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My brother is in his late 20s. Was trying to help him out with getting started with investing and I learned he basically has NOTHING saved. This is despite making ~$75k per year, living in a rented studio apt, no booze/drugs, and I'm pretty sure he hasn't dated in years.

Oh btw he is also a cringy male feminist type. Posting about how he stands with women and that abortion is a human right. Are people like this a lost cause? I don't even know where to begin with someone like this.

>> No.50490242

I am 28 years old and I never even kissed a girl

>> No.50490284

Given how fucked up women and society are, the men have the right idea. They may wish they were loved, but love doesn't exist.

>> No.50490319

>>50490173
Last time it happened we had nazis and ww2.
Hoping it happens again to get a chance at gassing jews

>> No.50490486

>>50490284
Based. Not some incel here but let me know when society shifts enough to make dating actually worth it as a man.

>> No.50490715

H.Y.P.E.R.G.A.M.Y

Open your eyes, even fat chicks want male models nowadays.

>> No.50490733

>>50490242
but at least you're on biz

>> No.50490782

This was supposed to be about him being a poorfag not a virgin. How do you get someone to give a shit about money? Seems odd to me idk

>> No.50490850

>>50490173
I am a loser sibling. AMA

>> No.50490883

I swear that number today is minimum 40%

>> No.50490891

>>50490850
How much Zogslop do you eat weekly

>> No.50490893

>>50490715
This. I was talking to my buddies girl (they met on tinder) and she was saying she went on like 2 dates a day every day for a month before she met him and “it was fun”. She’s fat. Like if she was a guy she would never have a chance in hell to even get a single match.

My ex gf when I reconnected with her to catch up said she had a “slut phase” on there as well afterwards and had an abortion.

You know how a lot of guys out there would fuck pretty much every woman they know if they were given the chance? Well women are the exact same way, they just hide it better. And unlike men, they actually do get the chance.

So why the fuck would I, as an in shape dude with a good job in my late 20s, actually invest in a relationship with women like that? I respect myself too much.

OP is a loser for ranting on the internet that his “loser brother” won’t buy his bags and marry a roastie.

>> No.50490928

>>50490891
I exclusively eat frozen food when I come into enough for grocery money. Most of the time I’m too poor to go buy food though, so I end up just eating plain rice and other similar foods

>> No.50490979

My only other older sibling 25yrs she just collects gob checks doesn’t give a fuck about investing or getting a job probably worst as those fucks in the pods In Japan

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50491024

>>50490173
I'm 37 and never kissed a girl.

>> No.50491135

>>50490782

Not possible. Imagine trying to make yourself not care about money. It's unthinkable in the same way. People just have a certain amount they are comfortable consuming, and for most people it's somewhere between 90-110% of what they earn.

>> No.50491321

>>50491135
I will just have to accept that he is a lame normie, I suppose

>> No.50491370

>>50490173
if he is falling for the feminist bullshit, he is already a lost cause. I have had some male friends fall down this rabbit hole, and I have never been able to dig them out despite my best efforts. Sorry for your loss OP, but your brother is gone forever now.

>> No.50491415

>>50491370
I find male feminists repulsive, but I could make sense of it if he were getting laid, or if he had a cute wife and went along with it & sorta even believed it because "happy wife happy life"

Neither is the case here sadly

>> No.50491430

>>50490173
>cringy male feminist type. Posting about how he stands with women and that abortion is a human right
He's a tranny. Love your brother no matter what. Mmkay anon?

>> No.50491440

>>50491024
kiss a dog
and latter fuck him

>> No.50491464

>>50490733
How is this a good thing?

>> No.50491553

>>50490242

How come? Tell us your story, are you introverted or something like that?

>> No.50491565

>>50490173
>cringy make feminist type
I bet all of your ETH that he secretly blows up those 75k on OnlyFans subs and Vtuber simping.

>> No.50491588

>>50491565
I will never understand the Vtuber trend, is it just a bunch of guys who fell for the Tranime trap?

>> No.50491627

>>50491588
Imagine twitch fanbases who deal with PSI and crank the degeneracy to 11. You get Vtubers simps and mod orbiters who ban you if you dare say something bad about the anime avatar they fell in love with.

>> No.50491645

>>50490173
how do i unsubscribe from this blog?

>> No.50491656
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50491656

>>50491553
Pic related illustrates most of my problems.
I've been told to be nice my whole life, from my mother especially. Be nice, be polite, be nice, treat everyone equally. And I was nice, so much so that I even got the most embarrassing "Most Polite" award possible back in school, twice.
Being "nice" was just ingrained in my being and I couldn't help it, so much so of that I became incapable of flirting/showing sexual interest towards women without feeling as if I'm being extremely rude to them.

So nothing ever happened in that department

>> No.50491668

>>50491321

It can shift if he achieves responsibility for another person or decides to pursue an ambition. It can't be forced. If he starts talking about buying a house then you can start to influence him, but not any time before that.

The consumption ratio is otherwise a "set in stone" component of one's personality. I've tried to help people unfuck it for all 15 years of my adulthood and haven't been able to. We're talking people who got houses in 2011, got divorced, cashed $50k, from the appreciation on the house, and piss it all away within a year. They will always spend the same ratio of whatever cash is made available to them. They saw house prices going up, I told them they needed to get back in or be priced out, and now all they do is cry about how much homes cost.

A few of them finally got their shit together after seeing my example and results for a decade. They got responsibilities to other people and decided to emulate what I had been espousing. Not a moment sooner.

>> No.50491683

>>50490173
He 100% donates to online thots, and is an open advocate for online "sex workers"

>> No.50491744

>>50491415
Male feminist dont get late, theyre just whiteknights virgins that think it will them get laid, but they just will be abused by thots as an emotional sandbag and cash cow, even going as far as getting a vasectomi because some women is crying about abortions


Many such cases

>> No.50491746

>>50490893
but what can you do anon? never raise a family & die alone?

where can you get a gf these days that are not inflated sluts

>> No.50491789

>>50491746
Certainly not on dating apps, anyone thinking otherwise even for a second is beyond help

>> No.50491869

>>50491656

Yeah, that's why I started swearing. I realized that saying "God fucking dammit" whenever someone failed to meet their responsibilities/show up on time allowed me to exude a rougher persona while not abdication the virtues of personal responsibility and "Goodness". I focused more on being "good" and "responsible" than being "nice" or "polite". It prompted me to take more action too; when you decide that being blocked from action is frustrating you are more likely to push back against the things holding you back.

>> No.50491965

>>50490173
You can show them the door but they must walk through it. Don’t waste time trying to convince people. Occasionally educate, live your best life and expect nothing from them.

>> No.50491978

>>50491656

I don’t see the problem in being a nice and polite guy, those are qualities lacking in our fucked up society. I’m pretty sure there are also nice girls outside waiting for you anon don’t lose faith

>> No.50492002

>>50491656
>>50491869
Jannies pls. I’m sorry for insulting you many times in the past. Please eradicate this thread. I’m begging.

>> No.50492026

>>50491746

You just meet girls in any context you can. Work, charity events for animals, church. Social networks run deep, so by making contact with just one you can get invited to other events where there are others deeper in their social network.

>> No.50492039

>>50490173
How does he manage to spend 75k?
I dream of having access to that kind of money. Soon hopefully. (and I still have more saved).
I'm in a similar position only my brother is in his 30s and currently making 0k dollars a year.

>> No.50492045

>>50492002

No begging allowed.

>> No.50492058

>>50492026
it pays to make a female friend and then meet her friends, etc.

>> No.50492067

>>50491656
Just be who you are. If you need to change in order to get pussy then it ain't worth it.
Only idiots will care so much about it that they are willing to completely change themselves(literally cucking themselves in the process) in order to get some minutes with pussy.

>> No.50492092

>>50492058

Correct. Girls have friends that are girls. You don't need to score with the one you first make contact to, you just utilize that contact to meet her friends and find a more ideal match from them.

>> No.50492109

>>50492039
Big city + idk what he buys there

>> No.50492126

>>50490715
I have fat and ugly friends who get women all the time. The trick is to stop acting like a pussy bitch

>> No.50492160

>sibling has some job for years, pays 60k a year plus most expenses including free rent/heating/power
>never had a car
>somehow gets fired for stupid shit
>find out he has 20k debt and nothing else

The fuck

>> No.50492163

>>50490782
He always has a good paycheck coming in so he is fine. Don't worry about him. Worry about yourself

>> No.50492186

>>50491869
Kek I had the opposite problem, using "fuck" so many times in my sentences that it just became a filler word I used every time I spoke without thinking. Thankfully I noticed what was happening towards the end of my teenage years and learned to choose my words more carefully.

>> No.50492201

>>50490173
He’s prob an onlyfans simp

>> No.50492221

>>50492092
Pretty good tactic, kinda similar to other society’s were people get paired by friends or family. Those marriages last’s literally til death. Being in a happy and healthy relationship is way more valuable than banging random slugs

>> No.50492378

>>50492186

Yeah, you gotta mix up the swears and use it as an exclamation point. I only ever used them to voice frustration, but there's plenty to get frustrated about in this world.

Shit works though. It wouldn't have become an overused filler word for you if you hadn't noticed some initial positive results from it.

>> No.50492760

Women will bleed you dry. I make 80k/year, I smoke and I eat out twice a week, nothing saved either. I keep warm at night by imaging exactly how screwed we all are.

>> No.50492841
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50492841

>>50490173
Women have surpassed men in being incels.

>> No.50492887

>>50491869
in other words you learnt to value yourself and if somebody treated you poorly you're within the right to get upset

>> No.50492924

>>50492841
Men gave up and started seeing escorts.
Ive tried guys, I really did try.
I grinded 18-25 in the gym.
I dressed nicely.
I was aggressive.
I was passive.
Women are fucking retarded.
And have unrealistic standards.
This week I will be balls deep in a model tier girl. Women my age (27) are single and have no idea what they want.

>> No.50492939

>>50492067
>just be lonely every day for the rest of your life and never have a family bro

>> No.50492967

>>50491656
I was raised sheltered with out a father figure in my life and got bullied and molested at 12 yo

My youth and teens were wasted. I have no self worth. I can make sense of the world by always assuming the worst and running of functional flight or fight anxiety at all times

When will you retards understand that you will never want a gf anyways? You won’t be even able to enjoy or process the enjoyment of it
All of virgin boy dwellers aew functionally depressed schizoid
You are daydreaming some pre pubescent shit of getting a girl will turn your life around

>> No.50492971

>>50490893
Umhinged. He didnt even say anything about women im the post. Just that his brother is financially retarded.

>> No.50493080

>>50492887

That's a good way to look at it that I hadn't considered. People must have been able to read that. Once I gave myself consideration other people felt I was worth giving consideration to.

>> No.50493113

>>50492967
Dude you actually sound like a little bitch.
Im convinced thwt there is estrogen in the food/water because its actually sickening to see modern men with their bitch tits and tiny little wrists.
Go do some workouts and get a hooker.

>> No.50493121

>>50492939
>lonely
stop with this forced meme.

>> No.50493471

>>50492026
>>50492058
based thanks anons, its tough tho being a /biz/ autist who works from home

trying to put myself out there but need ideas

>> No.50493501

>>50493121
you may think its a meme now, but what the hell are you gonna do at age 50+ once your parents are dead

>no gf = no kids = no grandkids
>literally spending christmas alone

>> No.50493560

>>50493501
Same thing they have been doing through their youth.

>> No.50493565

>>50493501
I already spend my christmas alone.

>> No.50493566

>>50490173
>Oh btw he is also a cringy male feminist type.
He's ngmi even if you do all the work for him.

>> No.50493648 [DELETED] 

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>> No.50493722

>>50492841
What happened in 2020?

>> No.50493751

>>50493722
Lockdowns fucked them up

>> No.50494392

>>50491656
Are you still here, ZW4wDokV?

>> No.50494509

>>50492939
>lonely
only those who can't stand to be around themselves ever feel lonely. You are not alone, even in your own mind.

>> No.50494542

>>50490242
Based

>> No.50494547

>>50493565
>>50493560
Sadge, but do you want it to be that way forever?

i dont think people see how depressing 20+ years alone at 40-60+ can be

>> No.50494929

>>50490173
After taxes rent and basic food that money goes to nothing basically

>> No.50494954

sounds like he'd rather give it to pokimane or some onlyfans whore than keep it.

>> No.50495014

>>50490173
he spends all his money on onlyfans. go beat his feminist ass and get him back on track bro

>> No.50495020

>>50493471
Meetups, coworking spaces, etc

>> No.50495465

>>50494547
You underestimate the power of entertainment. You're forgetting about all the men who got divorced and had their kids taken from them in their 30s and just spend the next 40 years alone.

>> No.50495497

>>50494392
I am now

>> No.50495661

>>50495497
I'm requesting a throwaway email that you will have access to two to three years from now. You do not have to provide one, if you don't wish too.

>> No.50495680

>>50495661
Seems my IP changed accidentally, I am that same anon.

>> No.50495713

>My brother is in his late 20s. Was trying to help him out with getting started with investing and I learned he basically has NOTHING saved. This is despite making ~$75k per year, living in a rented studio apt, no booze/drugs, and I'm pretty sure he hasn't dated in years.


You can still help hi-
>Oh btw he is also a cringy male feminist type.

INTO. THE . FUCKING. TRASH.

>> No.50495828

>>50490242
35, never had sex. I have kissed, held hands, gotten blowjobs. They're not that good, I could never even cum, had to close my eyes and think about porn since my mind is so warped by it at this stage.

>> No.50496220

>>50495661
>>50495680
anon100anon100@protonmail.com

>> No.50496238
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50496238

>>50492002
lmfao

>> No.50496252

>>50496220
Thanks. Recommended to only check once every year, starting two years from now. Good luck in your endeavors.

>> No.50496266

>>50496252
As a side note I'm sure some retard will email you. You will not receive an email for minimum, two years or more, and nothing will be asked of you or for you to send money or give something.

>> No.50496274

>>50490242
you think you're missing out but you're really not.

>> No.50496340

>>50496252
>>50496266
Noted. I will make sure to check it.

>> No.50496426

>>50494547
I'm 40 and I'm not lonely, I want money.

>> No.50496457
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50496457

>>50490173
bait

>> No.50496686

The problem with the modern woman is her nature. You may land a woman, but she will be constantly reassessing your suitability for her. She will walk right onto the next guy, while your life is left as a mess. I value stability too much to get involved now days.

>> No.50496687

>>50491978
>there are nice girls waiting for nice guys who won't escalate on them
that's not how it works.

>> No.50496765

>>50496687
>that's not how it works
Can confirm
28yo virgin

>> No.50496991

>>50490173
>zero female sex partners
couldn't that also imply faggotry is on the rise

>> No.50497031

>>50491978
There is no girl waiting for nice guys. Nobody likes nice guys. Every woman would throw nice polite guys into a squid game

>> No.50497040

>>50496274
yes, he is. and you are two if you don't know that

>> No.50497071

>>50497040
In order to miss out you need to have had a probability of attaining it in the first place kek so you're wrong. You can't miss out on something you'd never have in a billion years

>> No.50497480

>>50491588
If this isn't quality streaming content I don't know what is
https://youtu.be/ovHeHQm3pbg?t=247

>> No.50497500

>>50490242
I was like you, and resentful about it until i realized that God had protected me against my own urges so that some woman wouldn't tempt me into ruining my life.

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50497534

>>50497500
Holy cope

>> No.50497545

my brother is in his mid 20s, he sent me dick pics and wanted to hook up with me so I stopped talking to him months ago, but last weekend he decided to send some to my dad and incest yaoi pictures as well lol

>> No.50497561

>>50490782
>How do you get someone to give a shit about money?

Unless a guy is inherently super ambitious, once his needs are met, a single man generally wants for nothing. Give him a family to raise and it'll light a fire under his ass to strive for more.

>> No.50497584

>>50490173
im an unemployed 27 year old loser and i have like 140k saved up just from occasionally working once in a while for the passed 15 years. i dont think ive ever made more than 60k, many years only 25-30k. i dont understand how this is possible.

>> No.50497621

>>50490242
Then get rich. There’s literally no excuse.

>> No.50497655

>>50490173
Give him couple rounds of Ivermectin(Dewormer) and he'll straighten right up.

>> No.50497748

>>50497584
You’ve been working since you were 12?

>> No.50497838

>>50497748
13 i guess. but i lied and said i was 14.

>> No.50497936

I‘m a 33 years old Kissless Virgin, never even hugged a girl or even befriended one.
From my point of view Sex could be a hoax thats how non existing it is in my life.

>> No.50497982

>>50491553
Female hypergamy is out of control and also if you end up ostracized without a pre established friend group it’s extremely difficult to make friends and meet women as a young adult. These are the reasons for the rise of male inceldom

>> No.50498002

>>50491656
The redpill is women give the opposite advice of what they are truly attracted to. It’s why most men raised by single moms end up incels, you need a dad to educate you on women and how to be a man to have a much better chance at life

>> No.50498017

>>50493722
My guess is a large percent of women hit the wall, once a women hits the wall her sex life is over but until they hit the wall they rack up body counts in the hundreds

>> No.50498482

>>50490242
Literally me.
On the bright side, I have been maxing out my TSP and Roth IRA in addition to increasing my house down payment fund. I have already accepted my fate as a future wizard homeowner since marriage doesn't seem likely for the next couple years.

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50498619

It's simple. If you had a daughter, would you be alright if she married a boy like you. If the answer is unironically yes, then you deserve love. If not, then improve yourself until you're not some pathetic bitch.

>> No.50498651

>>50498482
Dw you can always marry a 3rd worlder.

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50498747

>>50490173
Happy to be married with a kid on the way
suck it weirdos
>inb4 roastie divorce rape

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50498818

>>50498651
Why do you cringe fucks always mention this, it's sad as fuck and you're just admitting you aren't good enough to attract a girl in your city.
>inb4 hurr durr all western women are damaged!
Shut the fuck up. There are millions of girls around you and if you can't attract one that's on you

>> No.50499161

>>50498818
yeah it is on me therefore i will marry a third worlder. My looks are apparently not valuable, and my money's not enough to offset them to western girls, BUT it is enough to offset that to a foreigner.

>but she'll leave you

better to have loved and lost.

>> No.50499265

>>50490242
You arent missing much

Theyre all like little children

>> No.50499292

>>50491656
Kek retard fell for the behave the way other consider normal meme