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Learn to forgive them. Until you do that, you wont be going anywhere..

>>3753122
>>3753122
this guy gets it

>>3753105
fuck you you had it better than me
>never go outside of my house as a kid, never had sleepovers ever
>shittiest food is the reason why im 5'6 skinnyfat
>no car at 22 and bike around and take the bus
>same clothes for 5 years and they have been bought by my mom or it was free
>the only income i have are fasfa gibs and allowance

>>3753122
Cuckold attitude.

>>3753105
>>3753144
this too shall pass

I can't say I understand, anon, but my childhood was pretty shitty too, and that was a driving force in my life.

>dad was too depressive to have kids, go away and I never knew about him again.
>mom has bladder cancer because of her work as a biochemist. She is always bleeding and working a lot to earn a low amount of money, because here science is shit-tier job.
>I'm always with my aunt, he taught me how to read, math, etc. But, she is christian as fuck, I can't go out with other kids, tv is satan device, pokemon is satan creation, etc.
>I grew up as an introverted as fuck, weird person. I'm always afraid to be poor, but too depressed to do something about it.
>I'm now finishing my career, I studied biochemistry and I'm afraid to end up poor and sick like my mom, but science is the only thing that excites me a little bit.

; _ ;

>>3753105

Kind of.

Succeed without their help. Bigly.

That's the best way to achieve justice.

It's also a pretty strong dagger if you have kids, and then don't let the kids have much to do with them.

>>3753391
>>3753393
Does it ever get better, bros?

Cucks feel sorry for themselves,

WOrk hard party harder bitches

>>3753105
stop crying fag
not reading yourblogpost

>>3753478

When you succeed, yes.

The parents will have their money and their home, and they will want to keep up with you and have a relationship.

And you'll be "naw, I'm good".

You have to make money and get your own home though.

>>3753122
>just lrn to forgiv, we all make mistake :^)

lmao, useless hippy bullshit advice.

My parents pretty much stimulated me doing nothing. If I would go out they asked if I would come home to walk the dog. If I was looking for a job they told me not to do it every time.
It wasn't until much later I realized being raised in a protective way was harmful to my development.
But I they aren't the brightest people so I don't blame them. They did the best they could. But I would've done it differently.

>>3753105
Didn't happen to me. But whenever I ate shit, the chip on my shoulder grew bigger. Life isn't perfect, but I'm a millionaire now. Sounds like a larp, I know. But I'm not larping. Time heals. You won't forgive, but you won't care as much either.

>>3753105
>ate the shittiest food
>always wore shitty clothes that never fit me
I know that feel anon. Crypto is your chance to break the /poorfag/ cycle of your lineage. Good luck.

>>3753105
The only reason you didn't consider yourselves poor was because your parents never have spent any money.

>>3753552
>>3753566
>>3753569
I'll never get my childhood back Bros... never...

>>3753144
>tfw undernourished as a kid and now 5'4" manlet
Well at least I'm not skinnyfat or skinny or fat

>Dad stole $10000 in savings bonds from extended family, cashed them premature and spent on drugs

>Was morbidly obese as my parents never made food, only bought pizza rolls for me

>Parents never took interest in my grades, always made sure to scold me if I did poorly, never bothered to even tell me "good job" otherwise

>Never showed up to my band recitals for school

>Gave my younger sister a phone before me, gave her a car to do nothing in while I struggled with a 1 hour commute to a school 10 minutes away by car

>Dad spent college fund on mid life crisis vehicle ($12k my mom saved)

>Tried to kill me with a katana when I was 12, as well as a large knife when I was 14

>Ignored physical ailments that resulted in years of pain for me, now suffer from limitations every day in my legs

>Refused to give me $1000 to put into Bitcoin at $10/Btc, although my dad technically owed me a lot of money

>Refused to pay for any gym memberships or anything

>Constantly gave me shit, abused my mother and kept me up during college at all times of night screaming and beating my mom


My mother was no angel though - she's honestly a fucking moron but if I become very wealthy maybe I can have a nice relationship with her.

I found a way to go to the gym for free by lying to the administration, I also learned martial arts for free from a really cool old guy, and ate only tuna fish and beans for months.

Eventuallt I beat the living FUCK out of my father multiple times, my mom wound up cheating on him with his "best friend" (i didnt really care at this point but I understand his anger and possible abuses) , he leased a $40000 car and smashed it into a wall drunk, and then killed himself.


Only thing I wish I could change? When he attacked me with a knife while inebriated when I was 14, I should have killed him. Instead I grabbed the knife threw it and ran out of the house. If I killed him I surely would have been acquitted, and living a better life.

>>3753653
Oh my.

>>3753653
wew

>>3753105
Nope, foreskin is full intact

Leave your house, get rich investing in shitcoins and then hire a hitman to put cat poop in their food, watch suffer the disease, post their SS numbers on r/hapas, make them beg you for money and act poor and pathetic, letting them know that when they die they will just leave a pathetic excuse of a man while in reality you are doing ok

>>3753653
your mother enabled everything that happened and your sister got so much love and care cause your mother favors her more. don't get duped by your mother being a snake in the background. there's no way your sister got a car and all that shit without your mother helping or making it happen

>>3753712
>hire a hitman to put cat poop in their food

this made me laugh so fucking hard....

>>3753653
Christ m8

You are a real survivor damn

>>3753653
Honestly this really doesn't even sound that bad

>>3753735
Hitmans dont just kill people dude, they are like prostitutes, they will do ANYTHING for money, hell you can hire a hitman to wait for your stupid iphone preorder or you can make the go hunt a deer for you, make them wash you car, whatever they dont give a shit for sure, the magic of bitcoin

>>3753731
Think it was more of her being abused. As a baby we had a very close relationship. She was abused into submission and used my fathers' friend as her exit plan. i do think she's an idiot though. A real moron who has made poor decisions directly seen via the marriage

>have a bipolar father
>don't call him dad, daddy or father ever
>manic/depression fits of my dad filling every single memory of my childhood
>dad tried hard to show affection
>failed miserably every time by stealing my coins and spending it on alcohol
>mother never mustered up the courage to leave him
>in and out of mental institutions visiting my father as I was growing up
>grow up, move away to Scotland from Eastern Europe
>living my own life away from those people
>dad has a fit again
>all property is under his name
>thinking of going back for 4 days to ask him to sign everything on my name
>if refused, will never go back home

Such is life.

>>3753789
You do this enough with a hitman and eventually he will just become your badass butler. Just be careful, cause you know what they say about butlers.

>>3753843
autism

>>3753859
I have no come back for this, shit

>driving lessons
nigga just turn the wheel

>>3753653
fuck off to reddit

>>3753564

Are you me

>>3753653
>Ignored physical ailments that resulted in years of pain for me, now suffer from limitations every day in my legs
tfw when you know this feel all too well. Chronic pain from scoliosis and related issues here.

>>3753907
Fuck you faggot. Ignore the post if it bothers you, and by the way, I learned to drive using youtube videos and passed the driving test my first time after forging signatures from fake people to meet the minimum practice hours in order to take the test. I never was behind the wheel of a vehicle before that day. Suck my fucking dick.

>>3753817
Stealing coins? What do you mean? Sounds like a relatively mild situation from my perspective, but I'm sure it's a hurtful situation. Have you ever thought about duping your father into signing one of the properties to your name? You don't even have to live there. Wait for him to go crazy, get him to sign a property to you and sell it, take the money and move away permanently. Anyway, at least you're able to live independently dude, I'd fucking kill for an apartment even. Anything to get away from these morons.

>>3753927
i feel u son, the pain is terrible

>>3753883

It's over then, our fight ends here.

Surrender your coins and the hand of your first daughter

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>>3753972
Yeah, it was shit growing up, I could never understand how come everyone had a decent family. What I meant by coins was I used to put some money into a piggy bank, you know, as a kid, he'd fucking steal from that. It's fucking comical looking back, but it fucks with you for life.

Yeah, I do live independently enough, but it seems like if I don't take action now, I won't be able to get what I was supposed to inherit.

It's nothing compared to what you survived though, or what other people go through. Yet, it requires tough actions nevertheless...

>ate at 5 star restaurants all the time.
>mom bought me a brand new BMW coupe when I was 17.
>Always wore nice clothes like brooks brothers ect.
>paid for my car and expenes.
>paid for my uni and all uni related expenses.
>tought me how to budget, save, and handle money.

Feels good having wealthy non-jewed parents. I now own 300k worth of BTC and I'm planning on buying my 3rd apartment in cash soon.

>>3753122
faggot

your parents are selfish pleasure seekers. They birthed you so they could call themselves parents and feel satisfied with life. They love you because of brain chemistry, like how a polar bear protects their young

bringing you into this shit world was a mistake. it would be better to have never been born. Dont make the same mistake they did

>>3753564

Overprotective-ness is imo a very bad thing to do, regardless of intention. Kids won't be kids forever- they're future adults.

Slightly off topic: I used to think my parents just "loves" their children when bring overprotective, but now that I'm older I think they're just trying to compensate for the general failures they've made in life - having a mildly brainwashed kid listening to everything they say is the one last thing that gives them a sense of control/ power/ fulfillment.

That said I still appreciate everything they've done for me, but I will do it very differently if I do have kids.

I think you're adopted, anon

>>3754047
>Brooks brothers
>Bmw coupe
>Too stupid for schollarships
>"Look honey you save money by buying poorfag shit that looks fancy, thats how i got you dad to cum inside me with his 65 year old cock when i was 20, that way you dont have to get a career or work, oh wait you are male"

5 star restaurants are not necessarily expensive, i ate at a restaurant with two michelin stars in denmark and i just paid 50 bucks for a dinner for 2

Sasuga low-high-mid class shitters

>>3754047
How'd you end up in a place like this?

>>3753122
christfag detected

>>3753105
>Dad was moderately wealthy
>Didn't like spending money on the family at all
>"I earned the money, get your own."

>>3754209
>produces an offspring
>tell them to fuck themselves

Explain this to me, biz.

>there was a huge class trip to italy,france and spain in our final year of high school and 70% of the kids in my school went and had a blast , i sat at home and cried like a little bitch because my best friend went and the class wanted me to go to and even offered to go to the principal and ask him if i can go for free since there were like 7-10 free trips provided by the agency (400 euros for the trip), instead i let my pride get in the way and drank myself to sleep after watching their snapchat stories.

>>3753105
>waa waa my parents didnt spoil me
>but somehow i still think like an entitled baby brat
Your parents should have made you do more chores and made you work harder. You're a spoiled brat. You're over 20 and crying about your parents like a baby? ridiculous.

>>3753653
Whew.

>>3754327
https://youtu.be/y3sIYVKR-eU
;.;

>>3754345
Fucking boomer.

Basic life experiences in your childhood that your parents can obviously afford is not spoiling.

>>3754327
Dumbass

>>3754345
What makes OP spoiled? I don't get this whole "you think like a spoiled child" argument. His parents failed to provide the most basic of comforts taken for granted in the western hemisphere. Yeah, I know it's not Africa and cleaning your room helps, but how does that make any sense at all in your mind?

>>3753105
Keep being a victim of your circumstances and you're guaranteed to be a fucking loser. I get it, you may not have had the best life thus far...but that doesn't negate the fact that you could still do something with your life. You're in control of it.

>>3753122
this

you were probably a brat
feel lucky that they decided to have a kid at all

my parents were alcoholics and never put a dime into a college fund or got me a car and i couldnt afford to go on field trips and i had to eat generic food until recently when i got my own job and started actually doing shit for myself instead of complaining about my circumstances, there are literally billions of people would do anything to have your life and you're whining about it

>>3753147
>you're a cuck if you don't think you deserve shit without effort


FYI: for anyone who actually believes this shit you could have a million less things in life and a million more, don't be annoyed cause your parents weren't retarded enough to waste their finances on an ungrateful idiot like you

>>3754436
Fucking normie

>>3754459
This is such cuckhold syndrome.
>My parents were abusive and treated me like shit... but at least I wasn't molested every day as a child and also born in subsaharan Africa!

>>3754140
Hello poorfag with 100k worth of debt.

>>3754167
Because It's funny to watch the poorfags shill shit coins that will be worthless in a few months.

>>3753105
they were teaching you to be self reliant. You want something in life you have to work for it. That kind of parenting makes men.

That being said, it's very tough to really get somewhere in life without money to start out with. People do it, but you have to have discipline at an early age to save up enough to really be able to do something later. For that reason I think making your kids work for everything they have until about the age of 30 works and then use the money to help them start a business or downpayment a house or something. I feel that this way they appreciate the difficulty in earning money and value it more. Until around that point most people just blow money on stupid shit they don't really need or just end up throwing away.

>>3753105
aawwww poor baby.

I grew up with hand me down cloths and holes in my payless shoes.
My father literally stole bikes just so I had a bike to ride.
I had to get a job at 13 delivering papers so I could get me some nice things.
Never had any video games and didnt have cable tv.
I had to adjust the antenna and turn the channels because we couldnt afford a tv with a remote.
My parents were house poor and worked their asses off to keep a roof over our heads and food on the table.

Now kys you ungrateful little fucking faggot

>>3754960
>My father literally stole bikes

i thought black fathers didn't stick around? what is this paradoxical shit?

>>3754960
>someone has it worse therefore your experiences dont matter

This is literally retarded I hope you're trolling

>>3755008
Yes, the experiences of spoiled, self-entitled losers don't fucking matter. Even if these people were born in a rich family, they would still complain.

>>3755087
you're a FUCKING retard. We're not talking about being poor in a rich or poor family. We're talking about parents who certainly make more than enough money and yet spend none of it on their children.

Obviously it's understandable if your parents are just poor but if combined they make $150k+ and yet they can't toss you a bone by helping you buy a car(at least some of it, no ones saying a fully paid corvette) or helping with college then that's fucked up.

It's idiotic to make a kid ineligible for financial aid with their income and yet not help either.

>>3754370
>Basic life experiences

>>3755123
>We're talking about parents who certainly make more than enough money and yet spend none of it on their children.
No you aren't

>>3755163
That was LITERALLY the OP post as well as multiple other peoples.

Obviously if your parents are broke then that sucks but not much you can do, but having the means yet denying it to your children is an exceptional level of sadism.

>>3755179
No it wasn't

>>3755183
>It's not like they're even poor they just hate me

Is that part of OP only showing up on my screen or something?

>>3755204
Not being abjectly poor doesn't mean you can pay for someone else to go to college.

>>3755231
Obviously the implication is that they have enough money to help out to at least some extent.

>>3753105
Wanted to join Cubscouts and baseball team as a kid. Parents said membership too expensive. Feels batman

>>3755244
Or that the people complaining are narcissistic ingrates

>>3754760
lol dude schollarship not asking for money to a jew lol or my parents

100% schollarship

I wish my parents forced me to learn piano and do sports.
I would have hated them for it but now im a retard that sits at home and play vidya all day

>>3755580
sounds like you're old enough to get off your ass and pursue it on your own, but immature enough to blame others for your laziness.

>>3755265

You could have been an alpha male chad MLB player

Your parents stopped you from being the next Jeter

>>3755580
you still can faggot

Yes.
>mom used my info to open credit cards
>ran up $10k in debt on stupid shit like weight watchers and gym memberships she never used
>I didn't even know this till I got mail for it
>decided to challenge it
>happen to mention it to my parents
>later she approaches me in private and says that its there because she took it out
>begs me not to let my dad know
Fucked up my credit for years but she did at least try to make it right by paying it down, still fucked me when I needed to do a lease.

>>3753653
>anons on /biz/ contemplate what would have happened if they had just killed their shithead parents
This is why I come here. That and to lose money.

My parents had money for beer , smokes , and booze everyday but I ate nothing but chips and kraft dinner until I was 19 and got a job. 20 years later I'm back to eating chips and kraft dinner fml

>>3753105

I had shitty parents too op. Last year I pulled in 310k. After tax. At age 30. I also didn't complete high school, or go to college. Oh, and I spent most of that year working in a supermarket.

You can be glass half empty or half full. My parents didn't give me resources, but that just made it all the more important for me to be resourceful. I don't envy rich kids, shit, take away the resources & leg ups most of them have and they wouldn't be able to rebuild it in a lifetime.

I made my first huge trade (250k profit) when I was 60k in debt, working a dead end job, life going nowhere. You can always turn it around anon, but until you forgive and let go (forgive doesn't mean let them come back and fuck up your life btw, healthy boundaries are key), all you are doing is taking your power to change things & projecting it onto them. You're only hurtingvyourself by holding onto the shitty emotions, express them (not send them, express, into a pillow or scream or cry or whatever), then move on. Until you call your power back & take responsibility for your life, you can't go anywhere.

>>3753105

>Don't even contribute a dollar towards university

WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU STUPID FUCKING AMERICANS

THIS MAKES ME SO FUCKING ANGRY AAAAAA

WHY THE FUCK DO YOU BOTHER HAVING A CHILD IF YOU DON'T EVEN WANT TO HELP THEM DO WELL. THEY CAN GET A GOOD JOB WITH UNIVERSITY AND PAY YOU BACK.

Seriously just fucking kill yourselves along with your Cheeto president. Why the FUCK do so many American parents do this. In other countries, parents pour all their money into their child's education.

I feel bad for you.

>>3757250
Do not question American retardation. You will never understand.

>>3753653
This sounds like an extremely interesting life anon. Please tell us more.

>>3755008
This. By his own logic, he should stop whining because retard chimp kids in Africa literally have to eat dirt to survive.