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i'm 22 and my girlfriend (we'll call her Jess) and I have been in a relationship for nearly 18 months. She's very attractive and in all honesty I wouldn't say i'm a lost cause but i'm certainly punching a bit. Anyway last week we were at an exhibition function for our shared university course. It was a fairly normal evening up until I saw her talking to this girl from the other side of the hall, nothing unusual I just didn't recognise her. However when they turned around I noticed the mystery girl had her hand seriously low on my girlfriend's back. I didn't think much of it at the time but they were completely inseparable for the entire evening.

The next week or so we were unusually distant from eachother, I wanted to make sure nothing was wrong before I went away, I was going to Bristol for the weekend and I didn't want to leave things on bad terms before I left. But she was having none of it, just being really blunt and such. So I left for my parents, who were giving me a lift to Bristol but when I got there mum said the old man was ill and we wouldn't be going, at least not today. So, already angry that she didn't tell me this over the phone I drove back to ours in a foul mood and that's when I caught her.

The front door was off the latch for some reason, so I didn't need my key. I came in the door normally, but kind of stopped when I heard what sounded like Jess giggling. We live on a ground floor flat so there is no floorboards to creak. As I got closer I could hear someone, clearly a female, sound quite 'breathy' like panting. At this point I thought Jess might have been having some 'alone time' or something so I was about to make myself known until I looked down and saw a pair of worn pink all stars that I knew were not Jess's.

>> No.23036839

At this point confusion was starting to build and as I turned the corner our bedroom door was wide open and there was the girl from the gallery in my fucking bed and someone was beneath the covers. "What the fuck is this" I believe was my first reaction. Gallery girl just stared at me shocked yet as I called to Jess, something strange happened. Absolutely nothing at all. She just stayed under the covers and didn't move.

For what felt like the longest time, I just stood there open mouthed, until I finally shook myself into action and started to leave. Next thing I know she comes flying out of the door into the hallway of the block, wearing just a pair of knickers and a vest for god's sake, trying to somehow make this out to be my fault. I literally didn't know what to say, she's freaking out and all I could come up with was "you're not wearing anything, get back inside, we'll discuss this later". When I got back to the car the belated rage began to set in. I was angry she cheated, angry she blamed it on me and angry I didn't say something else.

Honestly it's the most ridiculous, absurd scenario i've ever found myself in and perhaps that's why I wasn't so angry initially but now i'm wondering what to do. I didn't know she was into girls, she never mentioned anything like that and now she's cheated on me with one and we're renting a flat together. Is this just her experimenting? Can we recover? Has anyone been in this situation before!? I am at my wit's end here people.

TL;DR; Caught Girlfriend cheating on me with another girl, blames me

>> No.23036851 [DELETED] 

>>>/a/
fuck the other girl though

>> No.23036881

>>23036832
How do we profit from this?

>> No.23036893

>>23036832
>>>/adv/
fuck the other girl and make sure your gf knows

>> No.23036899

Are you sure it wasn't a tranny?

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>>23036832
>>23036839

/biz/ - Business & Finance

>> No.23036956

>>23036832
>experimenting
unfaithful is the word you are looking for
>can we recover
she can. you cant
>situation
my girlfriend told me she got kissed by a girl in a bathroom at a party. i told her i didnt think it was funny. whether it is a girl is 100% irrelevant.
you are dating a girl. not a woman. if thats what you want, then fine. this wasnt a slip up, it was a continual premeditated act.
dump her if you have self respect. make it quick and clear

>> No.23036958

>>23036893
the other girl and my gf are pretty close now

>>23036899
yes...

>>23036918
in times like these, the only people i want to hear from are my fellow link marines

>> No.23036971

>>23036839
You missed an opportunity to dive under those covers mate. Look up lbd

>> No.23036984

>>23036839
You haven't been with her for long so I say just cut her off. If she's cheated on you already, your relationship is doomed. Feel lucky that you didn't get tied down to this bitch and found out early.

>> No.23037010

You should beat up the girl who cucked you in the name of equality

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>>23036832
Cheating is when the penis goes in. All women are somewhat bisexual, but it's up to you to profit from this fact of nature.

Stop being a cuck and turn this into a threesome.

>> No.23037069

>>23036832
Sorry bro but she’s not marriage material and as soon as you break your bond with her the better. She’s clearly decided that her fun and the novelty of it is more important than you and that will not lead to a productive relationship.

>> No.23037076

>>23037035
>yea anon, its ok to be cucked if its a girl.
the absolute state of the west

>> No.23037085

>>23036956
thanks man. ill try

>>23036971
im not a really a slayer.... this situation added a lot to my self conciousness

>>23037010
i just dont want this to think about this situation in the future.

>>23037035
>Cheating is when the penis goes in. All women are somewhat bisexual,
then why does this hurt so much?

>>23037069
how do i move on.....

>> No.23037113

>>23036832
kill her and then kill yourself

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>>23037076
It's not a cuck, you have no idea what you're talking about. Cuck is when your girl gets penetrated by another man, therefore opening up the possibility of you raising another man's child. A woman being interested in other women goes back to pre marriage times when multiple women would KNOWINGLY share the same alpha male. The correct response is to dick them both down. Of course you'd know that if you've spent any time in a relationship with attractive women.

>> No.23037234

>>23037167
my point is not whether or not it would be fun to fuck them or if its ok for woman to be experinmental
my point is that she didnt tell him and she cant be trusted. if he wifes her, she will know she can do anything to him.

>> No.23037254

Leave the woman, she is not worth it.

Focus on yourself, I can already tell this is one of your first relationships.

It sucks letting someone go you care about, but it's obvious she does not care about you.

Just focus on yourself, improve yourself and ignore women for a while.

Join a gym, get into MMA, increase your earning potential and keep learning and bettering yourself.

Meanwhile she can eat some feminist pussy and end up childless and miserable, whilst you move on and become a better version of yourself.

She is just some cum dumpster slut you learnt from, take that lesson and use it to better yourself.

Do your best to stop thinking about her, don't let that cunt exist in your brain.

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>>23037085
Because you're deluded enough to think lesbian relationships are real bc of the TV box and LGBT retardation. You also need to learn to handle your emotions (and your woman) like a man. Feeling threatened by a literal weak ass woman is ridiculous. If you're reacting in an emotional or jealous way you're shooting yourself in the foot.

>> No.23037311

>>23037167
Lol imagine believing this cope meme.

Lesbians and bisexual women are the most repulsive people on earth.

I've dated a few bisexual women, they're almost always fucked in the head, usually victims of child abuse.

It's no different to homosexuality, it's almost always a case of they were abused growing up.

It's a shame, but these people are almost always insufferable cunts.

If you raise kids with this woman, expect your son to wear dresses and your daughters to be abused.

Dump this toxic cunt and move on.

>> No.23037340

>>23037268
Lol imagine raising kids with a woman who is emotionally unstable.

No.

Fuck off Jew.

>> No.23037343

>>23037254
yes and nice reddit spacing. the girl i dated that did the same thing is still a loser working for a pizza joint in a joggercity with tons of student debt. she will eat bush until she realizes she just wasted her 20s

>> No.23037372

>>23036832
damn that sucks, here is your updude, now go back

>> No.23037410

>>23037343
Will end up childless or a race traitor.

Most women who are bisexual/lesbians were abused by their own tribesmen as kids, seek out relationship with other women who were also abused by men, realize that same sex relationships are abusive and toxic, decide they actually do want a man, by which time they're usually considered trash as almost all same sex relationships abuse drugs such as weed, mdma etc

She will end up getting with a nog because no self respecting man will take her.

Shame there's no laws against same sex couples.

>> No.23037464

>>23037410
she will have 4 girls within 3 years like her sister, raise them poor and stupid with Disney princess "follow your dreams" shit.

>> No.23037490

>>23036832
either try make it into a threesome, fuck another girl/guy dump that bitch. you could do all three that would be the ideal scenario.
on the plus side 18 months isn't that long and now you don't have to waste anymore time with this bitch.

>> No.23037517

>>23037410
>tribesmen
the fuck kind of cringe speak is this

>> No.23037528

>>23037410
most women are naturally attracted to both sexes just whether they act on it or not the fact she didn't tell you screams toxic so i'd try to move on asap. >>23036832

>> No.23037534

>>23036832
Yes business is doing well thank you for sharing.

>> No.23037541

>>23037167
this is 100% right and it's hard to believe faggots itt argue otherwise
most of you faggots have fallen for globohomo memes so hard you're losing sight of your biological instincts

>>23037085
anon it hurts because you're young and you've been raised in a lie
you won't like the truth but your girlfriend was correct in blaming you. from your posts here we can tell you don't behave in a manly way
this isn't to insult you. this isn't some retard "start treating women like whores to get pussy" advice either. but you have to understand women suffer even more than we do from the globohomo propaganda. ALL women want a strong man to guide them, nurture them, praise them and dominate them. because it's not socially acceptable to do so in public, it's even more critical to be assertive in subtle ways and in bed
now you've got two moves. you can follow the advice most pussies ITT give you, drop the girlfriend and move on to a series of lukewarm relationships. through this you can eventually graduate to an OK marriage with children. it might even not end up in a divorce
or you can see this moment as the defining time that will let you drop the bullshit. can you guys recover? absolutely. you've got to go see her right now, you've got to let her say everything she has to say, and then you've got to firmly lead her to bed and rape her
this is literally the key to every woman. understanding. dominance. selfconsciousness makes it tricky, but realise there's nothing wrong with you. you could have a 4 incher, you could be 5'6 and skinnyfat... she doesn't want you to actually brutalize her, she just wants you to make her feel you get it and then to make her feel desired, and it's critical for the latter to be done in a way that is primal enough, that is more real than this entire bullshit that is the modern world and leaves her wanting
you can do it. absolutely, 100% no question. the only question is do you want it/her. if you do, go for it

>> No.23037558

>>23037410
>race traitor
>tribesman

fuck off to /pol/

>> No.23037588

If this isn't pasta then act like a man and fuck them both at the same time. Be the confident dominant figure and they'll love you otherwise they'll do their own thing

>> No.23037600

>>23037464
Lol she will let her daughter's paint their nails, wear make up and heels etc too.

Women guided by men make good mothers.
Women guided by women make future pornstars, prostitutes etc.

Women honestly need men, women are lost without guidance, a woman who seeks refuge from another woman has toxic views towards men and is a lost cause, will inevitably raise shit stock.

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>>23037311
Openly bisexual women (like ones that openly advertise that shit) are typically emotionally unstable libshits and degens, yeah. But most attractive women I've dated at least find other women attractive and are various levels of bi-curious when I've asked them about it. It's natural. The ones that make it their identity are usually attention whores who'd be attention whores about something else if the cultural climate wasn't currently obsessed with LGBT shit.

>>23037340
Nice projection m8. Polygamy is baste if done right and a potential solution to white birth rates with the state of modern onions males.

>> No.23037631

>>23037541
i agree with you but wouldn't use the word "rape" its more like you're showing her who's boss. often times a women will say "no" and you end up having sex anyway, i just don't know if anon would take it too far and end up in jail.

>> No.23037667

>>23037558
Lol found the half Asian mudbloor.

Awwww is your dad a beta sissy, couldn't find a woman of his own tribe and took the outcast from Thailand, Vietnam or China?

Please tell us what kinda half breed you are.

Tell us how it's hard to find donors, tell us about your heart condition and likelihood you will develop cancer due to your parents being outcast traitors lmao

>> No.23037756

>>23037628
Nothing wrong with raising kids with multiple wives, but why would raise children with one who goes behind your back, has secret relationships etc? Chances are she gets pregnant and it's not even yours m8

And nice fantasy about multiple wives bro, gonna happen? Nyet.

>> No.23037759

>>23036832
>>23036832
>My gf
Labels like are worthless. Just stop interacting with her and find a new partner, wasting time on worthless women makes you a simp.
You will have to move out because of how laws work, if you are not on the lease it is most easy, but honestly putting yourself in this situation is your own fault. You should never give a whore the keys to your castle.
Furthermore I suspect you engage in extra-martial sexual activities with that whore and would advise that you didn't until you're married because a virginal woman waiting until you're both committed to the idea of family creation will form a much stronger relationship for you in the long run.
That you've been together 18 months and you're not married and she isn't pregnant kinda proves that it is your fault for being such a beta cuck. Go back

>> No.23037829

>>23037541
You're right that OP is responsible for this, but it doesn't change the fact that his woman is toxic and no good.

OP needs to leave her and move on.

>> No.23037881

>>23036832
Idk anon, sounds like u got quite the predicament. I’ve had something similar happen to me but not nearly to that extent, best case scenario I say have a threesome and go all in ETH. Thank me later.

>> No.23037899

>>23037881
Also, leave the dumb cheating bitch after

>> No.23037936

>>23037829
OP needs to hurt for a while, it will make him tougher and he will learn from this and hopefully not ruin another woman lmao

But yeah, she is toxic now and no good for OP, so OP must now hurt, swallow his pride and never talk to this cunt ever again.

Telling OP he should have fucked both women or that he can fix relationship is bad advice because OP is not yet capable of such things, as he is not a cold hearted fucker yet from heartbreak.

If he stays with her, she will continue to be a toxic cunt and he will continue to be a sissy faggot.

If he leaves her, she will either go full lez or get picked up by a man capable of taming her, and OP will move on and find his wife, keep her in line and not make the same mistakes.

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too many words on this thread, just shill your damn coin already

>> No.23037986

>>23037972
Okay buy ROT you faggot

>> No.23038005

>>23036832
This is biz

>> No.23038015

>>23036881
/biz/ asking the real question.

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>>23037756
She wouldn't have gone behind his back if he'd played his part as the man correctly, I suspect. Also it's quite possible. As things degenerate, masculine men will become rarer and rarer, at a certain point, women are willing to settle for 50% of the investment from a man who has over double the masculinity of the s o y guy she could get 100% investment from. Simple math. And if there's civil war or some other large shock to weed out the weaker men, even more likely.

You wanna know part why men had it so easy finding a wife who'd act right to have kids with in the 50's? Cuz men were in real short supply as tens of millions had just died. If women weren't willing to take a less than alpha male they might have no man at all. Anyway multiple wives is just a product of environment, Mormons seem to pull it off with their women just fine. They're just herd animals, they'll go where they're herded.

>> No.23038065

>>23037667
I’m probably whiter then you just don’t care about race because its just larp

>> No.23038093

>>23038058
That moment you realise girls who tan will look 50 when they're 30. Bless those milky azns enjoy the shade and SPF (with skin whitener added)

>> No.23038167

>>23038058
weird i calculated the math differently i just imagined that the alpha male become rarer would produce a higher quality man that essentially took all the remaining women while the rest of men married off to simulations and sex robots

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Everyone who is planning on making it should read this book to protect their future wealth and sanity after they make it...

>> No.23038199

Nice. I fapped to this story and cum on cat and hiss at penis. Good job op 8/10

>> No.23038200

>>23038093
people on here are too retarded to realize this because "muh race" white girls on tinder looked tired and done with life at 25 while asians are still fresh up until their later 30's ofc you still want to be with the younger one's

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>>23037667
you sound butthurt because you can't find a sexual partner so you blame it on other races instead of realizing that maybe there's a problem with your personality and appearance

>tyrone and jamal keep stealing all the white women this is why i'm single those damn race traitors

>> No.23038246

>>23036881
1. Pimp both girls out
2. Get into slave trade
3. Tokenize all girls
4. Dump on the normies

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https://reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3zvhvl/caught_my_gf_20f_of_18_months_with_another_girl/

Everyone make note of this thread.
These people act like they got women completely figured out and know everything about sex and nature, yet they are too fucking retarded to figure out OP is a larp from a 4 year old reddit post.
This is the intelligence of people claiming to be redpilled and knowledgeable on women.

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>>23038167
True. Men will become highly stratified (even moreso than today and the extreme pareto type effects of social media and dating apps) and most men are just gonna opt out entirely, get fat, take a shitty min wageslave job and just fap to vr/use sexbots. Of course this is assuming we continue this current degenerate path of "progress" without interruption.

>>23038200
Japanese have caucasoid blood in them. The native people who lived on the island before east Asians settled it were genetically closer to Caucasians than to modern Asians. There's a reason the nazis considered them "honorary" but still it should be just a last resort if you can't save a western woman. And yes to us western women seem retarded but they just become what society tells them to be and what they think men want. In a better time they'd be enforcing good morals on each other but the media got them fucked up and now they enforce degeneracy on each other. We should pity them.

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>>23038246
Its for you

>> No.23038445

>>23038235
Lololol

Nice mental gymnastics, cute cartoon too, did you draw that?

You should draw us a picture of your Dad, if you can remember what his face looked like.

>> No.23038447

>>23038373
youre a fucking retard >>23038321

>> No.23038453

are you a literal fucking cuckold? if no, kick her out and ghost her forever ASAP

>> No.23038466

post her nudes

>> No.23039052

>>23037667
>tribe
lmao what tribe? little as 100 ago europeans were killing each other over borders.. they are hardly the same fucking tribe.
unless you mean the American 'tribe' in which case just fucking Lmao

>> No.23039066

This thread was moved to >>>/trash/33206327