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>>30305716
All the time. I cry in front of my wife too. Depression and anxiety do be like that.

No. Don't be silly.

>>30305716
I had an incredible 2 nights ago and started crying. It was pretty awesome

yes, sometimes in my pillow, before i go to sleep

>>30305790
>TQ+is+PQ
what does this mean?

>>30305716
I did, would always happen when I would get drunk enough for the emotions to pour out.
So I stopped drinking haha problem solved (:

>>30305716
No but I would like to

>>30305716
it happens maybe once every 2-3 years for me

>>30305790
>do be like that
please kys immediately

>>30305933
I hate niggers, unironically. Is that better?

>>30305716
i cry everytime sergey dumps some chainlink

>>30305716
In my sleep lately when my subconscious realizes my predicament.

Sometimes I'll lay in my bed and tears will start to flow. Then I blink and I'm asleep.

Every day.

>>30305716
Sometimes when I masturbate

>>30305854
"Taking quietly is quintessentially powerful"

It's that whole be quiet and carry a big stick meme

>>30305716
I am capable of crying, I know I am but I haven't since I was a child. Not sure if I've developed a psychological problem or I'm never upset enough.

>>30305954
No. You have already outed yourself as a faggot by using ebonics in text. based posting cannot undo what has been revealed

>>30305716
Last time i did was like four months ago, my gf stayed with my at home and we drank too much, she started giving me a blowjob and then i remember how my stepdad rape me.

Cried tears of sadness at all the rugpulls.

Currently crying tears of join as MOUSE moons and I'm actually gonna make it.

Only when I cum

>>30306147
I was using ebonics ironically

>>30305716
With my dick. White string tears

>>30305716
Yes everytime i poop because i feel violated by god

>>30306133
You cut off your inner child and his emotions in your attempts to ignore your bad emotions during your childhood.
Unfortunately you can't have the positive emotions without the bad ones.
It all comes together.

>>30306216
I’m sorry to hear that anon.

I cried today for the first time in a while

>>30306292
I dont believe you

>>30305716
Only when I think about my dead pets, it's the only strong emotion I feel.

>>30306394
Please accept me, senpai

>>30305716
WTF cry? Don't be a bitch

>>30305790
moron, read classic literature and you will see human psychology isnt two binary attributes you just described 'depression, and anxiety' lmao. otherwise if you wont read dont let your reasoning be effected by the woman

>>30305716
usually during summer vacations when everything comes up, hot weather, beautiful evenings, hear people laugh outside and i'm sitting alone in my apartment. also that's the time when i realize once again that i won't escape wage slavery

>>30306345
But my childhood was okay, pretty comfy as far as they go but maybe something scarred me that I blocked out like I got drugged and raped or something?

>>30306133
You have to stop blocking your bad emotions and let them run free.
Express your anger and sadness without restraint and your other emotions will come back.

>>30306345
Is that why I feel numb?

>>30306512
ok. i've reconsidered. yuo can be frend

>>30305790
>I cry in front of my wife too
Jesus Christ, fucking beta

>>30306587
How am I supposed to stop blocking bad emotions, I am not doing it intentionally as far as I can tell.

>>30305850
This.

>>30306579
Can you remember some bad events that pop up in your mind and you try to ignore them because they feel bad and are a bit traumatic?
Did one of your parent tell you to not cry?

For a traumatic event you have to face it again and imagine a different way of dealing with the situation.
If it's something from your parents you have to decide to reject this rule and decide to accept your feelings.

If you don't know focus on the idea of wanting your feelings back and finding out what blocks them.
You should get an idea after a few minutes.

Only when i think of my gf status (nogf)

>>30305716
yeah, i've been crying for all sorts of reason lately

>cry when i get lonely and realize that i've been lonely for the last few years with no one to depend on
>cried the other day when my portfolio hit $200k, felt good since i was really set back in 2018
>cry when i write a good song that i am proud of, i have been writing music for a few years now, its a beautiful thing to see yourself get better at something
>cry when i think about my past mistakes that i carry with me regardless of the time that has passed

life is truly meant to have ups and downs lads.

>>30306623
Strong emotions can cause a burnout from inside (trauma) and your subconscious to block it out because the emotions are overwhelming.
Go back to the source of this issue and release the negative energy.

>>30306637
Thanks, fren. You made my God forsaken day. Bless you

I cried when my father died. That was the last time, 13 years ago.

>>30306675
You have to contact your inner child.
It's basic communication.

If you don't know how try to watch children play and try to let their emotions imprint your mind.
Try to remember the feelings of being a free child without worries who wants to play.
Be sincere in your wish for change and don't reject anything that comes to your mind after this attempt.
Don't judge your emotions, and ideas.

when I think about Pattaya I cry yes

>>30306788
great post and checked. inspirational

>>30305790
>All the time
>I cry in front of my wife
>Depression and anxiety
She is 100% getting plowed by other guys on the side

>>30306675
Try to reduce your overthinking/planning and stop judging everything for your survival.
Try to stop thinking and see the ideas that come into your mind.
Give up on controlling everything and only focusing on survival.
Embrace the world. Stop fearing it.

>>30306708
>>30306918
Thanks anon I will try to be more open with myself, not sure it will work but I'll try

>>30307013
>She is 100% getting plowed by other guys on the side
Nah. I took her virginity, and we have been together for 10 years. Not all women are whores

I'm a clinical psychologist. And you're going to have (a lot) more troubles in life if you're not in touch with your wide range of feelings. Good luck functioning in close and mutually meaningful relationships without it

I'm a guy-guy, and was emotionally retarded before I studied human psychology for 6+5 years at uni and clinical practice. I'll highly recommend learning more about yourself in therapy if you can afford it

>>30307013
If this is written non-ironically: You should try therapy

>>30306788
Sounds like you know how to take care of yourself, and learn from your past. Good for you anon!

>>30305790
sounds rough mate. Hope you'll get better

>>30307180
Did your parents disapprove of you expressing your anger when you were younger?
Do you feel that they love you unconditionally no matter what you do?
Or is this love conditional to your behavior?

>>30305716
I haven't cried since I was 10 when my dog died and I'm 35 now. Crying is for women and faggots. I don't have time to feel sorry for myself. If shit is fucked up I work harder and don't beat myself down. If someone fucks my shit up I don't cry, I fuck their shit up. If you cry about your trials and tribulations going through life and don't try to make it better than you're a worthless lazy faggot that should swing from a rope bu the neck till dead.

>>30307500
You are going to burn out sooner or later like this.
If you don't cry it means the limiter to your health which is your inner child is unable to protect you.
This can cause massive burnouts, cancer, sickness...

>>30307231
>Not all women are whores
She definitely thinks less of you if you cry in front of her. Get real

>>30305716
Only a little when I watch Ronaldinho highlights

>>30307500
>holding your feelings inside of you makes you strong
>I must not be a bitch or a faggot
How authoritarian was your father, and how emotionally absent was your mother?

>>30307666
It sucks you haven't found a woman you can be emotionally safe with. The best part of life is having a soulmate

>>30307712
hear hear

>>30305716
Only when I watch Dead Poet's Society

>>30305790
This post screams redditfag.

>>30307842
I've found a great woman, but I would never cry in front of her.
You guys are deluded if you think they actually want to see you weak like that

>>30305790
>I cry in front of my wife too
do not ever do this
even once

>>30305716
only from my penis

>>30305716
Sometimes, but it's different than it used to be. When I was a little younger I would cry and get really angry at myself and others, think about suicide and ultimately I would just be broken for the rest of the day. Now it goes as quickly as it comes, like a sneeze. It's almost not even crying really.
>>30305790
>All the time. I cry in front of my wife too. Depression and anxiety do be like that.
Anon, I'm not memeing you, please get your testosterone levels checked. If your doc doesn't want to then get it done yourself, it's pretty cheap these days. There's no shame.
>>30306216
>started giving me a blowjob and then i remember how my stepdad rape me.
Did she finish the blowjob? Sorry I couldn't help myself. Try and put that shit behind you man. Sometimes I have full on flashbacks where I almost relive horrific moments in my life. Makes me shudder. But then I remember that there is no such thing as the past, only now.
>>30306459
They're just animals bro.
>>30306788
>cry when i get lonely and realize that i've been lonely for the last few years with no one to depend on
"An eye is not an eye because you see it, an eye is an eye because it sees you" you're never alone anon.

my dead dog and hitler speeches.
or if i see something or experience something that is truly beautiful.

>>30305716
Yes. I will but share only one of the reasons I've cried.

>consistent failure at getting rich to help my family

Strikes hard knowing so many things I can do but somehow consistently fail to make the right move.

I haven't cried since I was like 10 years old, I just repress all my emotions.
>Didn't cry when my dog died
>Didn't cry when my parents divorced
>Didn't cry when my grandmother died, or at her funeral
>Didn't cry when my cat died
>Didn't cry when my dad who moved out of country broke down in tears on a call because of how much he misses me
I'm an emotional zombie.

>>30305716
I used to. A lot. For around 10 years i would unironically cry my self to sleep until i couldn't cry any more and then one day everything went numb. The CMHT thought i had autism because i was so dissociated and emotionally vacant.
Its good to cry and I embrace it when it seldom happens.

>>30307500
Grain of truth, but mostly sand. Hard working people cry. In fact, I bet they cry more than people who've given up entirely.

>>30307013
fucking lmaooooooooo

>>30307723
Both my parents are fucking amazing. Literally amazing. My dad is my best friend and is always rooting for my success. We talk at least 3 times a day on the phone. My mom is an absolute angel. The most loving person I've ever known. I think when most people hit that threshold they begin to cry and feel sorry for themselves. When I hit that threshold my mind starts working harder, thinking of ways that will make it better. I don't have this macho outlook on life you suggested in green text. I'm naturally calm and enjoy solving problems and puzzles. The more pressure I feel the better I perform. It's why I am successful in my career and family life. I'm a hard motherfucker...always have been. My only soft spots are reserved for my family(including my gay dog and stupid cat). I chalk up my "no tears" to being a rational person knowing that it's not always "the end of the world" if things go a skew.

>>30305790

>>30305840
I want an incredible

>>30308724
Then why are you on /biz/?

>>30305716
Every day

>>30307396
is crying actually important? Not just for short-term stress management but for overall health, has it shown to help with anything?

>>30307396
I dated a clinical psychologist and you're all literal fucking book retards. She was a compassion focused therapist but she literally couldn't be compassionate towards herself. She used to legit resent me because I meditated hours per day and found it easy to be self compassionate

Clinical psychology is helpful for people who never want to understand themselves. They just want mental furniture moved around in their heads and the therapist sits back in his chair and thinks "I'm such a helper" but all that is another role and another trip and an identity

I've asked many therapists, psychologists and clinical psychologists a very simple question. "Who are you?" and they say their name, their job, their gender, then they get pissed off and try and rationalise it. I trained as a therapist too and it was all pointless bullshit. I gained more from spending a few weeks silence and meditating everyday. Most of life isn't to be talked about, it's meant to be sat with

As soon as money exchanges hands, it's not real. You can deny this all you want, but psychology and bowlby and freud and attachment theory are nothing compared to meditation and silence. Get cucked faggot

>>30309032
lmao better than psychiatrists at least

>>30308886
For the memes and to troll faggots. Also I'm holding a shitload of vintage stinky linkies from 2018 and I like to jump in the link threads.

Very rarely, if you are not hard boiled now in the kali yuga now the subhumans on this planet will eat you alive. There are hard times coming. Care only about about your brothers, family and race.

Last time i was crying was watching fist of the north star. I can't explain why exactly.

>>30309032
meditation and silence breaks people after 1-5 years., most people wont do that sacrifice.
even if there is some gold on the otherside.

I only cried twice
>When my dog died
>When my father died
And I will cry one last time when my mother dies.
But that's it.

>>30309293
your mother can't die twice, anon

>>30309140
But that still doesn't answer how you found /biz/ first.
Did you get rug pulled in the previous BTC bull run?
Do you have a 50k+ make it stack?

>>30305716
Lately, yeah it's been a lot, every time I open the chainlink chart actually

>>30309332
I did

>>30305716
Rarely
I cry when God helps me out again.
Often i had no money for food and sat somewhere an was crying.
Then God always send me a person that came out of nowhere and just gave me money so i could buy food without me even asking for it.

I had many situations like that which came from God, and when i think about it i cry, because im such a sinner and still God is on my side, loves me, and helps me in need.
Thank you God, i love you

>>30309032
Exactly anon.
When the going gets tough and when I get alone time I close my eyes and enter a "meditation" state. I free my mind. I then blast a buckethead song, usually soothsayer, and formulate 3 plans to navigate away from negativity. I decide the best plan and go with it. I am a lot of people's "rock" just because who I am and knowing who I am.

Extremely rarely. In my job one team member is quitting the company and few other developers were shedding tears over it but I just don’t feel anything at all, I mean okay he is moving to other company so what. Maybe I am psychopath or the other are weak willed

>>30305716
No because I practice Vulcan beliefs and stoicism

>>30307396
>gay therapist
The usual

>>30308291
autism

>>30305716
Only for happiness and God

>>30305790
pathetic

>>30305716
I've probably only cried like 3 times in the last 20 years.

>>30308291
I have Aspergers and Alexithymia. That's why I found the Vulcan philosophy so great. I feel bad about things but for some reason I can't show it on my face.

I cried recently when my dad was hospitalized and died.

>>30305790
Go back

>>30307396
>>30309032
>psychologists are the ones with the problems
Yeah no shit, if you didn't wise up. It's better to talk to family or friends or your dog.

That jew freud also ruined the entirity of psychology. It's today it's a near worthless but profitable acumen.

>>30305716
https://youtu.be/B9uwBHRYt-I

In the past 15 years I've probably cried twice and that was during mental breakdowns I have from time to time.

>>30309031
>he didn't answer
there you have your answer, anon

>>30305716
Just a little sometimes when I'm watching a movie.

>>30305716
I used to alot. But not anymore. Things get better anon