/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>29703146
Dating is fine if you're waifu hunting. Just make sure you get to know her before she gets to know you.

>>29703146
damn you must be ugly af lmao BRUH

Don't. She's a golddigger.

>>29703320
I guess, i get no hits on tinder.

>shes willing to date you
>after you disclose you have a bunch of money
SHES A GOLD DIGGING WHORE EJECT

>>29703146
Pft no, don't tell her you fucking simp

>>29703146
Lmao tell her you'll consider dating her if she fucks you good enough. You hold all of the cards here bro, whatever woman you choose gets a ticket to a carefree life and that is worth EVERYTHING to women.

>>29703392
lets see your main picture

>>29703146
>i’m expecting to retire in the bull run
in 2024? the bullrun ended days ago

>>29703608
fuck off schlomo

>>29703556
Not doxing myself, i hold too much stuff sorry. But i’m dadbod looking to improve though.

>>29703403
It wasn’t anything rude. It was more like

>Anon when your financial goals are all set and if you’re still single. We should discuss.

I also know she hates her job with a passion, but i’m fucking 26 and a virgin...

>>29703908
bro just cover your eyes or something, 1 picture isn't enough to dox lol.

you're probably dressed like shit and look like you smell. fix your hair, cut your fingernails, shower and wear solid dark colors. dont wear autistic shit like running shoes, cargo shorts, etc. use pictures with good lighting and where you're smiling

it's literally that easy

>>29703908
>Anon when your financial goals are all set and if you’re still single. We should discuss.
200% gold digging

>>29704131
I need dating experience though, i’ve literally never been in a relationship.

>>29704303
how about you first start with someone that isn't with you for your finances only

>>29704434
I’ve tried ain’t happening. I don’t think i’m ugly or maybe I am. I guess i’m too normal.

>>29704509
just post pic bro, we'll be honest

>>29704685
This. Block out your eyes and maybe lips

>>29704685
Sorry too paranoid.

I guess I can table it. Idk she doesn’t really strike me as a gold digger type just looking for stability.

I just think it would be nice not to stay cooped up in my apartment once Covid ends and have someone to do activities with:

>>29703908
get an escort. this girl will steal your money

>>29704509
>>29704885
why did your ID change

>>29704885
>Idk she doesn’t really strike me as a gold digger type just looking for stability
Wanting to coast off someone else's wealth is gold digging

>>29703146
Never tell a women about your money you fucking retard.

>>29704981
No clue did i disable my wifi on phone.

>>29704973
I’ll be careful 10+ years of no female attraction made me bitter. I’m just gonna use this as an excercise to be more comfortable around women. Again IDK she doesn’t seem to be the gold digging type that likes to live lavishly. I think she just tired of waging.

>>29705110
Depends on how you want to do it. You can come right out the gate flaunting your wealth use them as PnD then ghost them if you want to be "that guy"

>>29703146
If this is a tremendous bait thread then Bravo.
If not you literally just bought a hooker who wants to live in your house and rob you for half your stuff in a few years after getting pregnant accidentally on purpose then divorcing you

>>29703146
Couldn't think of a more retarded thing to get into if I tried

>>29705247
I just want a normal fucking relationship. I’m too autistic with relationships. I’m horrible with reading body language, and i’d rather be upfront and blunt and have context clearly laid out before me.

I would never want to pump and dump, I think it rude.

>>29705477
>I just want a normal fucking relationship
Then never let them know your wealth right up to the point they have singed a prenup and even then

>>29703146
>i’m expecting to retire in the bull run.
OH NO NO NO NO

>>29705206
>Again IDK she doesn’t seem to be the gold digging type that likes to live lavishly. I think she just tired of waging.
Yeah women all quit their jobs if they can lump it all on a man.
If you're going to have the money you say you will, you can travel and do fun things and find a girl after some self improvement.
A nicely decorated apartment and a decent car will expand your horizons for meeting new people.

>>29704885
Nigga we here to help, not doxxing.
Honestly "seeking stability" is a synonym of gold digging. Been there done that. And I lost my V card at 25, so you being an inexperienced guy isn't a drama unless you really show it with your demeanor. Get good training, a healthy diet and since you have the money get a real coach/dietician (btw not a big name, check Eric helms and his group, they are as solid as it gets)

You got the money, looks can be created with willpower and a surgeon if needs be (see kpop).
Avoid chicks looking for money, fuck them if you want, but pump and dump, otherwise they could manipulate you.
You can flaunt your money, it shows power, but never too much.

>>29703146
>disclosed with her i’m expecting to retire

How can anyone ever be stupid enough to do this? This is nigger-tier IQ

>but muh virgin
So what faggot, I'm a 32 year old khv and I would never ever consider telling a thot about my gains. Larp as a pauper if you want to find love.

Dude, she is obviously the best romantic option you have, so just date her. If she's a money sink, then you dump her. Simple as.

>>29705477
Get a shut in above average iq "autistic" gf then. I will do the same eventually. Enough out there. Just make sure she does not have any other mental issues besides being "strange". Normie women will fuck you over from day 1 or will just be a waste of time for you. If you do not look super good, you better stay away from too good looking women. If you are not fit, you better start getting fit.

>>29705634
Good advice, keep it up

This woman has GOT to be Asian. She's playing OP like a violin.

>>29706744
H-How did you know??

>guy wants to be with girl because shes hot
>Fuck yeah fucking epic bro look at dem titties and ass you are living the dream no post wall roasties or ugly fatties for you my man right on bro!!!!! Youve fucking made it!!!

>girl wants to be with guy because hes got money
>YOU SIMPLY CAN NOT BE WITH A FUCKING GOLD DIGGER FUCKING WWWWHHHHHOOOORRRREEEEEEEEE

>>29706853
Because I have a few close Asian friends who are all about the money. Mostly Korean.

They're like those seductress vampires you see on movies except instead of sucking blood, they suck money. If their victims push back, they'd go full-on alpha on the chump and boss him around until he gives up and opens his wallet again. They convinced their boyfriends that being cheap makes them ugly.

>>29705206
Lead her on and then say it's not working out and tell her to leave randomly in the middle of a date, preferably in the middle of the road on the way somewhere

>>29707088
She's not gonna fuck you bro

>>29706744
>>29706853
holy based

Date for 6 months and enjoy the sex ride

>>29703146
Meanwhile she fucks the guy flipping burgers at McDs

>>29703908
Ask her about a prenuptial and see her true colors

>>29703146
ngmi

>>29706853
Has she hinted that she wants her parents to move with you yet? Cause that's gonna happen if your wallet is big enough.

>>29707373
If he looks only 10% better, then yes. They will also spent his money to go on a "business trip" together. etc. Never tell whores our real name and only fuck them, then leave the city. Especially in current year.

>>29703908
Fuck her and dump her lmao, legit just use her and move on, if you can mock her on the way out as well. Gold diggers don’t deserve anything
t. Family was ruined by a gold digger

>>29707504
She has not, only implied dating. Obv earlier dating works as well but she a few states away. I doubt she has time for a relationship though since her work-life balance is so shitty.

>>29707504
>This happened to my brother
>Except she was older than him previously married with 3 kids and ugly as fuck
>Told him right out of the gate she is right above retarded and a whore
>Right on all accounts
>Been married 3 years and already suicidally depressed and looking for a way out

>>29707628
>but she's a few states away.

HOLD UP.

>>29703146
This girl fundamentally does not respect you, hook up with her if you want but keep her at a distance. Do not date or enter into a relationship with her. Consider yourself fortunate that she made her gold-digging intentions clear.
Yes, online dating apps are complete trash but if you don't take it too seriously and keep an account for a while you will meet genuinely good people. Takes patience and luck

>>29705477
Do you take care of yourself? Go to gym, buy decent clothes, Groom? If not that is step 1. Step 2 is to make friends to go out with. Don't hang out with people for status because that shit is gay, hang with them because either (a) you genuinely rnjoy their company or (b) circumstances i.e. coworker or friend of friend. step 3 is to have fun with your friends. After that you will get women.

If you've done all this and still do not have a gf, it will be much more difficult

>>29703146
Dude you will be out of money before you know it. Do not do this

>>29707628
>Obv earlier dating works as well but she a few states away
>she a few states away
>Few states away
You are fucking retarded bro. Don't date someone less than an hour drive away unless they are rich or 10/10 and under your thumb

>>29707791
Also, do NOT date this woman. You can be her friend (even though like >>29707768 said she does not respect you) but do not get involved romantically, sexually, or financially

Don't even hook up with her.
She'll accuse you of rape and get your money or worst

>>29707628
You seem so confused, I do not believe you anymore. :( block her, I hope you never told her your real name, she is fucking someone else as we shitpost on this forum right now. You are beta bucks.

>>29707993
Feels bad man.

>>29703908
Leaf Hans wrote this post

>>29707947
Yeah on second thought this anon is right, best not to fuck anyone you can't trust. The sex will probably be terrible anyway.

>>29703146
>Tinder and online apps are fucking trash
so is this gold digger, you retard
don't tell women about your money
>>29703908
>>Anon when your financial goals are all set and if you’re still single
literally not interest in you unless you have money

have some self respect you sack of shit

>>29703146

Learn how to flow a conversation and just be silly. Chicks love that. Try not to give a fuck about anything. Whatever you do, do NOT go with this girl, seriously

This is just the first step, you've already given her the autonomy over your own life. There's nice girls out there and you'll find one. Try hinge and bumble too. Girls on hinge seem more open. Buy every boost you can if you're an ugly faggot

I'm a chad and it's a struggle sometimes with the pandemic. most girl brains are fucked cause social media and phones. tinder was amazing in 2016-2017

I'm a fat fuck and I still get at least 2 dates a week on tinder lmao. I date and fuck regularly, there is one girl who wants me no matter what. I have no idea what the fuck your problem is.

You should read the book "mate" by geoffrey miller. Its intelligently written and gives good reasoning. It goes into what women want, and in the end its a really good self-improvement book that is highly motivated because of the pussy.

>>29703146
so let me get this straight.

Some roastie tells you she will date you after finding out you have money, and she lives a few states away. How exactly is this favorable for you? You do understand if you have wealth you can literally go to any third world country and have your pick of women.

>>29708473
If you haven’t noticed but I have some fucked up self esteem issues growing up as an chinese-american and watching my peers date white boys.

>>29708670
yea i feel for you man. on the other hand, if you didnt want to be the ugly duckling maybe you should go back where you came from

>>29703146
willing to date you....yea fuck her in the asshole and make her suck off the ass juice and never call her again.

>>29703908
LMAO man I hope you marry her :) you fat fucking loser retard lmao please go for it.

>>29708670
I'm an Asian dude so I get where you're coming from but you're also being retarded, there are tons of women who actively look for Asian guys to date (we partially have kpop/kdramas to thank for that) or are race-agnostic.
You need to become a cool motherfucker, money is one means to do that but you should aim to be someone who is interesting even without the wealth. I was unemployed for over a year and ironically did better on dating apps than when I was employed, and I think it was because I simply did not give a shit and acted comfortably.
Don't use money as a lure, you will only attract the worst personalities. A bad personality will bring you far more pain than good looks, it's a platitude for a reason

>>29707829
>MFW GF lives 4 hour drive away and knows about my wealth
>Joke about how she's only with me for my money
... we have been on/off for 20 years... from before I was wealthy though

>>29709339
Honestly I think it the area, i need to move out of this area. Boston kind of sucks.

>>29708081
Gona write you a little cringe story blogpost here, that I lived through when I was about 24 and naive
>about to finish "college"
>visit posj expensive uni in another country (UK) to check out and apply to( I did not because fuck the education system, get out as fast as you can)
>see super cute woman my age at the air port in the departure hall. Our eyes meet, she blushes
>cute woman is on the same plane
>cute woman sits next to me in the shuttle bus that picked all potential "freshmen" up to the hotel and she is visibly shy and seems non normie
>cutie is in the other hotel room next to mine holy shit
>see her again a few hours later on campus alone(she did not like to hang with the other normie studends it seemed, but I think it was because she was poor and got a scholarship or something, and the others smelled that) and just give her my number because she seemed lost and "I have been here before(not a lie)", she instantly calls me a few hours alter and we basically started "dating" for a few days there. All very perfect, since we both are spergs.
>Fast forward a few months back home, she lives 5 hours away from me, constantly telling me how poor she is over FB and text messages wich gives me a strange feeling
>I jus want to see her again but never works out somehow, strange hmmm, getting suspicous here
>I am kind of poor too but my parents are middle class so she may thought I have inherited money or something I don't know
>One day I just send here a message about the fact that I do not have a lot of money, just to see what happens
>She instantly spergs out on the FB timeline to all her friends about how shitty everything is and how evil men are etc.
>I hunker down and monitor the situation further, after a few months I see pictures with a young child and her, and another guy, wich someone commented "you and your ex together again?" >singlemom.jpg

Always be careful and test the waters, even when they seem "not normie"

>>29709616
I don't disagree that Boston sucks, but for now assume that the reason you're single is 100% your fault.
Consider meeting girls solely as friends and practice socializing that way, you can use the dating pool as Boston as practice until you move somewhere else. Rooting for ya man

>>29703146
Don't bother with her anon she is going to steal your money

>>29709616

I believe you and I have to say as someone who was a virgin at 28 and got laid and had a relationship for a year. I'm 30 now

It doesn't make you happy and in fact, I am now worse off after the relationship, both financially and in general happiness. So if you expect this first relationship to solve all of your problems, it won't. Use it to find out about yourself, but limit yourself financially.

This girl is obviously using you, but the fun part is, the ball is in your court. Use her right back to develop your confidence, you are the prize, not her