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Is 25 too late to recover from being a loser

>> No.29559208

Nope!

>> No.29559232

>>29559185
no
t. 26 year old loser

>> No.29559256

ya you might as well just end it all

>> No.29559270

you've got like 5 years

>> No.29559285

Why do you think you’re a loser, anon?

>> No.29559341

Well step one your 25 go outside and stop hanging out on a board of burnouts like myself, only foolish rich people and lost causes end up here.

>> No.29559343

No. I was on the roll just two years ago, than lost government contracts, overdrafts etc, closes my company. Literally lost everything at 31. Had an awful year, and now trying to make it and getting a decent start. 32 years old.
Although, I allready have my own appartement, wife, no debts etc.

>> No.29559360

>>29559185
It's never too late OP
There's a lot to do in this life and you're only like a third in tops

>> No.29559377 [DELETED] 

>>29559185
No
t. a 24 y/o loser who’s really considering roping as soon as i hit 25

>> No.29559393

Today is my birthday. I'm 26 now. Idk op

>> No.29559396
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>>29559185
Born a loser die a loser, the only question is whether you'll be a rich loser or poor loser

>> No.29559410

>>29559185
You can look up some recoverporn from google. Search for people who woke up and got their shit together in their 30's or 40's. It is never too late.
Personally i was complete loser till age of 19. Im starting to get really comfy at 25 now. I have some 10k's net worth from crypto, bachelors degree and over average mental health.

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>>29559185
It's never too late but it's always really hard.

>> No.29559471

>>29559185
Yeah
t. a 24 y/o loser who’s really considering roping as soon as i hit 25

>> No.29559479

>>29559377
why did you delete that post anon? You know everyone can still see it

>> No.29559486

No

>> No.29559492
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>>29559185
yes, i was a loser too, now i'm a little above average guy. you can do it

>t. 29yo boomer

>> No.29559493

>>29559185
no, I was loser until my 27

>> No.29559509

I'm 23 with not job and no gf. Good thing is that I got my BA 2 months ago. Now I just need to get off my ass and get a full-time job by the end of this year

>> No.29559522

>>29559185
It is never too late anon

>> No.29559549
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>>29559185
Nah fuck that Anon. You got time. Bully to the moon with your anon bros by your side.

>> No.29559555

>>29559185
Not even close. 20s are for fucking up, which is inevitable whether you're a partying chad or a shut-in NEET. Your prefontal cortex hasn't even fully developed yet. Assuming you don't make any permanent errors or suffer any irreversible losses, things can get a lot better, and often do.

t. 30 y/o who feels like life just started

>> No.29559581

That's about the age I truly woke up. I had just got out of a shit relationship, I was a deadshit with a bad job, no prospects, and no education. I went travelling for 2 years, met a girl along the way who believed in me, I got some school done, got a decent job. It's looking up.
Of course it would have been better if I did that shit 5 years earlier, but what's the point in moping? It just wastes more of that time.

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>>29559377
>>29559522
>>29559555
Checked WAGMI bros

>> No.29559655

>>29559185
31, was a loser for all of my 20's. now make big dick chad gains on a daily basis, drive gtr, have sex, etc.

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>>29559555
Checked and witnessed.

>> No.29559706

25 is young. I thought I was getting on at 25 until I realised I wasnt. All that matters is your health.

>> No.29559748

35 married house wife son and just now trying to make it. I just want to make my son's life easier than mine was so if you are just living for yourself I guess you are a fucking loser no matter how old

>> No.29559751

>>29559655
I just turned 29 and this makes me feel better. I’m making the gains and taking care of my health right now. The rest will follow.

>> No.29559818

>>29559492
I meant yes as in you can stop being a loser not that it's impossible to stop being a loser. now go ahead and make it, if not on finance at life in general

>> No.29559823

>>29559748
You married your house wife and son?
Are you Mormon?

>> No.29559848

My life turned around for the positive when I was 32. I truly believe everything in the universe eventually gets balanced out as long as you take initiative. If you make 10 bad trades you will eventually get 10 good ones. If you try and fail with women eventually a good one will show up in your life. Don't give up anon, we are all gonna make it.

>> No.29559850

>>29559185
Start taking test, work out. Rest comes naturally as you become an alpha.

>> No.29559904

>>29559270
this

>> No.29559955

you have like 3-2 years before your skill set mature forever. You have time, but not much. Run anon.. for real, run.

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29559975

23 here and I'm kind of stuck
How do you chill the fuck out?
I try to do absolutely everything at once, my attention span when reading is completely fucked thanks to years of 4chan and I can never see anything through to completion or feel on top of life. I'm also a hoarder and neglect the state of my room and my body (beyond basic things like showers and clean clothes)
I just want to be able to calm down and focus rather than constantly feeling like I'm running out of time and have to rush everything in my life to maximise goal progression - it has the opposite effect and I hardly accomplish anything, meaning I feel even worse for that, ad infinitum.
Mentally I just care far too much about everything and everyone.

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>>29559848
>I truly believe everything in the universe eventually gets balanced out

>> No.29560025 [DELETED] 

>>29559748
>make sons life easier

Why? so he ends up a soft faggot? He has your genetics and youre on 4chan in your 30s, so hes probably going to be a shit cunt by default

Worse combination is to provide a genetic run with a "easier life" because you'll end up with a total fucking bitch of a son

>> No.29560066

>>29559748
>make sons life easier

Why? so he ends up a soft faggot? He has your genetics and youre on 4chan in your 30s, so hes probably going to be a shit cunt by default

Worse combination is to provide a genetic runt with dad who has 4chan tier genetics with a "easier life" because you'll end up with a total fucking bitch of a son

>> No.29560138

>>29559185
Absolutely fucking not anon.
The worst thing you can do now is wallow in misery and 'wasted' time... you'll end up being 30 wishing you were 25 again.

What you DO have to do is accept that you cant fix everything at once. You might have to accept a shitty year or two whilst you get in shape and accrue capital, then a tough couple of years whilst you establish yourself in a career and get good at the dating game. But it CAN be done.

Some things for you to try/research:
Intermittent fasting (16:8)
Vit D and ZMA supplementation
Starting Strength then Texas Method 4-Day for first year or so of weightlifting
Anki for studying
Setting up a 'fake' dating profile to practice flirting - but dont hurt/humiliate anyone.
Meditation
Flossing
Possibly antidepressants - low dose of SSRI (lexapro works wonders for me)
Coinmetro for crypto trading - look at XCM, PRQ, KDA, QNT
Cutting out sugar
Drinking more water
Moisteurising face
Dental flossing
'Aggregation of marginal gains' philosophy

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>>29559393
Happy birthday anon! Hope you have a great day

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>>29559185
>stopped being a loser in 2019
>2020 hits

>> No.29560229

>>29560138
Oh, and as you begin to move forward in life, you'll probably realise that most of your friends acquaintances were shitty people and were holding you back or now resent you. Cut ties and move on. This will probably require moving, which I recommend when the time is right (I.e. once you have started to become a person you like). Definitely delete your social media as well. This is for you. Let go of the past and look to the future instead.

>> No.29560230

>>29559975
That shit probably never truly goes away, but it does mellow. Mostly I think it's age, I just can't give as much of a fuck about the small things any more. I give more than I'd like, and I'm hoping the older I get, the less I give, but I just can't seem to sweat dumb shit as much any more.

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>>29560138
Best post in days, God bless and thank you.

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>>29560138
>Flossing
Changed my life.

>> No.29560373

>>29559185

nah ya good, only STARTED getting my shit together at 27

>> No.29560565

You’re good op. As gay as it sounds, get into a routine of eating right (real food, meat/veggies), sleeping 8 hours in the same window everyday and stop Fucking with shit that’s bad for you like alcohol,drugs+nicotine. There’s a reason those Heath freaks always seem happy to a delusional level. I did all that around 26/7 and my live 3 years later looks nothing like it did then

>> No.29560665

>>29559185
No, 35 is your absolute last call for a redemption arc.

>> No.29560700

>>29559185
I had my first GF with 23 and started getting my shit together with 35. Now I have family, own flat, job...

No, 25 is pretty normal.

>> No.29560863

>>29559185
u got 5 years anon, make it count.

>> No.29560929

>>29559341
you can't go outside goy. Well not during non-business hours anyway

>> No.29560940

You have time. Just stop being a faggot bitch and stop posting faggy pics like that. Delete all of them.

>> No.29561028

>>29559341
Yeah it took some nasty angry fits for me to realize how much I despised all the people I hung out with. If all your ideas or ventures are being shot down by increasingly subtle moral arguments or are met with immediate disparaging remarks on the basis of difficulty than get the fuck out. Retard burnouts and comfy upper middle class - rich people with overprotective parents are to avoided at all costs.

>> No.29561136

>>29560565
The health freak route doesn't work for everyone. It wouldn't work for me unless maybe I got on TRT at the same time. Just exercising and eating well isn't enough for me. I need drugs (incl. aclcohol) sometimes to wind down/reset.
Exercise is fucking great though.

>> No.29561171

>>29559185
I guess it's still possible until 30.

>> No.29561174

>>29560184
I genuinely feel like I was progressing to being something other than a worthless sack of shit, but then COVID restrictions locked me in my house for a year and now I'm as bad as I've ever been, it's maddening

>> No.29561259

>>29560565
i wake up and go for a run and eat eggs and a veggie smoothie and then sit at /biz/ and watch charts and play video games and at the end of the day i'm always suicidal and desperate to sleep. "jus go outside bro" social anxiety, autism, no friends, no desire, no passion, and nervous around strangers/dogs etc. i legit wish i was never born. also i'm 70% in ETH so there's that

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>>29559185
no. t. 30 y/o. Just finally started making good money. I have been living like a 19 year old in their first apartment for the last 10 years of my life and just fucking now finally figured out how to make money. This will be the first year in my life that I make more than 25k.

>> No.29561408

It’s over because you had to ask

I am early 20s “lost“ the yearly salary of my coworkers in 72hours because of the crypto dump, yet I know this shit was rigged from start. You always end up coping and deal with the cards you have left. But mostly it’s over

>> No.29561414

>>29560184
>>29561174
same. The first week of March 2020 was the most optimistic I’d been my whole life and then I got BTFO by coof

>> No.29561467

I changed my career to AV installation at 29 and immediately fucked my wrists up. If you aren't a teenager, your body will break with site work post 27.

I'm back doing desk work and want to kill myself at 30, despite having a gf and a house. I have some savings and am flipping coins on whether to go in on leverage to try to escape the next 30 years of hell on earth.

>> No.29561590

>>29559185
I'm 25 but I'm not a loser.
Being a loser is self-defined.
So you literally choose to be a loser.

>> No.29561621

>>29559393
happy birthday fren