/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>49739503
what you need is a brush with death
I was the same until I joined the merchant navy and got shot at by filipino pirates

>>49739503
I know how to fix all your problems, you need to take a high dosage magic mushroom trip.

>>49739503
Didn't read but bump

>>49739503
Iktf very well anon, basically pic related.
I've been told to be nice my whole life, from my mother especially. Be nice, be polite, be nice, treat everyone equally. And I was nice, so much so that I even got the most embarrassing "Most Polite" award possible back in school, twice.
Being "nice" was just ingrained in my being and I couldn't help it, so much so of that I became incapable of flirting/showing sexual interest towards women without feeling as if I'm being extremely rude to them.

So nothing ever happened in that department

>>49739679
>most polite award, twice
kek

>>49739503
holy shit did this actually end with craving validation from a woman. let me get something through your head, your celibacy is a virtue. youre not the creepy one, you just feel that way because youre surrounded by degenerates who practice sodomy nightly and soooociety doesn't believe in discriminating on cock sucking whores anymore. in truth, youre the last hope. the celibates will inherit this world.

>>49739679
>That guy there is really creepy
Yeah that phase starts at 23

>>49739503
Hit the gym and larp as Officer K or Drive

>>49739503
Stop watching porn and work out. Take it slowly at first so it's sustainable.
You actually have a great long term mindset by the looks of it.
Once you get fit and better looking, get some new clothes and then get out your your job. Go apply somewhere else so you can start fresh without a boss that looks down on you.
Go join a church, or a running group for young people. You'll meet nice girls. Make small talk at first with no expectations. Then once you know them better you can ask if they want to hang out for coffee, activity etc
I was a virgin until 21. At 24 I was rotating 8 girls. At 28 I got bored of that and now at 30 I'm getting married to a wonderful woman.

Kek I used to be a mommas boy too. But then I took the blackpill and started chadfishing. I realized life is much better as kind of an asshole, atleast when dealing with women.
>got /fit/
>thirst trap aesthetic photos on ig
>unironically into tarot and spiritual shit
>gonna get tattoos soon
My body count is over 150 these days so I guess it all worked out. I'm still a super agreeable guy at work and with my guy friends tho.

>>49739912
>Go join a church
100% this. You can flaunt your virginity and escape the rat race of dating.

>>49739503
You exude desperation in your whole being OP, it's not attractive.
You've probably heard it many times but the whole "seeking validation from others and being desperate for a gf" mindet has got to go.
Unironically 'jusburself' as hard as possible, it filters all the undesirable people in your life and leaves only those who enjoy your company.
Also do whatever you want and disregard faggots while taking care of yourself. Go talk with the girl that gets you hard and see how far you get, if she looks disinterested, drop her and go for the next one.

tl;dr your time on this planet is limited and being a pussybitch all your life is a waste, especially while you're young.

>TFW rejected a woman I could probably live the rest of my life with because she was adamant about having children
Blog time, fuckers. If you're a /pol/ type, I advise you don't read this because a lot of polacks got really really angry last time I told this situation.
I don't wanna get into deep details, but I've had pretty good chemistry with a girl for a long while. We met during highschool and kept being friends a couple years afterwards. The rest of our friends even asked me (and probably her) if we're already secretly married or something.
At first I figured it was onesided from my end, but even as dense as I was I started seeing signals that she's interested as well, and not just as a dating thing, it could've easily been a life time thing, but....
This is something I'm not going to go too deep into detail on, but well, I just don't want children. She, on the other hand, clearly very much did.
It hurt like a motherfucker trying to keep her from "approaching" me, and one night she straight up confronted me and asked me if I'm interested in her or not. I still feel intensely fucking guilty over rejecting her that day, but I knew I'd feel even guiltier about avoiding the baby topic or going through with it and feeling miserable.

I guess as some sort of divine punishment, I never got lucky with any other women at all. She on the other hand eventually did find someone (an asian guy, surprisingly).
In the end, I guess it's just a question of what you're willing to sacrifice to get laid or anything beyond that. I do feel guilty, but I can't say that I regret my decision, even though I'd never find a girl like that anywhere in the world...
It's a complex world out there, anon.

>>49740053
grew up christian, stopped attending church in hs, if i go join the catholic church will i find at least average looking women under 30?

>>49739635
kino

>>49740277
Maybe a hot 14 year old being brought in by their parents. Hillsong is probably better for your age

>>49740265
lol shoulda just pump n dumped her, white girls who like asians r usually homebodies who watch too much anime secretly. Im pretty sure I would have never liked asian girls if I didn’t like anime.

>>49740265
honestly ur biggest issue isnt not wanting kids, its being a low test high inhibition pussy. it doesnt matter what women want, u can always leave and find somebody else once she catches on. leading women on or manipulating women is no big deal. its usually the best way to deal with them. theres a way to treat women and a way to deal with men.

>>49740354
>>49740446
I know this might sound alien to some of you here but I had actual feelings for her and still do to a certain degree... cringe as it may sound I'd never do something like that. I'll admit though that this is probably a dated bygone mindset.

>>49740481
Well you'll have to tell us in detail what about having kids is a dealbreaker for you? Especially with a girl you still seem to have feelings for.

>>49739503
>I am a 23 yo KHHV
What is that? It's already gay that you classify yourself in some zoomer abbreviation.
>I wear a buzzcut fade haircut, plain tees, jeans and sneakers. No tattoos, basically no jewelry
So why don't you try learning how to style? If you don't want to, then what's the meaning of this detail?
>Additionally I have a baby face, I can grow a beard but I’m looking intimidating that way and not in the good chad way.
Youd probably be better off with the beard so you don't look like a generic Mr Clean.
>What do? I’m fucked? I will never attract a gf probably
You're already know what to do. Get into shape, lift your arms fro a little definition, experiment with different beard styles. Maybe hair styles. Just stop being a nervous little faggot with the "woe is me" pitty party. You're only gonna get back as much as you put into it.

>>49739503
>I have a baby face
open a onlyfans account

>>49739635
>merchant navy
kek

>>49739503
Wtf is KHHV? Your post makes me believe it's a weird gay thing.

>>49740354
>white girls who like asians r usually homebodies
By “homebodies” I think you mean skinnyfat with severe, untreatable BPD

>>49739943
you sound like patrick bateman wtf

>>49740248
> Unironically 'jusburself' as hard as possible, it filters all the undesirable people in your life and leaves only those who enjoy your company.

There is nothing special about me. Neglected and overbearing parents at the same time, missed social development milestones. Adopted fringe views on 4chan. No self esteem

If I let this true self shine through, I will get fired and get even more ostracized. Who wants to associate with someone like that

>>49739503
buy nfts from women and wait for lace to finish his shit, maybe you can fuck for free that way.

>>49740265
I sort of thought I didn't want kids, but I came to the realization that the big reason I was wage slaving so hard, was so I could build a home and raise a family. If I found out tomorrow I was infertile. I would quit my job tomorrow and never work a day again. Probably go out in a blaze of glory.

I dunno man, why wouldn't you want to make a mixed clone of yourself and the person you love and spend the rest of your life with? I really don't think you would have been miserable.
I'm not trying to make you reconsider or whatever. I just don't really get it.

>>49739943
meanwhile you have about 15 STDs and smell like rotting carp.

>>49739503
None of that matters. Good face and charming personality is 90% of what you need to make it. Crypto earnings just means you can afford nice whiskey and an rtx 3090

>>49740594
Yeah, I'm not sure why op thinks you need to have Babyface clean shaved everyday or grow a big beard. Just some 2 day old stubble which you just trim with an electric razor would do look good. It's manly, gives you an edge and at the same time it's a relatively clan look.

>>49740849
STDs are natural, it's a rite of passage to adulthood. If you don't have STDs by the time you reach 19 then you're still a baby.

>>49740683
kissless hugless handholdless virgin

>>49739943
you will be a poor STD ridden slave for women all your miserable life, subhuman. keep slaving away

>>49740666
tax exempt pay fuckboy

>>49740777
I literally scam women into having sex with me sometimes. Who gives a flying fuck senpai, girls are never innocent. Interestingly enough I didn't like American Psycho, I didn't get the point of the movie. The card scene is kino tho.

>>49739503
>What do?
Stop caring so much. Your whole post describes your problem, which is the fact that you worry about too much shit.

>>49740796
seek christ

>>49740446
Immorality does not equal high test. There are onions boys as well as Chads who would have acted immorally as you espouses. Anon did the honorable thing. Now the woman's husband doesn't have to live with the fact that she had sex with some random dude who wasn't interested along the way to finding him.

>>49740796
This is all inane demoralization bullshit, I can't believe you're trying to humblebrag about crypto when you're being this miserable about yourself.

>There is nothing special about me
Obviously dipshit, that's not the point, you clearly have things you enjoy, why the FUCK aren't you doing those things more and maybe share them with people who are also interested? Could easily warm approach girls by having a circle of like-minded individuals.
>Neglected and overbearing parents at the same time
Boohoo, I also had overbearing parents. Go have an honest talk with them, if they love you they'll try to understand. If they don't give you the time of day, fuck em. Also be independant from them if you aren't already.
>missed social development milestones
This shit is fucking stupid, YOU CAN STILL GET FRIENDS AND GET LAID AND OBTAIN A GF. At fucking 26 years old, I just met a bastard who loves the same obscure shit I do and it's great.
>Adopted fringe views on 4chan
>No self esteem
You're right about not being special, there's so many people out there just like you with a lack of self-esteem or holding the same views. You can easily drop subtle hints to see if a person takes the bait and gradually work your way from there.
Don't think "if I do this, it's all over". Make a plan and get to a position where you're able to do what you want without fear of something bad happening.

Look, you can't change over night, shit takes time but obviously there's things about your situation you could vastly improve upon.
You can either simply grovel in the dirt and moan about how stuff x is unfair, missing out on y for the rest of your life like a pathetic wagecuck.
Or you can grow towards being a cool motherfucker who can't be fired, can't be cancelled, who shrugs off rejections and stuff, your choice.

>>49739503
Are you using your work time to post on the internet again momma's boy

>>49739679
for where you are at you need to obsessively read theredpill sub on plebbit
it helped me when i was younger
internalize that women are objects and retarded
youll do fine kid

>>49739503
>My boss calls me a momma’s boy
you'd think this be a hate crime by now
if any boss of mine ever was stupid enough to say something like that i'd take him to the cleaners
first start breaking down hysterically saying you need a safe space and demand hr intervention help
then go make up some sob story about your bosses homophobia and how his comments bring back memories about being shamed for being raised by two gay parents etc and you demand compensation, the firing of your boss or you are taking this matter to twitter and insta

watch the shitshow escalate after that while smirking silently inside and sip your leverage of choice

>>49741952
>youll do fine kid
I am 28 years old

>>49741916
> Or you can grow towards being a cool motherfucker who can't be fired, can't be cancelled, who shrugs off rejections and stuff, your choice.

I am already like that due to depersonalization
It’s not a good trait to have, if you just don’t reciprocate to anything, you appear not human like

>>49739503

> I can grow a beard

>>49742424
>I am 28 years old
*ssssssssssssssiiiip*
yep. you're gonna be fine, kid.

>>49739943
>IG
>bragging about sex on 4chan
Lol

>>49739679
>I've been told to be nice my whole life, from my mother especially.
Single mother?
This was similar to my experience too. Women cannot raise men because they raise them to be what they think they want, but the trouble is women don't have a fucking clue what they actually want and end up raising little bitches. I was lucky because in college all my friends were cunts and succesful in all social and romantic interactions, and I was smart enough to figure out what I was doing wasn't working and I learned from them, but even still there's lasting damage.

Men need to be raised by men. The welfare state was a mistake.

>>49739912 is solid advice. Get /fit/. It will change how people view you and raise your test as well as build good solid habits that will bleed positively into the rest of your life.

>>49739679
Women give the worst advice to men. They make you into the exact opposite of what women are attracted to. It’s evil women do this to their sons. It’s this reason why incels are at a much higher rate when brought up by a single mom vs both a father and mom, at least the dad if not cucked can give proper advice on how to be a man instead of a bitch

>>49741952
Pretty sure plebbit banned that sub long ago, but he can watch TaylorTheFiend vids, pretty much exactly the same redpill info he needs to learn about women on that.

>>49744443
>It’s evil women do this to their sons
It's not necessarily evil women, women simply don't know what they want.
Similarly if you try to attract a woman by giving her agency and giving her the things/kind of attention she says she wants she will be turned off because women don't want what they say they want.
They are attracted to leadership and leaders don't go 50/50 in responsibility. Women don't wan't to be responsible even if they say they do.

>>49744626
> It's not necessarily evil women, women simply don't know what they want.
Don’t agree with this. Women know what they are attracted to, the problem is they raise kids to be simp betabux and not chads because they think in the end the simps win because they get married when the woman decides to settle, while chad doesn’t get chosen for marriage is why they raise them that way. Women are like a hive mind kind of like Jews, they subvert the entirety of the male population to be beta cuck simps so they can take advantage of them.

> Similarly if you try to attract a woman by giving her agency and giving her the things/kind of attention she says she wants she will be turned off because women don't want what they say they want. They are attracted to leadership and leaders don't go 50/50 in responsibility. Women don't wan't to be responsible even if they say they do.

This I agree with 100%

>>49740957
Men like you are my favorite source of revenue. I have made a lot of money off of degenerate behavior.

>>49740849
I actively encourage degenerate behavior. STD's are a positive source of revenue.