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I got rejected after a date today. pls I need a fren thread.

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>> No.24363425

fren here what happened, how’d it all go down and fuck that bitch , her loss there’ll be others

>> No.24363493

>>24363327
Why are yoiu wasting your time and resources with women? They add nothing positive to your life. Their holes aren't even that satisfying. It's like willingly keeping a nigger in your house. Why would you do this to yourself?

>> No.24363533

>>24363493
How are you supposed to start a family without a woman?

>> No.24363562

why is /biz so fantasized with these childlike memes

>> No.24363581
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More fish in the sea fren.

>> No.24363584

>>24363327
This "fren" shit is the gayest fucking faggotry I've ever seen. It's worse than smug anime posters, because I know it's the same fat disgusting smelly pieces of shit posting it, but at least the site was founded on weeb shit and anime posters don't think we're all friends here. We're not. We're strangers who share a common interest, but we're not fucking friends. Yeah we're all fucked up but I hate the wallowing in self-pity from these fucking NIGGERS. It's reddit dogshit. Retard faggotry like "fren" and "tendies" is NIGGER NEET SHIT HUMOR and I wish all you faggots would kill yourselves.

Seriously, I mean it. Buy a gun and fucking shoot yourself frogposters. It's not funny, it's not cute, it's the same "uwu so wholesum" bullshit tumblr does.I fucking hate normies and I fucking hate you.

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>>24363425
I met her on >> Tinder. we texted everyday for 2 months. it felt pretty good and all and she always texted me first. I asked her about her relationships she said she not really had a serious relationship yet which I thought was great. Uhm. well I park up her home and we go for a walk and I don't know. Attractive wise we were kinda equal in my opinion. I guess she didn't feel the same way and after coming home she just stopped answering and I already felt it was over (psychic powers don't ask, im Telepathic) and uhm yeah well I called her she didn't pick up. asked her she needs to respond and let me know if she still wants contact. she said "well only as friends". I told her that I don't need any new friends. and that was that. now its over OVER. kinda sad brohs. I have no one to talk to again.

I didn't expect to get rejected cause she wasn't like super attractive. I mean just average. a bit like me. weird.

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>>24363562

>> No.24363611

>>24363493
I want to someday start a family...

>>24363584
ok fren take a chillpill. let the frens talk

>> No.24363618

>>24363584
Damn fren why so salty

>> No.24363620

>>24363533
Surrogacy. The court systems have extremely perverse incentives for women to fuck over their own families and they go through with it, because they have nigger brains. You're just inviting hardship on yourself and your children.

>> No.24363625

>>24363584
I see you're new here.

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>>24363327
u good fren.
buy a hooker, let her suck you off good, then sit on a chair, let her ride you good while you enjoy her breast.

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>>24363584
the eternal newfag

>> No.24363667

>>24363620
You're not wrong about courts, but surrogacy is gay. Children need a father and a mother.

>> No.24363731

>>24363592
It's because you're acting like a boy, not a man, this is clear from the way you talk. Go read Meditations, get your shit together, DO NOT CONTACT HER AGAIN. Make sure you're /fit/, and /lit/, fill your brain with interesting and positive subjects, ask lots of interesting questions, journal down your interactions with people on paper or computer, nobody likes a boring person. Good luck, faggot.

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>>24363656
no I am celibate until new gf. I don't really understand why I got rejected I thought I was gonna have the decision . fuck me

>> No.24363746

>>24363592
Stop caring. You lost when you called her after she didn't answer

>> No.24363769

>>24363592
Also, why the fuck where you texting her everyday for two months instead of setting a date within the first interaction or two, then not talking to her till that date. You have to find shit to keep yourself busy, do NOT look to women to make you happy, they will only complement that happiness you are able to produce from within.

>> No.24363794

>>24363327
24 year old I've never had a date fuck you normie

>> No.24363799

>>24363731
bruh. she was not smart. if anything she was the boring one. we didn't really talk with anything meaningful at all. she was not that bright fren. she just wants some Chad I guess but I'm only Brad so.

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>>24363592
>tinder
>gets sad over 1 girl

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>>24363656
F U ANON I THOUGHT I HAD FOUND MY NEW FAV PORNSTAR BUT SHES JUST WRITING ON A WALL FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF

>> No.24363836

>>24363327
I'm 25 and I never had a real date, anon.

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Women are trash. being good with women is like being good at highschool football. everybody loves you and then literally nobody cares and youve been fucked over.

Come play with me in the snow Frien

>> No.24363846

>>24363746
i'll stop caring after today dw.
>>24363769
lockdown. I don't have instagram or facebook. I don't have any contacts anymore she was my only contact. I usually do the date thing early but its covid lockdown we couldn't do it.

ah well.

>> No.24363873

>>24363804
ive been single for 4 years I'm starting to feel loneli. I also don't make a lot of matches.

>> No.24363900

>>24363592
> Tinder
> Cares

Tinder girls are holes to use (that's what they want), wasting your energy.

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>>24363592
>tinder

This is why you are failing. Get out there, meet girls the real way, and fail until you learn how to succeed. Don't emotionally invest, don't obsess - focus on yourself instead.

>> No.24364191

>>24364127
nigger its covid LOCKDOWN theres no where to go to meet girls.

>> No.24364241

To be honest anon there are so many reasons she could said no, and many unrelated to you.
Of course in the moment it sucks and all you can imagine is how you embarrassed yourself or what you did wrong be it big or even miniscule.
I've seen you say she was no better looking than you, thing is many girls don't have looks as their top criteria like men do so don't worry about it too much.
Also even if she wasn't smarter than you that could only be one of tonnes of explanations.

Not everyone gels together naturally, so its crazy to imagine that this random girl actually would be a great match, same way if you meet some guy as a potential friend but if you've nothing in common and don't click then obviously you're not gonna wanna hang out and especially for a potential relationship its somewhat multiplied. So likely yous didn't click and you probably sorta know it deep down otherwise you're just horns.

Time heals. And importantly dont do most of the stuff my fellow autists advise, maybe do the opposite.
Trust me follow most advice from here for stuff like this can make the situation unnecessary awkward and make you feel worse.
Again time heals so I'd say give yourself a day and if it really hit you hard give yourself like a week to be a poopy pants and wallow listening to music and enjoy the depression.
But after that realise you can't change the oast and remember that most guys don't have the balls to actually go put themselves out.
For the next time remember you've experienced this already so cant be much worse, literally whats the harm if you get a no again.
Honestly faking confidence and energy is a key until you get used to it, even if you gotta use some autism method like your an actor or undercover to keep the act up for the time being.
For bonus points: Try hang out with friends if you can, or join a team sport or even some activity that you genuinely like, but importantly isn't autistic!
Find some inspiration (eg David goggins) no autistic shit!

>> No.24364257

>>24363592
>txting women
Don't do that, only do that if you are setting up a date to chill. You are giving her all the attention and validation in hopes of her giving you poon which she knows she has leverage on you for

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>>24363327
D-d-did you at least raped her?

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>>24363592
>tinder
Good riddance.

>> No.24364311

>>24364191
It doesn't matter - get off tinder. Trying to start a relationship over the internet - especially on a hook-up app - is a huge risk, and especially in today's climate, because girls who use these apps will be back out there in the real market again once COVID languishes into obscurity. Are you that impatient right now? Can't you just wait?

>> No.24364367

>>24364191
Do you think a woman who advertises herself in a thot catalog would he good marriage material?

>> No.24364372

>>24363592
Stop using tinder

>> No.24364427

>>24364241
it's not the first time I have gotten rejected. I uhm also have had a few girlfriends and many used to be interested also. I'm 30 now though. I don't know I just hoped id finally could call it quits on finding someone thats just mentally stable and not hideous as fuck. im 100pct sure she rejected me on my looks as I noticed she didn't want to look me in the eye. Which is so weird cause she was not special at all. if i'd ask the chads she'd probably say she's ugly. Anyway... uh yeah. dunno I thought she was cute. I'm just getting tired fren. thansk for your post atleast. i'll stop caring tomorrow its just shitty right now I hoped it would have worked out so I could stop looking around.

tfw soon i'll be a millionaire and single.
tfw

>> No.24364436

>>24364241
Also for the future if you're getting friendly with a girl and ask them out and they say no don't do the shot here like ghost them and say I dont need more friends. They may be a genuine nice person and its always good to be on good terms with people, pint burning a bride making things awkward and losing a friend. That doesn't help you at all.
You can also find inspiration in an athlete you like etc.
I mentioned Goggins as he has some relevant advice, like worry more about smashing your grades, gym and doing more social stuff (specially if you don't like social stuff).
Also the top Chads and Stacey's all have their own insecurities and issues, so don't think of them as being way above you! (but you can still appreciate their talents and learn stuff from them)

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>>24363327
you're supposed to hide him

>> No.24364468

>>24363592
Bitches play these dumb games, when you show too much attention they will ghost you.

Stop contact with her and see if she contacts you out of the blue if not move on.

>> No.24364497

>>24364241
>To be honest anon there are so many reasons she could said no, and many unrelated to you.
yeah I guess she thinks she deserves someone very attractive while she's just average. that must be the reason she's single at 25 with no serious relationships and just some fuck buddies stuff.

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
though.

>> No.24364575

>>24363731
advice like this is so fucking stupid, i don't know why you retards keep spouting it. 99% of guys do none of that shit and still get girls. the only thing that matters is how attractive you are. the sooner you understand and accept this, the better.

>> No.24364601

>>24364427
You could just be unlucky in your area and maybe miss your perfect match by a second like the butterfly effect as they say and so on..
Sounds like you've plenty of experience though.
Tinder aint too bad but it definitely requires a lot of luck to actually find someone you click really well with.
Its a bad time for it but trying to do lots of social things is always helpful even if that means making some friends for any anons that don't have too many right now.
Again sounds like you've fared fine in the past so this advice is probably all better for some lurking anon with less years under their belt.

>> No.24364682

>>24364601
I got 5 more years to find someone and then i'll just rope. kek (joking).

>> No.24364758

>>24363327
hahah,,
you are lucky. no one even like to talk to me lol.
you know how pua says you need to listen to woman and they can talk and build rapport shit?
well, i literally have to keep talking to keep conversation going. they never want to talk
26 years old, virgin, gave up LOONG times ago
good luck though

>> No.24364778

>>24363327
At least you tried man, keep trying and you'll find a qt to start a family with

>> No.24364801

>>24363592
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaa..
>2 months of TALK
kek, my tinder convos dont last more than 3 days
and i always ask to meet fast..
but i am ghosted..
dont worry op, there are more fish in the sea, for you..

>> No.24365296

>>24363592
sounds like you two weren’t compatible, who knows why? She coulda went for a walk with you and started thinking of her boyfriend or ex, or her dad that abused her or the time she was raped .. women often have mental problems my man, doesn’t mean you did anything wrong . Personally I find tinder to be full of the worst quality of women, good for a fuck sure but often more unstable then usual

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>>24363592
fren youre in luck, Im in a good mood so Ill give you a constructive feedback, here it goes:

your first mistake was losing 2 months just texting with tinder slut, you need to take them out asap and dont invest emotionally

second (probable) and crucial mistake, you werent cocky enough at the date, you didnt go in for the fuck, not even a kiss maybe, you treated her with respect and thats a no-no if you want her to be attracted

third mistake, by that contacting afterwards you showed your clinginess to her which is also a huge turn-off (yep, if you didnt spend 2 months getting emotionally invested in her, this wouldnt have happened)

if you appreciate my two cents, let me know and Ill throw in a story of my last tinder date for a good laugh

>> No.24365535

>>24363592
>we texted everyday for 2 months.
it's a numbers game. text for 1 week at the most before you meet. if you don't connect irl then you don't connect, churn through these hoes until you find one that's worthwhile.

>> No.24365551

>>24364575
Works for me faggot, why the fuck would I sit and text with a girl for two months, waste all that time, and not get laid. You gotta set a definite date up quick-ish, get back to trading your shitcoins or your hobbies or whatever, if you sit there talking to her for even a week without trying to get something set up, she will think your
>gay
>a pussy
>both

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>>24363584
Old pasta but have sex fren

>> No.24365781

>>24365478
post the story faggot

>> No.24365861

>>24365551
I don't care about sex anymore dude. I just want a nice gf. I'm celibate not a coomer anymore. I'm happy with once a month or less in a relationship. Actually I'd prefer it cause I like the power conserving seed brings.

>>24365535
I usually don't but she kept texting first every day. I thought it was in the bag man. Why not reply

>> No.24365955

>>24363592
well you can talk to be bby, do you want my number?

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>>24363327
It's OK she probably was a roastie with crabs. You don't want to get the shampoo.

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>>24366025
Henlooo fren

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>>24366091
Thnx fren :( I'm lonely as fuck again.

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>> No.24366134

>>24363794
why are you such a neckbeard?

>> No.24366138

>>24363327
This happened to me three weeks ago. Met some girl on some dating app, chatted for a week and half, added her on a messenger (this is wechat, cuz this is like a dating app mostly for asians).

She wasn't completely my type but go on the date, didn't feel like we were super compatible but what the hell, I am looking for a virtuous woman for marriage not a thot right? So I thought I text her the next day show her some of my pasta making skills and to suggest maybe we keep talking and see where things go. As I press "send", turns out she actually deleted me off her friend list, probably a couple hours after our date.

I match with a couple of woman on average a month so I am not so sad as you over this but I get your frustration. I was debating in my mind whether to try to put some effort in with this chick and meanwhile she already ghosted me. Anyway, who knows what her reason was, I can come up with ten reasons and they could all be probable, but this is the modern age, people are transient and nobody has any connection to anyone. And by the next week I already was talking to some other chick.

Thank god I am rich and make a six figure salary sitting at home. If I was a poor fag I be seriously depressed.