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>>50540027
No welcome to adulthood, every day feels the same as the last and you settle into a comfort zone.

>>50540027
I am 23 and I like sailing.

>>50540027
what do you want specifically? friends? gf?

I was in your place few years ago. Recommend reading this book, download from z-lib.org

Wish you the best!

https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/17938815-the-call-of-character

>>50540107
Peace of mind

I always think about how others perceive me or judge me. Because I have no self worth. I actively try to make accomplishments
But it doesn’t register in my brain even if I am successful at something
My brain gaslights me I am not capable of change and I am halfassing everything

>>50540227
Stop fapping. Go to Church (preferably latin mass catholicism but in case you live in Slavistan or the Middle East somewhere eastern rites or Orthodoxy is fine too)

>>50540227
sounds like an ego problem, take 100x the recommended dose of psychedelics and it'll destroy the part of your brain that cares what other people think about you

>>50540027
Buy a motorbike
Feel alive anon

>>50541278
that part of the brain exists for a good reason

It was probably just the last 3 or so. Rona really just put time perception into fucking hyperdrive.

>>50540027
Gz man
In no time you will be 30 and still the same
Not sure I will make it to my 40s

>>50541381
Yeah I always feel like I'm in a hurry despite being in a good social position.

>>50540027
>How do I come up with a life to turn my life around?
You can start by actually doing something other than what you're already doing. Do you sit on the computer all day? Well, time to stop and start moving around to different places.

>>50540027
Once school is out time zooms by super fast.
>t. 31 year old loner hermit

nobody cares zoomzoom

>>50541195
based crusader

Imagine being 23 and depressing about 5 years lmfao
Im 35 and idgaf bro u haven't even gotten off ur moms tit yet in terms of life man when i was ur age i was literally injecting heroin

>>50540027
>I am 23 and the last 5 years went by like nothin
Wait tell your 53! It only get faster!

>>50540027
>How do I come up with a life to turn my life around?
probably get /fit/ and stop jacking off so much. Not full on nofap but like every 3-4 days. Get some 20 lb weights and do curls any time you feel like beating your meat. You're probably running on low dopamine so this might help

As far as career stuff, I would sign up for community college or an online business degree immediately. Then try to learn excel and python. Maybe work on a second language like spanish. You could probably get a shitty job at a bank or a small company while still enrolled in school. Then maybe go into IT or become a business analyst.

Really depends, but it's not too late man. DO NOT become that 28 year old who doesn't know wtf he's doing in life

I am 28 years old and I never even kissed a girl

>>50540027
Find a hobby, plan out a goal and accomplish that goal so it feels like you did something.
>>50540104
Based sailing chad.

>>50542346
who gives a fuck its NOT an accomplishment

>>50540027
>23
You're young, you should get a hobby. Anything so long as you enjoy it and it gives you something to talk about to someone else, bonus if others find the hobby intriguing.
Also, think about getting involved in places you can meet more people.
At your age (just before covid), I was going to theme parks with a group of women from my church. Very fun times. If you're not a Christian, I highly recommend you accept Jesus as God and get baptized. Anyways, just an example of a place to find others.

>>50541195
Just started going to a Catholic Church. Feels good.

Bros what do you do when your coworker keeps trying to make small talk. Started a new office job and the dude across from me always asks me stupid personal questions how do I tell him to fuck off without getting fired. I'm a loner and like to keep it that way.

>>50545492
just tell him to fuck off you cuck

>>50540027
23??? Im thirty fucking 4 bitch, all i do is wage slave 60hrs a week and come home, hunt during spring and fall and shoot guns. Im a hermit, but somehow got a jewess and 2 kids. I like squirting a hot load in her bagel 4 or 5 times a week. I dont grocery shop because i dont like dealing with people. I go every 6 to 8 weeks, subsisting off wild game, beans and rice and powdered milk and whatever we garden.

All that to say that embrace it, a (((life))) like you see on netflix is a subversive psyop. Quit watching porn. Unironically touch grass by getting out of your ((suburb))) and into God creation. Quit focusing on generating currency. 99.9% women are best over looked until we bring them back into submission. So focus on get the trad wife weirdo like yourself. You can do it bro. Get off 4chan

I'm also 23 and this is how I spend my last 5 years

working as a line cook for 4 years
fucking twinks on my days off
partying a lot
playing vidya
shitposting on 4chan

its been fun. but im back in school now. gonna get an engineering degree

>>50541195
OP stay FAR FAR AWAY from (((Catholicism))). Most of what they teach isnt even biblical and theyre totally pozzed now. Find a Calvary Chapel and go to it, just remember that they cant teach what God really said about The Jews. But take the good with the bad. Find a hairy tomato to plant your weasel in AFTER MARRIAGE. Dont be a degenerate

>>50540027
Create a routine for self improvement and stick to it. Punish yourself when you fail it. Quit your job if you need more time to get your shit together.

>>50545609
>>50540027
>Dude! Dude! Dude! You MUST stay away from European tradition!!! It is GAAAAAAAAY. No don't read what Aquinas, Augustine, or Chesterton said about jews, that would be antisemitic! Our guy is the right guy forget the hundreds of orthodox church fathers! Our gay read the book and figured it all out, you can figure it all out too. Down with tradition, down with catholicism, just make up your own religion!!!
The Pr*testant problem must be dealt with, it's insufferable

>>50540027
>How do I come up with a life to turn my life around? I barely can cope with holding it together and I am heavily physically anxious of change.

oh buddy...just wait until you're 31 and doing the same thing. I graduated college in 2013. First job I made $13.50 an hour. Now I'm making $19.25 per hour. Everything is the same, and, actually worse in every conceivable metric

>>50545777
>just make your own religion

Ironic since thats exactly what Catholicism is...its not biblical in any way shape or form. Its completely man made, worshiping idols and nullifying what Jesus did to have a direct relationship with us. Claiming you have to confess to some pedophile instead

>its european tradition!!!

Beware lest anyone cheat you through philosophy and empty deceit, according to the tradition of men, according to the basic principles of the world, and not according to Christ.

Col 2:8

>>50545777
Also Martin Luther, the founder of the modern Evangelical church HATED Jews. Youre either a kike shill or an idiot New Englander..likely both

>>50545990
Catholicism is the religion of Christ, founded by Peter in the seat of Rome. Understand Aristotle's 4 causes to answer the idol worship problem. Protestants nullify Christ's objective standard delivered through the church by rejecting transubstantiation and the transitive property by which His sacrifice is delivered to us in the Eucharist. While a man could have perfect contrition, it's unlikely. So we may have an objective standard for contrition as imperfect men, we make an overt statement to another acting as Christ in front of God, lest we become passive in our sin.
>>50546003
Yes Martin Luther's antisemitism was like his theology, a bull in a china shop. He wanted to murder jews, which is about as christian as his theology. Aquinas says to expropriate that which the jews steal in Summa Theologicae, Augustine says to scatter the jews from your nation in City of God. Catholicism's approach to jewry is sophisticated and righteous so as not to become more evil in the process of justice. Martin Luther was just a psychopath.

>>50545990
>>50546003
As Bonhoeffer (Lutheran) says in Ethics, Protestantism disregards itself, this was a core problem in his time. For instance, between Sola Fide, Sola Scriptura, and infant baptism, there is actually no reason to go to Church or to be truly devoted to God, except for whatever conscience or inkling of connection to God exists without valid sacraments. Another way to put it, if protestants are right, then all of Christendom until Luther goes to Hell - thanks Peter for screwing us. If Catholicism is right, church does have a purpose, and we can build true devotion to God through those items God gave to us - the church, philosophy, prayer, theology, service, virtue, contemplation. If protestantism is right, basically just chill out and grab some cookies on sunday if you want, but you're forgiven and there's no more obligation to it

>>50540166
I actually fucking bought it.

>>50541278
It doesn't even have to be a massive dose.
1-1.5 grams of quality shrooms is enough to reset your brain.

>>50546003
Based Maarten Luther.
4Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth: 5Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the LORD thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me; 6And shewing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my commandments.
Wtf I feel like creating a statue and worshipping it now.

23 is so fucking young don't stress too much, start making subtle gradual changes like lifting weights 2x a week.

>>50542246
good perspective

muh feels is a powerful mirage, even not a mirage this society is deeply rotten and unhappy

>>50540027
Just be yourself.

im terrified of turning 30 next year bros
i have a great job i somehow landed despite dropping out of uni, but i dont have a social life other than a few close friends that are drifting away into normal family life
how the fuck do you even make friends once life stops spoonfeeding them to you through education?

26 and I work in a call centre. I just want 1 million dollars from crypto so I can buy a house then I’m working part time for life. Don’t care what it is so longs as I get 4 days off a week and so long as it isn’t fucking call centre work.

>>50540166
imagine unironically reading a book written by a woman

>>50547078
>how the fuck do you even make friends once life stops spoonfeeding them to you through education?

you don't really. Personally, after college I made most of my friends through going to concerts and parties and finding people with similar musical tastes. Music festivals too to a degree. That's really about it.

Plenty of people also make friends at work, but I've never been one of those people. Now that I'm 31 it's really practically impossible. Especially for me at least...I just don't have the energy. When I was in college...you see the same people every day. Even acquaintances that you aren't BFFs with you still hang out and talk regularly or go to parties or whatever. Making friends as an adult is weird because you simply do not have the free time that you had as a young person. And even if somehow you have a baller work from home job or you get rich with crypto...everyone else your age is working full time and they don't have the time to hang out and chill

>>50540166
Literally "Cope" the book

>>50545777
>European tradition
The majority of Catholics are nonwhite. Modern nationalism also comes from the cause of self determination the wars against the Vatican we're fought over. Also history, politics, and religion are all relevant to finance discussions especially to financial ends.

>>50541356
what reason is that

>>50540227
You need to broaden your perspective on life, expose yourself to many school of philosophy, religion, atheism, documentary of people outside your race and nation, heck even documentary of primitive tribe, see what each on them value most in their life
Right now, ask yourself do you value judgement of others as the most important thing in your life? or there is something else you value more than that?

>>50542346
you don't have to

>>50540166
dont take advice from a fish on how to fish

OP youre 23. run, and find other runners on the road and say hi and run with them. boom new friends. running will make you happy and skinny for women

drug based friends are easy friends but usually are shit friendships. if you have sibilings chill with them

>>50540027
Join the Mormons. You're practically guaranteed a trad-wife and minimum 3 kids.
People here saying Catholicism, why? Might as well go all the way. Mormonism.

>>50547078
You don't care as much for people who aren't real friends. You see that as the NPCs that they are. That's not a bad thing.

>>50541841
I will be you in 2024
>t. 29 year old loner hermite

>>50550153
the problem is mormons have batshit theology, im actually christian otherwise I would.
esp since polygamy was just relegalized.

also that webm doesnt make sense since most mormon girls are hardcore nerds and like cosplay.

>>50550288
>the problem is mormons have batshit theology, im actually christian otherwise I would.
>esp since polygamy was just relegalized.
All theology is batshit anyway. So go for the best, in terms of service from your wife.
>>50550288
>doesnt make sense since most mormon girls
I stand corrected, apparently she's a mennonite.

>>50550433
Eh, I mean, the no alcohol and caffeine is fucking retarded, I have to give up my fav tea (which was thomas jeffersons fav tea as well) bc some dude with magic underwear says hes super cereal?

Alcohol im willing to get rid of, caffeine its just, meh I like tea and its not bad for ya. I dont put cream or sugar in it, very rarely a little honey.


Its just stupid, but taht shit aside, the whole "you wil lbecome gods' and shit that outright rejects christianity is my concern.

I dont wanna go to hell or lose my salvation just for kino puss

>>50540027
You should be grateful you have a job.

>>50546325
Extremely based anon