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Cash out

>>30309878
explan how money has anything to do with mental health.

>>30309878
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy + just give out random compliments on the street and make small talk with cashiers.

>>30309878
Literally me.

raise androgens

>>30309878
I would say benzos but they ruined my life. I had sex because they work, but they set me way back mentally/emotionally and ruined me financially. But that's just because I am an addict and have no self control.

Stop being such a pathetic submissive sissy scared sleazy weakling and become real man

>>30310075
I'd love to. Now tell me how.

>>30309878
Drink booze but not too much, hemb cbd oil and take adderall 10mg in the mornings.

>>30309878
Give me your crypto.
Congratulations, you are no longer a multimillionaire.

>>30310107
I don't help niggers

>>30309936
this

>>30309878
Therapy and anti-depressants

>>30309878
You're probably larping but I kinda was in a similar situation although not a millionaire but basically I ended up with a work from home job and had more money than my friends and still had a bunch of issues I needed to work out. What did I do? I started going on trips to foreign countries and would eat a weed edible right before I left and then would take them pretty much non-stop during the whole trip. Since I was somewhere (various Latin American countries) where no one knew me and I was a foreigner anyway I would just wander around out in public and also I would try to only speak in spanish, which I was already learning. I made an ass out of myself so many times that I swear it started to change the way my brain works and now I have way less anxiety on average. Warning: may not be for everyone.

>>30310107
go fishin boy
climb a mountain
wrestle a bear
bang some thai prostitutes

>>30309878
go for multi billionaire

>>30310107

LSD helped me synthesize a foundation and security in my identity and most of my social anxiety is gone. I've done it maybe 30 times in the last five years, but the biggest benefits come from the first trips

Drugs

I'd start by not LARPing and getting real help

>>30309878
stop this stupid ass larps. all people have to do in these gay ass scenarios is go to a decent psychologist. that's it. that's literally it.

>>30309936
>>30310149
Already did. I have no interests. I have no hobbies. I don't like to travel. I can play video games essentially for free. House is paid for. Only expenses is food. Large portion is now invested in the stock market. Could probably live on $20k/year easily. Would only need to earn 1% each year to keep that going.

But I'll never know love. And I'll never have friends. All thanks for this crippling anxiety.

>>30309878
Pay money to avoid people.

>>30309878
>have enough money to never interact with another human again
>anxious about interacting with another human
You ain't a multi-millionaire you lying nigger. You barely have the intelligence to rub two sticks together.

Yo bro in what coins did you invest in? How did you manage to become a millionaire?

Btw these anxieties go away with time, but you have to do your part to make it better little by little

>>30309878
Go outside leave the phone at home.
Bring reasonable amount of cash 50-100 bucks.
Take a walk to some random part of town and find a pub where grownups hang. Like 30+ 50+ age, be human, play pool have fun. You will survive. If you fuck up or shit get awkward for some reason. Have a laugh noone cares.

>>30309878
Take a bunch of shrooms or LSD, lay down with some relaxing music and reflect deeply on why you're afraid to make connections with people.

>>30310358
I could easily never have another social interaction with someone again. But I want to form connections with people. I just don't know how.

>>30310305

Let me invest in for you in promising real estate bro, and I’ll make sure to help you spread your wings as well.

You’re too rich to be this cranky

Use your money to pay for professional help. Psychology is not entirely a meme, for example in 2020 I have made a lot of progress with my mental issues by reading a lot of books about chronic childhood feelings of shame that have remained with me as an adult and were seriously affecting my life. Working through these feelings really felt like a dark cloud left my brain over time.

>>30310436
>I could easily never have another social interaction with someone again.
Your brain starts deteriorating without social contact anon, this is why anxiety can be crippling.

>>30310397
BTC in 2013 > flipped to ETH in 2017 > flipped to LINK in 2019. Sold most of my LINK and went to stocks/bonds since it's been crabbing for forever.

>>30309878
sounds like you can finally afford therapy

Try to get a restaurant job like a server or door server. Youll have to talk to people and you'll get a lot of practice. Can quit whenever you want but itll help you meet and talk to strangers.

>>30309878
I'LL BE YOUR UNCONDITIONAL QT GF FOR JUST 200K/YEAR

>>30309878
Soo Anon
I‘ve been there
I mean... the anxiety part, unfortunately not the multi millionaire part kek
Here‘s what you gotta do
First: Realize that your lifetime is limited and you WILL die one day. Tell this to yourself everyday, you WILL die eventually and it might happen tomorrow
Live accordingly
When you wake up in the morning tell yourself that this could be your last day and all the anxiety you might feel will be irrelevant, that other people’s opinions will be irrelevant
Get some routines, make sport. I repeat, sport is fucking essential! Get a feel of your body, sport helps you to get fit and ripped and you will become more conscious of your body and of your mind
Eat good and do your best to live a good life, it will boost your self consciousness
Tell yourself you will die and no opinion about you will ever count but your own
Live up to your full potential
If you really are a multi millionaire, get yourself a nice house, some stuff that fulfills you, learn new things, be more curious, travel the world, fuck bitches and enjoy your liberty
One last thing:
You don’t have a shit to lose in this world but the time you didn’t get out and lived
Because in the end, nothing matters and you WILL die some day
Good luck anon

>>30310066
Hey man, I believe in you. You can definitely turn your life around. Go get em.

>>30310305
Find more hobbies that you enjoy. Anything artistic or collecting is a good start. You could donate your time to charities and see if that's fulfilling. Build your own house innawoods and set up for the inevitable global crash though getting closer to nature is likely good for you in any respect. Go fishing on a lake for a day.
Or you could challenge mode this shit, give it up and start over.

>>30309878
Pay me to coach you

>>30310305
OP, here is what I did when I made it;
I paid for private piano lessons, and private french lessons, they would come to my house and teach me, and then I paid for a therapist so I had someone to help me out mentally.

All three of them were women by the way, 8/10s, all blonde

When covid ends go to a rave and take mdma

I wish I could make it but I only got into crypto back in Dec and despite getting into GRT and ADA VERY EARLY, I was still poor so I only had 7k to invest and at the peak bullrun I was at 15k on my portfolio

I just want to make it so that I can buy my mum a house. She saved my life

>>30310305
Give me money to me. Hell just 100k would be nice. I'm a26 year old kissless virgin with no degree and 70k in BTC, bit at least I have people who care about me and hobbies. You are a sad sack of shit. You are right, if 7 figures can't fix your life nothing will.

>>30310418
Baby steps. Start by forcing yourself to go for walks everyday. Then on your walks to make eye brief eye contact with strangers. Then smile and make eye contact. Next say hello smile and make eye contact. Next start going to coffee shops after your walk. Even asked what you want, smile say hello and manner eye contact and order. After a few weeks after you order sit down near someone who is alone. While sitting down smile say hello to the person and just read a book. After a you can do that add having actual conversation with the people you have been saying hello to for the past month. Interduce yourself, ask what there reading etc

>>30309878
honestly OP, the best cure for anxiety is by doing good for others around you, provide positive value for as many people u can in your life, since u got the dough u can do this, like a homeless shelter or charity, local events, helping with the pandemic locally, IT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER and make you better person along the way, hope this helps

>>30311036
This.

>>30310436
VRChat

>>30310305
Dude you got it fricking made then! Take some.of the another anons advise and get some realestate rental properties in your portfolio to get some more passive income. As far as the social anxiety thing start working out more, meditating, and most importantly for your quality of day to day life get a proper nights sleep. When you do this youll have more energy and vigor in your life you can start trying to learn some skills as hobbies maybe check out some /diy/ kinda stuff and get yourself some tools. Start taking workout classes for something like martial arts or even yoga itll help ya meet people and get over the social awkwardness.

>>30310305
I assume you've tried all the normie memes like
>exercise
>diet
>therapy
>exposure therapy
>meditation

If so and they didn't work, you probably just need some valium to chill the fuck out in social situations bro. But it's not a 'cure' and you have to be careful to not become addicted.

>>30311036
What a cuck. You're never going to make it with that mentality.

>>30311036
Just make sure to never talk about your money or that your retired. You'll could lose it all to leeches if you have no social skills and make fake friends

>>30309878
download this book on libgen.is. do the exercises. self-knowledge is the only way. knowledge of the truth.

>>30310040
How?

>>30311164
If he has social anxiety rental properties might destroy him. How's he going to kick out a bad tennant or even fire a bad property management company? I guess he could do REITs

>>30311017
As someone who is in pretty much the exact same spot as OP, I can kinda attest to this. Even though I'm far from fixed and might not be in much of a position to give advice, I've made massive improvements these past few years by taking baby steps. Most of the suggestions in this thread are bad because it's just coming from people who don't understand how social anxiety works. "Just go to a therapist" isn't a solution when the act of leaving your home and seeking out a therapist is absolutely terrifying, let alone opening up to one and telling them your issues.

>>30311220
This. You can do good. Just don't be a charity case bitch who gets taken advantage of.

@OP: Meditate 30 mins a day, work out everyday, learn about psychology and spirituality, learn about psychedelics and how to use them to grow, use psychedelics for your personal growth. Did it for me

>>30309948
>explan how money has anything to do with mental health.
Fucking based.

>>30311298
That's why some people need meds. It helps them talk to their therapist and progress in life in general. If nothing else is working, then might as well try. Whatever it takes to become fully functional.

>>30311212
lemme gues u a depreressed retard whos not really liked or loved by the people around you and get on here to cope?

>>30309878
I kinda know where you come from. I also "made it" but still have extreme social anxiety.

I can recommend Venlafaxine if you don't care about your sexuality too much. I took it for three years and I was a different person. Ultimately got off it, but it showed me how the world can be without social anxiety.

Currently on Pregabalin, which lost a bit of its magic, but is still pretty great and has no side effects for me.

Also: therapy helps. Jogging helps. Don't believe there's a shortcut, but working on it helps as well.

Good luck, fren :)

>>30311220
low key this is facts as well

>>30309878
>>30309995
>>30310107
PHENIBUT

>>30310165
unironically this
t. zoloft cured my social anxiety almost 10 years ago and changed me from an asocial, socially maladjusted sperg incel into a completely better person in every single way. I’ll get called a kike pharmashill but it unironically saved my life

>>30311724
Nah that shit almost ruined my life and cost me my sanity for the moment

>>30311297
It will force him to have interactions. A slight impersonal relationship will give him a bit of exposure. He only has to talk with them once a month so its not like jumping into the deep end.

>>30311212
>What a cuck. You're never going to make it with that mentality.
I think that most people with social anxiety tend to be sensitive and care about others generally (it is in my case, have had severe social anxiety). Is it possible to not care about others but have social anxiety? What would that even be like?

>>30309878
>>30311765
i went on zoloft and frankly didn't even feel anything. was on wellbutrin for a more "up," which was better, but frankly the things which worked the best is just CBT and vyvanse (which isn't even for anxiety but gave me the energy to give a shit. low dose, 20mg).

Kek at all of these tourists giving this faggot so many (you)s. If this guy is for real and has millions but is still a loser then he's doomed forever and will not take any advice from this thread

>>30311902
>doubles down on the fagtalk
anon grow a pair of nuts and stop acting like such a soft naive faggot
go lift some weights or something

>>30309878
no proof
larp
op networth 10$ from sucking cock

>>30311853
I understand that but he needs to have basic social skills first before attempting to do it. It should definitely be a goal but not now way to early. He has no experience judging good people from bad or in confrontation. In a year or so of working on himself (has some friends, talks to people everyday, etc) then maybe

>>30311824
literally how
i've taken it every day for 5 years no issues. just dont go full retard with 10g dosages. cut back for tolerance every now and then.

>>30312054
this is terrible lukwarm fencesitting advice
you sound like a mediocre faggot
lift weights, eat well and yolo into random bars and get good you stupid whiny faggots

For me it's an absurd level of self-awareness of every little miniscule detail in social interactions that produce extremely crippling, and I mean literally crippling anxiety.
When I interact with someone I always overanalyze that interaction to the smallest possible thing afterwards, small talk is almost impossible to me because of it. I am aware of the speed I am talking, the posture I am holding, the tone I am expressing, the eye contact I am holding, the body language I am expressing, my brain is literally working in overdrive 110% every single time and as soon as I do something "wrong" in any of these things I feel like I did something terribly wrong. And later I deconstruct that same interaction for weeks and months to no end.

I want to erase that, to just be able not to think about any of that and not act manually. To be able to just talk about the weather or something like that without thinking much about it.

It's basically like every social interaction is like a conversation in a RPG game, but instead of 3 possible answers there's 3 million possible answers and if I don't pick the right one in an instant I'll die right there on the spot.
How do I fix myself

>>30312087
>i've taken it every day for 5 years no issues
you are now aware you give off pathetic vibes to every capable, intelligent, handsome person around you

>>30311036
this is what I'm personally going to do.

Op , if you want we can join forces. also I can introduce you to one of my gf's

>>30312184
>How do I fix myself
lift weights, drink only water, and eat healthy food
get enough sleep
life is not hard, retard

>>30309948
Imagine pretending that having the massive stressors of modern day life taken away will have no effect on mental health.

Get a job? No bullshit the forced social interaction will develop you and if you really hate it just quit lol

>>30312202
kek even if so i gave off those vibes tenfold before phenibut
but nobody has any idea i take anything.

>>30312255
Jesus christ quit shitting up the thread with your “advice” if you can even call it that. Wouldnt doubt you are a literal nigger.

>>30312375
>but nobody has any idea i take anything.
yes, they do
you're just too much of a sperg to realize it

>>30312255
>lift weights, drink only water, and eat healthy food, get enough sleep
I do all of those things regularly, almost religiously. if anything I should let loose, not focus even more on that

>>30312409
no you're right better stick to shortcuts like pharma pills, you stupid ugly midwitted faggot

>>30312184
Give up on perfectionism when interacting with other people.
You are projecting your own thoughts on them.
The truth is they don't care and don't even think about it.
All they want is the opportunity to talk about their life.
Just ask them a question about their daily life and make them talk, and show that you care and remember.
They will smile when they see you again and be happy to see you.

>>30312015
Can't you go somewhere else to be an idiot?

>>30312481
Very good advice

>>30312015
Cringe. Also i do lift weights (doesnt help as much as it used too, but still do it). Some people are just different bro. If you dont care about people, helping others wont necessarily do anything, same as if youre overly sensitive, doing traditionally manly things wont necessarily help you either etc. Cant run from who you are at the end of the day.

>>30312481
>The truth is they don't care and don't even think about it.
wrong
you're being judged, and you're failing
not everyone is as mediocre as you, normie

>>30312419
no, they really dont
have you taken phenibut before? it's not intoxicating outside ridiculous doses. nobody suspects anything, because there is nothing to suspect.
i've actually made friends and gotten laid for the first time in my life so must be doing something right.

>>30312463
Project much? I can see you are a clear moron likely non-white.

>>30312539
thanks for the livejournal entry retard

>>30312463
All of your advice is the definition of midwit. The most normie-tier advice that everyone with 2 brain cells to rub together already knows about.

>>30312564
I'm handsome anon I dont have to do anything but show up

>>30310295
>>30309985
>>30310548
>>30310588
Therapy does nothing.

>>30311636
No, yes, no

>>30312663
I have a strong feeling youre actually the biggest sperg in this thread

>>30312606
Hey, you do you boo :) wagmi.

>>30312564
Do you need a doctor, i hate talking on the phone and would likely need to, to even get a prescription. I also have addisons disease which fucks up a lot of my shit part of me thinks thats why im in this state constantly. Only thing that helps is alcohol but my tolerance is high for most things.

>>30312719
yeah and I'm cute too

>>30312663
this only works in non autistic societies

>>30312663
You're an insecure midwit.

>>30312754
am I, anon?

>>30312481
I know that they don't care and probably forget about that (non) interaction the moment it is over, but me being aware of that fact doesn't help me not being beyond filled with anxiety regardless.
>Just ask them a question about their daily life and make them talk
I do exactly that and every single next question is like needing to find the right answer in a death sentence and then also every millisecond of silence in the interaction is like an entire year in my head.

It's like I'm in constant fight or flight mode for the smallest things possible

>>30310305
Let me crash bro I'll help you get laid :)

>>30309878

Obviously pay for someone who is even more awkward than you are to go places with you so you seem normal.

How did you get rich dumb fuck?

Easy fix, OP, but you have to be willing to hang around dirt poor people and get to know them, go to graveyards, hospitals and mental institutes and visit the interred, dead, and patients there. You'll be so glad for what you have, you won't be socially anxious or depressed, you'll just want to spend every minute you have living life and maybe doing some good for someone else with all your crypto millions. Just a suggestion

daily meditation and by weekly doses of psychedelics until you get at the root of your fear and anxiety.

>>30309878
do shrooms every few months

>>30309985
No one likes when you do this, stop.

>>30309878
Op just rest comfortably knowing that no one great liked being around other people. Now let the midwits seethe when confronted with the truth.

>>30312731
sorry about your condition anon. no, it doesn't need a prescription. you can just buy it online like any supplement, depending on your country. phenibut feels a little like alcohol but without the drunkenness, if that makes sense. lowers your anxiety and inhibition but you're still in control.

>>30310305
>Could probably live on $20k/year easily. Would only need to earn 1% each year to keep that going.
>multi-millionaire
doesn't add up

>>30309948
Embarrassing. Kill yourself.

>>30309985
Meds was the only thing that helped me.
If i stop takung them i revert to square one. Therapy doesn't help much.

>>30312797
Clearly

>>30309878
i haven't read any response in this thread but fuck them all. follow these steps.

>temporarily move to somewhere no one knows you
>approach random people in the street and try to talk to them
>go to bars and try to start conversations with strangers, men and women
>you'll get rejected again and again, time after time
>people will look at you weird or call you a freak
>keep fucking doing it
>put your hand into the fire again and again and again
>eventually you'll realize that the fire doesn't actually hurt
>these people don't fucking matter
>you'll never see them again and even if you do their opinion means nothing
>rejection is nothing
>judgement is nothing
>the thoughts of other people have zero impact on who you are as a person
>live the rest of your life however you want, because you're now immune to judgement

reading it isn't the same as experiencing it. you can afford to set up shot in a town then bail a month or two later. keep doing this until you actually feel it; the thoughts of other people don't fucking matter to you.

>>30312962
$20k is 1% of $2million. I guess that's "multi"

>>30312901
Ill give it a try. Thanks anon. I know there is no shortcuts but the being the constant nervous wreck takes its toll and i just need something to try, add the fact my cortisol levels are haywire constantly im depressed as well most of the time. Tbh though the social anxiety is probsbly natural for most of us, its a sign of intelligence. You see most people are like npcs to us, so its hard to find someone with the same thinking and understanding. Maybe they lack intelligence? Only founda few people ive got along with and most were similar to me, largley anti social, negative outlook on most others, etc. Idk really maybe just most people are stupid and we cant associate with stupid people?

>>30309878
I’ll cure you if it for .5 BTC.

>>30310305
Have sex

>>30312822
The question you should ask yourself is why do you fear their judgement to this extent?
Is it because you are looking for acceptance and love, that you didn't get from your parents?
You need to realize that the only person who can give you unlimited love and acceptance is you yourself and no one else.
Change your perspective. You don't need to be loved and accepted by others to be happy.
All that really matters for you to be happy is to accept your existence, and that expressing your desires and making mistakes is the most beautiful form of love you can have.
Making mistakes is the proof that you are alive and learning something new.
Don't fear it. Be happy that you still have something left to learn.
This is the proof of your existence and that you are alive.

>>30313050
>approach random ppl
>try to start conversations
>people will look at you weird
Maybe your on to something but sounds like reality already lol

>>30313050
You can get this result with image training.
Imagine your greatest fears to find out they are not so frightening.

>>30309878
It's ok there people with less and the same amount of social anxiety. Money makes everything look a little better.

>>30313411
most of the time people are looking at you weird because you're nervous. you freeze up and say the first thing that comes to mind, whatever it is. talking to your buddies is infinitely easier than talking to strangers because you don't fear judgement from your friends, not for the stuff you say in casual conversation at least. the first step is being able to relax and be yourself no matter what situation you're in. getting over the fear of rejection and judgement is the key to that.

>>30309878
Lift and fuck some fat girls

>>30309878
you need to realize normies are fucking gay and retarded.

I just act like myself no matter what the situation
normies seem to be receptive to it
have you tried not giving a solitary fuck OP
thats how you win
stop
fucking
giving
a
shit

>>30313693
>fuck some fat girls
But not too many. It'll make you complacent and you'll have a hard time getting with non-fatties.

>>30313487
true, but it's more effective in real life. they use this therapy for kids with stammers too, talking to people on the street (accompanied by their parents) helps them get over their general fear of speaking. sticking your hand in a box of harmless spiders over and over will cure you of your fear of them better than watching 1000 spider videos or whatever,

>>30313377
That's a nice way to put it, but I have to somehow turn those words into the fiber of my being and that's the entire problem. Just like I'm aware that other people don't care, yet I still feel this much crippled out there
I've read probably every possible perspective and tactic there is, the problem is making that my own perspective which doesn't seem to happen no matter how much exposure I put myself through or "faking it till I make it"

But I am trying, wouldn't be writing this if I didn't, thank you for your thoughts anon.

>>30313377
fukkin checked, but didn't read all that shit

>>30313377
who have the link to molymeme talking about being adrift in the ocean and childhood
nevermind i found it

here you go niggers
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vg_LhroXWJ4

I'll be your friend for 3k a month, and i'll even live with you in your mansion

>>30310305
Pay me $25/hr for exposure therapy sessions and I'll get you to socialize like a normie.

t. Therapist

My name? -oh, let me tell you my name, uh, I’m confused, because, uh, you know, like we’re supposed to believe in the ministry, right? So is, is the church and state supposed to be separate? I’m confused because I never went to school, right? Is a confused person get a resolution? I don’t understand. You see, when you go like that, right, you have a cross, two sticks, right? And that’s how I felt, when I was in Waterloo, ‘cause when I walked in Waterloo, and smiled at people, they treated me like a vampire. They used the cross, and they went like this, by not smiling at me. In Toronto -Hey hi guys, you know me, Steve Spearos, easy going? Those who know me, I’m a nobody, you understand? And you can’t kill a person with no body. So, why am I afraid? I’m not afraid. I’m afraid of the boogeyman, who’s the boogeyman? YOU figure it out. I’m getting out of here. I’m going back to Waterloo, where the vampires hangout. And I’m gonna wear my sunglasses at night, you know why? Because women show their tits, have short skirts, and then they feel violated when I look at them (makes binoculars with hands) Why? because I have sunglasses on, and I’m weird. uh, I’m from Humberside I’m sorry if, uh, I made a fool of humberside, but, all those people, who called me a sleepwalker, I woke up, Now I’m going back to sleep, because I’m going to be committed in a isolation room, because I’m gonna go back to the ministry, and allow them to perceive me, as I am; A fuck-up! Get back! Hey Toronto the good, Look at- look at this square, It was a shithole when I worked here, now it looks like New York/Manhattan, where are the bums? There’s no bums here, Toronto doesn’t have bums, But Waterloo, they’re creating bums, they created me! Why? I don’t know, maybe it’s the church. Talk to the pope, he knows everything! I’ve had it! I’m gonna die. How can you die, when you’re dead! oh, wait a second, I’m gonna be crucified right? (Tears open shirt) I’m not gonna raise my voice.

>>30310842

Did you specifically look for good looking women for this? This is something I want to do when I make it.

>>30311765
Do you still take it?

>>30310585

The real deal... solid bro.

It is clear from your posts that you seem to like video games. Gaming is also a hobby and you can connect with people that way. So just play and go interact with people ingame. You can also go to gaming events and meet people that also like games in real life once corona is gone and you can interact with them, because you all like games, so why not.

As for your anxiety, there are loads of ways to get right of that. Just try a few and see what works for you. I think meditation and buddhism will work.

And love op, love is some weird obsession for a girl. It can be nice if it all works out, but there are a lot of times it doesnt work out at all, so love can also be a big dissapointment. Most people do not find love and all works out fine, only a few. Couples are usually formed based on lust, greed and wanting security and/or offspring.

>>30310994
Fuck off 70k and you want more? Greedy fucking people here.

>>30309878
Realize the world is your bitch full of peasants that are beneath you.

>>30310842
Did you smash?

>>30309878
i know how to solve this, had it worse than you for over 12 years. wouldnt even leave the room. tried a million things nothing worked till i did one thing that worked. my suffering isnt free though, lmk.

>>30309985
>give out random compliments on the street and make small talk with cashiers.
Do yourself a favor and ignore this person's advice

>>30314397
Well yeah. They don't call us /biz/raelis for nothing.

Donate 24 ETH to me so I can feel good in your stead.

>>30314478
fuck off shill. provide a solution or go somewhere else, you can't earn money here.

>>30313790
You have 2 different types of thoughts inside of you.
Your current thinking and logical part, and your emotional side.
Unfortunately they got separated due to multiple bad events and small traumas.
The one you have to convince is your emotional side.
You have to believe it and wish for this belief to become true.
You have to become the parent of your emotional side and replace your parents in this role they failed to do.
Give unconditional love to your inner child and it won't fear being denied existence.

An experiment you can do is to watch this video:
https://youtu.be/968yNvFiVH0
It will probably hurt you but force yourself to watch it and focus on the wish to be able to behave like this person.
If your wish is strong enough and you can fight off your subconscious trying to take your mind away from it, you should be able to get in contact with your emotional side, your inner child. You should be able to feel its extreme fear. It constantly fears being denied existence and not being allowed to exist.
If you can manage this first contact with your inner child, use it to comfort him and to tell him that you will always love him no matter what he does and support him with all your strength. Tell him you are the happiest when he expresses his desires.
Repeat this until you feel a strong emotion of relief.

Another way you can do this in smaller steps is to revisit your older traumatic memories that you can't manage to forget.
Try to imagine theses situations again but change them to make them have a good outcome for you with your current knowledge.
Your past memories serve as a source for your mindset. If you have many bad memories they will constantly weight you down until you overcome them and manage to learn how to act from them.

>>30310170
this is based advice
after covid i will travel more

>>30311298
based

>>30314563
You are such a greedy toxic fucker you would steal from people who actually need help, I hope you stay a virgin for life.

>>30314594
no can do bro, spent my whole life trying to solve it and couldnt earn because of it. go fuck yourself

>>30310107
Learn to fight at Boxing/May Thai/Jui Jitsu gym.
You'll get stronger, healthier and are able to self defend and you'll gain self confidence.
Be careful about hanging out with the people in your class, they are usually pretty stupid

People are shit.
Just become a comfy loner.

>>30314735
how does that matter to anyone else? earn the way the rest of us do, i guarantee your mystical technique isn't new or original. that being said i'm glad you were able to get past your issues, social anxiety is a bitch.

>>30309878
I really could use any help possible I see so many people get help here but I haven’t ever, I’m white and clearly American if you could do anything I would love you for eternity brother.
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>>30310305
You have to go out and talk to strangers every night until you get over it. If you can push through the initial discomfort and fear, the results will be well worth it. Think about living your life in fear, and how stupid it is. Once you've had that epiphany, you'll be stronger than ever. You've got the money situation handled, now you get to re-program your mind so it's not fucking you over

>>30314090
probably the most effective treatment desu and no drugs