/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>24871060
>do you ever get the feeling like you don't deserve it?
NO HAHAHAHAHA normies are fucking stupid and i will shit on them

>>24871060
that's the attitude that will cause you to subconsciously sabotage yourself and lose everything

>>24871126
this
>>24871185
also this
OP you need to stop giving a shit about poor people and realize RICH PEOPLE LIVE LIKE THIS EVERYDAY. Bezos makes a gorillion dollars per second, it’s just life as unfair as it is. So yeah just enjoy it, try not to think about it too much. Guilt tripping yourself will cause you to be broke forever.

>>24871060
You're not really gaining anything.
It's the rest of the world that is losing their position and slowly becoming destitutes.

>>24871060
i did have somthing like that in the '17 bullrun. not because i didn't deserve it, i worked hard and sacrificied a lot for what was hapening, but i... i wasn't ready and i could feel it. getting money is not the most painful step of learning life, and i had an insane amount of suffering (the kind that's not financial) ahead of me.

now it's different. i'm mentally infinitely more mature and this run is making me feel absolutely euphoric

>>24871185
>the attitude that will cause you to subconsciously sabotage yourself
it is true, but as long as you have that attitude you quiet probably should sabotage yourself. if you feel like you shouldn't have this money, you probably shouldn't.

>>24871060
>ever get the feeling like you don't deserve it?

>>24871060
That's loser talk, anon. You are better than this!

>>24872026

best thing to do then unironically is to work on your subconscious beliefs so you don't end up intentionally fucking yourself over

>>24872188
no anon. best thing to do is to embrace who you are, not change who you are due to fear of fucking yourself over.

>>24872188
if i had a whim and honestly felt like sending all my btc and eth to 0x0000000000000000000000000000000 i wouldn't stop myself. until you have this mindset you can't be true to yourself.

>>24871060
Remove your guilt. Accept your inheritance. Thrive and remember karma exists, use these moments to bring more Light into the world. No act of kindness goes unoticed. I plan to help others anonymously when I make it.

>>24872247

"Who you are" isn't a fucking loser with limiting beliefs drilled into them from a traumatic childhood.

I agree that you should work on discovering yourself more fully, but those bad parts aren't really part of you.

>>24872310
keep in mind whenever you help someone with MONEY, you're fucking everyone else in the world over. make sure the people you give to deserve it more than 50% of the world.

>>24871060
No. This is the best part of my winter right now.
Work sucks. Dad had a stroke on TG eve. This is the main positive.

>>24871060
I never win, so no.

>>24872359
philantrophy is playing god and is actually way more dangerous than is perceived.

good stuff almost never happens to me so i've gott take what i can get

>>24871060
Absolutely not I work my ass of every fucking day and I deserve literal truckloads of money and endless 10's to slob my knob on demand.
Fuck all you depressed faggots.

>>24872350
your childhood didn't happen to you by chance and is 100% part of who you are and always will be. but if you process it properly, it will affect you differently.

>>24871060
You don't deserve it.
Neither do I.
None of us do.
He saved us anyway.

i had to take a chance on crypto with my hard earned money. had to ignore all the naysayers and all the people telling me it was a scam and I was going to lose everything, had to ride the wild swings up and down. had to hold on all the times I felt like just selling everything and calling it quits. all that took a will of steel, goddamn right i deserve my gains

>>24872520
These two men here represent most of us, at the moment.

>>24872568
Eventually, we'll progress to be more like these two.

>>24871060
no

>>24872603
Who is the child looking at?

>>24872568
>>24872603
actually i feel more like this guy at the moment

>>24871060
>feeling like you don't deserve it?
hell no i deserve this do you understand what its like to hold when your entire portfolio is -70%

>>24872603
that's judas isn't it?

>>24872619
He alone has made it all possible.

I'm a recovering alcoholic, this time last year I was admitted to the ER because I was withdrawing from alcohol so bad. Now next week I'll be a year sober and since 2019 I've landed a job in DeFi and make six figures (first time in my life - I'm 30 years old). I've got 0.15 BTC, 3 ETH, and a bunch of DOT/ATOM staked on kraken.

I get that feeling all the time OP. I think sometimes you're so used to shit going sideways in your life that having real security and money for the first time is weird as fuck and you wait for the other shoe to drop.

Sometimes life can go to shit in the blink of an eye, but the inverse is also true. Life is full of surprises.

>>24872654
based satoy

>>24872643
Aw man, if so then don't be that guy.
>>24872681
Notice him, senpai.

>>24872350
I get the same feelings of unease when success comes but I would not at all say I had a traumatic childhood. In fact, it was pretty comfy if anything

>>24871185
This is my entire life basically. I was raised by manipulators that hated me though so it makes sense.

>>24872350
Any information for someone who was systematically abused growing up? Like, I have no core and I hate things that bring me joy, constant severe self-sabotage, it's fucked up.

>>24871060
Are you an Edward moran fan OP? He's patrician. Better than his younger bro

>>24872619
YOU. INTO YOUR HETHAN SOUL

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sudden_wealth_syndrome#Guilt

I think there's so much blue collar work ethic we are subjected to, that the idea you can make money without working hard seems wrong at first, but eventually you realize that it's just how wagies cope

>>24872938
>mfw

>Crab mentality, also known as crab theory, crabs in a bucket (also barrel, basket, or pot) mentality, or the crab-bucket effect, is a way of thinking best described by the phrase "if I can't have it, neither can you". The metaphor is derived from a pattern of behavior noted in crabs when they are trapped in a bucket. While any one crab could easily escape, its efforts will be undermined by others, ensuring the group's collective demise.

>The analogy in human behavior is claimed to be that members of a group will attempt to reduce the self-confidence of any member who achieves success beyond the others, out of envy, resentment, spite, conspiracy, or competitive feelings, to halt their progress

>>24872808
Watch youtube videos that talk about this kinda thing - richard grannon is a good place to start

Do meditation , and spend some time listening to some positive affirmations every day (find tracks on youtube or spotify or whatever). Basically keep drilling into your head that you have value, the world is safe, you're likeable, etc. It takes a long time to overwrite those old beliefs but you'll definitely see improvements.

If you're really lost in how you should feel and be thinking then self help books and stuff can help. jordan peterson's pretty good too.

>>24872808
>>24873224

Oh and try your best to cut out all the shitty coping mechanisms . drugs, fapping, vidya, etc.
These things keep you trapped in a loop of short term pleasure seeking but they prevent you from focusing on positive things and building a better future.

Once you cut out the bad things, you can focus on adding the good things - meditating, working out, socializing, etc

>>24873224
-or- accept the possibility that you might not have value, and see what you'd feel like doing then. the answer WILL surprise you.

wish i could enlighten u guys some more but rly gotta sleep. godspeed

>>24873371

Everyone can have value anon

>>24873435
especially if they aren't trying to desperately indoctrinate themselves and have the courage to face all the thoughts their mind generates.

>>24873649

Your mind will loop on self defeating thought pathways implanted from abusive caregivers. Nothing wrong with using brute force to rewire that. As they say, fake it til you make it.

>>24873325
Thank you for the replies, it means a lot. I'll definitely check this content out.

>>24873858
Good luck anon

we can all make it if we try

nigger the world fucks me over nonstop. I fucking DESERVE it

>>24871060
>But do you ever get the feeling like you don't deserve it?
No, I worked hard for this, got riddiculed by the few people close to me I told about it. I fucking deserve it.

>>24871909
>i'm mentally infinitely more mature
I feel exactly the same way. I was a mere child 3 years ago.