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>love my gf more than anything, would literally die for her
>have a job where I make like $100k/year
>pay all the bills, pay for her cellphone, buy all the food, etc, she still works, but thats "her money"
>put $5k into stonks and $5k into crypto at the end of february when I felt the rumblings of COVID-19 and saw the writing on the wall
>she absolutely freaks the fuck out that I "wasted 10 fucking grand"
>is mad about it for months
>say 'fuck it', I made the right decision
>now she's all for it when she sees that those investments are now worth about $20k
>wants me to cash out to go on a fucking trip???? (this is in the middle of all the lockdowns)
>doesnt accept that if we leave the country or province I have to take an extra 2 weeks off work to quarantine
>meanwhile this whole time she just calls me lazy because I "dont work enough" and "all my friend's husbands are working 2 or 3 jobs!" (keep in mind I still make about twice as much as them working less hours)
>get asked to go out of town for some work up north (literally in the arctic circle right by the ocean)
>I make about twice as much working out of town, so for the next 2 or 3 months (16 days on, 7 days off work back home, I get flown back and forth) I'll be making the equivalent of $200k/year
>she flips the fuck out over this
>says I'm "just taking one of your sluts on vacation! YOU NEVER TAKE ME ON VACATION" (keep in mind I have absolutely no sluts)
>also keep in mind the population density of the area I'm going to is <1 person per square km
>literally more polar bears than whores where I'm going
>she doesn't care, somehow thinks I'm going to be cheating on her in the middle of buttfuck nowhere at a research center thats currently empty where I'll be staying with about 10 other guys all their 40s/50s

I just dont fucking get it. I get a chance to make even more money, she just thinks I'm going to cheat on her? Is it literally never good enough?

>> No.21963432

She’s cheated on you and entirely self conscious you’ll do the same.
You’re better off without her.
Unironically

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>>21963372
Get a doll.

>> No.21963455

>>21963372
grow up you little bitch and stop granting women so many rights. what are you, a baby? fucking idiot

>> No.21963472
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Most Woman can't into logic. They are run mostly on emotions, so give her the feelgood stuff, make her feel valuable and she should shut up about it.
But >>21963432 might be right I am afraid. Those who yell the loudest, are usually guilty of the charge.

>> No.21963479

>>21963372
She's cheating on you. Projection, a general desire to have you out of the house more often """for money making""" but not within the context of you being out of range of easy, day-to-day manipulation.
Anyway, it's obvious that you know something is wrong, and that is the point where you decide to move on, or continue and become a victim in the proper sense of the term. There are no fixed patterns for manipulative behavior, but we know it by its outcomes. If the relationship is hurting you, it's over.

>> No.21963521

Sounds like there are two bitches in your relationship

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And to add, just think of her like a child, because thats how they act at the end of the day. Ask youself, what would you do if a child acted like this to you?

>> No.21963538

>>21963432
Absolutely red and truth pilled

Be a man tell her to fuck off of that sucubous will drain you dry. She’s clearly giving you “it’s never enough” signals when you’re a hard working guy

Get that skank out of your life get a trad wife

>> No.21963544

>>21963372
Your girlfriend sounds like sub-human garbage. You should figure out if the reason she doesn't respect you and your decisions is a problem with you, or a problem with her. Then leave, work on yourself, and gain the self-respect you'll need to have a woman who actually loves you instead of just your stuff.

>> No.21963549

Get rid of her now unless you just want to fuck her. If you even think about marrying her you're retarded and are going to lose your gains.

>> No.21963550

The real question you need to ask yourself is why are you attracted to women like this. Figure that shit out and things start to move forward in your life

>> No.21963553

>>21963372
Too beta cuck to be a real story

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>>21963372
NGL, she sounds like a fucking cunt.
If a guy did any of this shit to you (being controlling, asking you these intense questions) would you put up with it? Jesus wake up fren

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>>21963372
Nice blog, where do I unsubscribe

>> No.21963603

OP, I had a girlfriend like this and it turns out their huge jealousy instinct is because they're already cheating on u

>> No.21963604

>>21963372
tell her to quit her job and put a kid in her that'll keep her too busy to bitch

>> No.21963606

>>21963372
>pay all the bills, pay for her cellphone, buy all the food, etc, she still works, but thats "her money"
Stopped reading. Simp

>> No.21963610

>>21963372
Make her do ass to mouth and then boot her.

>> No.21963612

>>21963372
Textbook shes cheating on you behavior..your making big shekels brah, don't waste your time on this stupid cunt, dump her immediately.

>> No.21963645

>>21963372
Yeah she cheats you. Dumb the bitch.

>> No.21963665

You're fucking retarded OP. Not only has she cheated on you already, she is planning to up the ante during your little trip.

I have no idea how people get tied up with women like this and just go along with it

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>>21963372
>Goes away from home
>doesn't realize his bitch is actually cheating on him with his money
You even pay for her cell phone, time to take out pdf and check who's she talking to
You are to naive, m8, this gotta be a b8.
Also you are to specific on your work location and what type of work you do, it's like you want to ge doxxed.
It's a b8, I'm 105.69% sure

>> No.21963687

>>21963479
This guy is right too.
You deserve to be happy and if you make a thread saying
>girlfriends, not even once.
Then you should take your own advice

>> No.21963694

If you aren’t married I’d just tell her to shut up. Stop acting like she knows things. If other men work harder tell her to leave. To go get them. Take a break if she wants. Otherwise shut up.

As usual, listen to Patrice O Neal. Or travel to a poor country. Instantly realise your value and that she’s a replaceable piece of garbage. The fact you start of saying you love shows you’re brainwashed. She’s sissied you up. You gotta fight that.

>> No.21963700

>>21963372
Well at least she values you enough to be jealous. Women are so fucking mental now I’m not sure if she’s actually relatively normal. One thing I’d say is always put your foot down on important things, deep down she’ll like it, don’t let her wear you down

>> No.21963706

>>21963372
dump her

>> No.21963736

>>21963372
Just tell her to shut the fuck up. Why do you guys have such problems with women?

>> No.21963746

>>21963372
>Province I’m assuming fellow leaf?
what do you do for work? 21 and looking For some direction in my life.

Sucks about the gf shes stupid as hell send her videos from the arctic circle. If she loves you she’ll feel like shit. If she doesn’t well she will tell you she’s sorry but will fuck Tyrone while your gone.

Loose loose situation Don’t get in relationships

>> No.21963756

>>21963372
she sounds emotionally neglected and bored as fuck. spend quality time with her at a compromise, don't just buckle and say no to everything. Maybe spend $200 on a night out instead of $20k. Don't blame her too much, females are just naturally more emotional and bitchy when they lack enough social activity and attention- like cats!

If you are unwilling to do this, you should not be in a relationship. It will only get worse and she'll walk out with a lot of your shit

>> No.21963767

>>21963372
Women are just crazy insecure. Stay the course. I'd recommend NOT paying her bills but now that you've gone down that path it will cause serious friction between you to go off it.
What industry do you work in? Engineering or trades or something?

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>>21963746
Pic related

>> No.21963834

>>21963479
This OP, I had the exact same scenario happening to me and I found out my then gf cheated on me with a coworker. I am 1000% honest you have to dump her ASAP and move on, it will be living hell for 2 months but you will be better off without her, trust me. I now met a girl that is a complete opposite of her and I am telling you its worth it.

>> No.21963838

>>21963801
Tim Hortons is Indian butt water.

>> No.21963862

>>21963372
bet she wouldn't keep talking all that shit after a firm backhand to the face

>> No.21963869

Op here, had to run out so I'm phone posting with a different id, but I really doubt she's cheating on me. She would have told me during one of our past fights.

Also I think most of her issues are from the fact she was raised with insane wealth and literally had servants for as long as she can remember. The problem is her dad kinda cut her off and all her money is locked up in a trust until she turns 25. But we've already agreed to get a prenup in the case we get married, to protect both our assets (hers are actually a lot bigger than mine). She literally just has to not be a dumb spoiled bitch for 4 more years and we have a life on easy street. My income is substantial and it still won't even matter relatively speaking. It's her short-sightedness that I don't get.

>> No.21963871

>>21963432
>She’s cheated on you and entirely self conscious you’ll do the same.
This anon is propaply 100% spot on.
It's a psychological thing that people criticise thing on others, which they hate the most on themselves, even though they don't admit.
Fucking drop that bitch anon.
Logterm this has no future

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>>21963838
Yes. “Still Canadian though”

>> No.21963875

>>21963372
If you're a well-to-do man, don't commit unless you want kids, and if you decide on doing that, you find a decent girl, don't settle for someone else's cumdump, because chances are she will have varied issues that resulted in her being a cumdump as well as issues that are related to being a cumdump and she will hold you back and cause you problems.

If you're a cuckman who has nothing, then find a girl who can take care of you (via family wealth, or her career, etc.) I know a 40 year old cuck who married a girl who looks like the donkey from Shrek. Her parents are rich, the guy brings nothing to the table but he's all set now.

>> No.21963903

>>21963873
As Canadian as the pajeets that man the tills.

>> No.21963912

>>21963746
Trades (won't say which one, but they're all good). Look into it. You can make insane money if you're willing to work out of your city, and a lot of the northern energy/research/reserve jobs are starting back up again.

>> No.21963921

>>21963869
>She would have told me during one of our past fights.

Okay retard. Be the paypig then lmao.

>> No.21963946

get away, just listen, trust me, us

>> No.21963973

>>21963869
yep confirmed retard. shit can't be helped, guys like this are too far gone

>> No.21964019

>>21963869
if you're in this for the payoff, it's not worth it and you're worth more

>> No.21964042
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>>21963903
Yup literally owned by Restaurant brands.

I’m agreeing everything about timmies is ass but everyone still associates it with Canada even though lots of people rather they didn’t

>> No.21964055

>>21963372
There's a high probability that she's cheating on you. I know the thought hurts and confirmation hurts even worse. Believe me I know. But you're not married which is a good thing. You need to either leave her or find out who she's fucking and then leave her. Woman are like puppys and how you train them is how they'll become. If you let here walk all over you and treat you poorly at the beginning then she'll be that way for the rest of your time together. You fucked up this relationship and you need to end it so you can start over. You can try fixing things but she won't change. Try this next time she accuses you of cheating just ask her who shes been cheating on you with. Explain that most spouses accuse their S.O. of cheating when they're cheating. Tell her the past is the past and you won't hold it against her if she tells the truth. Also ask her to let you go through her phone. When you find the truth leave her immediately. You can come back but don't unless your a cuck and like her fucking other guys or if there's a major paradigm shift and she changes but she won't.

>> No.21964156

>>21963912
Normally most of the time I do the opposite of what biz says. But this time man It REALLY does sound likes shes cheating on you.

>> No.21964203

>1 post by this ID

>> No.21964207

>>21963432
>100% this

Your bitch is being verbally and emotionally abusive and clearly using you as a meal ticket. The fact that she doesn't trust you with your own fucking finances and wants to blow it on travel during the worst time to fly internationally since 911 says all you need to know about her. Things are only going to get worse over time as she slowly grinds you down to a shadow of your old self. Get out now, find a nice girl who treats you with respect and doesn't run her mouth.

Went through a similar thing earlier this year with a girl I was dating. She would flip out without any warning over the most trivial shit. Using the wrong sponge in the kitchen, a towel dropping off the railing, forgetting an irrelevant detail about some bs story she was rambled about a week ago, etc. All of which resulted in her screaming and using incredibly demeaning language. Once she was done yelling, she'd immediately apologize claiming she reacted that way because of other things going on in her life. It didn't take long for me to realize that was just how she reacted to people in those situations. After telling her if she did it again I was going to leave, within 5 minutes the next time I saw her she started doing the same fucking shit. Getting rid of her was a massive relief and I feel bad for the sad sack of shit that's going to be stuck with her, if she doesn't fucking scare away every guy she meets from here out.

>> No.21964287

>>21963869
>She literally just has to not be a dumb spoiled bitch for 4 more years and we have a life on easy street.
if you think she can think 4 years ahead you are in for a bad time fren

>> No.21964385

>>21963372
Holy fuck, anon. Your situation is eerily similar to my own. GF of 8 years, loved her to death, paid for everything myself even though she also worked and made good money, all my money went to stuff for the both of us while hers just went to her own personal shit. Same exact issues came up, with her criticizing where I spent my money and complaining that I both worked too much and not enough, blah blah blah. Without getting into detail, CUT THAT BITCH FUCKING LOOSE IMMEDIATELY. She is an actual succubus. She will leave you physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially drained by the time it’s all over. It will be uncomfortable in the short term without her, and making the changes needed to move on without her will be tough, but holy fuck is it ever worth it. Seriously anon, your actions now will determine your future health, happiness, and financial status. Keep on with the same ol’ and you are going to get rekt. She’s likely cheating on your currently or has in the past, given her penchant for accusing you of doing the same— that’s a classic narcissist tactic. She also very likely falls somewhere on the sociopathy scale as well. Do not walk, RUN away from this broad. I did two years ago, and it did suck for 3-4 months until I rebuilt my life without her, but once I got through it and was able to look back on it all, it’s just amazing the amount of shit I convinced myself to put up with in that relationship. You can’t see it while it’s happening to you. Get far FAR away from this chick as soon as possible, anon.

>> No.21964420

>>21963432
Correct, this is from 12 years of experience dating women.

>> No.21964423

>>21963530
Nice id
Op what is your occupation if not larp

>> No.21964451

I see the issue now. She is richer than you. Ya, that’s a bad place to be unless you know what you’re doing. I usually hate seeing people say “dump her.” Men should lead and train, not walk away. But her being better than you is troubling. I’d probably leave her.

>> No.21964455

>>21964042
I think it embodies Canada perfectly, and that's not a good thing. I'm from Buffalo and remember visiting Toronto when I was a kid compared to now. It's sad.

>> No.21964453

>>21963372
>also 1 post by this ID
So this is a slide thread huh?

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>> No.21964521

>>21963665
It’s a gradual thing that occurs little by little over years and years. When you’re stuck in it you can’t really see it happening to you. It’s hard to explain to someone who hasn’t been through it.

>> No.21964561

>>21963432
Got damn that fpbp

>> No.21964608

>>21963432
fpbp

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>>21963372

Society has turned most women pretty paranoid. I tried to romance this one latina, and wanted it to be pretty serious. Abstained from fucking her the first few weeks, got to know her, and she tells me "I think you're a huge slut".

I was a virgin up until 8 months ago before I met her. I'm 30 by the way. I've been told this a couple times now that I've been trying to date more. Women confuse me. Now I just want to pound sluts. Guess it'll be another year before I try being serious again.

>> No.21964679

>>21963869
>Op here, had to run out so I'm phone posting with a different id, but I really doubt she's cheating on me. She would have told me during one of our past fights.
So naive

>> No.21964703

>>21963871
1,500% correct. Dude, clone her phone and find out . She's getting clapped in the rump

>> No.21964724

>>21963372
>pay all the bills, pay for her cellphone, buy all the food, etc, she still works, but thats "her money"
>>21964385
paid for everything myself even though she also worked and made good money
How does this happen? What leads someone to pay for another's phone bill? How? Why?

>> No.21964740

>>21963372
tell her to shut the fuck up

>> No.21964743

>>21964629
Women project onto you their follies. I've been waiting to use the word follies for quite some time.

>> No.21964765

>>21963432
Yep. My thoughts exactly.

>> No.21964774

>>21963372
if any of this is true dump her i read like 5 lines and stopped lol

>> No.21964781

>>21963372
Yeah she's cheating on you, bro
Total projection
Drop this bitch and stop being a submissive faggot

>> No.21964785

>>21963530
Why does the picture have a home button and a home bar

>> No.21964786

>>21963372
She seems like a dumb bitch desu. Don't waste your time and wealth on a toxic relationship anon.

>> No.21964795

>>21964743

Makes sense, projection is pretty common. Assume others are as bad as you are. Guess it was good it didn't work out, she was a slut after all. Still, good experience, I now know that women like at are good for a rough fucking and then blocking their number.

>> No.21964801

>>21963372
1. Semi-beta option
Be a fucking man and set the rules. Show her you're the man in this house. If bitch's nagging give her a slap and good fucking

2. Chad option
Pack her stuff and park it outside when she's out doing her professional nail painter job. Change locks, never pick up your phone. Date proper women.

>> No.21964807

>>21963372
I’ll never understand why you guys put up with shit like this. The reason why she acts like this is because you give off a beta vibe and don’t control the relationship. I play vidya and shitpost on biz all fucking day and have never heard anything like this from my gf

>> No.21964816

>>21964451
>But her being better than you is troubling
are you an asian insectoid who only judge people by their wealth? she's absolutely not better than him because of daddy's money.

OP you're such a cuck. Why are you paying her bills, etc? List her all the things that must stop asap and if she continues one of those behaviors you're dumping her on the spot.

>> No.21964842

>>21964207
Was her name Amber?

>> No.21964859

>>21963372

Op, please listen to these anons:

>>21964207
>>21964385

I also dated someone like this for 2 years and it just got worse and worse. Turns out she had both bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder, and I'm not just saying that. She was actually diagnosed and given medication by a psychiatrist after I called her therapist when she threatened suicide for the 100th time.

Don't listen to the anons calling you weak. They've probably never been with someone like this. They are master manipulators and can practically bend reality around you. The highs were better than any relationship I've even been in, and the next day she would be storming around our apartment pulling her hair out and threatening suicide because I didn't say "I love you" enough times. She was also incredibly paranoid about cheating just like your GF, even though I knew for a fact she was still sexting her ex and trying to organize a meet up with him.

You can try to break up with her peacefully but it's probably not possible. If you live together I recommend packing all your shit up and moving out while she is at work or something. When she gets back from work calmly tell her you guys are done but you are willing to stay and talk for a bit. She's probably going to flip out so make sure you call your friends and family and fill them in beforehand since there's a good chance she will contact them to try and manipulate you into getting back with her (happened to me). Don't tell her where you are moving to because she will likely show up there and refuse to leave (happened to me), she might even show up at your work too so you might want to tell your boss you broke up with your gf and need a day or two off to move your stuff (didn't happen to me thankfully but there's always a chance)

>> No.21964867

>>21963372
>That's her money
I'm married. If you think that's bad, wait til you're the only one with a job but half your salary is still "her money"

>> No.21964879

>>21963372
If she’s accusing you of cheating that means she’s cheating, anecdotal maybe but that has been the case for 10 relationships I have seen from friends IRL

>> No.21964920

>>21963432
This. How fucking stupid you are when you keep wasting time on that idiot whore

>> No.21964958

>>21963372
Typical misdirection lashing out behavior, it means she is guilty of something. Usually cheating.

t. psychologist.

>> No.21964963

>>21964859
>even though I knew for a fact
how did you know`?

>> No.21964981

>>21963670
>I'm 105.69% sure
that's 5.69% more sure than I am

>> No.21965020

>>21963372
>says I'm "just taking one of your sluts on vacation!

why are you still with this shrew?

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>>21963372
Wow anon, you chose the right place to cry about your relationship
I'm mesmerized by all the collective emotional dumbness delivered on this thread

>> No.21965050

>>21963372
Bro why are you paying for her shit? You aren't even married.

Dump her man and find someone better.

>> No.21965105

OP here's my chad advice, ignore everyone else

Do you want to keep her? Then just tell her to shut the fuck up about it and put her in her place when she bitches at you about this?

Do you want her to cheat on you? Be a submissive little bitch and either try to explain yourself or actually take her somewhere.

>> No.21965152

why are you actually listening closely enough to what shes saying to logically process it
just do what youre gonna do and treat her like the child she still is

>> No.21965161

>>21964963

Because she let me use her computer when my broke, but she forgot about iMessage being linked to her phone. She was literally sexting him from the next room on her phone and I was getting notifications about it on her laptop....

Yeah, not the smartest woman.

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>>21963432
DING DING DING DING
This is a larp, but if it were real OP would need to run for the fucking hills.

>> No.21965238

>>21963372
Looks like a troubled gf type.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jYJqfbiRWqM

>> No.21965332

>>21963372
> 1 post by this id.

TOPIC DILUTION'

Topic dilution is not only effective in forum sliding it is also very useful in keeping the forum readers on unrelated and non-productive issues. This is a critical and useful technique to cause a 'RESOURCE BURN.' By implementing continual and non-related postings that distract and disrupt (trolling ) the forum readers they are more effectively stopped from anything of any real productivity. If the intensity of gradual dilution is intense enough, the readers will effectively stop researching and simply slip into a 'gossip mode.' In this state they can be more easily misdirected away from facts towards uninformed conjecture and opinion. The less informed they are the more effective and easy it becomes to control the entire group in the direction that you would desire the group to go in. It must be stressed that a proper assessment of the psychological capabilities and levels of education is first determined of the group to determine at what level to 'drive in the wedge.' By being too far off topic too quickly it may trigger censorship by a forum moderator.

>> No.21965363

>>21964816
It’s just how they see the world. A guy will marry a chick he finds in a dumpster. The opposite won’t happen excluding very very very rare instances where the guy is both beautiful and a complete alpha.

>> No.21965434

>>21963372
You absolute cuckold. Read about codependent personality didorder. Stop being a doormat

>> No.21965437

>>21963372
Educate the cunt and assert your dominant role in the relationship or GET RID OF HER. It's that simple. Stop being a faggot or embrace your faggotry.

>> No.21965462

>>21963372
>meanwhile this whole time she just calls me lazy because I "dont work enough" and "all my friend's husbands are working 2 or 3 jobs!"

Holy fuck why are women like this. I make 80k plus from waging in white collar job and my wife gives me the same shit

>> No.21965514

>>21963372
it’s obvious that you should leave her, but more important you need to figure out why you ended up with someone like her. If you don’t, you’ll just end up with someone equally as terrible or worse.

>> No.21965612

>>21963372
She doesnt seem worth it, just get rid of her
American women are so fucked beyond belief but surely there are some decent ones out there - yours isnt one buddy sorry

>> No.21965692

>>21965332
OP continued to post on another ID if you'd bother to read the thread you giganigger

>> No.21965718

>>21965612
Even a good woman will turn sour without proper maintenance. The way most men view women is completely wrong. Like they can just operate and be happy on there own. Good luck with that.

>> No.21965728

>>21963432
correct

>> No.21965789

>>21963372
>pay all the bills, pay for her cellphone, buy all the food, etc, she still works, but thats "her money"
faggot simp you deserve everything you get
>wants me to cash out to go on a fucking trip???? (this is in the middle of all the lockdowns)
she's a retard and you're a faggot simp for even entertaining that
>I just dont fucking get it. I get a chance to make even more money, she just thinks I'm going to cheat on her? Is it literally never good enough?
she's probably already cheating on you
word of advice drop her right the fuck now or at the very fucking least don't spend another penny on her

>> No.21965801

>>21963372
Just leave her dude. That's a toxic relationship. Its your money and if she doesn't like it that's her problem. I can see why she would be upset at you working out of town, but that's not the correct response. She's attempting to manipulate you into feeling bad.

>> No.21965821

>>21965718
Nah they have to be kept on a tight leash and busy with children etc

>> No.21965877

>>21963432
Sorry OP but FPBP

>> No.21965924

>>21963372
Leave her and take shower. Tomorrow work. There will be no other advice.

>> No.21966020

>>21963372
She's cheating on you, but doesn't want to lose her money, I mean the money you earn that she sees as hers
Find someone else

>> No.21966030

>>21963432
Unfortunately, this is the best post. I'm sorry OP. Your gf cheated.

>> No.21966064

This is probably a larp but how don't mean realize women like being totally demeaned and controlled psychologically. I mean literally tell her to shut her fucking mouth or you will shut it for her, shes a worthless whore with no value except for the fact she gets the privilege of being in your vicinity on a daily basis. Don't yell although you can raise your voice a little but you need to be completely unshaken by her behavior, just be a matter of fact as if you know fucking everything.

If she exhibits positive actions(whatever those are to you) tell her she is a good girl and praise just A LITTLE with your attention/small amounts of physical intimacy beyond sex(kiss forehead or pet her) BUT almost never tell her you love/care about her if ever. Make her earn it through specific actions.

Abundance mentality is actually real and never ever let her use sex against you. Nip it in the bud immediately. Women are literally dogs. You basically have to be a psychopath and if you are a good man you won't really enjoy it but she will be totally different and WANT to please you however necessary. Its exhausting but the rewards are hard to beat. My ex was so attached to me she would lodge my cock in her throat everyday and ask to do so. She absolutely needed my approval. I made her life better(I'm disciplined as hell) and reminded her she wasn't nearly as capable as I am. She had an easy life but was still emotionally exhausting(I could never show it unless I wanted to lose her admiration/respect) and eventually I just ended it because I wanted to focus on opening a business.

Also don't bother dating above out of your physical league its not worth the stress but you can do a lateral move or even date a bit under your attractiveness if you want it to be real easy.

>> No.21966067

>>21963372
Stop giving her so much attention only making 100% on your investment in 6 months is shit tier.
"Her money" wow anon just wow. what does she do with "her money". I mean if you guys are in a relationship you both should be working towards the ultimate future of children, "family". There is no hers or yours. but anyways follow biz advice dump her .

>> No.21966113

>YOUR JUST TAKING ONE OF UR SLUTS ON VACAY
dude what kind of white trash is she / are you? What led to this lack of trust? How many hoes are you pimping?
If she really said that sort of shit for no reason at all (half doubt, and yet half believe some women do this bs) then you need to have left that relationship 6 months ago.

>> No.21966116

>>21966064
>Also don't bother dating above out of your physical league its not worth the stress
Why not?

>> No.21966143

>>21963869
LMAO
No.
Just no.
It's already past the point of hope.
It's all done bar the inevitable legal blood draining you're getting.

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this has to be a larp; noone with $200k salary is this much of a retarded simp

nice blog larp post tho faggot, 7/10

>> No.21966241

>>21963372
Your only option is to cheat on her with old guys.

>> No.21966358

>>21966064
This anon is correct but at the end of the day you’ll just have a cock hungry dog that cooks for you. Which is probably what 99% of men want but if you’re like me eventually you’ll be repulsed by how weak willed women are and then you’ll choose to be alone. Reminds me of kierkegaard, do or do not, you’ll regret it all the same. Alone or with someone else you’ll always come to the same conclusion.

>> No.21966406

>>21963372
>love my gf more than anything, would literally die for her
Stopped reading there. SIMP.

>> No.21966424

>>21963869
>Bitchy rich girl

Absolute MASSIVE red flag, I'm sorry but if you don't come to your senses soon I'm afraid you're going to be stuck in this hell for a long time. If she's not cheating on you now (though she probably is) she definitely will be during your business trip

>>21966208
You'd be surprised how many absolute simps make 6-7 figures

>> No.21966482

>>21963372
just
fucking
leave

women are worthless

>> No.21966515

>>21963372
No. No. No. The problem isn’t the fact you have a gf. Is that you have a stupid gf who doesn’t listen to you and that you don’t dominate her mentally.

Drop her btw, she’s too dumb and restraining you on things you aren’t even aware of.

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>>21966424
>You'd be surprised how many absolute simps make 6-7 figures
That's who the simps ARE. Who do you think has the spare income to spend on these vapid whores? Blue collar types are either too busy with family or too street smart to fuck with these witches, and McDonalds shitposters saving up their little mexican suicide stacks on /biz/ don't get stacy's time of day.

>> No.21966645

>>21963432
FPBP

The louder they express fear for something, the greater the odds are they've done it themselves. I suggest you sit her down for a firm talk to recalibrate the positions. Make her realize how fucking lucky she is for finding an earner of ~100k who actually cares for her.

t. literal chad

>> No.21966651

>>21963432
This is true.

>> No.21966714

>>21963372
she sounds crazy and your relationship doesn't sound healthy.

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>>21963372
Be stronk fren. I hav gf too, is horrible. She found out i have 60k in crypto (she dont work), and said
> wow pretty soon we will be rich
> we
Told her no, prerty soon I will be rich. Also gonna dump her. She sounds alot like yours. Princess entitlementsyndrome, constant bitching etc. Mine even got fucking fat. Gained 25kg since i met her. She used to be 58kg petite, cute shy. Now shes a fat bitch who wonder why our sexlife has died.

>> No.21966769

>>21963372
break up, she sounds like a leech desu

>> No.21966781

How do people make it to 30+ with a full blue pill perception of reality... how do they not understand women yet?

OP take a step back and think about how she treats you.. in what world is any of that shit acceptable? Get some self respect for christ sake

>> No.21966782

>>21963372
Sell signal, you need to drop her.

>> No.21966800

>>21963432
This even though i might just be projecting my past relationships on others.
>says I'm "just taking one of your sluts on vacation! YOU NEVER TAKE ME ON VACATION" (keep in mind I have absolutely no sluts)

>> No.21966859

Hate it to break it to you but Beta bucks and Chad fucks.

You're not Chad.

>> No.21966958

>>21965437
>Educate the cunt and assert your dominant role in the relationship or GET RID OF HER. It's that simple. Stop being a faggot or embrace your faggotry.
right here. despite what r9k says women care about a lot more than numbers. this is your fault, not hers, at worst youre dating some pathological personality nutcase, otherwise you gotta set the boundaries...thats it. its like getting mad at a dog for sniffing butts

>> No.21966992

>>21963372
Why the fuck haven't you ousted this bitch? Get some self respect you fucking simp
Letting her walk all over you

>> No.21967038

>>21966116

You have to be on top of your game even with money, above average sexual skills, and social status. You basically have to make up for being less attractive than them by being above them in those ALL those facets. I don't mean just getting a more attractive girl to sleep with you sometimes and have a terrible relationship that is based on pure value. If you want a girl much more attractive to actually desire to please you those previous points I mentioned you must be better than her. Your time is better spent elsewhere. "Its just your turn" is mostly only true if the girl is like 2 points more attractive than you otherwise it can be overcome.

>>21966358
>Which is probably what 99% of men want but if you’re like me eventually you’ll be repulsed by how weak willed women are and then you’ll choose to be alone

Its funny because once you start treating women how I previous suggested in my previous comment it gets easier because you start to resent that it works and they are basically retards and disgusting in their behavior. Zero self awareness. Either you are right its repulsing how weak they are but it comes with the submissiveness and softness that can be enjoyed from time to time as you may never exhibit those traits yourself unless you don't care about being with her anymore. Seriously do a test run. Get a girl and then cry in front of her or reveal any vulnerability and they subconsciously just distance themselves from you. Its hilarious. Only talk to men you can absolutely trust with serious emotional issues never a woman. Its getting harder to find good men that will care and not gossip themselves though. Its a shame.

>> No.21967046

>>21963372
you are such a beta male. let me guess, skinnyfat loser as well?

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>>21966782
>Sell signal,
top kek

>> No.21967187

either this is a larp or you're a fucking retard. either way, reconsider your life choices

>> No.21967291

>>21963604
This is about the worst piece of advice I've seen all day, do not get this bitch pregnant or she will ruin your life even more.

Just dump her and move on, she clearly doesn't appreciate you.

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>>21967187
>once again, autistic incels take the bait
Well played OP

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>once again, autistic incels take the bait
Well played OP

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>>21963372
DOMP HER

>> No.21967528

>>21963372
C U C K
U
C
K

>> No.21967612

>>21963756
Actually good advice here. Try this before calling it quits

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>> No.21967720

>>21963372
She cheated and she wants to act like she believes you're cheating on her so she can justify her actions cheating once you leave.

>> No.21968025

>>21963372
had more than 60gf's and 2 ex-wives
you couldnt even pay me to be in a relationship with a woman.
im happier than ive ever been as a single man.

and worst of all for you, she sounds toxic in multiple ways.
whatever you do, dont marry her or any woman for that matter. you'll lose half of all of it.

t. been a crypto millionaire since late 2017

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>>21963756
best response in thread. also... obligatory.

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>>21968046
part two

>> No.21968301

>>21963372
>1 post by this ID

>> No.21968314

>>21963372
You're such a dumb fucking cunt for letting yourself get pushed around by a useless tramp that contributes literally fucking nothing to your life, and only harms you. Dump the bitch or prepare for a lifetime of misery. PS she's definitely trying to get pregnant to lock your dumb ass down. Don't fuck her again. Dump her and move on.

>> No.21968375

>>21963372
you're her paypig
also >>21963432

>> No.21968482

>>21963432
>>21963871
Yeah its an very interesting pathers of people who do/would do something malicious. They assume other people are the same and accuse them constantly of doing this, even tho its absurd or untrue and the other one might not even thinking about doing this. This works for human interaction but also for bigger people where groups accusing other groups for something they only do

>> No.21968592

>>21963432
fpbp. op, listen to him

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>>21963869
>21 year old bitchy rich girl thinking of the future
OP, I...

>> No.21968817

>>21968482
tits or gtfo

>> No.21968824

>>21963432
FPBP how does this keep happening

>> No.21968830

>>21963372
Sounds like she did something bad, and is looking for an excuse to leave you. That, or she simply isn't worth it.

Why would you allow her to humiliate you like that?

>> No.21968861

>>21966645
When did you know you were a chad?

>> No.21968894

>>21963432
or she’s subconciously planning on cheating on you, and Is fouling the nest preemptively. Making it easier for herself to “accidently” fuck someone because you’ve been mean to her.

>> No.21968985

>>21963372
Based on how you explained the situation I think you already understand what you have to do. Just dump the ungrateful bitch and take some sluts up to the arctic circle to party with the Boomers

>> No.21969020

>>21968817
I can show you my flat breast but i have no idea how you think a woman has written this.

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>>21963372
>1 post by this ID
Faggot OP

>>21963432
this, but OP is probably too busy getting cucked right now to read.

>> No.21969101

>>21963869
>short-sighted
>female

In other news, the sky is blue, water is wet, etc. Get a handle on your woman, or she'll walk all over you

>> No.21969159

>>21963372
Go die nigger

>> No.21969264

>>21963694
Uhhh Bases??!!

>> No.21969379

>>21968025
ok boomer. just because you have a low sex drive doesn't mean us 23 year olds with peak testosterone need to avoid women

>> No.21969440

>>21963372
Way to many red flag, its quite obvious shes cheating on you, or she wouldn't accuse you of cheating on her with a narwhal. Just dump that asap and get a real tradwife. You are literally fucking a blow up doll.

You invest 5k, receive 20k.
Her mental capability tells you to waste all that money on some garbage which satisfies her as fast as possible.
No reasonable fully developed brain would come to that conclusion. You can literally spend 10k which means 50% discount on everything enjoy a little, reinvest the other 10k and end up with 40k, rinse and repeat.

Jesus I'm getting mad just reading this, what kind of cuck are you? Are you trolling?

>>21963446
Based on his story he kinda did though.

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>>21968861
When girls walk up to you to say your pretty, when you don't have to put any effort into getting laid, when you have based physical characteristics, but most importantly: getting a tradwife after having fucked seas of dumb sloots and realizing most women are broke whores who leverage their looks and pussy to get things.

>> No.21969712

>>21963432
got it in one

>> No.21969725

>>21969607
Lol, but what if you fucking all these girls is taking a trad wife away from another potential guy?

>> No.21969737

All wisdom here.

>> No.21969768

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bbanWHx5AFQ

>> No.21969808

>>21969725
Welcome to capitalism, resources will never be shared fairly. Either way, you should blame the current rising culture in which we move away from the nuclear family (man + woman) and are moving towards worshipping pussy, sexual freedom and pretty much anything goes.

>> No.21969876

>>21969808
>sexual freedom
I think this is gonna hurt women in the long run as it will devalue the vagina

>> No.21969896

>>21963372
You deserve better man.
>love my gf more than anything
Clearly you love her more than yourself. You need to go alone more often and spend time with yourself. Go to a restaurant by yourself, go shopping, go to the gym, meet people, try a new hobby. Once you start chatting with people you’ll gain a new perspective on her. Hopefully you gain your own strength. Good luck brother

>> No.21969929

>>21968081
t. delusional loser

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Thread full of loser incels coping lmao go have sex

>> No.21970055

>>21969876
It devalues both that and their value as partner / personality. It's literally like becoming fat and diabetic. And lobbying for the right to it. Women really are children. There is no way arguing around it.

>> No.21970071

>>21969876
It will. Unfortunately i'm a bit worried that this will also harm society as a whole. And provide fertile grounds for idiocracy to breed. Time will tell I guess, but I'm a sceptic.

>> No.21970184

>>21969379
>he doesnt know that romantic "love" is a biochemical conjob and outright scam
you'll figure it out one of these days kiddo.
some men can only learn thru failure and pain.

>> No.21970208

>>21970184
>edgy atheist nihilist everything is just brain chemicals

>> No.21970236

>>21970208
>edgy 20 year old with no life experience knows it all
lol, i bet you invested in Bitconnect to u fuckin nigger

>> No.21970332

>>21966064
>>21967038
Very based anon, it is exhausting but it's really the only way to have a relationship

>> No.21970461

>>21963372
Never give your everything to your woman. Ever. They will feel deserving of it one day and then you will be fucked when they tell to your face that being spoiled by you is her divine right and she will hold sex/children as hostages if you resist.

>> No.21970523

>>21963372
>>say 'fuck it', I made the right decision
Your mistake is not doing this with every time and entertaining the idea that discussing shit like this with holes is a good idea.

>> No.21970574

>>21970523
This.

>> No.21971000

>>21963372
Same shit that happened to my Dad. Hardworking and making a lot of money, but my Mom was always bitching and nagging when he's at home relaxing. Treats him like an ATM machine. When he goes on work trips she gambles his money away. Saddest part is he thought he truly loved her and was doing what was best. That's the thing with these women, they can't step outside of their own head to see the manipulative and evil shit they do.

I've heard this story before a thousand times, do you really think your case will end any different? My dad ended up broke, sad, and old. Don't kid yourself. Alpha up and tell her to cut all that shit out, or just show her the door. Don't forget the moment you stop spewing out money she'll leave you for another in a heartbeat.

>> No.21971271

>>21963869
lmao she's going to use you to support herself financially until she can get access to daddy's money, at which point she will leave you.

>> No.21971367

>>21963432
Fuck.. nailed it.
T. 32 year old boomer

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Op is either giving some nice elaborate bait (kudos for this if true) or is an absolute retard

>> No.21971675

>>21963372
She projected her own infidelity on you lmao cuck.

>> No.21971694

>>21963372
Hmmm, You don't happen to be a federal employee right?

>> No.21971767

>>21963869
>Servants
Is she Asian or some shit? I don't know any white people that have a bunch of servants.

>> No.21971945

This is what happens when you cohabitate and/or provide financial support before marriage.

Here is her replacement: https://www.realdoll.com/realdoll-x/

>> No.21972200

There is fundamentally just a few ways that any boy or man can even entertain the creatures called "women"

1) The guy who never really became a man that always looked up to women because hes only ever known life under the rule of his single mother. So he elevates women above himself and relies on them to tell him what to do and what not to do. Women love these boys although they may be well into their 20s, theyre not men yet, that only comes thru heartbreak and a reevaluation of their life and interactions with women. This may not happen until hes well into his early 40s and sometimes never. These manchildren are trapped in an endless cycle of worshiping women who are only using them for financial support.

2) The Romantic Dreamer: these can either be manchildren or men but they require a woman constantly in their life because they define who they are by the woman that is in their life. They desperately need to be in love with a woman because they have become addicted to the biochemicals the body releases under these conditions. They are emotional train wrecks about half the year and walking on cloud 9 other times. The ride eventually ends in a breakup or a divorce and the guy loses half of everything he owns to something that was never going to last forever anyways. He was scammed by a series of holes and a universe of emotions he never really took the time to properly study. So he repeats the process with another woman, trapped in an infinite loop.

3) The Chad - he understands fundamentally that women are not to be taken seriously as the God's did not create them for this reason. Women are to simply have fun with, outside of this specific use case there is no concession for their existence save reproduction. The Chad never lets a woman control his life. The woman is lucky that she is even in his life as her exit could be at any time at Chad's discretion. The only men in life who properly interact with women bc they turn women into who they want them to be.

>> No.21972259

>>21972200
number one reporting in

>> No.21972459

>>21963372
you need to scalp that retarded bitch and start over. as someone who doesnt know you or her, but read what you typed, she is a fucking retarded selfish and ungrateful bitch.

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She already has cheated on you and if you go she will 100% cheat again OP , I'm telling you this as a person who is also in a long term relationship. You wont listen , But your only move at this point is to drop her like a bag of rocks, make 200k/ Year and get a new gf. how hard is it to land a girl that can live for free off you ? you fucking made it dude why you wasting your youth? Love Hurts and Blinds Good luck fren

>> No.21972603

>>21963432
this guy gets it. listen to what people say and how they say it, rather than just hearing it. you'll learn a lot that way.

it's a very common psychological thing; if one feels guilt they are likely to accuse their other.

i'd like to say there are positive qualities to her, but from your story she doesn't really appreciate you as a person. she complains you're not working enough despite your salary, she compares you to other people instead of accepting you for who you are, and she jumps to ridiculous conclusions regarding your work.

she ain't worth it

>> No.21972684

>>21963372
She is/has unironically cheating/cheated on you

>> No.21972688

>>21963372
Since no one asked for proof. Post portfolio fag

>> No.21972777

ONE POST BY THIS ID OP
fuck you /biz/
90% of you brainlet faggots need to gtfo back to /pol/ and /r9k/

>all fields, bitches

>> No.21972822

>>21972777
checked.

well that settles it, we're all faggots for replying to a "1 post by this ID" faggot OP who is most definitely a cuck.
this thread isnt even finance related and belongs in >>>/trash/
just goes to show u that jannies on /biz/ never do fucking anything.

>> No.21972881

>>21963538
yea ok lemme just go go the trad wife store and see what they got. fuck it id take a used model at this point

>> No.21972938

>>21965462

What the fuck? I married a japanese woman who stays home to take care of our kid and outside of some light nagging to do something together once a weekend, she leaves me the fuck alone. She's even asked me to work less because even though I make the equivalent of $115k/year, I obviously hate my job and drink way too much and the only time I enjoy my work-related activities is when building my hobby projects. So she's asked me to consider taking a pay cut for a more relaxing job.

What kind of troglodyte whores did you fucking idiots get?

>> No.21972963

I felt compelled to reply when I saw this simply because I was a victim for over 10 years.

I used to have a 2 really hot exes.1 of them is a model. Both display behavior like yours. Always complaining and demanding more and accusing me of cheating not letting me have any female friends. Both cheated on me multiple times and blatantly denies it even when I caught them red handed with sms.

Do yourself a favor and find someone who actually gives a dam about you jfc

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>>21963432
this, that cunt is a gold digging whore and is more focused on other cocks than helping you as a man, dump her broke worthless sorry ass and move on to better things
>RIP Lahey

>> No.21973077

>>21972963
>Do yourself a favor and find someone who actually gives a dam about you jfc
Its a rookie mistake. Women are not capable of actually loving you for you. They are the apex psychological predators on Earth and they draw their energy from emotions bc they are inherently vampires underneath the makeup.

>> No.21973529

>>21963432
Fpbp

>> No.21973818

>>21966782
Based