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>>22350536
I don't need to cope because my brain isn't broken

most likely not

>>22350536
I was bullied once. Lost my shit. Didnt happen again. Anyways, focus on your own life anon. Dont compare. You have bigger penor either way

>>22350536

You quit hyperidealizing how the world ought to be and start living life on your terms, not giving a shit about all the people who supposedly wronged you when you were all children. The fact that you hold onto all of these childish emotional impulses should hopefully give you insight into the fact that it is you who is in fact stunted. You yourself said these "bullies" went on to have happy, productive adult lives while you're sitting at home lamenting the fact that fucking video games have lost their shine. Wake up, you choose the path you lead. Looks don't matter, money doesn't matter, it's all about how you interact with the world. You can make it bend to your will if you wish, or you can let the world flow over you. The choice to start living, however, is solely yours. I hope you heed this advice.

I was never bullied in my life, just largely ignored that's it.

t. 26 year old kissless virgin

>>22350536
I cope by putting my money into random coins on the internet, that I still have no clue what they actually do, hoping that I'm going to "make it". It's better than buying a lottery ticket because you can constantly refresh the page to see if you've "made it" yet or not, whereas the thrill of a lottery ticket is over immediately.

The answers you seek are here: https://web.archive.org/web/20180818073225im_/http://cliquetheory.com/

>>22350536
Kill them all

>>22350536
Kek. I still have some hope but why is culture so dishonest about bullying? I really did think that girls secretly hated bullies and that they would end up working at McDonald’s. Why encourage a cucked mentality where if you stand up for yourself you get in just as much trouble as the cunt?
I finally understood that you shouldn’t give too much of a fuck about getting into trouble but by then it was too late. I should have fought back.

>>22350536
Not sure, I just stopped caring. I will follow the Lord, far more important to focus on Him than to waste my time being angry over those who did me wrong. I've done others wrong anyways so it's not like I was wrongless, far better that I forgive others just as my Heavenly Father has forgiven me my sins.

>>22350721
This

>>22350536
Honestly OP, if this isn't a daily shitpost, these people put on a facade for you, but they have their own shit to deal with as well as all their fake relationships they keep to keep decorum. My advice is to learn how to live with loneliness for now. It helped me a lot and life is not a storybook, it's dynamic.

>>22350536
Everyone who bullied me is out there risking their lives and their family’s lives delivering pizza or making subs while I’m working from home and eating tendies.

>>22350536
>everyone who has ever bullied you or abused is now living their best lives

1 grew up to be a rapist and now is behind bars
I cant think of any that bullied me in middle school but they all grew up to be absolute degenerates
>All have gfs/bfs
if by gf you mean the girl he raped sure
>all are happy and have huge social circles
no
>wah wah

Grow up you God forsaken retard, go out and do something, if not, stop wasting your time and rope yourself already

>>22350536
I was bullied, I also bullied people.
Bullying is healthy

>>22350536

>Used to get bullied
>Was still nice to people
>At a certain point I got a few friends, which snowballed into a lot of friends
>Improved my socials skills a lot
>Cut of friends which were toxic, was left with a few really good people
>Got a great girlfriend eventually (through friends)
>Have a good job, which leaves me plenty of money to invest in crypto

Yeah it sucks to get bullied OP. But as long as you remain bitter and hostile towards others, it's going to keep fucking up your life. Don't give your bullies that power over you. Find good people and be nice to them.

>>22350847
YOu HAVE TO GO BACK
FAGGOT. NO ONE WANTS YOU HERE

>>22350536
24 is still young Anon when it comes to sorting stuff like this out.
You're in for a long painful haul as you sort things out and put this stuff behind you but it gets better as you go on. Major things that happened in the past get smaller.
You're older and wiser, so now when you look back on past events you see them through the lens of a more mature person. The flaws are more obvious and its temping to beat yourself up about it but the less you do the better off you are. Learn from it, don't internalize it. Its just data now.

Some "decent" books
The courage to be disliked
Wild at heart (if you're christian)
Skin in the Game

>>22350536
Is there any way to see who from my high school is dead? I really hope some of them are dead

>>22350536
>think like this
>actually look them up on facebook, twitter, linkedin etc
>they work shameful low level white collar jobs, or service industry, and either have no serious or codependent relationships, no savings whatsoever, tattoos, and seeminly spend all their free time either watching tv, politics, or travelling
they had 11 years. should've brought internet meme money!

>>22350536
my bully killed himself, ran into a train. nobody liked the guy glad hes gone

>>22352153
this guy who always put me and my friends down ran out onto the road not long after highschool ended and got hit by a car trying to catch a football. it was sad but at the time all i could remember is that he was always such a massive faggot to me and my friends

>>22350536
>business and finance
sage

>>22350721
Dangerously based

>>22350536
Sometimes they end up being druggies though, and bad shit can happen to them too.

Also
>Living their best lives

Get the fuck off twitter and Instagram, it's not reality. Trust me those people will use Instagram to snapshot their good times only, leaving out the part they are potentially in huge debt/mentally ill/close to life falling apart etc.

I know all of this and don't care

>>22352381
you misspelled "i'm coping"

>>22352620
cope

>>22350536
find the people who bullied you and go beat the shit out of them

>>22350536
It only get's WORSE anon.

I cope by bullying losers like you lol

>>22350721
delete this post bro Please Im Begging You

Probably because they didn't overanalyze shit and you sat here in wallowing in pepe the frogs and anime.

>>22350536
Join the military anon. pick a branch, let them chad you up and do your 4 years, then rotate out with college loot for chad degree. and if you like it, you can retire at 44 \with a full ride, ya dumb shit, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and make a move bitch!

for real tho anon, join up and let the gubment chat your bitch ass up.

>>22350536
I turned my bullies into my bodyguards by creating a system where they could cheat off me in tests.
By senior year, just be hanging around a bunch of chad shitheads, I occasionally got to fuck hot girls at parties, and they'd let me go first on virgins.
One of my OG nerd bros survived HS by being a joker, and he even fucked a young teacher junior year.

>>22350536
I say this with your best interest in mind. You need to try to look at yourself objectively to try and figure out what’s holding you back. Either the entire world is wrong and standing against you, or you have something in yourself that you need to learn how to manage. It’s 99 percent likely the former. Yes, you have been mistreated but you are responsible for how you respond to this.

>hurr durr everyone who isn't me is infinitely happier and more successful

Now do we see why social media is cancer

>>22350536
>everyone who has ever bullied you or abused is now living their best lives
Common sense and statistics dictate that this is literally not true
One of the people who bullied/abused me in high school had a stroke and can barely talk
Another one died in a traffic accident several years ago
Another one is a drug zombie on the streets now
And those are just a few of the ones I know who got btfo by life
>All have gfs/bfs
Well, you got me there. They're normies so they likely have a bf/gf. But for some of them the bf/gf is using and/or abusing them because they don't know how to avoid bad relationships
>all are happy and have huge social circles
Huge social circles, maybe. But I'm introverted as fuck so I don't envy them for that at all. And "all are happy"? kek, nope
>All have loving parents who want the best out of them
Holy fuck is this untrue
As flawed as my parents were/are, I've seen WAY worse among people I know personally
>They all took part in bullying you and making your life miserable
Yeah, and it sucked. But at least it's over now. It was beyond my control, sort of like being raped. You can either move the fuck on and improve your life afterwards like Fran Drescher did, or you can let it mentally fuck you for life
>You are still the same old loner/outcast you always were since a kid
Yeah, and so what? That loner shit is the same shit that actually kept me out of trouble instead of following bad crowds like some others in my school did, and making bad life-altering decisions due to peer pressure. Other than maybe lack of sex, I literally regret nothing else about growing up and spending most of my time in my room playing vidya and watching anime. Some of my fondest memories are staying up watching Saturday night Adult Swim on Cartoon Network, and I'm fine with that
>nothing has changed
A lot has changed for the better since then

>>22353665
>you thought there would be justice for their wrongdoings
In some cases, there was. Although I'd be lying if I said there weren't other cases where the bully now appears to be living a decent life. I don't lose sleep over it, though. Karma isn't real, at least not in this life
>you thought if you improve yourself and get a good job everything will just magically fall into place
Hell no. I knew from my teen years that I'd never "fall into place" of living a normie life, and that I'd always have certain issues. While I did plan on getting a good job (which I do have now), I also knew that some people would still treat me like shit. Only difference now is they mostly do it now in a more fake, subtle, subdued way, as opposed to back then
>It doesn't and the older you get the more you realize how fucked society really is
And I'm happy as hell that I realize it, because now I'm more prepared for it. Like they say in GI Joe, "knowing is half the battle"
>social dynamics are parasitic at best
For the most part, yeah. That's why I'm now careful with who I associate with and IN WHAT WAY I associate with them. There are dudes out here who are loyal to the most parasitic of friends, family members and girlfriends/wives and they don't even realize it
>no one cares about who you are as a person
I have accepted this a long time ago, but only in recent years have I genuinely not cared about it. Stop looking for sympathy and start looking for self-improvement
>no one cares about what you have been going through
To be fair, this is due to human selfishness in general; it has nothing to do with me or you personally. Most people only truly care about the shit they have on their own plate, not the shit on yours
>no one can relate to being such a loser
Who'd want to relate to something that they don't want to be in the first place?

>>22353757
>24 and see no light at the end of the tunnel any time soon
You should see it by your early 30s at the latest, as long as you TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF IN THE MEANTIME, physically, mentally, health-wise and otherwise. A LOT changes from your teens to your 30s, particularly the people that you grew up around
>How do you cope? Anime and vidya have lost their interest and drugs are expensiive.
Find some hobbies/entertainment that you know genuinely takes your mind off things and puts you in a pleasant mood. Vidya, movies, funny youtube videos, playing with your pets, whatever they are. Trust me, that shit is important as fuck to do at least once a day, while spending the rest of your time dealing with the bullshit that life and society throws at you

>>22350802
This .

OP, you will not find inner peace until you right those wrongs of the past and wipe them all out. Sorry bud, there is simply no other way to get zen.

I've stopped all contact with people from school, moved to a different city, studied. Later in life I enjoyed a phase of sexual debauchery living out every fucking phantasy I ever had. Then found a wife and now I have a family, an apartment paid off, $500k in crypto. Could be worse.

It will always haunt me that I was the omega everyone could mistreat, but there's so much I have done to get better, so improve myself that I am actually starting to be proud of myself. My kids - while still young - seem to have a much better self-worth than I ever had in school, they are happy, they have friends. So, somehow, I didn't fuck this up but actually did good here. If I can help them through puberty, I think they will turn out just fine.

I'll never have a great social life. I'll never be the chad that turns every pussy into a swamp. But it is what it is, I am starting to find peace in life.

And I still have no contact with anyone from school.

>>22350536
I thought I had beat them by getting into a top 3 engineering program

I quickly learned that this is utterly meaningless and they are enjoying their college life and will probably make more than me when they graduate with a much easier degree.

>>22350536
At least you know this shithole that make you rich and they will be waging until death. Some probably will be raped in divorce lawsuit, the list goes on and on. Invest in crypto and be patient fren. We all gonna make it

>>22354193
i like your attitude, fren

>>22354133
i go to the top 1 cs program. its pretty nice here desu. I hope your school is also top 5 overall and you didnt fall for the "well, im going to a public school which is ranked like 76th, but us news tells me theyre rly good at engineering!" jew. elite private universities are baaaased

>>22350731
kök to the mouthbreathing weeb that wrote this

i was bullied in middle school and when i hit my breaking point i stabbed the kid multiple times with a number two pencil and broke it off inside of him

the only punishment i got was inschool suspension and even then, that was based as fuck because it was super quiet

>>22350536
People who bully others usually do it because of a lack of self esteem and unprocessed childhood trauma. There is a very high chance they never processed that trauma, because most people never do.
So while you see them posting shallow stuff on facebook, there is a very big chance that deep down they are not happy.

>>22350536
lol back to /r9k/ loser

>>22355177
Imagine being on this train and having to walk by her for the exit and she suddenly braps in your face due to the exertion of holding herself up there

>>22355517
I can smell it.

>>22350536
literally all you you had to do to not be bullied was play a sport.

t. 20k link chad

Muhh, just carry on, realise everyone is shit and hopefully one day you’ll be able to genocide all of them.

>>22355517
God I wish I could take public transport more often, stuff like pic related supposedly happens all the time

>>22355517
enjoying that thought

>>22355517
Supremely based

>>22350536
all my bullies are miserable poorfags in dead end jobs and I'm a multimillionaire dating a 16yo.
guess in the end I still won.

>>22356125
reported

>>22353665
This anon gets it, OP is being hyperbolic and probably had some negative traits himself

>>22356276
reported for what?

>they are all stuck back in my shithole hometown with terrible jobs, terrible baby moms who rape them with child support, alcoholism or pot habits while I grew up to be 6'3, muscular and attractive in a cool city with a great, high paying job and an endless stream of Tinder sluts

Nah I think I'm good. Should have taken the criticism as an opportunity to improve yourself OP

>>22350721
I do it because I feel I'm optimized for sitting around watching stonks 24/7 day by day through sheer autism

God sees all, OP.

>>22356125
Based. How old are you anon? I'm 25 and I'd like to date a 16-19yo, but I feel intimidated by the social aspect of it.

>>22356458
I'm 27, dating her because I know her family and they are okay with it.
>but I feel intimidated by the social aspect of it.
If you live your life by these rules you will never make it.

>>22350687

Criminally underrated post I have a friend who does nothing but play video games all day and constantly bitches about how the world is unfair. He's 26 years old never had a job a drivers liscense or a girlfriend. Unfortunately op will probably keep the blinders on and not listen to your wisdom, in my experience most people dont change, about 10 percent are ever able to break out of the constant woe is me mentality.

>>22350536
That may be true. But! I got in on chainlink back when it was sub $1.

>>22350536
Bullying is necessary

>>22350721
Better than 90% of shrinks

>>22350536
>24 and see no light at the end of the tunnel any time soon
And you never will if you only keep waiting. You have to create that light. You think your problems are gonna get solved by magic or what? Start praying for starters. Let God be your guide if you can't do it on your own.

Do you even lift, bro?

>>22350536

>>22350536

I was a fat kid, I got bullied a lot, I was lazy.

I realized that being angry at other people for their flaws only took energy away from being able to improve myself.

Now at 30 I feel and look better than I ever have. I date around comfortably, and I'm finally starting to put together a career. Eventually you need to stop caring about how other people treat you, and focus on building your own social network while disregarding people that have no benefit to you.