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Anyone here deeply depressed? I have a pretty nice portfolio, a good job, cool hobbies, but honestly missing human connection. I've been with a ton 3.14qt in my life and had good friends in the past, but a lot of that has faded. Dating market has become hyper competitive and friendships usually just fade away for whatever reason. I have dreams but generally feel so empty that its hard to push forward. I'm 32 and maybe if I had children and a family I wouldn't be feeling this way, but as I mentioned earlier, finding a cool girl has become a pipe dream.

Anyone /biz/ bros know this feel? Has anyone overcome this somehow?

>> No.29329001

>>29328861
I made this some days ago >>28837197
Every night...

>> No.29329402

>>29328861
corona just made everything worse
cant date because virus. forever alone. uni wont finish my paperwork for degree bc everyone at home and too lazy to work. cant enjoy free time because virus. at least i can gamble on shitcoins on the internet.

>> No.29329492

its not just you bro everyone is feeling it
the world is fucking shit, we are barreling towards a dark age (we may already be in it) and everyone can feel it but nobody has the power to do anything about it

technology is raping us all and we are powerless to stop it

>> No.29329520

>>29329402
yeah crypto makes things bearable. really hope i can make it soon and just runaway from all this for a bit. maybe travel for a month or two.

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>>29329492
yeah i think we already are in the dark ages, a digital dark age. i gets spurts of hope occasionally that maybe things will change. nothing declines forever, hopefully.

>> No.29329836

>>29329626
things have to get much worse before they ever get better, we have a long road ahead of us

>> No.29329981

Yeah op im depressed cause im poor

>> No.29330114

All above me in this thread is true shit. 23 yo anon here, literally lost 1 year of life due to this useless virus shit, not a single gf only some night hookups, 0 fuck, 0 days in gym, at least i graduated uni and getting crypto gains.

And it doesnt look like things will get better, thats the worst thing

>> No.29330154

>>29328861
Anon, biz, crypto and cooming is not good for your mental health. It sound like you need a break. Take 2/3 out of the crypto game and get away from the computer. Also why dont you have a gf? At 32 its fairly easy to get one.

>> No.29330199

>>29330114
what's the college climate like these days? are people enjoying themselves?

>> No.29330377

Dont be a Debbie Downer you guys ; /

>> No.29330407

>>29330199
fuck
no

>> No.29330507

>>29329520
>>29329402
TheVarus ain't going anywhere for a decade, sons.

>> No.29330558

>>29330154
I'm not much of a coomer actually. I mastrubate, but don't watch a ton of porn. This board has been stressful, but I don't mind that, since the bullrun only comes every few years.

>Also why dont you have a gf?

It's extremely difficult anon. You're either better a lot looking than me or have lower standard and are okay with a hog. I'm actually pretty well off and I'd consider myself a solid 7 all things considered (job, looks, personality etc). The only opportunity I get to meet women is dating apps and that shit can get demoralizing. I think my issue is my standards are too high, but I'm not going to change that. I'd rather be alone than compromise. Most of the chicks I have dated in the past were great and its impossible for me to settle for anything less.

>> No.29330583

>>29330407
It sucks and only the truly delusional are okay with anything

>T work in Uni

>> No.29330587

>>29330199
Not college because im eurofag, and no, 99% people are feeling like shit and 1% are pretending they feel good but in reality they just feel the void by "doing something".
Dont get me wrong, its the only way right now, to just do things and forget about bigger image. Its easier when you are dumb and dont even think, as always.

Im on master studies because why not, i can half ass it online and wouldnt do anything else because everything stopped working and my job is postponed. So, literally i cant even recognize people under mask and no one is hanging out in uni because it was forbidden till now, and im in "based" country in terms of no lockdown and low restrictions.

>> No.29330595

>>29330407
i feel you. College has become shit since rona.

>> No.29330648

>>29329492
Based and tedpilled

>> No.29330696

>>29328861
Find a young some 25- with low penis count 10 max.
Rape her and make babies.
Be happy.

>> No.29330708

>>29330407
that sucks, college for me was really special, my dream is to replicate that in some new way in the future.

>> No.29330955

>>29328861
Yep I know. I am planning on exiting later in the year. Just tryin to make gains to leave my family before I do. just sub of mid 6 figures currently(I have already been to hell, and it is 6 figures). Hopefully this bull run goes on for a while longer to give it a chance.Want to hit 7fig obviously. Once it's where I need it to be I can roll out and move on and see what other dimensions exist out there.

>> No.29331047

almost absolutely no money here, not depressed at all but most likely should be?

>> No.29331423

>>29331047

Nah it's the opposite, at least for me. When I only had $100 to my name, I went to the gym 5 times week, bulking like mad, fapping every day. I still went to work with energy and optimism for the future.

Now I have $85k and wanna kms. I've also been insanely lazy for a while. I'll eat nothing until late then have like a bowl of cereal or a pbj. And have no energy. It's a cycle.

>> No.29331704

>>29328861
I could have honestly written this myself, holy fuck. 8/10's think they're 9/10's and land whales think they're legit supermodels. 2016 was the most based time for tinder, it was insane. Legit fresh pussy everywhere. I think social media and phone usage has massively fucked peoples brains

Yeah it's tough rn anon. My gf and I broke up in May and we lived together. I'm glad to be out of it, but even just someone to watch tv with or laugh together, or go a walk, or order food. Shit sucks. I've got 3 or 4 chicks I could easily fuck, but I have zero desire to even speak with them. Cant lift cause the gyms closed and I have a weird injury. Yeah it's really shitty the now man. I mediate 3 times a day and try and keep a routine. Usually read a little bit.

If I could genuinely give you any advice, it'd be to get a daily meditation practice and stick with it. Use headspace or something, it's great and easy for beginners. Maybe take some LSD lmao. That's always the great reset for life. There's a great book caled self compassion by kristin neff. About how it's okay to accept yourself as who you are and rely on self compassion rather than self esteem and validation

>> No.29331776

>>29331704
I've let go of the need for the self esteem from others and I'm now looking inside more. Unironically, that's where all the good shit is. But, I'll admit, I'm even finding it tough at the moment without a gf or even just a chick I wanna hang out with. We really need connection and i genuinely wish we didn't. I wish I could just browse biz all day, but connection is necessary

You're gonna make it brah, it's just a sucky time right now. Unless you're a manlet or an ugly, you might not make it. Thanks for posting this, I really needed to see it. I'm 30 btw. It's legit impossible to find a girl I like and I'm gonna tell you now, if you start meditating, it might become even harder. So many people have such retard normie problems and having to come out your glorious bubble to deal with them sometimes just isn't worth it

I'd say there's about 1 in every 50 girls I see that are gf material on tinder, and the odds of them seeing me are probably under 5%. So yeah it sucks, but it's best to have some compassion for yourself. Everything is truly inside. dont even care if i get called a faggot for this

>> No.29331844

>>29328861
Welcome to 2021. What a world we live in.

>> No.29331854

>>29328861
Are you taking in supplements, vitamins and proper electrolytes? So make sure your gut health is in balance. Research THE FUCK out of all that stuff and start intaking everything you can asap. Also exercise, have fun with your money, find Christ, travel and find some good hobbies with a learning curve that explore your creativity. Also get into vegetable and fruit gardening and hiking.

>> No.29332002

>>29331704
>>29331776

Going to try the meditation anon. I actually use to do it a lot and I definitely noticed that it eliminated a lot of fog for me. Don't even know why I ever stopped.

Yeah I hope we make it mate. Just tough times I guess.

>> No.29332017

I have a wife and children. I live in the suburbs and am trapped in 6 figure hell. I dream of moving to Montana to Alaska or Switzerland one I make it but realistically I know im probably just going to stay where I am. My life is fulfilling in all aspects aside from my dreams being dead

>> No.29332018

>>29330114
Same.

>> No.29332116

>>29331854
Yeah I take vitamin D, go to the gym, and love creating art. I am in connection with god, but haven't connected through Christ as a conduit. not opposed to it. If I make it I think I might travel a bit. I need to get away. Go for some nice walks.

>> No.29332184

>>29332017
What were your dreams?

>> No.29332243

>>29332002
I've meditated for over 2000 hours and theres still days i dont wanna do it. Our brains are so fucking autistic sometimes

Sorry another thing that worked for me that my mate showed me is literally do not give an actual fuck about anything out with yourself. People will say you're wrong and you're a prick etc etc, but that's cause they're insecure in who they are. Maybe you already dont care, but it really is the only way

You're 100% gonna make it

>> No.29332281

>>29331423
Yea, this is the blackpill, and why rich people can also be depressed. It is also why some billionares work to the grave. Sense of purpose. Honestly if given a choice between 10 million dollars and rewinding a year and making corona never happen, I'd take the latter in a heartbeat.

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>>29328861
I feel like younger would think im settling, but im actually really happy and content.
I had a string of absurdly attractive women in my life, and some crazy sexual escapades, but now at 26 im engaged to a girl who's cute but not conventionally attractive and has some health issues. But even after a year of covid spending 24/7/365 together (including 6 months living with her parents) ive never enjoyed someone's company more.
I work a pretty boring marketing job that doesn't change the world in any way, but I like my team and I work remote full time so I can trade crypto and chill with my dog. Ive learned I love to cultivate plants and things like aquariums, and drinking is starting to seem like more of an inconvenience than a fun way to spend time. I used to be desperate to meet new people and tried way too hard at being extroverted, but now I have a small network of close friends I dont feel the need to talk to constantly, we just can drop in or keep up via vidya or whatever.
Im 26 and im boring as fuck but ive never been more comfy. Its a weird feel.

>> No.29332356 [DELETED] 

>>29331047
I take this back, now I'm thinking about how poor I am and it's getting depressing lol

>> No.29332384

I have polyostotic fibrous dysplasia and my legs have broken so many times they're permanently crossed. My wife left me in October, which I understand. She wanted "someone she can go on hikes with." I don't blame her, my legs have already deteriorated in the last few months since she left to where I doubt I could even do sex.

I've been obsessed with crypto for years, but now I'm realizing that even a 10 figure net worth one day won't improve my physical existence. I am in constant pain and discomfort that can only be alleviated with opiates, but opiates make me feel soulless and dead spiritually. I'm sisyphus between a rock and a hard place.

>> No.29332406

>24
>1k net worth
>virgin
>took lsd today so I feel pretty good
it’s been a fucking hard year man. I feel myself growing apart from my friends by the day. The loneliness is hard to take sometimes.

>> No.29332495

Imsgine being me, 26 virgin, never had a gf. 10k to my name. redpilled asf. all i see is normies and idiots. lonely asf. do small gigs to get buy. Literslly crypto is my only way out of this hell.

>> No.29332574

>>29328861
Yes. Also 33. I pretty much just sit in my room and watch war clips / aesthetic edits all day, go to the gym, and shit post with you niggers.
Got laid off in the fall and I’ll be back in the spring but I literally do fucking nothing all day.
I’m not a particularly good looking guy but I’ve fucked some pretty attractive girls and even when I was at work girls would slide me their number. Now it’s all dried up. I get nothing on tinder. My life is incredibly boring, I see no friends, not sure I even have any left. I used to go out almost every single night even in my mid twenties.
I’m doing better financially than I was working because of crypto and other investments so it’s not like that’s really bothering me. I don’t think money is going to fix my problems.
I want there to be a collapse / civil war so I can feel alive again and die an honorable death on the battlefield

>> No.29332633

>>29332384
I got addisons disease last year. Sorry to hear lad, dont give up hope, try to enjoy the world even if ppl csn be such npcs

>> No.29332712

>>29332310
This is what I'm trying to get to, just have something to keep going everyday, but it seems fucking impossible. Whenever I read posts like this it just feels like it's someone lying to themselves that they are actually enjoying everyday

>> No.29332723

>>29332384
If true, damn. I was incapacitated once, and it was a nightmare. You can't buy health, and being in good health and impecunious is better than wealthy and infirm. Honestly, prioritize trying to fix your body over all else. Call up some old friends to take you on walks. Trust me, your bank account won't mean shit to you if your condition deteriorates. God speed.

>> No.29332725

>>29329001
>look anon a nigger spit at him

kek you act as if my father didnt do that.

>> No.29332890

A lot of you fags here have absolutely nothing to be depressed about and probably deserve to endure worse before you start appreciating things in your life.

>>29332384
Sorry to hear about that. Stick around, there is much ahead you’ll want to see.

>> No.29332946

>>29328861
Definitely not OP:
>24
>Graduated from Uni at 22
>Got a job immediately,
> Moved up and now pushing 100k salary
>Have 350k crypto (mostly LINK)
>Just bought a house
>Have gf

I feel empty and don't have anything to look forward to either, I don't see a future with gf or anything of the sorts. Crypto gave me gains but I can't enjoy them since none of it will let me escape my current situation. All i think of is the route out of this hellhole and the most efficient way to do it already and be done

>> No.29332948

>>29332384
I'm sorry dude, your situation sounds rough I've had a rough run myself very sick with a genetic disorder and possibly MS or ALS but I still try to find happiness in little things while I still can, women aren't the end all be all to existence but I understand your condition makes everything that much harder.

>> No.29333043

>>29328861
Don't know this feel. Just came back from a bbq in nature with friends. Learn social dynamics retard

>> No.29333065

>>29332946
What situation exactly is that? I must have missed something from the story go get your blood work done cause sounds like your lacking something.

>> No.29333147

>>29333065
i dont have a purpose and want to kms everyday

>> No.29333219

>>29332116
Don't just stop at vitamin D, anon. Zinc, magnesium citrate, fish oil, all the vitamins you can take, iodine droplets, L arginine, L theanine, Lions Mane by host defense, French maritime pine bark extract, leafy green vegetables, apple cider vinegar and other nutrients are things ill take until the day I die.

>> No.29333286

>>29332948
>>29332890
>>29332723
>>29332633

Thanks bros, I really appreciate it. I'm completely isolated, I literally never leave my house, just order groceries and Doordash. My family is on the other side of the country and I have no friends out here. I'm not gonna give up though, my dad and his dad both shot themselves and that makes me determined not to continue that cycle no matter how bad it gets.

>> No.29333303

>>29333147
You just need a perception check, I'm literally poor and dying but I still know my existence is worthwhile because I exist.

Try looking into Alan Watts his philosophy might help you understand why you are here, your trapped by your ego and believe you are unique but the reality is we are all reflections of a single person, our confusion comes when we try to place a reason and logic to why we are here, we are here for the same reasons all life is here to procreate live create and die.

>> No.29333361

>>29332310
It's Self acceptance and congruence in living exactly how you feel. Most peoples issues come from being different from who they actually are. It's why instagram is such a mind fuck. You've made it anon

>> No.29333441

>>29333286
You shouldn't I came to this forum broke depressed and looking for an outlet to vent to people about how horrible my life is, but I actually was helped remember my more philosophical side and find my center through helping others understand there is a point to our existence and it's human interaction, I've been emailing other anons here just because I can tell many need help we all need help but money can't fix existential crisis.

>> No.29333567

>>29333286
And I felt a one on one personal outlet to talk to the same people would help remind people are generally good and we should be happy to be alive, I type this all with a splitting migraine and eyes strained but I know it's more important to pull up your fellow man rather let them wither on the vine if even small words can help.

>> No.29333568

>>29328861
Yes. I literally drink a 24 pack every day and eat one mcdonalds or fast food meal a day.

>> No.29333613

>>29333147
See a therapist

>> No.29333627

>>29328861

The friends I made during university make the post college life tolerable. Find some fellow autists that indulge the same autisms you are into.

>> No.29333653

>>29333286
Force yourself outside. ffs build a snowman, learn taichi from youtube, anything to stave off the degredation. I didn't go outside for a few months last year and almost blew my brains out. Even just go lay down in the grass or snow for a bit. You have no idea how much your genetics craves Mother Earth. Tomorrow, just 10 minutes, give it a try.

>> No.29333691

>>29333147
Go to any wilderness near you with a good pair of boots and a backpack of supplies for a day or two. Then take the fuck off into the woods and detox from life. I don't give a fuck about what you do. Just go out there. Get away from humans. Listen to the birds, watch fish jump in the water. Take a fishing pole.
We evolved since the beginning of life on earth to be immersed in nature, to hunt, to fight the elements, etc.
I don't care if you might not be oudoorsy. GO OUT THERE. Get a dose of nature in its raw form.
Nothing else connects me more to God/contentment/happiness than sitting around a campfire I built while the sun sets.

>> No.29333692

I got too stoned last night and started tearing my reality apart.
I realized that some people have imposter syndrome but I’m an actual imposter

>> No.29333709
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29333709

Reminder people that if you are depressed now, when you are rich you are still going to be depressed you are just going to be rich and depressed. Suicide rates among the wealthy with mental health issues are actually higher than poor people with the same disorders! Socialists don't want you to know that fact.

>It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven.

That is not to say wealth is bad, but that it has no bearing on salvation because that all comes from within. You are all loved unconditionally whether your portfolio is 1$ or $1,000,000. You did triple back-flips through hoops of fire a million times in a row in order for the universe to line up just right so you could be born on this spinning rock.

>> No.29333764

>>29333567

These interactions are definitely encouraging, thanks man. I'm not open with my family about how hard things have gotten because I don't want them to feel pain from me being in pain

>> No.29333768

>>29330558

what are your standard?

no trains ran, somewhat interesting and somewhat attractive?

can only pick 2, such is life

>> No.29333799

>>29333441
I like your outlook anon. The cynical shit is tiring.

>> No.29333894

>>29333692
Why do you say that?

>> No.29333999

>>29333764
>>29333799
Thank you both, watch this video it's a short one his longer speeches are much more profound but he is one of the only genuine "gurus" I'd actually listen to.

He has many many long speeches I would suggest just turning them on in the background and maybe going about your day, remember life is beautiful and rich the tree's are wonderful the animals are here for us, and we need to enjoy life more not man made machines that are designed to stimulate the brain repeatedly.

I do honestly love you all because you are me and I am you.

>> No.29334043

>>29333653

I'm blessed to have a small fenced in back yard, and God sent me a cat I didn't even want who just started living with me. She likes to go outside, so I have to sit out there with her to keep her from fighting with strays.

Being in nature and feeling the sun and the wind and listening to the birds, it brings my spirits up every time. There is a specific hummingbird who comes and chirps on one of the branches of the tree in my yard every single day.

>> No.29334055

>>29331704
I agree with you. Dating apps are awful because people think they’re better than they are and it’s impossible to find someone just to chill with.
I wanna meet someone cute to hang out with but everyone only talks about sex, sex has become so easy to get its boring and I literally can’t meet someone just for sex, it’s so emotionless and mostly I just wish I’d stayed home and jerked off.
I wanna meet my soulmate not some ‘Live, Love, Laugh’ whore with stupid lips and normie values.

>> No.29334070

>>29333999
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XmTxovSZxqI

>> No.29334078

>>29330558
>have lower standard and are okay with a hog
>not taking the brappill

ngmi

>> No.29334083

>>29332712
I'll admit its not bliss every minute of every day. I have bad days or weeks still where I'm depressed and I doubt things. I think everyone does, especially in times like these. But I also have many days where I feel whole and content in a way I never did before, even as a child. There is no point in time at which life is perfect, but sometimes you can look back and see that you're closer to it than you used to be.


>>29333361
We are all gonna make it anon.
I just need enough crypto gains to pay for my aquarium that got wiped out in the Texas deep freeze last week and ill feel like a winner.

>> No.29334092

>>29333441
>>29333567
>>29333799
People who haven't come to 4chan and the like don't understand that there is a genuine rawness including kindness that comes out here, even on pol and the like, which has a meaning that artificial virtue-signalling on facebook, reddit, insta, etc. can't hold a candle to.

>> No.29334271

>>29328861
i'm not depressed, just numb and uncaring. i've worked from home for the past year because of the chink flu. i work 5 days a week. the weeks fly by. my memories of the past 6 months are like, watching the simpsons treehouse of horror, thanksgiving, christmas, and that's it. the MONTHS fly by. learning crypto is the only thing that gives me hope.

>> No.29334331

>>29334092
People don't get it. 4chan is the airport bar of websites.

>> No.29334341

>>29334092

you get the full range of everything, people also don't realize that IF you come across something that offends you, you can either A use the scroll wheel or if you're 1337 opt for option B aka alt+F4 and voila...

it's what makes the chans the chans,

>> No.29334416

>>29328861
exactly the the same situation with no solution in sight. have an almost 7 figured folio so i can't tell anyone how how successful i really am or else i won't know if they actually like me or just want some of my money

>> No.29334531

I'm a first year at uni and I was a NEET for the past 2 years.
What should I do when everyone reopens again?

>> No.29334661

>>29334070
Damn anon that really fucking hit me. I took some LSD earlier today so I guess I’m primed for “coincidences” to happen but that felt like something I needed to hear

>> No.29334689

Yeah.

I'm 30. I've been with two pretty attractive women in my life; wanted to get married to both. Both of those relationships went pretty badly sideways and I'm just left pissed and jaded and feeling cheated. I've never had a particularly easy time of it, my parents are both smart as fuck but mental illness runs in my family and they sent me to some of the worst urban schools in the country. That fucked me up really well.
Lost my job to corona. Now I'm back at my parents house. Lost out on SIX jobs this year as well. Had additional drama happen with ex #2 that just made me very sad.

Hoping for one final crypto 5x is all that keeps me going sometimes. Everything out there seems like such incredible shit. I don't have an explanation for how things got so fucking bad. It wasn't supposed to be like this.

>> No.29334702

>>29328861
yes, I feel the same.

not just girls, just peoples minds in general all totally pozzed npc's. to the point that I prefer talking to anon trolls on here than to anyone else really. because at least once you weed out the shitposts and trolls there's more truth in messages here than all the fake talk I hear outside.

I try to pick up hobbies and have things I enjoy but end up dropping them quite fast again. Things that help me are just enjoying my daily routine, enjoy being otherwise healthy, go outside, listen to music, create things.

When I think about the future I don't worry as much about the financial part, but about how to form a family. While I know there are good women out there, it has become such a shitshow that I feel either I get lucky or I have to deal with some fake hoe.

>> No.29334713

>>29334092
You are correct but we as individuals can change the narrative, I myself was guilty of pushing edgy rhetoric and know I contributed to the madness we see around us today, but like a snap of a finger you can fix the narrative by being what you know in your heart is right, we are born here to help others, most think of this as money and not time and personal interaction and this is a manmade thinking, we need other people because we are other people.

I spent many years isolated from other people and of course I enjoy time to myself mostly because It's hard to entertain and be in pain at the same time but when I am feeling good enough my entire existence is to help my fellow man it always has even as a child and always will be.

I get shit on because of it and take it with a smile because I know the more truth that rings out the harsher the critic will be, to those depressed you are lacking genuine human interactions and existence in itself, the winter makes this harder but retain the knowledge that spring brings new life and breathes fresh life into us all.

If I didn't learn these things I would be bitter suicidal and would not be here talking to you folk today, many folk claim being depressed but I've lived a life of depression and attempted to take my own life and failed but every single horrible incident in my life was only to make me the person I am today.

Which is nothing really but everything at the same time.

Do reach out to loved ones and be honest with people it's the only way to really enjoy being alive.

>> No.29334771

>>29333303
>alan watts
based

>> No.29334813

>>29334661
I'd suggest listening to more of Watts I don't really do LSD I've done shrooms before but only twice and I still find Watts profound in many ways and his speeches have helped me help people myself including stopping at least 4 people from killing themselves and possibly a few on here just these last few weeks.

>> No.29334864

>>29328861
I think it's too late, we can't go back. whatever "pills" any of us have taken aren't being shat out any time soon, our only choice is to learn tolerance, patience and acceptance. Maybe then every girl is a cool girl.

>> No.29334913

Another one, longer but just as good.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aLg4AV60uWY

>> No.29334944

>>29328861
Sometimes, it's a chronic thing, I haven't had a crisis in years.
Friendships do fade. It's ok. We all have our paths in life, sometimes they converge with another's, but only for a time. It's ok and natural
>>29329402
Ignore the China Virus(tm) it is not stopping you from dating. You are stopping you and blaming la corona. I've been on multiple dates in this thing, nothing bad happened and plenty of people give more fux about human connection than they do about the coof.
Honestly once you realize it's just a big psyop you realize the only way it works is through the manipulation of your mind.

>> No.29335039

>>29328861

34 years old and right there with ya, Anon. Went to the psychiatrist about two years ago after I quit smoking cigarettes and it turned out I was clinically depressed with a serious Generalized Anxiety Disorder. I got on medications and help from therapy. I feel 95% better than I did before, but still extremely lonely despite being successful. It's a shitty, hopeless feeling for sure! Especially given the fact that most women are vapid, shallow whore trash. Good luck to you, fren.

>> No.29335134

>22
>invested 4k last, now at 15k
>career picking up
>model gf that loves me
Still incredibly depressed. Happiness comes from within unironically.

>> No.29335158

>>29334271
it's a time machine really, everything is flying by extremely fast

>> No.29335218

>>29334944
How do I ask girls for their number without coming off as a complete retard?

>> No.29335242

>>29330199
>what's the college climate like these days? are people enjoying themselves?
Kind of. Doesn't compare to previous years, but people are still keeping social in any way possible. Been to a few parties.

>> No.29335245

>>29332384
Sorry to hear that bro, stay strong.

I recently separated from my wife. I have no contact with family - they're all alcoholics or mentally ill. No friends - my best friend growing up turned into a wannabe Silicon Valley asshole. I moved countries and am currently sitting in the last few days of a hotel quarantine with an uncertain future. I really just want to buy a dog and not work for a few months.

>> No.29335454

>>29334713
Youre an absolute mindsetchad anon

>> No.29335570

>>29332495
Just get a slim thicc college cutie whore and pay her $150 for a half hour so you can lose your v-card.

>> No.29335705

I am anon. I have busted my ass this past year to go from consistently having a three figs in my checking account and 500 dollars in savings, to 62k in crypto last time I checked today. The fact that I feel worse off than I did before sickens me. I feel dirt poor and priced out of everything I have been striving for. Like I'm Sisyphus pushing that boulder up the hill. Feelsbadman. I haven't even begun to face the fact that I have withdrawn from a good majority of my friends and am the loneliest I have been in years. I just hope we all make it... seriously.

>> No.29335707

>>29335570
Where do you go to get whores anon?

>> No.29335738

>>29335454
Haha thank you kind sir, I enjoy my thinking but it was gathered over a certain amount of years, but it should be shared amongest other men to make them realize this life is a joke and we should be laughing.

Even in my condition I am happier than most people I know, because I enjoy the present moment and it's really just that simple.

>> No.29335887

>>29335738
thank you anon.

>> No.29335914

>>29335218
You don't ask for their number you ask them to do something fun and if they accept you give them your number and hope for the best.

>> No.29335961

>>29335218
"What's your number?"

I'm not even shitting you. If she requires more subtlety than that, the juice isn't going to be worth the squeeze, anyway, and you can move onto the next one. Seriously, don't overthink it. Be emotionally detached, just like when trading.

>> No.29335988

>>29335705
Let us speak it into existence. We will be okay.

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thread theme
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhCLalLXHP4

>> No.29336071

>>29335245
Where you quarantining? Heard SG and HK weren't bad, CN a bit iffy depending on your ingress. I'll be back out that way as soon as my "day job" wants my papers re-authorized.

>> No.29336125

>>29335961
Honestly that's my problem, I don't overthink trading, but I overthink social situations like that. I dunno I'm weird.

>> No.29336300

I 100% believe that we as a society need to be replaced. There is very little in the modern west that deserves saving. Literally the only thing we have is what is already behind us, our history.

The thing that convinced me of this was how corona was handled. A healthy society that deserves to propagate itself will never sacrifice the wellbeing of its young to keep its elderly around for a while longer. And that is totally what was done. Young people got fucked even harder over 2020, even more than they got fucked before, which was already historically bad. Young people can't make money, cant meet other young people to maybe have a shot at some kind of relationship, cant advance our lives in any fashion. So boomers can keep ever so lightly safer from "the virus".

A society that willfully cannibalizes its own young does not deserve to survive.

>> No.29336305

>>29336053
Yes anon. Had to throw this one on the speakers

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>>29336125
Pretend she's a shitcoin and FOMO your number at her, then.

>> No.29336466

I'm trapped in a mortgage for a house I hate. My father is the cosigner and won't release because he thinks I don't know shit. Motorcycles blow me raspberries at 5:30am every morning and there are no singles for 30 miles. I live in fear of the bubble popping and being $300k underwater on this place and truly stuck here.
My only hope is to enter 7 figure hell, get out with tax, and liberate myself

>> No.29336528

There is nothing to look forward to anymore, it seems most people just aspire to consume media

>> No.29336611

>>29334689
>It wasn't supposed to be like this.
It was. You just thought it wasn't lol.


Also what kind of pussy thread is this? Just laugh it off you faggots. Being sad and depressed doesn't get you anywhere. Society is literally collapsing, embrace it and make the best of it. Ignore the rules and conditions. You are still caught up in the matrix and in the system. Freedom can only be archived in your head. There were people working in Gulags as slaves, freezing and hungry and they were the happiest people. Stop browsing this shithole and go on a spiritual journey. No amount of money and no woman or car or whatever you faggots think, will ever make you feel better or fill the void inside yourself longterm. All you are doing is running away from your problems.
>>29332281
>It is also why some billionares work to the grave. Sense of purpose
This is close. But it is not about the sense of purpose. They just distract themselves from their true self and from their problems one way or another. Same with every other addiction. workaholic is just addicted to work.

Soulless shit board

>> No.29336645

>>29336300
it's the responsibility of those who can to protect those who can't.

>> No.29336732

>>29336300
This 100%

>> No.29336733

>>29336528
Incorrect that is how they want you to believe, around the corner life breaths anew and your brain will think diffrently I guarantee you this, let the consoomers consoom they will find water eventually or they will be swept down the river.

You need to remember your important because you are alive and your heart is beating, remember we are born into this world with the most complicated machine known to man without any manual and we know how to control it immediately.

There is a reason your here don't concern yourselves with those who choose to be lost.

>> No.29336743

>>29328861
I didn't have any friends or a girlfriend. I didn't leave my house much and when I did I did so alone. I'm feeling great! It took me many years but I've learned to be comfortable alone and inside.

>> No.29336746

>>29336466
Look into leaving the country as a cope my friend. If things go truly south then just tell your idiot dad to fuck off and leave. Spend your time working at hostels in Europe or AUS/NZ, fucking travelling cuties. It'll beat the hell youre in now.

>> No.29336818

>>29336300
Coming to this conclusion in December was pretty much the final blackpill for me. It showed me how truly psychopathic the people "in charge" are and how they will do whatever necessary to hold on to their power. On top of that, the fact that so many in our generation welcome this shit with open arms as they tell themselves "at lest I'm not racist" makes me so sad.

>> No.29336822

>>29336071
I quarantined in SG in what was my apartment - I then quit my job. I absolutely hate SG and the people in it - expats and locals both. I've never met a worse group of people. I left for Taiwan (managed to get a 6 month visa) will be free to roam Taipei later this week.

>> No.29336840

>>29328861
I just want to share this with this board because I spend all my time here.

I have never had a gf and my only experience with women since college has been sugar babies. I'm 30. It's been a pretty shitty life and COVID has just exacerbated it. Dating apps are absolutely horrendous right now.

I somehow managed to get a date with a legit 9.5/10 25 year old nurse who seemed to hit it off with me. We spent three hours together and kissed at the end. After a few days of texting here and there she ghosted me. I can't possibly manage to consider the horrible "matches" I get compared to her now, and the inability to comprehend why she stopped talking to me is something I can't get past.

I literally made over $1.5MM off GRT this month and I barely give a shit. This is the first million I've ever made and I felt good about it for exactly one day. I am going mad by myself in my apartment and there is no end in sight. I can't even travel with my money because I'm not taking the fucking jab.

>> No.29336884

>>29328861
just accept the things as they are. life is an endless suffering.

stay the fuck away from women btw. you can thank me later.

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>>29336300
Well put

>> No.29336968

>>29336645
What the fuck are you talking about? The boomers are the ones in control, both because they control governments and the majority of the wealth, and they are doing everything in their power to save themselves at the expense of everybody else.

>> No.29336979

>>29336900
>>29336818
>>29336732
weak men

>> No.29337018

>>29334092
honestly my friend, I found myself completely surprised by how wholesome this board in particular can be and how much good advice and support can be found here

it goes to show we're not only here for the money, but also here for each other.
You are not my friend, you are my brother, my friend. WAGMI

>> No.29337076

>>29336840
wtf are you me? Except I didn't make anywhere close to 1.5MM

>> No.29337078

>>29336968
you hate the minority of people that hold wealth enough to let your grandparents die?

>> No.29337135

>>29336840
>I can't even travel with my money because I'm not taking the fucking jab.
top kek
You are just looking for excuses. You can travel to fucking Mexico right fucking now and party and have a great time. Nobody forces you to get the vaccine just yet. Also nobody tests your blood at the airport. Fake the fucking document and you are good to go, once they force you to have it.

Like I said, you are all mostly still imprisoned in your minds and that is your problem. Not the current state of the world

>> No.29337147

>>29336979
How does realizing they weaponized people's empathy to accelerate their corporatist agenda make me a weak man?

>> No.29337156

>>29337078
I don't hate anyone, you fucking retard. I just don't think it's a good idea to destroy the lives of everyone who isn't 75+ years old, just so that those who are above 75 can live another year or two before an ordinary flu virus takes them out.

>> No.29337258

>>29336840
You take the wrong approach, I've helped many anons here with relationship advice as well including just trying to have a good time there is nothing inherently wrong with this just be honest.

Learn to attract a woman using your mind and sparking their imagination and you will be kissing as soon as you meet and won't be going on dates till the third for fourth time together, pretend you are poor and have to find unique ways of getting her to enjoy you.

Don't let your money become your personality or you will attract only the worst kind of women, the lady I'm seeing now is absolutely gorgeous, loves cooking me food nonstop and is amazing, successful and intelligent and only had one relationship.

But I sparked her mind and instantly won her heart because I live my life completely broke which makes you learn to do things in a different approach and doing so you will meet a woman who wants you for you not your material goods and accomplishments.

>> No.29337355

>>29336840
how much do you pay sugar babies?

>> No.29337376

>>29337258
Do you have discord anon?

>> No.29337404

>>29337156
I framed it as a question for a reason, no need to get angry. every generation has it's war, you're the faggot complaining and not enlisting.

>>29337147
is that an excuse to throw it away?

>> No.29337420

>>29336822
I used to live and work deep in the Mainland, and loved it and the people (the pollution, not so much). Last assignment in Japan, which is clean but... the people and culture are icy as fuck. SG looks so good on paper, but every person I've met from there is a pompous shithead. Ugh. HK is pleasant, but haven't been in years. Will have to visit Taiwan on vacation, I guess.

>> No.29337458

>>29332281
>rewinding a year and making corona never happen
This hoax was planned ages ago, before the world wars, even.
You'd have to go back a lot further than a year.

>> No.29337461

>>29336979
Lock urself in for the next few years u retarded Corona fanatic but let other people live their life

>> No.29337519

>>29337258
Thanks. I made the money shortly after she ghosted me so it wasn't a factor in our relationship. I thought things went well. Apparently not well enough.

>>29337355
I try not to pay more than around $150 any given time I see them. I'm kinda cheap with it and that does limit my selection.

>> No.29337549

>>29337376
I don't yet but I might very well make one I'm getting lots of emails asking me to teach others, I will put my protonmail in here, I might not respond immediately because my responses are usually very long and sometimes I may not be feeling well but I always respond to anyone.

AlanWatts2021@prontomail.com save it for now I'll probably make a cord later on because it's clear people want to hear my opinions and I'll gladly give them.

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>>29337018

>> No.29337607

>>29334944
I'm dating too, but riasties are bitter af
They aren't used to hardships and especially society going against their will. Corona enrages them quite a lot

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wife left last feb then came back a few months later then just up and left again for no apparent reason. lost my job due to chink flu and i live abroad far from my family. mom just broke her shoulder and had replacement surgery and i can’t go visit because muh virus. the truth is i’ve been able to handle it because my dog is just too damn loyal and we’re a team. for anyone that’s suffering i suggest bringing an animal into your life. i rescued my dog and he’s like my son now he’s so appreciative and will never betray me unlike humans. don’t give up and don’t expect money to put yourself into order. happiness is within yourself it’s not due to external causes. your mind is more powerful than anything in the known universe so use it to your benefit and control your own condition mentally. godspeed anons whatever afflicts you

>> No.29337647

>>29337519
She wasn't the right one for you then, I have had mostly only success with women, the ones who were cold or too hard to keep attention were clearly not interested in anything serious anyway, women can give off an incorrect opinion, sometimes it's easier to lead with a sexual approach and you'll know when a woman likes you the way she looks at you very quickly.

>> No.29337664

>>29331704
>2016 was the most based time for tinder, it was insane. Legit fresh pussy everywhere.

thousand times this

hooked up with my ex from tinder in 2016 which I royally fucked up but I could easily have a decent conversation then a date with a woman on it. now? tried multiple times since but the apathy and lack of care or effort is fucking disgusting moreover tinder even made the read receipts a pay to see feature which was free back in 2016.

>> No.29337697

>>29337461
>Corona fanatic
I'm doing what I need to live my life, i'm gussing you've spent more time "researching" it then I have.

>> No.29337706

>>29335039
Wtf nigger what are you doing? Are you new here or what? get rid of the goy pills asap

>> No.29337768

>>29337635
i'm itching to get a dog so bad. should be able to get one in a few months. looking forward to it.

>> No.29337823

>>29337519
Are you getting them from SA? $150 seems cheap? Is this a business transction type thing or are they generally into you first and sugar babies second?

>> No.29337856

>>29337458
Even though the world may have been broken, I have adapted. But this pandemic literally travel stranded me as borders locked, separated me from most everything, and made it tough to reforge whilst still in limbo. I'd say continual shutdown and travel freezes are a "black swan" event, relative to typical goings-on.

>> No.29337940

>>29337664
I agree. it was my first year of college and it was the wild west. No subscription bullshit either

>> No.29337951

wew.

>> No.29338037

>>29337768
unless you have a specific breed in mind i suggest rescuing a dog. i tear up when i think about the hard life he had before he met me. he was a street dog and had a harsh life based on his condition when i got him. the vet said he was just over a year old and the poor thing was in rough shape. now he’s healthy and happy and based beyond belief. there’s nothing like a dog for a friend. they have no inhibitions at all and they’re just innocent as fuck and want love and companionship. ride or die

>> No.29338079

SA will be more expensive. I used a site sugardaddymeets or something like that.

And it depends on the girl. You'll know the more "business"y girls by the looks of them. If they look like a prostitute, they are. I preferred the normal girls because if they're a little inexperienced they tend to be cheaper. Also they're more likely to vet you for actually liking you, so that feels more like a relationship. I stayed good friends with my first sugar for years after we stopped seeing each other.

>> No.29338146

>>29338079
sorry meant for
>>29337823

>> No.29338235

>>29328861
yeah you definitely need a family
as a man life quickly becomes pointless in middle age if you dont have someone to care for

>> No.29338263

>>29338037
I was thinking a Frenchie (bitches love frenchies) or a King Cavalier.

>> No.29338321

>>29338079
Nice If I make it I might look into. Just need to let one out with a fine ass check wouldn't mind dropping $500 if shes cool and that booty fat.

>> No.29338428

I don't really care about human connection, but I do feel pretty aimless and like I'm just drifting through life without a purpose. I don't feel much incentive to have hobbies because it feels like wasting time.

>> No.29338602

>>29334689
trust me bro I know all about additional emotional drama with exes

a month after she dumped me she sent me messages indicating she was in danger of taking her life

everything seems to be ok now but damn that was a rough situation, you're not alone having drama like that

>> No.29338642

>>29337420
>pompous shithead
That's putting it mildly. It does indeed look good on paper (part of my reason for moving there), but two years was more than enough for me.

I used to live in Japan. My last trip there (December 2019) made me want to try and move back permanently, unfortunately that plan got fucked. I would recommend Taiwan though, really relaxed place, very few non-Asian foreigners but people mind their own business/there's no staring. The whole east coast has beautiful tropical nature, great place to rent a scooter/motorcycle and go for long rides.

>> No.29338728

>>29336822
Taiwan is the best place in my opinion but the salaries are quite low sadly. They have the new golden visa what I have been eyeing and then work remote for my Norwegian company

>> No.29338794

>>29338602
Yep. The predominant feeling isnt anger or anything. Its just sadness. Like, things could have been so different, but you chose to just yeet the good things off a cliff.....for what?
The is a sense of justice in seeing someone fuck their lives up, but also sadness in that you did care for them a lot and things could have been very different.
Really puts into perspective how important some choices are.

>> No.29338863

>>29329402
It's not corona that made it worse, it's the tyrannical enforcers, who broke numerous laws and committed moral and ethical violations that are keeping people as slaves that is making everything wrose.
"The Gang" shut down businesses and ruined people's live, not corona.

>> No.29338894

>The reason for your loneliness is the female ego.

Let me elaborate. 10 years ago, women were much, much less hypergamous. Hypergamy is the tendency for a female to date a male that is higher value than she is, in order to climb the socio-economic ladder. It's the easiest, most energy efficient technique in order to obtain a higher quality of life.

Over the last decade we have seen the internet penetrate and permeate our lives. Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Tik Tok, Snapchat, Instagram, Onlyfans, Seeking Arrangement have become common staples in a modern female's arsenal. They have pushed modern feminism in order to socially enable themselves to act like whores (suggestive pictures, suggestive dancing, making slutty statements, appearing like low hanging fruit). Now you CANT SAY ANYTHING because that would make it YOU who is sexualizing HER! (lol)

The singular reason for all of this whoring is very simple. It's to attract a man far outside of her weight class in exchange for easy sex. Low hanging fruit is always picked first. They use the dating apps, social networks & friend groups in order to source an infinite river of men who are willing to blow out their backs and toss them to the streets. What the female gets from this is a heightened sense of self worth - because women derive their value from the highest value dick that is being stuck inside of them. They then begin to act like the highest value man that's stuck his dick inside of her until a slightly more high value man comes along and sticks his dick inside of her. And thus, the cycle repeats.

This means that a 6 thinks she's a 7 because men who are 7's will happily slay her. A 6.5 thinks shes a 7.5 because a 7.5 will happily slay her. A 7 thinks she's an 8 because an 8 will happily slay her and here's where things get tricky. The women who are 8's have a very hard time finding 9's so they mostly all get shared by the upper echelon of men who have a full stable of these women at their whim.

>> No.29339025

>>29328861
I hope you feel better OP
at least you don't have money problems, and are still at the peak of your age
as others suggested when lockdowns ease up take some profits from your crypto and travel, disconnect literally. Explore an other culture and rekindle that human connection you are missing
we're all gonna make it

>> No.29339053

>>29338728
Yeah, I don't want to work for a Taiwanese company, salaries and work life balance are fucked. Will be trying for remote work + the golden visa.

>> No.29339155

>>29338794
that's fucking exactly it dude
she started feeling depressed and everything in November and she didn't tell me

she ended the relationship because she thought it was me that was making her depressed and now it's spiraled out of control

my only wish is that I could've helped her take a different path, but all I can do is my best to make that happen here and now

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Just hit 7 figure networth last week. I'm a little miserable because I don't have any intimacy in my life and I'm not sure how to initiate it. Been chatting briefly with this amazingly beautiful girl on facebook, I day dream about getting with her and us falling in love, but I have no clue how to make it happen. It hurts bros, at least pre covid you could travel and bang whores over seas but now you can hardly even do that..
I also drink too much which doesn't help my cause, gained like 20+ pounds from drinking beer every day. At least I have jesus/family in my life, helps me from eating a bullet.

>> No.29339404

>>29339025
This ^
If you're a burger, go to the country. No corona worries just the things that matter

>> No.29339440

>>29332495
same here but 27
ima stop crypto and social media for a while and focus on studying again so i can have a better job
i just hope it's not too late

>> No.29339446

>>29338894
Now, where do you fit into the picture? Well, you are where you are on the hierarchy. But, like every other man except for the very top crust - you must fuck a full point DOWN. This is why men are walking away from dating, because it's hard to get excited by a female that is a full point below you. It doesn't matter where your placement is on the value ladder, the rule is mostly applied to all men under an 8.

So at first you may begin to think, hmm... maybe it's best if I join the top 10%. I'll go the the gym meme and eat clean meme and work on my side business meme. Then I'll find a more attractive woman! Yes!

Or maybe you plan on striking it rich! If only you had all the money you would have all the women -right? They would all want anon because anon has a (insert number value here). Or perhaps, you need to work on your friend group or join a co-ed sport, that would work right!?

Wrong. You could try your little heart out but mostly, you'll end up with a girl that is 0.5 points higher than what you're currently getting. It's not efficient. It makes no sense to put so much time and energy into a shitcoin that will only go 1.10x. You need a better strategy.

>> No.29339530

Dude, buy a snowplow and help people shovel out there cars, if you dont meet anyone that way go to a bar with the money you made that day. Have a female friend or sibling look at your dating stuff like tinder or whatever you are on. You have enough money to put love and care into yourself use it, put yourself out there and your gonna find what your putting out there, dont dm radom girls you dont know instead dm the girls you meet form the gym, the bar, work, coffee shop, restraunt, a trap house idk idc you have to love yourself enough for someone else to love you back

>> No.29339607

>>29337549
Thanks anon I’ll hit you up. I don’t want to hound you for life advice or anything but you’ve enhanced my life just a little today so I’d like to keep in touch

>> No.29339727

>>29328861
>>29329001
>>29329492
>>29330114
>>29331047
>>29331776
>>29331704
>>29334689
>>29332017
>>29339155

I don’t care if you guys judge me for this but let’s all be friends. We all know most of us are just after the money because it’s an escape from the world we live in. Why not just somebody set up a positive vibes tg group where we can all just be nice to each other and have what looks like some normal friendships during this hell time?

>> No.29339796

>>29339025
>>29339404
Thanks brothers, ironically i'm looking to make it to tennessee, sounds comfy, i'm done with the big big cities. Going to europe might be kinda nice too.

>> No.29339834

>>29328861
>have caring gf that dots over me and makes sure all my needs are satisfied
>have family that cares about me
>doing great at work
>co workers love me
>few friends but good relationships where we constantly seek each other out
>crypto portfolio beyond my expectations
>still fucking depressed every time I'm alone
>haven't been able to get over best friend's death last year
The only reason I haven't killed myself is because my parents depend on me. What do I do anons?

>> No.29339854

>>29339213
lay off the alcohol anon, it only leads to problems.

>> No.29339864

>>29339440
>i just hope it's not too late
I know friends in their early 30s who still have no problem to finding girls in their mid 20s
It is not too late anon. Just do something you like bend the rules and make a lot of money.

>> No.29339978

>>29339446
anon, your mind is warped. going to the gym, building projects, making money should be done for yourself and not women. the plus side is that, yeah, it helps with the women. you can kill two birds with one stone and the main stone should be improving yourself. you sound a little bitter and you want things easy.

>> No.29340012

ITT:
1. Angry incels who will never make it past stage
2. People who think they're depressed because they stare at meaningless numbers all day

>> No.29340038

>>29339834
sounds like you are missing purpose anon. level yourself up. maslow's hiearchy of needs is very real.

>> No.29340136

>>29339727
I am super down for that my friend
I'm a 2nd year uni student and I literally only made 3 friends last year because of china virus
it'd be nice to make some more

>> No.29340225

>>29339446
There are pretty much only 3 strategies you can follow in order to fuck women much higher in value than you are (without paying for a prostitute or sex worker).

1) Build yourself a physical asset portfolio. Over the period of 1 decade, you can amass enough wealth (and debt) to obtain this. You will need: car or truck, home with land or a penthouse apartment, cottage, boat at said cottage, snowmobiles if you're in snowy climate, jet ski for cottage, dog or dogs and a patio with bbq and bar. You are building the perfect set of assets in order for a female to instantly attach herself to you and have the "family life experience" instantaneously. Over time, you will attract friends through work and business and have visitors to your home and away.

2) Become a micro-celebrity. Whatever you are intensely interested in, start vlogging and podcasting about it. Start an instagram, Tik Tok, Snapchat, Youtube for your personal brand and business. Pump out content every week for 1 decade. At some point, there is a good chance that you will "catch on." Congrats, you now have social leverage and can attract women that are thirsty for an instantaneous and publicly visible boost in social status.

3) Move to a country where you are an outlier. Meaning, you are not a commonality and so will be in high demand. A few places to get you started are Thailand, Brazil, Singapore, Peru, Chile, Columbia.

>> No.29340242

>>29340038
Thank you anon. Sometimes it's so simple. I had a giant project I'd been working on and I finished a few weeks ago which is shortly before I started going through all this.

>> No.29340260

>>29339854
No shit, it's just a coping thing, not sure how to deal with my problems sober.. it sucks, I really want to fall in love with a beautiful woman but I know I'd just fuck it up because I'm a fucked up person.

>> No.29340295

>>29339796
Go to a hyperinflated country like mine or argentina
your money will be worth more there and everything is way cheaper as well if you feel EU is more expensive
good luck OP

>> No.29340320

>>29339978
>t.guy who fell for the "just work out bro and make money" meme

>> No.29340443

>>29340260
>not sure how to deal with my problems sober

start with a therapist that you vibe with, you guys can start at square one and figure it out together. call one tomorrow.

>> No.29340448

>>29330199
I sure am. Online classes are comfy and easy, plus I don't have to see a single normie.

>> No.29340476

>>29330199
No one. Not normalfags and not people like us

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>>29328861
I'll be 30 in the summer, and I feel this. other than being overweight (I'm working hard on it), everything is ok. got a decent job, good family, good girl. I'm coming to the conclusion that there are existential needs that just cannot be met. maybe if I was still Catholic ...

>> No.29340495

>>29340443
No, I don't want to, they're all kikes. God is my therapist.

>> No.29340508

>>29340295
i'm a mexibro and argentinian girls don't like mexicans lmao

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>>29340508
No one does, I'm half Mexican and half white, I fucking feel like no one fucking likes us. It's fucked up

>> No.29341075

>>29336300
This is what makes me most depressed. I live in small town USA and it feels like an old folks home. I'm 25 but I feel like a boomer, I have lost all connection to youth. Everybody my age fucked off to some city and I'm here alone surrounded by old people. It's sucking the life out of me and I wish I could just go live somewhere that the average age is 20-30.

>> No.29341211

>>29340508
lmao
try the middle east

>> No.29341306

>>29341075
Traaaaaaaad pol types will rag on people moving to cities but they love to ignore that small towns have been crushed and have become damn close to unlivable. I have experienced much the same shit you talk about my friend.
Not saying cities are great but in a normal scenario you should at least have the opportunity to meet other young ppl and maybe a woman. But now even that has been fucked.
There is no point to continuing this society.

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>no matter how much my bags pump, I'm always going to have a completely fucked up spine because of a single lapse of concentration in the gym at uni a few years ago
I find life exhausting but don't want to die even more, anyone here managed to come to terms with major injuries? I'm just over everything and nothing brings me any joy or interest any more

>> No.29341606

>>29334070
How was the trip brah? tell us everything. been wanting to take lsd for months but haven't since november 2019. bad trip with my ex and last year fucking sucked lsd has been the best days ive ever had, the connection i felt to myself was just insane

>> No.29341626

>>29341306
Don't get me wrong, I would much prefer living in a small town if they had some life to them. I'm sure living in my town was awesome in the 60s/70s/80s but everybody is old and sad and the town is just falling apart. There is no life left here, just a slow decay and I'm afraid of how it will look in another 20 years.

Shit, even in the 00s we had big community events, fairs and festivals, block parties, bonfires, bars were always packed, kids playing everywhere you looked, etc. Nobody does any of that shit anymore.

>> No.29341751

>>29341626
>Shit, even in the 00s we had big community events, fairs and festivals, block parties, bonfires, bars were always packed, kids playing everywhere you looked, etc. Nobody does any of that shit anymore.

I member. Something changed starting around 2012ish, five or take a few. It may well just be as simple as ubiquitous smartphones. Idk. But yeah human interaction has dropped off a fucking cliff. Just in time for us to get fucked with it, right?

>> No.29341807

>>29341626
>Shit, even in the 00s we had big community events, fairs and festivals, block parties, bonfires, bars were always packed, kids playing everywhere you looked, etc. Nobody does any of that shit anymore.

this is a shame. other than with my close friends (of which I only have a handful), I feel absolutely zero sense of community.

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>I went through uni and graduated in december without making a single friend or attending any social gathering. I've also never had a gf
I feel nothing honestly and that's probably a bad sign. I need something to kick my ass into gear. I also need a job

>> No.29341984

>>29341493
what happened anon?

>> No.29342216

>>29341493
Looks like his lower back, I'm sorry anon I suffer myself from something that most likely won't be corrected and take me out soon, try to enjoy your money and live life while you still can.

>> No.29342733

>>29341984
Squats, I was distracted and forgot to account for the extra 20kg of the bar, and that ended up being too much weight
>>29342216
Thanks anon

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>>29341493
Same. My body is falling apart. I can't even enjoy lifting. I am beyond exhausted with everything

>> No.29343482

>>29342733
shit bro, that's scary.

>> No.29343555

I'm reading The Upward Spiral right now and it's helping. It's a neuroscience approach to dealing with depression and anxiety. I also highly recommend The Circadian Code, which explains how sleep works and how you're fucking yourself by not keeping it on a leash, which has a lot to do with depression.