him.

>> No.51222099

>>51222058
same
wish dad had worked less and teached me more life lessons to cope better later in life

>> No.51222103

>>51220398
you need to find the humanity in yourself and see the humanity in the normans. part of growing up is figuring out where you fit. you haven't done that yet. stop being a turbofaggot and settle in to your place.

>> No.51222127

>>51222014
fuck off with that bullshit

>> No.51222301

>>51222127
>John 6:63-66 KJV
63 It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life.
64 But there are some of you that believe not. For Jesus knew from the beginning who they were that believed not, and who should betray him.
65 And he said, Therefore said I unto you, that no man can come unto me, except it were given unto him of my Father.
66 From that time many of his disciples went back, and walked no more with him.

>> No.51222353

>>51222103
>part of growing up is figuring out where you fit
Well so far I only fit in with my fellow kissless virgins on 4channel.org

>> No.51222390

>>51220398
90% me

>> No.51222397
File: 39 KB, 783x179, B110E43B-2276-464B-BD19-52BAD190EC0B.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
51222397

>>51220398
All of our lives is merely an energy harvest for the others. Earth is a prison planet and we’ve been trapped reincarnating over and over again. To escape, you must go your own way after death. Don’t be tempted by the light, dead relatives and entities who masquerade as ‘god’ or ‘spirit guide’. If you become religious, you are basically cucking yourself.

The real test comes after death. You escape it, you win.

>> No.51222436

>>51222014
>>51222301
BASED

>> No.51222517

>>51220398
Do you even lift bro?

>> No.51222753

>>51222016
It’s about finding purpose in life. Happiness comes and goes. Religion doesn’t give you this switch that you can turn off and on to be happy, but it will make you content in the sense that you know what to live for vs just living to die and that’s that.

>> No.51222803

>>51222103
>figuring out where you fit
At the bottom of social ladder, that's where. What's the next step in your masterplan? Settle in to being at the very bottom? I think OP did that nicely by finding 4channel.org

>> No.51222835

>>51222753
Muh meaning is a psyop. You don't need any of that shit, you can just enjoy life daily and that's that. But THEY wouldn't want you to just enjoy your life, THEY want you to contribute to THEIR world, because people like you are the ones building it while they pretend to work

>> No.51222874

>>51220398
larp as a metal dude and go to concerts and get stupid drunk until you start chatting up strangers. do this a lot. at some point you are bound to make friends with other self-declared misfit losers.

>> No.51222902

>>51220398
are you me?

>> No.51222972

>>51220398
very cool

>> No.51223010

>>51222058
wtf you are me
what is it about this dynamic that creates us?

>> No.51223054

>>51220398
Ok OP everything you just described sounds fucking horrific. I am sorry, truly.
If I was in your situation I would just say fuck it and hop on TRT, you probably are a candidate for it, go and get your test levels checked.
It will give you some muscle tone, make your jawline more defined and make gains at the gym plentiful.
If you fix your outward appearance your inner self will change and one day you will find confidence and people will sense that and stop treating you like shit.
Hope everything works out for you fren.

>> No.51223162
File: 141 KB, 700x1064, aYJMN00G_700w_0.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google]
51223162

>STEP 1: MAKE MONEY
>STEP 2: DATE BROKE GAL IN HER 20's
>STEP 3: GET HER PREGNANT
>PROFIT.

>> No.51223183

>>51222835
> Muh meaning is a psyop. You don't need any of that shit, you can just enjoy life daily and that's that
So is that why suicide rates among atheists are high? Spend your life enjoying it then roping when you’ve had enough? Same goes for the opposite. Feeling low? Well, time for me to end it I guess..

>> No.51223229

>>51223162
>step 1: make money
>
>
>step 4: lose it all
Great plan. I’m sure the kid won’t turn out to be dysfunctional in society