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How do I learn how to be a leader?

>> No.24266395

>>24266283
Get off 4chan

>> No.24266522

>>24266283
put your self in situations you dont have control over. military, gangs, fighting, etc.

>> No.24266524

Fuck if i know, some people are natural at it. The military tries to teach it but half the officers are hopeless in that regard. Same with business schools.

>> No.24266975

>>24266283
You don't learn it, you are literally born into it. Some people are born to lead, all others are born to follow. Nobody told Alexander, Napoleon or Hitler how to do it.

>> No.24267038

>>24266283
either others follow you or they don't. there's nothing you can do to make yourself a leader.

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24267068

>>24266283
just B.E yourself

>> No.24267101

>>24266975
Everything else is cope. If you’re meant to be a leader, you’ll become one.

>> No.24267610

>>24266283
I guess I've always had a bit of a knack for it, and always wound up in leadership positions. I'll try give some tips but be aware I'm not trying to write one of those hack self help guides.

First thing is confidence, you need to come off as confident to get anywhere as a leader, no one will listen to a shy autist. This is a pretty deep first step as it covers being charismatic, looking respectable, etc, basically be able to get on with people and make them feel like they can trust you, or at least like you're a real person with a bit of substance you, NPCs make poor leaders. A lot of this is dependant on your personality and is probably better to be born into being good looking, tall, confident, charismatic, etc. You can improve on what you are currently though.

Find the people you need. Leaders aren't the smartest people, there among them though, your job is to find the people who have the ability to get shit done and make them co-ordinate through you, if you recruit someone to a position they will almost always see you as a superior, it's pretty easy to take say 5 individuals who have the necessary skills and get them to function as a group to an end, since they all probably won't know each other they'll look to you for guidance, by the time they are working well together you'll already be ingrained in their mind as the boss, this even works if you aren't particularly important in the final running of the group. Remember though that you do need these guys and keeping them in line, either via reward or punishment or both, is how you stay on top.

Finally, get lucky. It's better to be lucky than good.

>> No.24268032

>>24266283
as a developer? unironically on BadgerDAO

>> No.24268061

>>24266283
wasn't Alexander the Great a giant flaming faggot who was controlled and manipulated by his mother?

>> No.24268192

>>24266283
Ex armyfag switched to navyfag here.

I'd say you learn to lead by leading, I joined as a young man and turned out to be a poor infantry officer because I was timid and unsure of myself. Eventually after 7 years, I switched over to the navy and became a naval officeer but my 7 years of pain in the infantry had remolded me into a completely different person. Now I thrive and excel at my position and MOG my younger less experienced peers all the time.

I'd say its a combination of age, experience, maturity and willpower. Being gregarious help but its not the key.

There are born leaders (Not me), there are people who can work hard and become decent leaders (me). Sadly there's also people who are too timid and weak willed to ever lead anything.

tl;dr: Some people got it, some people don't, some people don't have it at first but can get it over time, some people will never have it.

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>>24266283
watch that movie of the kid that commands the other kids with the giant spacewar simulation, if you can gather the key concepts of that movie you will have a better understanding of how to be a leader/commander.

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>>24266283
you just need a big fat fucking ego and a stomach for politics
all this 'you're just born with it sweetie' is nonsense. The most ruthless and dedicated leaders were absolute justed manlets trying to prove to the world they were special

>> No.24269834

>>24266283
Bring back Aristotle from the dead so he can teach you.

>> No.24269871

>>24266283
You’re either born one or not. You are not. You are meant to be a slave, forever