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It still hurts so bad. I see her post new shit with a happy face as if I were never in her life. I said goodbye. She didn't even say it back. We used to talk for months. I was falling in love with her. Then when all was good, she ghosted me randomly. Probably because I am very boring and not spontaneous. I don't like going out. I like routines. I understand why she left, but in the same time, there were no warning signs. Went from 100 to 0 in an instant. I tried talking it out. I tried apologizing. I tried opening up.. I wanted her to stay. I don't get like this with random girls. She was different..

I was also stingy with money, but it wasn't because I didn't care for her. It was because I was and am investing it. I wanted to share my future money with her. I wanted to be with her so badly.. for life.. why does it still hurt after months since we've talked (about 3)? I am not even an afterthought to her while I still obsess over her. She erased me from her brain. Why didn't this creator give males the same ability? This creator gave females the leverage while making males endure all the hardships. I still dream about her.
Why did she hurt me? I just wanted a comfy life..

>> No.29217742

She was fucking someone way before the ghosting happened. You're better off without her.

>> No.29217883

>>29217742
Na, I can tell with this stuff. We would talk morning, evenings, and nights. We were basically communicating every chance we got. I really miss that..

>> No.29217905

Nigger

>> No.29217982

>>29217883
If I didn't have sex then u were simpin

>> No.29218041

>>29217883
We have ID's on this board, gtfo newfag.
>>29217742
Based and cheating cunt pilled.
>>29217573
Anon you should get your life together, she left you cause you're a whiny bitch. Join a BJJ gym, get fit and fuck other women. Easy Peasy

>> No.29218053

>>29217883
Maybe she got burnt out since we did that for months
I wish she could have at least been honest with me. It's odd because throughout the very end, I could tell I was annoying her. I just don't get it. You know how when a female uses emojis a lot? Well she straight up basically stopped and the very last convo we had was her being kind of cold. She wasn't rude, but you could kind of tell she just saw me as a random person at that point.. like all her feelings for me just died

>> No.29218075

>>29217573
>I tried apologizing
Rookie mistake. Never say sorry to your woman,she found a real Chad instead. Learn from your mistakes Anon. There is other woman waiting for you, just man up first. Look up ritual morning, push ups and all, eat healthy and focus on your career/project. Success and determination attracts ladies like nothing else. Man the fuck up, fren.

>> No.29218147

>>29217982
I'm old fashioned
>>29218041
Oh I had mobile data on when I made the post. Also, fuck yourself. I've trained more than most people (not anymore, but even my teen version was more alpha than 99% of males in their 20s).

>> No.29218149

>>29217573
Ouch, sounds like you started putting her on the pedestal and you got burned, chalk it up as a lesson. Also, find a hobby that you can be passionate about and show off, mine is music.

>> No.29218152

Nice blogpost faggot

>> No.29218191

>>29218075
Thing is I've never had trouble finding random people. I just don't care about any of then at all. She was different.

>> No.29218273

>>29218053
>emojis
If you were texting then it wasn't a real convo, texting endlessly is annoying

Did you have sex? If not forget it even happened, if she loved you you'd have done sex

>> No.29218279

>>29218147
>says he's more alpha than 99%
>Didn't have sex with her
You are not gonna make it homie, you should get back to training and bettering yourself instead of worrying about a dumb cunt.

>> No.29218281
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>>29217573
Those that are hardest to love, love the hardest.

>> No.29218308

>>29218149
Ya.. I did. I guess women hate that

>> No.29218339

>>29217573
Here's a tip for you, stop being such a faggot.

>> No.29218342
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29218342

>>29217573
I hope you’ve learned that women are sociopaths and are incapable of love and are extremely conditional. Many many women have drilled this into my head.

What you need todo is make massive gains and low key show it off, it she tries to contact you again just ghost here and watch her rage and call you a faggot.

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29218349

Stop looking at her social media.
Stop looking at social media in general.
Stop cooming and watching porn.
There, follow those three simple steps and you'll be over her within a month or two.

>> No.29218364

>>29217573
Faggot

>> No.29218385
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>>29218191
Ok then she was the only one for you. You'll never meet another one and be happy, send us your crypto and kys

>> No.29218391

>>29218342
you fuck her right and she'll be yours

>> No.29218421

>>29218279
He just told you to fuck yourself and you call him homie? He's a stranger. Beta move, I area lot of betas in this thread

>> No.29218448

>>29217573
you either became too clingy or the sex was really bad would be my guess

>> No.29218452

>>29218342
Once you see this, you cant go back to seeing them as innocent and naive creatures. They know very well what they are doing..

>> No.29218479

>>29217573
Women don’t care about money.

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29218494

you got ghosted coz this is what you do
you post stupid fucking blogposts on 4chan not your personal blog not your personal therapist fuck off stop being such a wimpy beta cuck there is no "the one" there are millions of "the ones" 3 months and you still thinking of some random bitch who ghosted you how pathetic can you get move on go fuck an escort if you need don't look back go do 10 push ups faggot stop simping boohoo a girl doesn't want me anymore im gonna go kill myself wooo boooo fucking normies get off my 4chan

>> No.29218499

>>29218053
did you actually fuck that girl, or were you just simping?
you have to take your shot otherwise women move on
all women are easy to understand in their approach to relationships, they want the man's desire to be overwhelming enough he cannot contain himself and breaks all the rules to be with her
this is why sometimes even rape works if you're not a retard about it
but yes, you sound fairly boring. so stop being boring. the creator gave you the ability to analyze, to understand, and to reshape yourself
good luck opee

>> No.29218519

>>29217573
I bet she sucking on some big ass black dick right now

>> No.29218532

Best thing you can do is only focus on yourself and family (if they treat you well). Improve yourself and she'll come to regret her decisions. Then you laugh at her.

>> No.29218536

>>29218421
Homie isn't just a friendship word, homie.
>209 homie, stockton bitch.

>> No.29218597

>>29218147
oh fuck off then i stopped caring once you were a total faggot

>> No.29218600

>>29217573
Unironically read this book. https://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339
It’s a faggy title and everything but you could learn a few lessons. You’re right women hate when you put them on a pedestal and bend over backwards for them all the time.

>> No.29218605

>>29218053
you did something before this that made her think you were a pussy. sorry, it's cold, but it's how it works. ever hear the phrase "attraction doesn't exist in perception of lower value" ? - read it and think about it, because it's true above all else. unfortunately you did something that triggered her unconscious to think that you are lower value than her, and just like magic, she's no longer attracted to you. happens to the best of us anon. i was with a girl for 3 years and one night i was very drunk and i cried in front of her, and that was it. 3 years of her being literally obsessed with me 24/7 (to the point where it was kinda annoying at times) completely vanished in an instant. i hope for your sake she wasn't goddess tier attractive because it's way harder to buy into the whole 'there's other women out there' approach if you know it's unlikely you'll find someone who's as attractive as she was. chin up though buddy, lesson learned. DESU the fact you're posting about it here means you care wayyyyy too much anyway and that's probably half of the reason why she left.

>> No.29218624

>>29218479
They care about protection for themselves and their future kids

>> No.29218648

>>29218536
Ok Nate

>> No.29218670

>>29218273
She was persistent in general. Like she initiated the convo with me to get to know me. I don't look for people myself. Anyways, I'm old fashioned. She probably was too since she wasn't like the random whores you see on the street
>>29218279
I got depressed years ago which is why I stopped training. Also, I've always had an agro personality which helped me train hard, but I got pretty mentally fucked up in general which basically neutered me
>>29218342
Ya.. I'm starting to see that.
>>29218349
It's difficult for me since I'm not like other people that want to find random sluts. I'm the "only want one person" type so basically when I do end up attached to someone, I end up heavily attached.

>> No.29218681

>>29218279
this is true

>> No.29218712

>>29217573
Next. Think of women as commodities and guess what? The world is full of women. Also, male friendships are better than any bond you'll have with a woman, but not including sexual or having children. Just move on you oneitis retard.

>> No.29218753

>>29218670
Then keep being miserable cunt bitch nigga and wallowing in self pity while she's happily bouncing one someone else's cock.
Pathetic.

>> No.29218859

>>29218670
Youre suffering from a case of (fall in love with the first person who shows me attention". It showed potential but it didn't work, you must move on

>> No.29218912
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>>29218670
"old fashioned" is the most gigantic cope lie in this thread and it makes me want to punch you in the throat until you die
you're not old fashioned, you're a fucking weird coward and that's why she left you behind

>> No.29218993

>>29218670
people have been fucking for thousands and thousands of years and you somehow thought you could keep a girl interested while shutting her off to sexuality because your retarded boomer parents brainwashed you into being a faggot

>> No.29219041

>>29218385
You aren't inheriting any bags besides my nut sack
>>29218499
I answered this. Tb'h, I feel I didn't put in enough effort. Relied too much on texts like a dumbass. Idk. We weren't really together, but it kind of had that vibe because of how attached we got to each other.
>>29218597
Then leave
>>29218605
>unfortunately you did something that triggered her unconscious to think that you are lower value than her, and just like magic, she's no longer attracted to you.
I actually have an idea what it was. It was when I sent her something in particular. At that point she started to distance herself. Just one mistake and she hates me, the fuck.. seemed like an overreaction. Hopefully I eventually can get rid of thoughts for her. End of the day, I hate these hormones and if I could 100% suppress them and focus on nothing but money and my body, I would. I hate that I got this attached

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>>29218670
you completely deserve this learned failure.
knock it off and grow up

>> No.29219089

>>29217573
Because you bored her. The french have a saying: you can do anything to a woman except bore her. They are right.

>> No.29219175

>>29219041
What did you send her anon?

>> No.29219197

>>29218670
also to completely blackpill all of these faggots
this was your fault, not hers. you were fucking boring and lame and weird and she outpaced you
enjoy your "old fashioned" lifestyle of being a boring cunt and just hating women to compensate.
you bored the fuck out of her

>> No.29219213

>>29218912
False. Just to give you an example, in high school girls would flirt with me pretty commonly. One reached for my dick while we were in class for instance. Another just rubbed my back. etc.
Stop projecting

>> No.29219276

>>29219213
no one cares about your weird high school faggot experiences

>> No.29219287

>>29219197
>this was your fault, not hers.
I literally said as much. Learn to read, nignog

>> No.29219362

>>29219276
I was making a point, down syndrome. It's hilarious how I beat the shit out of your asshole and as a response you just say "invalid because it will make me look like a retard!".
All things considered, at least I don't have down syndrome like you.

>> No.29219394

>>29219287
How old are you

>> No.29219426
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29219426

Did you make your feelings known or were you just an orbiter she got tired of?

ASSUMING she was single and you were single, If you didn't make a move then she probably either assumed you weren't interested, or she realized that she wasn't interested. The way you describe how you embarassed yourself after she "ghosted" you makes me think the latter. Brutal but that's how the game works. Take it as a lesson and be more bold next time

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>>29219287
I want you to understand that your "old fashioned" bullshit is literally retarded boomer programming and a gigantic butcher knife cutting your cock off your body to women.
>>29219362
also your replies barely make sense - are you crying as you type?

>> No.29219531

>>29219175
I don't want to dox myself


HEY I'm gonna go for a bit. If this thread dies, just want to let you know 50% or whatever the hell it is of you are absolute faggots that are pathetic for being okay with sloppy seconds. Shows your genes are shit if you settle for just anyone

>> No.29219566

>>29219362
>beat the shit out of your asshole
OP is a faggot confirmed.

>> No.29219569

>>29217573
mods permaban this reddit simp faggot kike. OP kys.

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>>29219531
HAHAHA HE THINKS WOMEN SHOULD BE VIRGINS IN ORDER TO HAVE VALUE TO HIM
CANT EVEN KEEP A GIRL INTERESTED LOL
NO WONDER