/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>24315445
This is objectively true. The girl who loves you just hangs out and watches movies with you and, if your lucky or smart, cooks and cleans.

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>>24315498
>incels coping this much
embarrassing as always

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>>24315445
>>24315498


Emotion and sensation are not the same anon!

I don't think I'll ever find anyone who really am loves me for who I am Jinx

>>24315537
Women were objectively better before feminism ruined them. They're just a shittier version of men now.

>>24315519
>>24315537
>>24315561
You guys mistake my meaning. I am incredibly happy and with the woman I love. The sex is quite similar to regular sex, what makes it better is all the other little things. How we cuddle after or understand each other’s bodies etc. etc. to some people that may have no value. For me it means everything.

>>24315445
Yep true

>>24315445
no

with an escort you can't even get a proper knobjob let alone bust in her mouth without worrying if she has something
you always have to use protection and condoms suck

>>24315653
God I wish that were me.

>>24315711
Well you don't have to be a T-Rex to have a guy pound you anon.

>>24315537
You will never be a woman. Your parents will put your real name on your headstone when you inevitably become a statistic

>tfw I used to be horribly codependent and it made the sex feel absolutely incredible
>fixed myself so I'm not anxiously attached and crazy but the sex doesn't compare to how it used to be

sex with a condom (or without a foreskin) is a meme and you feel nothing

Both can be great, but there are more tangible benefits, and disadvantages to being in love.

>>24315906
This
Cutfags are the most pathetic 'people' on this earth
They will never get to experience the true pleasure of sex

FUDing relationships is not related to business and finance except for the fact that you are paid to do it

>>24315897
>I "fixed" myself by removing my ability to pair bond

>>24316534
A degree of codependency is good and necessary in any relationship, but I did unhinged shit like stalking her social media and basing my self worth off of the state of our relationship. My only purpose was to emotionally leech off of this person like a fused male anglerfish, and indulging in that felt extremely good
then I addressed my trauma and took responsibility for my emotional state instead of hoisting it on somebody else, the result is that I'm leveled out instead of experiences extreme highs and lows, but changing that dynamic after years made the world feel grey, the leveled out ups and downs felt like nothing until I adjusted after many months
still miss those extreme highs though
thanks for reading my blog

yes but woman cook dinner

>>24315537
fag

>>24315445
500 for
>what is an emotional connection

I know you're a virgin, how?...

>>24315445
>yes I've only ever banged hookers, how can you tell?

>>24315897
>>fixed myself so I'm not anxiously attache
How have you fixed yourself bro?

>>24316619
I hope you're better now anon

I'm a 24 year old virgin who lives in his parents basement...

AMA

>>24315653
This. Food tastes the same regardless but eating mac n cheese in your comfy pjs while watching your favorite show on an early morning in the winter is different than eating it out of a plastic cup in a parking lot somewhere

>>24315949
Its true. I'm cut and it explains a sort of lack of sensation...

>>24316843
I am, thank you fren
>>24316842
by examining the bigger picture regarding my issues
eg, me looking to another person's valuation of me as my source of self esteem was due to emotional abuse growing up with a narcissistic parent who normalized looking to external factors such as status or wealth to evaluate self worth

basically my relationship reached a point of total collapse, I no longer had the chance to talk my way into prolonging it. after accepting it was over I was able to focus on myself and my own evaluation of my worth rather than another person's evaluation of my worth
I turned to philosophy (mainly stoicism) to make sense of things, which gave me an almost religious peace. reading about how the same kind of things that I allowed to harm me on a daily or weekly basis were still present 2000 years ago helped me not take negativity personally
I was also fortunate enough to go overseas that year, and being outside of burgerland and being around non-burgers and seeing how they don't act fucking crazy also did a lot to make me feel resilient to dumb shit over here
I feel like I shifted to viewing things through a lens of anthropology and deconstruction rather than getting swept up in stuff

after fixing myself I was able to go back to that relationship, and this time instead of dealing with being treated in negative ways (because I allowed myself to be harmed since I would never leave, the long con always got me what I wanted), I made it a point to consistently stand up for myself and not accept being treated unfairly, and treated her fairly in return

we're all gonna make it bros

spirituality is important, whether or not it's explicitly religious, imo. I think I found that in philosophy, the pursuit of truth, self reflection, using the ability to be honest with oneself to work toward improvement rather than becoming a doomer from acknowledging the darker parts of yourself
I hope that you guys can extract something out of my ramblings
ty anons

>>24315887
idk where the wanting to be a woman part came from but you'll be lucky to even be a statistic too once you off yourself in two years you cynical waste of a life

>>24316882
You will never be white nor European.

>>24315949
fuck you, lucky prick