/biz/ - Business & Finance

so get a hobby then

>>28163265
What do you study

>>28163265
>I work work work all the time, why would I want to be rich and so be alleviated from having to work less?
You're real problem is it sounds like you're dull in the "boring" sense of the word.. I don't know why you think those things you mentioned are at odds with the value of increasing your wealth.

>>28163416
Bionengineering. Kill me now. I'm doing shitty homework as we speak.

>>28163467
I am dull. I have no personality and my social anxiety makes me look like a retard. No one wants to be my friend. Even if I make it big, I'll be a laughing stock like Mark Zuckerberg.

>>28163265

Anon. You need to stop browsing 4chan and get out of the internet. This place has become a huge time sink that you can't focus on other hobbies. The only way you can actually get something done is go cold turkey for a few days and focus on things you would like to do. Internet/smartphone usage is no different than watching TV.

>>28163265
you can buy friends
you can watch as much anime and game as much as you want since you won't be a wagie
you can fuck hookers who will act friendly to you and pretty much be your sex slaves for an hour. I hired an escort to pretend to be my mommy and had her give me a blowjob and then read me a night story before patting my head to sleep.

>>28163619
I have no friends. What the hell am I going to do? Join some random club and make myself look even more retarded when people there are already friends with one another? I always feel that I'm a waste of space in these type of situations.

>>28163265
not too late i didnt get a gf until i was 27 lol

>>28163731
You can 'buy' friends like you can 'buy' a girlfriend but those aren't the kind of relationships you want, anon. I feel so empty and alone. I don't think I've ever had a close friendship in my life.

>>28163619
also this this place pathologizes you
kernels of truth wrapped in bitterness and kind of encourages this weird acerbic anti-social doomer mindset no joke start listening to jay dyer, primal edge health, cumtown, rooshv, new sam hyde literally helped resocialize me while working a job as barista lmao

>>28163265
and I've never had a relationship in my life

Consider yourself lucky

>>28163265
sounds like you sold yourself on a dream that neither satisfies nor really exists anymore

>>28163869
i literally also had no friends for 7 years get the f off this website i didnt post here for over 4 years and i think im more normal and well rounded now but im here posting to gauge sentiment for the market

>>28163968
How old are you?

>>28164002
29

>>28163912
I don't think you understand. I just want to feel like I'm wanted by someone. I don't want to feel like I'm always fucking up somewhere. Even if it's attention from ugly chick, I'll take it. I hate going outside because I see healthy relationships or people having fun

>>28163744
geez anon how are you so fucked up I'm an engineer in stem 21 as well and i have no friends but i fucking love being myself. Read so philosophy and maybe learn to meditate. Don't compare yourself to others 95% of people are retarded faggots including you. Grow a pair or just neck i don't really care either way.

>>28163812
then you're used to being alone. you know whats better than being alone, fake friends. thats a step up. and maybe through fake friends you can find real friends later. remember, baby steps. getting rich makes the whole process easier. im not one to talk, making 1.2m on crypto didn't give me more friends. it just gave me the excuse to move out and never have to work again. which is based and my dream in life.

>>28164108
Don't you feel jealous of people having fun or having close knit circles though? My mom questions me why I never go outside and I tell her that I'm busy which is partially true. The main reason why though is because I have no friends...

>>28163565
Chill the fuck out. If you're that desperate for connection then go to the gym or take up a sport of some kind. You'll be fit, happy and connected.

>>28164129
no, being alone is fucking great fake friends suck but i do suggest anon makes them-self uncomfortable and builds self esteem. Go find engineers or stem students most of them are social retarded already so youll fit in better eventually your anxiety and self doubt should go away and you can start to talk to normal people again.

>>28163265
Lol you’re 21. Try being 27 and still having none of what you mentioned.

>>28163265
You won't have to work again, that is all you'll have to look forward to. Doesn't matter that's I'm in the same boat and still have the drive to want to make it (doesn't mean I will though)

>>28164344
>go to the gym
I do but no one talks to me.
How exactly do you make friends at the gym tf?

>>28163265
You aren't going to get rich lmao. This is like some fucking insane ultra cope
I DON'T EVEN WANNA BOTHER TO GET RICH
No you are just a poorfag trying to rationalise yourself being poor, you having no friends and being a fucking loser is.a completely different issue.

>>28163265
Your K12 friends. Little did you know, they miss you too.

>>28164246
No because it's all fake and i've already been there anon. I used to drink and go partying it fucking sucked its mostly just a bunch of horny dudes trying to impress the one chick that actually goes out. Unironically it might help to do acid or something to help with anxiety and i'm detecting some autism too. but that's just me. if you still live with mom consider moving out i think that can also work on yourself esteem. Remember that normies don't remember most of the shit you say. I've said some racist shit before and the whole room went quiet but i still managed to maintain friendships. Trust me i was exactly where you were at 14-18 I eventually got laid and have a GF but don't talk to anyone else.

>>28163265
>I have no friends
you have use anon

>>28164393
dont fucking remind me

>>28163265
I'll be your friend, anon.

>>28164475
you don't usually its for building up your body and self esteem. But you could ask someone to spot with you and say you're new to gym they might help you out.

>>28163265
I question this too, but I push on.

>>28164585
I know someone. Should I try reconnecting? What if get shut down? That would kill me.

Hey man, I'm 24 and I study CS and I would like to be your friend. Even if you are boring, I like to ramble at people and talk about random shit. Do you like the sound of that? If so let's find a way to chat, who knows it might be dope.

>>28163265
You need to gain a sense of security and comfortability being alone with yourself.

>>28164362
my anxiety was so bad despite having 4 friends that for years of my life i worked out at home because i didn't want to workout in public. i never bought a car because even though i passed all my G2 and G certifications I always felt anxious driving. Flying didn't used to be scary, but its become worse the older I get and the MORE I fly. Having to go to lectures, present and make "friends" in uni did not alleviate my anxiety. It's something that sticks with you and you have to live with, but I have an appointment next month to possible get pills for it and I suggest the same for OP. They do work for some people.

Those who actually have anxiety disorders will not have them cured by making friends and talking to people. This is a way of thinking, its a part of who you are.

>>28164659
edit when i say party i mean nightclubs house parties are usually a lot better though i usually dont get invited to that shit

>>28163265
start lifting heavy things and putting them back down.

I'm 28 years old. I have never had a friend in my life. I have no hobbies. I don't care about anyone or anything. I have never worked a day in my life. And I'm happy.

>>28163265
The point is becoming rich, everything else doesn't matter

>>28163265
>caring about normie retards
Ngmi

>>28164892
do you possibly have low level aspergers too anon so cool maybe OP just needs to find sperges and sit with them at lunch

>>28164892
I would like that but I don't know, man. How do we do that?

>>28164903
I have bad social anxiety too. I had some sort of speaking issues back in primary school and my teachers noted I refused to talk much or interact with others. I'm not as bad now though.

I don't know why but uni friends aren't like highschool friends. Highschool friends are annoying and dumb, but hey, at least you made fun memories with them. Uni 'friends' seem to care more about themselves than others. They quickly forget you. Trust me, I tried making friends in uni but it never lasts long.

>>28164903
>>28163265
Do you think you anxiety disorder or just low self esteem cause anon pointed out you might need to get therapy or psychiatry if its the former but if its the latter you should just work on yourself

>>28164980
I'm not sure if I have aspergers but I have diagnosed ADHD and social anxiety.

>>28163265
>21
>what's the point

Breh...

>>28163565
Hey what's up, Bioengineer grad here, I'm bored maybe I can help you with that homework. Also buy aave, CFi and ETH. Good luck

>>28165110
maybe you gotta put more effort in to maintain friendships OP seems like you can do it you just aren't consistent.

>They quickly forget you.
that's great because you can stop worrying about embarrassing yourself since nobody cares about that

>>28165246
There's literally 16 year olds who have a much better socially adjusted life than me.

>>28165110
same anon...same
my 2 closest friends (of a total 4) are both from highschool. we have a shared memory of memes and humor, its not something that people in uni that you share 1 class with can develop with. the 2 other friends I got were from a university-affiliated club and a job, it was never people on campus.

>>28164980
I am not neuro-typical, but according to mental health professionals, I "show no signs of autism" but desu I think it's because I hide it so well. I like to be a chameleon. I am very good socially because I can read people like a book, but I am completely unable to read myself. I really just like to chat with people, and right now I feel like I should make a friend. I don't usually tell anyone about these kinds of things, but fuck it, it's a Yugoslavian diesel mechanic forum, so who cares. Here are a few things about me:
>I hard stop all of my sentences. Even one word sentences.
>I like music of all types.
>I can freestyle quite well.
>I can fly fully manual drone decently well.
>I like marijuana.
>I am not particularly rich.
>I am an Eagle Scout.
>I have very thick skin.
>I am depressed.
>I can solve a Rubik's cube in under 20 seconds.

>>28165201
kek does uni have a gamers club or something only a sperg would do like chess or DND something you can do but isn't necessarily focused on direct interaction.

ADHD is pretty close to aspergers so its likely you've got both but they overlap anyway you're probably high IQ too so that can make you more neurotic

>>28165201
Where do you live, anon?

>>28165382
I also have ADHD.

>>28165382
Where are you from anon.

>>28163744
>Join some random club
I just met some guys who do disc golf and it's a huge social scene. Yes, join a club and you will make friends.

>>28165382
err my bad i didn't mean you i meant OP kek

>>28163265
anon

do you fantasize about licking female vagina?

don't be a coomer

Go talk to a female (any female, maybe a store clerk your age) and then fantasize later about licking her vagina

but don't masturbate or coom - this rule has to be followed strictly


if you have good testosterone, you will find meaning in life this way

for low test, go to doc

>>28165382
Holy shit this is the cringiest post I've read this year.

>>28165478
I live in one of the southern states.

>>28165510
Minnesota.

>>28165315
i was a cross dressing faggot at 16 and i wanted to kill myself i hit rock bottom i still recovered so can you

>>28165548
I have never in my life fantasized about such a thing. I have fantasized only about eating their flesh, raw.

>>28163265
I will be your friend. What is your discord?

>>28165574
Tell me more.

>>28165201
Social anxiety is a symptom of Autism. You have bad gut health and low microbes, garden some veggies and and don't wash the soil off, it will help

>>28165574
>this
i didn't fucking ask for his whole life story i was asking OP fuck sake i hate how autistic fucks always interject

>>28165548
I honestly don't care about females that much. I just want to have friends I can chill with or study with. At least so I won't be alone. I'd like to share my thoughts with them, go out to eat, etcetera. I have a hard time talking to the opposite gender, I can't even make eye contact.

>>28165277
>no AVAX
ngmi, ETH is based tho

>>28165382
this was both really cringe and yet somehow wholesome

>>28165315
Yeah and there's men who's hard work didn't get them jack shit until they were middle-aged. You want my advice? Stop wallowing in self-pity, you're going to get caught in a spiral of constant derogatory self-reflection instead of realizing that you're still incredibly young and have the potential to be a success.

>>28165728
>At least so I won't be alone
This shows that you hate yourself. I love being alone. I'm the greatest person in the world, the best, simply the best. Having other people around means that I have to spend effort on trying to improve their lives, but I don't actually give a fuck about them and would rather they all just killed themselves.

>>28165596
I live in Texas, that sucks

>>28165721
Lol OP asked for a friend. I explained to him who I was. Where the hell do you think I was talking to you?

>>28165728
fix low test and get lion's mane mushroom for brain

then lift some weights at gym
that will fix you up

you have low test, this is why you act like you are in school or something kidlike
>I just want to have friends I can chill with or study with.

>>28165698
Will you give me a fecal transplant?

>>28163265
You're right. Give me your coins.

>>28165842
Well, drop your discord if you're interested in talking. Distance is but a number.

>>28165905
Orally

>>28165891
Whatever. Honestly, I'm a girl and I wish I was lying. I can't really be friends with anyone on this board. Only one or two anons were helpful but everyone else just ended up calling me autistic. Anyway I'm going to sleep, thread aborted

>>28163265
fuck off to /soc/ this isn't your personal blog.
also, get a doge to go with your $DOGE.

>>28163265
>JR High, best friend steals my gf
>HS, best friend narcs me to cops
>College, best friend robs my flat
People generally suck anon. far worse thongs than having no 'friends' IMO.

>>28165382
Damn, are you me?

You guys need some creative outlets. Take up writing, drawing, music creation, photography, anything. Go out on walks and take in your surroundings and figure out a way to translate your experience into something others can see/hear. Don't just halfass it either; how does the breeze feel on hour fingers? Doesn't it feel nostalgic how your lungs burn when you breathe in on a winter's night? Take in the blues and greys bouncing off your pale bedroom walls as the clouds pass. Let the summer sunrise after your all nighter engulf your soul. Taking the time to pause and appreciate and find beauty in the everyday and expressing it does wonders on the soul.

>>28166032
>I'm a girl
lmao
you should start with that
regardless try lion's mane mushroom and N AcetylCysteine
both do good for the brain

Damn, I'm bummed I couldn't make a friend.

>>28166032
that changes everything, if you're a women it sounds like your issue is being ugly. there's no reason an attractive women should have problems making friends or finding a boyfriend.

>>28166273
That's true, I might be ugly. Plenty of guys have had crushes on me though in highschool, I just never did anything.

I work at a doctor's office now, I don't even get to interact with patients. Uni is crap I just go there and come back home after 3 hours of lecture.

>>28166360
Last call OP, if you want to chat about and shoot the shit, I'd love to talk.

>>28163265
Brother, join a martial art. I suggest brazilian jiu jitsu. 99% of people in martial arts are retards or spergs trying to become ninjas.
They're not inherently social activities, so you dont have to feel like a retard, but its social interaction enough that you get practice. Also knowing you can hold your own against average guys builds confidence.

>>28166518
Sister*. same applies

>>28163265
Hey man. notice you're having a bit of trouble. unironically dopamine fast for 2 days this weekend. sit in your room and do nothing except physically remove the easy dopamine triggers. check biz and portfolio on a schedule, unless youre gambling on shitcoins in which case watch it like a fucking hawk

just letting you know (freely declared) that
this response to your thread was created by a black man, and i love you all

good night everybody

>>28166272
because you're a faggot

>>28166518
I can't join a sport or club right now because I work more than 40 hours a week. I'm trying to save up to move out because my parents are really restrictive. They even track my location on their phones.

As soon as I have time I'll look into tennis or some sort of book club, I always liked those two things.

>>28166477
I guess we can. Maybe we can talk as I try to finish my homework

>>28163565
"social anxiety" isn't true anxiety, it's just you being a fag who needs to man up
true anxiety is having fear for your life, not whether or not your fellow zoomer fag friends care about what you say or not
next time you feel uncomfortable about doing something, just force yourself. keep doing that until you stop being a gay fag. it's called 'growing up'

>>28166032
You don't have autism. That is a mans disorder. Stop appropriating my culture.

>>28166360
dont you want like a genuine relationship or something? idk whats going on in your head but if you do, there's bound to be guys in the future who will flirt with you just like in HS. Just take them up on it, you're a female you dont even have to make the first move. you're the treasured little flower that all of society has to stumble over to please, use your pussy power to your advantage. if you dont like other women you can always make guy friends, guys are usually more authentic people and less likely to lie about themselves to be socially confirming like you XXs

>>28166713
superball73
@
gmail
Shoot me an email.

>>28166777
Checked, good response

The only guys I interact with are at uni, and right now because of COVID I only have Lab at uni so I'm getting even less interaction than normal. I don't know why but guys in uni don't care and will not talk to you unless you're in their group or something.

Some weird students try to ask for my number or whatever when I'm studying at the uni library but I just ignore them or give them a fake number because what the hell

>>28166763
It's rare, but when women really do have autism, they have it fucking bad. It's like they can only be 0 or 100 and nothing in between.

>>28166980
I have little sympathy for attractive women. There are struggling men out there who are both ugly and autistic. They get no sympathy from society unlike you people.

>>28167195
I am not attractive. I'm just thin with long hair. I'm average in the face.

>>28166777
Not gonna lie, romantic relationships are really overrated. I think I'm done with them for a long, long time. Having solid friendships can be so much more rewarding and freeing.

>>28167318
Why do you feel that way?

>>28167318
Truth.

>>28167195
>>28167260
I can guarantee you're both average. Nothing wrong with that. It's too easy being hard on yourself.

Hey man I’m also a retard autistic. I don’t even know if I’m fucking normal at this time. The punchline is im attractive so people don’t understand why I’m fucking autist. I have no friends and no life. Yay me fren love shiiiiiiiiiit

>>28164905
House parties at the end of school were mad, I miss them

>>28167437
I wasn't talking about myself. I'm not ugly purely for the fact that I workout and actually get regular haircuts. Plus I'm white.

>>28167318
I have never had a relationship. My sexual experience with women begins and ends with escorts from crypto gains.

>>28167260
Assuming you also aren't fat that still qualifies you in the category of being a women that gets attention simply for existing. Now if you actually are ugly and not average, that changes things and I feel bad for you.

>>28167344
Romantic relationships can bring out the worst of you. Distrust, unnecessary stress, I don't have the space to write everything here. I won't lie; they're not a waste of time and effort. There is so much to learn from them, and you and your partner will have so much fun together. But here's the difference between romantic relationships and friendships: your partner is out until 2am without texting you. What thoughts are running through your mind? Cheating is a common one. Turns out they're just at their parents' place. Then all the small things start adding up, why are they acting so odd all of a sudden? You start arguing, shit starts going downhill. You think the relationship is over, life's over.

But if your friend is out until the piss of dawn? Whatever. There are things you can tell a friend but never a partner. There are things you can do without a space for any kind of doubt. If you need to get your fuck on, just get a tinder date or something. A solid friendship can be so much more than what a romance could dream of ever becoming.

>>28167875
There are plenty of lonely single thin women. In fact in today's world a chubbier woman is more desired, I always see thick girls with boyfriends. Now he might not be Chad but at least she's loved.

>>28167964
I've never experienced this but I can understand where you're coming from. I think you just ended up with a toxic person, or maybe you're too afraid of committing and then being played with. You just need to find someone on the same wavelength as you.

>>28168073
yeah and these women have no excuses aside from rape trauma

>>28168073
>>28168195
please show me some tits i dont care if they are mosquito bites

>>28168268
go jerk off to some porn you creep

>>28168195
Probably, and it doesn't help she was way out of my league. She was stunning in everyway. Looks, personality, potential, everything. She has a solid 10 years on me and I'm very WIP, lol! We're still friends and our relationship has actually improved since we split. Sounds like cuck shit but being able to step back and accept that you work better as friends instead of partners is freeing in itself.

>>28168761
get back seriously

>>28163731
Based

>>28163265
You'll be able to enjoy tastier food, maybe visit interesting places in the world if you decide to take a vacation. A more comfy house. Better studying tools. You name it bro.

>>28164129
There's a saying: Better alone than in bad company.
No, fake friends are NOT an upgrade to being alone. Don't listen to this dude OP.

>>28164892
Your name is Kiyle.

>>28169506
Incorrect. Cool name though.