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Reminder that's it's ok for women to hide money in a separate account in a marriage because they might get abused and need an escape plan, but it's not ok for men to do it because they'll spend their money on a sidechick
https://twitter.com/AITA_reddit/status/1295349777153101827

>> No.21601141

Get married guys its a good idea! haha xD yay!

>> No.21601145

Sounds like a job for Kleros court!

>> No.21601204

>>21601018
Who the fuck gets married?

It's ridiculous this day in age. Life is too fast and too many things can go wrong.

There is not one fair argument in favor of marriage.

>> No.21601315
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21601315

>>21601018
Humans always create the thing they dread.

>> No.21601348

Im never getting married to a leftover roastie, but why don’t more men hide assets in crypto/physical metals to prepare for the inevitable divorce rape?

>> No.21601484

>>21601348
yup older women become incapable of love and they stop caring about who the guy is theyre literally just a placeholder so divorce is imminent, you need to date young and fundamentalist/orthodox Christian girls if youre going to be in a relationship

>> No.21601503

>>21601204
It's cool if you both go in specifically for the tax benefits. I haven't even seen my wife in 3 years.

>> No.21601542

>>21601348
because, in 2020 everything leaves a digital trail and her lawyers find it by looking at your income and finding discrepancies
only trade chads and dealing in cash can hide it effectively

>> No.21601568

>40% of my income (4 years times 10%)
Yeah, confirmed, both of them are idiots.

>> No.21601585

>>21601503
kek'd is this real anon? If so, fuckin' based

>> No.21601635

>>21601503
Do you wear the ring to bait n' bang sociopath homewrecker chicks?

>> No.21601675

>>21601542
Key seems to be to get rich before you get married and move all income generating assets into a LLC with people you trust

>> No.21601747

>>21601018
>says that's financial abuse
lmao huge red flag. Imagine your wife acting like this much of a jew. It's like he's playing politics with his lover. That's sad.

>> No.21602033

>>21601348
Why ever get fucking married. Its like telling your wife that she no longer has to put any effort into pleasing you anymore. Just don't do it, and if you do sign a prenup at the very least.

Why do you think women have always been obsessed with getting hitched? Getting hitched is like the male equivalent of getting a stable easy 100k salary job guaranteed for 30 years.

>> No.21602076

>>21602033
you need to have the prenup arbitrated now or else they can say they were under duress when they sign it

>> No.21602129

>>21601503
B A S E D

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>> No.21602279

>>21601503
Actually based as fuck

>> No.21602303

>>21601018
Retards on twitter with 0 common sense defending the bitch. It's hard to ignore how moronic these drooling drones are and the thought of them having the right to vote makes me cringe. A woman secretly putting money aside clearly has trust issues, that is a huge red flag since she's always looking at the door. Guess who gets fucked when that happens. I hope that dumbass follows through and divorces.

>> No.21602315

>>21602076
i'll see them both in kleros court then

>> No.21602374

>>21601568
I think he meant a one-time deposit of 40% of that year's income to catch up with the previous years.

>> No.21602634

>>21601018
that story is not surprising, but the damn majority of replies actually saying he’s the asshole is worrying. Are twitter users really that brainwashed?

>> No.21602694

>>21601018
She doesn't evem trust him. Why did she even marry him? 100% positive that if it was Chad she wouldn't have done this and would have literally just handed her money to him hand over feet.

>> No.21602720
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21602720

>>21601503

Phone call for you king

>> No.21602734

>>21601018
>asking reddit for advice about anything

>> No.21602788

>>21601348
Anyone who gets married in the 21st century is mentally retarded, that's why.

>> No.21602807

>>21601484
>you need to date young and fundamentalist/orthodox Christian girls if youre going to be in a relationship
Where do I meet these girls? Am a Christian but don't feel comfortable going to a church solely to meet women.

>> No.21603056

A relationship is built on trust. He married an untrustworthy bitch. She str8 up got married, and has been preparing for divorce ever since. What kind of psychotic shit is that?

>> No.21603148

>>21601204
>Who the fuck gets married?
Horny young people who barely know each other.

>> No.21603169

>>21601018
>yass slayyy queen that asshole deserved to be lied to and leeched off for four years his reaction proves it
Why the fuck are roastoids like this

>> No.21603367

>>21601018
Give women an inch and they take a mile.
Don't give them any power, and they can never take more away from you.
If she doesn't agree to such terms, she doesn't know her place and thus is not worth it, or she merely was out to exploit you.
Let stronk wimmin be stronk wimmin without you enabling them, and see just how far they get by on their own.

>> No.21603374

The painful thing is that this dude was so unsuspecting, so naive, so underprepared. That he had to resort to posting on Reddit to ask this. No one is teaching men these days how to handle these kinds of situations or these kinds of women. And they just end up getting completely fucked.
This guy was probably an easy target the whole time. And he still thinks that she's going over to stay at a "friends" house? .... This just, is fucking sad.

>> No.21603377

>>21601018
I wonder how much he makes
probably way more, which is why she cant handle him taking his share kek
good evidence on why to never merge accounts

>> No.21603442

>>21602807
See
>>21603148

Young Christian couples get divorced because they are retards who get cheered on by their parents to get married ASAP. It is not uncommon for young Christian couples to be married within a year of meeting, no prior living arrangement. Both the husband and wife later regret this shit and once the kids are old enough to say "I hate you Dad", the divorce happens.

>> No.21603466

>>21601018
When you get married both people own all the income. He'll probably win in divorce court.

>> No.21603542

>>21601542

Basically this.

Though easy to xfer to xmr n say you got hacked or lost keys.

>> No.21603651
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21603651

It's genuinely baffling how many people in that thread do not understand that to withdraw 40% of his annual income is the exact same as her taking 10% of her income per year for 4 years. I knew the US education system is shit but come on this is literally elemenary school math.

>> No.21603655

>>21603374

There is a huge lack of male outlets and male support. Men just get taken advantage of and manipulated. It truly is sad.

>> No.21603668

>>21603377
seriously who the fuck would merge accounts? I told my friends this and they looked at me like I killed someone. All they say is hurr good luck getting a girl. never getting married, fuck niggers, fuck kikes, AND FUCK WOMEN

>> No.21603687

>>21601675
Thank you for the solid advice rabbi

>> No.21603725

>>21602303

If he just starts randomly abusing her so she hides her money. Lmao That is so enraging given the guy in the OP image is clearly blue pilled he probably hasn't even yelled at her in their entire relationship let alone given even an inkling of the capability of violence towards her. Honestly he should start hitting her.

This isn't even hard to figure out. They agreed to put their money in a joint account. The wife lied. If they would have started the relationship as independent accounts and add money to a joint account as bills accrue that is also fine. Fuck I'll knock a girl up and live with her, pay child support if it goes south because I want a child, but getting married is a death sentence.

>> No.21603770

>>21601503

She can still wreck you though at a moments notice right?

>> No.21603848

>>21602303
People deserve to be slaves because they want to be slaves. I hope the worlds population is reduced to Georgia guidestone limit

>> No.21603855

>>21603725
This is probably only part of it too. The guy probably hasn't realized that she has, most likely, been racking up community debt she can sloth off on him in divorce court

>> No.21603944

>>21603848
You probably won't be one of the people they allow to live though.

>> No.21603975

>>21601018
Did you have to sacrifice things you will miss because that money wasn't there?
Is this indicative of toxic behaviours?
Does this explain other suspicions you've had that erode your trust?

>> No.21604028

>>21603855

Jesus thank god for crypto some of these retards might be able to hide their assets by buying local BTC totally off the books and say they gambled it away or something and then retain their net worth on a hard drive. That is of course you let it go to far to begin with.

>> No.21604054

Never.Get.Married.

>> No.21604108

>>21603770
Idk I'm just shitposting

>> No.21604131

>>21601018
and this is why i'm an 'incel'. i'll keep my house, my money, and my freedom. others can keep the tradcon muh marriage nonsense lmao.

>> No.21604519

>>21603668
they merged accounts/got married/got screwed and are seething inside. they want you to join the misery. join us, fren, in the twilight zone of hell.

>> No.21604666

>>21604519
Surely your wifes love and physical intimacy more than makes up for it, right anon?

>> No.21604997

>>21602303
The top replies make me irrationally angry. I want to throat punch that rainbow flag cunt and piss on her faggot simp husband. Anyone who thinks the way those people do should be executed publicly. They are a disease.

>> No.21605065

>>21602634
Twitter is an echo chamber filled with SJW kikes who fall all over themselves trying to out-virtue signal one another. It's a cesspool.

>> No.21605279

>>21601568
There's no good way to describe what he meant in English. What he said is good enough for a gist.

>> No.21605330

>>21602303
>A woman secretly putting money aside clearly has trust issues
bluepilled

>> No.21605392

>>21601145
kek

>> No.21605394

>>21602634
>Are twitter users really that brainwashed?
Yes. Twitter actively suppresses anti-establishment thinking and promotes new leftism whenever possible. So by natural selection this is the core userbase.

>> No.21605438

>>21602694
>She doesn't even trust him.
It's not about trust.
>100% positive that if it was Chad she wouldn't have done this
So you think.

>> No.21605527

>>21602807
>Where do I meet these girls?
At your local middle school.
Christianity means nothing to hormonal humans acting off their base instincts within a culture that shames them not.

>> No.21605567

>>21602634
can't find the stats but reddit nearly always sides with gf over bf and child over parents in those threads

>> No.21605569

>>21601018
I mean, obviously he's an idiot and reacted in a totally delusional way. Who gives a fuck if your wife has savings? But on the other hand she's also an idiot for hiding it and then saying "in case you start abusing me" as the reason. What a dumb answer.

They both just seem like shitty people and I think we should just move on

>> No.21605605

>>21603056
You don't realize that women are like this period.
You know how the best evolutionary strategy for a male is to impregnate as many women as possible?
The best evolutionary strategy for a female is to get impregnated by the best men and then sucker lesser men into providing for her, since the best men won't do it themselves.

Ergo, most husbands are little more than banks to their wives.

>> No.21605651

>>21601018
Everything posted on that board is fake, OP.

>> No.21605684

>>21601018
Whats he worried about he has 25k in crypto right? If not he should kill her and her money will go to him.

>> No.21605738

>>21603374
The older generations were foolish and ended up not learning their lessons overall. They've largely betrayed us but couldn't have done otherwise.

Of course the so-called Redpill Community of Gen X men and so on has been gaining huge steam in the past decade which has already tuned countless zoomers into the true nature of reality, though too late for many Millennials now which the guy in OP likely is---and even still, he'd have been too indoctrinated to have been receptive to these lessons before he experienced them the hard way.

>> No.21605782

>>21601018
guys should definitely make a BTC wallet and go to a BTC atm and just load it up with cash in case this happens honestly

>> No.21605813

>>21601503
>>21603770
>>21604108
You are all now aware that gay marriage is a thing, which means you can actually do this with a similarly-minded bro you've known for most of your life that you trust.

>> No.21605828

>>21605569
How is his reaction delusional?

>> No.21605843

>>21604131
>others can keep the tradcon muh marriage nonsense lmao
It's going to be even easier being traditionalist by taking literal marriage out of the equation. Legal marriage is designed to put a guillotine over an honest man's neck that women can let drop on a whim, and they're given every incentive to do so by influences both within and outside the institution. Letting her have no say in anything forces her to submit to the man's wishes, and an honest man who marriage was supposed to be for won't take advantage of that for anything other than the sake of the relationship---so it all works out, so long as you get a good enough woman and deny her a ring.

>> No.21605900

>>21605569
>Who gives a fuck if your wife has savings?
Did you even attempt to comprehend the entire post he made retard? I'll spell it out for you shortbus rider.
His money is her money, but her money isn't his. According to your shit-for-brains "logic", that's not concerning at all.

>> No.21605913

>>21601348
Thats why my gf is a massive virgin who is solely dependent on me. Just got to get her to learn how to cook and im set

>> No.21605932

>>21602807
its not going to church to meet them its more of a community thing, its normal in some slavic countries

>>21603442
nah thats retarded thats because you live in the states where society is totally pathologized i wouldnt even consider protestent/baptist evangelicals to be culturally Christian even theyre mostly secular

>> No.21605986

>>21605913
massive as in a fatass right?

>> No.21606004

>>21601018
>financial abuse

This is a meme right?

>> No.21606051

>>21605913
why is she massive anon?

>> No.21606086

>>21606004
Which rock do you live under?

>> No.21606091

>>21603651
Yeah holy fuck lol

>> No.21606175

>>21601204
This. Marriage is completely dead in modern day time. Anybody that gets married is a bluepilled retard

>> No.21606197

>>21606004
Nope,
Here is a normie article on it
https://www.weinbergerlawgroup.com/blog/divorce-family-law/financial-abuse-are-you-a-victim/

She can claim that and rape you in court over it. I'm betting, that she needs his money in their account so that way she can spend it in ways that benefit her, but the debt still ends up with him. It goes something like this. Lets say they have three cars. She takes the credit card and replaces all 8 tires on two of the cars. Its "their cars" so when it comes time for divorce court she didn't "spend the money on herself it was theirs" But in the process of the divorce she gets ownership of those two cards and the ex husband gets stuck with the last car with old tires.
And you do that as much as you can to fix the assets they know they'll keep post divorce.
Hose improvements, child items, cars, beds, furniture.

>> No.21606208

>>21601145
Based

>> No.21606228

>>21603725
>but getting married is a death sentence
So is having a child for certain child support laws, where it scales according to your income rather than being a flat rate calculated absolutely to the cost of living, which would be fair but marriage today is not at all about fairness.

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>>21606051
SUMMON THE ARCHITECT!

>> No.21606259

>>21601018
> 25k USDC
> its been accruing interest
kek

>> No.21606272

>>21606197
Oh and I forgot to add, that the Debt for those 8 tires ends up getting pinned on the ex husband because that is just how much Divorce courts are fucked. House* not hose

>> No.21606273

>>21601018
No reason. To get married at all.
Pump n dump.

>> No.21606293

>>21601018
Thank God I'm married to a beautiful Jewess who would never be this financially illiterate.

>> No.21606297

>>21606228
in france and some countries fatherhood is already a social construct and you have to pay even if the kid isnt yours im not joking do not even date in those countries move asap

>> No.21606315

>>21603848
They were born slaves and raised to be such. Don't associate with slaves, only rebellious born-masters.

>> No.21606330

>>21606293
based davidic pedigree

>> No.21606359

>>21606297
>you have to pay even if the kid isnt yours
Yes I've heard of such policies. It seems you may be referring to adoption but this is true even if you literally get cuckholded and can't tell when the baby pops out.

>> No.21606367

>>21606259
yeah if my spouse had an account with 25k it probably wouldn't cross my mind to be suspicious. i mean, maybe i should be suspicious but i probably wouldn't be.

>> No.21606372

>>21606175
Get with virgins and marry outside of the legal system

>> No.21606380

>>21601503

wow wow based

>> No.21606422

>>21606372
>Get with virgins
Good luck finding one.
>marry outside of the legal system
You forgot the quote marks.

>> No.21606437

>>21606297
yeah paternity tests are illegal and if you marry a single mom or she pops out a black kid while youre married, its your responsibility

>> No.21606440

>>21601018
>divorcing over 25k
the absolute state of modern marriagecucks

>> No.21606461

>>21606367
i guess probably because i'd already be hiding many times more than that

>> No.21606489

>>21606440
this retard had his wife working. his first mistake.

>> No.21606494

>>21605567
Depends on the subreddit.

>> No.21606553

>>21606372
No virgins in Canada. All women are whores

>> No.21606569

>>21605813
Idk man, that sounds like something you can go to prison for if the IRS were to somehow find out its a fake marriage

>> No.21606581

>>21605932
>protestent/baptist evangelicals to be culturally Christian even theyre mostly secular

Wrong. Got myself a Protestant waifu and we will both live a stable God fearing life with each other.

>> No.21606593

>>21606440

This, she clearly knew she was in the wrong. A SMART guy would let her keep the 25k, but make her feel bad about it. That's a free ticket to fuck her face whenever you want.

>> No.21606597

>>21606553
Three months ago I would have joked about "QT virgin traps?" But fuck that psyop

>> No.21606624

>>21606569

Hey, I can marry my bro and not fuck him. Platonic hetero-parterships are the way to go

>> No.21606735

>>21601204
I need link to hit 1k so I can afford to have my own children via surrogate. I will have a full time "nanny" to act as a mother figure.

>> No.21606751

>>21606593
>women painting humongous red flags by justifying her actions as protection from abuse in case her husband abused her
>then advocates for doing shit the wife will immediately try and rape the husband in court with as manipulation and abuse
Smooth brain take. Your woman should let you fuck her face without resorting to OVERT emotional blackmail. Be more subtle, retard.

>> No.21606789

imagine having a joint bank account.

>> No.21606907

>>21602033
Marriage is a retirement plan for women.

>> No.21606944

>>21601145
uniswap sirs.

>> No.21606984

>>21606735
What exactly do children need non-biological mother figures for with a good father around.

>> No.21606991

>>21605279
A good way is “an equivalent amount of money.”

>> No.21607020

>>21606991
I'll amend my post with "precisely".

>> No.21607063

>>21607020
Haha, very well then anon. As you were.

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>>21601018
>Reminder that's it's ok for women to hide money in a separate account in a marriage
she's fucking around on you if she's doing that

>> No.21607082

>>21601018
I’ll hide my cock in a 19 year old Brazilian au pair .

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>>21603169
>Why the fuck are roastoids like this
their brains are soft and they're physically smaller and weaker
disciplining your wife is ESSENTIAL to a healthy marriage

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21607276

>>21606751

Sorry fren, im black, i should know better

>> No.21607484

>>21606372
Even if you find one they might be lying. Im currently going through a divorce and my wife claimed to be a virgin.

>> No.21607506

>>21601018
They should have agreed to participate in a smart contract which uses off chain analysis of secret 'hey google' sound-bytes to trigger an abuse payout.

>> No.21607636

>>21601018
Been seeing a lot more posts/stories like this these days. Rona must be out here testing marriages too.

>> No.21607659

>>21601568
what's wrong with that. he never said compound

>> No.21607696

>>21607484
Goes to show you can't ask up front and must coax that information out of them, because the moment you put it straightforward she knows there's an incentive to deceive you.

>> No.21607726

>>21607636
I've heard talk that divorce filings are up tremendously since lockdown began.

>> No.21607872

Just wanting to throw that idea out here that there may be some guys on this board who aren't completely henched, with an 8-pack, delivering world-shattering dick on the regular.

>> No.21608144

>>21606597
>psyop

take your meds

>> No.21608348

>>21607506
Maybe he can take her to Kleros court since the jester didn't think to use smart contracts for their joint bank account.

>> No.21608418

>>21608144
>44
>meds
take your balls back shill

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>>21601018
Honestly he kinda deserves this for having a joint account in the first place. Imagine allowing a w*man to have full control over every dime you make.

>>21601145
baste

>> No.21608574

>letting your wife have an income or work outside the home
>having a joint account
>not giving her a cash allowance for groceries and making bring receipts for everything for tracking budgetary spending in a spreadsheet
I saw way too much of my parents having money trouble growing up because they didn't fucking budget and took out way too much debt. No way am I letting that happen to me. And you'd have to be nuts to even imagine that I'd tell my spouse about all the crypto and stocks I have, no way. If she even wants to know how much I have in my bank accounts she's going to have to steal my bank statements out of the mail.

>> No.21608745

>>21606437
No fucking way lol, its state enforced cuckery.

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21609034

>>21608418
>being jealous of d,oub,les
deal w/ it nerd

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>>21601503
>>21601635

>> No.21609208

>>21601018
>She's now staying at a friends house
yeah, I'll bet she is
>>21601503
flaw being, you still financially responsible for her. Shit happens? it all lands back on your doorstep

>> No.21609606

>>21606581
based im mostly talking mainline protestant/baptists
a lot of them are basically secular believe in evolution, some baptist girl was telling me she was taught fornication is okay as long as youre dating and dont cheat... like what...

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>>21601145
thanks to be doing the needful

>> No.21609784

>>21601204

It's only for children. As a man, you want to be the man raising your children. You pay a huge price and take an enormous risk for that though, and will probably still end up with another man raising your children.

>> No.21609860

>>21601204

I had children without getting married. So did many of my friends.

As friends we grew up watching an entire generation of men get financially raped. Who could blame us for then growing up and wanting to have kids without marriage?

>> No.21610530

>>21609860
What fraction of children of unwed parents ACTUALLY grew up with their father and mother together the whole time? Marriage is fucking shit now, but god help any kids raised out of wedlock.

I get that theoretically it shouldn't matter, and yet the results don't play out that way. You're basically guaranteeing the relationship won't last more than a couple years after having kids, and then congratulations, you're now a nigger and you've given the world some new children raised in broken homes who will end up complete degenerates.

>> No.21611423

>>21608574
Your wife will just have Tyrone or dyrell buy her what she needs after the gangbang anon don't worry

>> No.21611709

>>21607276
>I'm black

It's ok, you can't know better

>> No.21611801

>>21609784
>another man raising your children.
Absolutely fucking disgusting. The fact that the courts allow this sort of child abuse in the name of "protecting" women is unbelievable

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>>21601145
sir this is excellent reply you may has (you)

>> No.21612009

>>21611801

That's pretty much the only supposed benefit a man gets from a marriage. Imagine paying alimony and child support and then having your children disown you because the mother tells them you're a horrible person day in and out and then they call the new man Dad, even though he didn't work and does nothing but supply dick to your ex wife in the house and bed you paid for.

That's marriage for 80% it men

>> No.21612267

>>21601018
were gender relations ever this bad in human history?
The Jews have really outdone themselves.

>> No.21612274

>>21602807

Don't fall for the "church girl" meme. I tried that for years and I guarantee you every single woman you need in church has either BPD or some kind of personality disorder. Church is the worst place to meet women.

>> No.21612311

>>21608436
>Imagine allowing a w*man to have full control over every dime you make.
It's only fair since you're supposed to be equal partners in marriage. It's a demonstration of trust, commitment, and love.
That was the idea.

>> No.21612344

>>21612267
>were gender relations ever this bad in human history?
Yes, when "The Patriarchy" was considered the primary enemy, rather than white males' toxic masculinity.

>> No.21612425

>>21610530
>What fraction of children of unwed parents ACTUALLY grew up with their father and mother together the whole time?
I had a friend whose dad inherited a house in a nice neighborhood in a major city; they've had 4 children and been together for over 30 years. Both white, comfortable middle-class existence.
They're the same astrological sign though, so probably more compatible than most.

>> No.21612462

>>21612274
t.pathologized anglo
you guys are just cursed in general

>> No.21612566

Is this a MGTOW board?

>> No.21612676

>>21612425
Adding onto that: I used to wonder why his dad never married his mom, as I knew him and his family for many years. Now to my knowledge his dad is not that type of guy who'd be attuned to the sort of thing we've been discussing ITT, but now I question his decision no further.

Don't marry and keep everything in your name and she has no incentive to walk away or mess around. The result is a long-lasting and happy marriage (at least for you).

>> No.21612706

>>21612566
How could it be anything else?

There can't be a single guy on this board who doesn't know at least two meanings of "golddigger".

>> No.21612757

>>21612676
Lmao doesn’t know about common law marriage. In some states just living together for 2 years is considered marriage. Join bank account? Immediate bust.

>> No.21612791

>>21609784
>will probably still end up with another man raising your children
I highly doubt it's impossible to keep full or majority custody over your children if you make an insurance plan before you've even given the mother a ring; especially if you do surrogate and then get with some other chick while promising her 0 children.

>> No.21612849

My wife told me about all the weddings that have been cancelled from covid and all I could think about was the lucky bastards that dodged that bullet.

>> No.21612872

>>21612757
It seems you don't know what common law marriage is, on the contrary.

https://www.ncsl.org/research/human-services/common-law-marriage.aspx

There was a 1/6 chance I was talking about a city in such a state, but as it happens they don't live in one. Yet you still took those odds, unless you just aren't really sure what you're talking about.

>> No.21612884

>>21612849
I went to a COVID wedding last weekend. It was ok.

>> No.21612957

>>21612849
I have a brother who got married recently but he's been with his now wife for over 10 years since high school and he's fully integrated into her family, with her father even giving his blessing despite being one of those hawks who made sure to keep her from messing around with no-good dudes.

This type of security of the relationship is the ONLY circumstances you should feel comfortable taking the plunge: her family is stable, and she's stayed around without quarrel at least a decade without a ring.
Too many guys getting married 2 years in to fatherless women.

>> No.21612983

If my wife doesn't know how to use AAVE
Should I explain that almost our net wealth is on it? tell me guys

>> No.21613075

>>21612983
If she can't speak AAVE then just tell her the truth about your financials in it so she can't ever say you didn't while also not comprehending what you told her. Capische.

>> No.21613156

>>21602033
>sign a prenup at the very least
Why in the name of fuck do we still have people in the year 2020 who think that prenups are worth a damn?
How many stories have we heard about bitches claiming during divorce proceedings that they signed the prenup under duress....and as a result got the prenup successfully thrown out of court?
Stop spreading this fucking prenup meme. Either get married and accept that she can leave you and take your money at any time, or don't get married at all while taking comfort in the fact that if she leaves you, she can't legally take your money/property along with her (outside of child support if you have a kid with her)

>> No.21613264

>>21613156
>How many stories have we heard about bitches claiming during divorce proceedings that they signed the prenup under duress
ctrl+f duress
already been addressed

Just like tech security, it's an on-going war against getting screwed and you just gotta make sure you've got the updated protection methods. You're right that it's outdated, but the product is still trustworthy for now.

>> No.21613603

Maybe marriage or relationships aren’t worth it. But how do we cope with the loneliness. I already know that I’ll never have a relationship because 1.) I’m 26 and have no friends and 2.) I’m not a Chad.

>> No.21613695

big brain take is she did nothing particularly terrible and he overreacted like the little bitch he is

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>>21601018
Of course. All males are inferior to women. That's why. Fuck off.

>> No.21613745

>>21601204
People who are not US citizens and want children.
It's pretty straightforward

>> No.21613759

>>21613603
Just marry a chick and bully her to do whatever you want and fuck over women on the side. Make your money and enough that if she takes half you are set for life without her, you can last 7-10 years. If she divorces threaten to kill her if she tries to get maintenance, but be ready to give her half. Its fair because she'll do all the boring shit like cook, clean, social shit, sex whenever and company whenever. But if she tries to get maintenance just hire people to intimidate and make her know you won't be a slave. Repeat till you die, have your cake and eat it. Only pussies care about such big losses, if you are made for the good life you'll succeed regardless of losses and really to make it in life you just need to enjoy yourself and do whatever hobbies make you happy. Life is easy brother, everyone is just too much of a pussy to live it how they want it.

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>>21613603
You're obviously still equating "marriage" with "relationships".

If you accept that you'll never bag a virgin, then you can still get decent relationships with females who aren't virgins, at least every now and then---and if you can stomach women who aren't in their 20s and younger, then you can still get with the molding Christmas Cakes whose hormones and confidence have both fallen yet haven't actually expired yet.

It's really not *that* hopeless if you lower your standards, and even then, you won't get nearly as bad as you think as long as you learn to stop being a spineless beta faggot and NEVER EVER give women an inch of ground or bit of power in your relationships with them.

>> No.21613906

>>21613745
>People who are not US citizens
I doubt European are much less cucked.
>want children
You don't need marriage nor a wife to get your own.

>> No.21613910

>>21613858
Based and redpilled, these kids will learn one day. Just tell women what you want them to do and just do what you want to do. They will kick up all kinds of fuss and act upset etc, but they will still stay with you and you will still do whatever the fuck you want to do.

>> No.21614176

>>21608745
It's true about France
At least in the US, you can refuse to sign the birth certificate and also have a time frame to get an independent court-ordered DNA test done. If the test says you're not the father, then you don't have to pay the woman anything
But once again, marriage screws you over. If you're married to a woman in the US who gives birth and DNA shows you're not the bio father, you still have to pay for that kid
In that same reddit story in the op, the women are tweeting that it's okay for wives to hide a secret bank account from their husband, so that the woman can have a certain level of protection to leave if the man ever abuses her. But ask those same women if it's ok for a man to secretly DNA test the child of a woman that he's in a relationship with before taking any responsibility for the child, so that he's protected if the woman lied to him about paternity. Watch them change their tune and become instant hypocrites. Watch them talk about how they'd leave if they ever found out their man did that
Men have GOT to stop being such fucking idiots, and start looking out for themselves. Women damn sure are looking out for themselves; look at how many of them are in that twitter thread saying how it's okay to lie about not having a secret account. A good number of them even said THEIR MOTHERS AND GRANDMOTHERS advised them to do it. Some of the same women who say "honesty and trust is important in a relationship" are the ones rationalizing lying about secret money stashes while telling men to use their whole salary towards bills
These women are staying on code, and yet men refuse to protect themselves in the same way. Stop letting these women convince you to sign papers that allow them to randomly leave you and take half your shit. Stop letting them convince you to sign papers for a kid before you prove via science or a courtroom whether the kid is actually yours. BE SMARTER

>> No.21614540

>>21607276
Oh ur fine then. Just fuck her face anyway

>> No.21614563

>>21613695
How did he overreact?
He found out that she was secretly stashing money on the side, after having lied to him about their agreement to merge finances
She then suddenly offered him to do the same thing, in a pathetic attempt to absolve herself from guilt and to seem fair, even though she clearly would have never told him to do that had he never found out about her account
He then says he'll stash 40% of his money (if she can secretly decide her 10%, why can't he decide his 40% as long as all the bills are still paid?), and she freaks out and calls him an asshole and ridiculously cries "financial abuse" just because he's able to save more for himself

>> No.21614690

>>21601018
Enough reason to get pissed but not a divorce, women do stupid shit and some legit think like that. We live in a low trust society

>> No.21614866

>>21613695
nah relationship was already over if she was doing that anyway

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>>21607138
I'm curious, as a non-burger, what was with these movements?
Like, the women's march seemed pretty random.
And then, march for our lives was precipitated by a couple shootings, but it still seemed weird. Because all of them seemed like, anti-trump rallies. Same with BLM. I don't get it, Trump isn't particularly 2A friendly, he doesn't have any policies that affect women like abortion shit, and he's not been racist against blacks ever. Why do these turn into anti-trump rallies? I don't fucking get it.
I'm not saying I think Trump is a good politician, he seems kinda goofy. But I don't understand how people turn protests against some things into protests against him even when he isn't involved.

>> No.21615093

>>21614955
Trump is public enemy number one and an embodiment of everything wrong with America in their eyes, so they scapegoat him.
The establishment encourages this because he currently occupies a position of power that can forward goals counter to their own agenda---if they ever managed to get rid of him, they would have no more legitimate opposition ever again. America would have been done for in 2016.

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>>21615093
It seems so strange to me, like he is said to be representative of
>white supremacists
>sexists
>big *industry*
>foreign enemies
But to me, he just seems like a fickle, slightly narcissistic and often confused old man. Not a dark lord. It bothers me because in my country, now anything deemed "right wing", is associated with Trump. But he doesn't really have any affiliations with "far right" stuff to begin with? Maybe some of his followers or colleagues, but not him. I have never seen people react so strangely to a bogeyman. Your Bush did more damage by entering into two devastating wars, but he was treated like a clown.
It's damn strange.

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>>21615191
Dubya presented himself as just another fake puppet establishment politician, so the left treated him as just another 'bad Republican who's probably racist', the same way they've treated Republicans/conservatives for decades
Then Trump came in out of nowhere, boldly said a bunch of things that were interpreted as racist/sexist/otherwise problematic, and also basically waged war against liberal media. Trump was unlike any other US presidential hopeful in modern history; he took all of the Republican stereotypes and cranked them up to 11. Plus in the eyes of libs, he "stole" the election from what was supposed to be the first female US president. So it's no wonder they treat him like the Antichrist compared to Dubya

>> No.21615471

>>21615191
>But to me
Because you don't indulge in American media which carefully documents all the "evidence" supporting those assertions. Propaganda machine runs 24/7 against him on everything even the smallest slight or mundane controversy or trivial affair.
>he just seems like a fickle, slightly narcissistic and often confused old man
He's a silver-tongued two-faced boomer who's not particularly brilliant but can pretend to be retarded in order to play all sides at once, even those who think him their ally.
>Not a dark lord.
He's a crypto-kike who's trying to dismantle their power over America. He's neither evil nor blameless.
>It bothers me because in my country, now anything deemed "right wing", is associated with Trump. But he doesn't really have any affiliations with "far right" stuff to begin with?
Nope, he basically has no recognizable principles as far as whatever has played out in his policies, because he talks about all sorts of things and only does so many of them, and sometimes goes and does the opposite. He belongs to no one and offers no program that can gain adherents.
>I have never seen people react so strangely to a bogeyman. Your Bush did more damage by entering into two devastating wars, but he was treated like a clown.
Times change. Bush was a full-puppet who wasn't even in charge of his own administration, let alone particularly intelligent. Trump is far more clever but also beholden first and foremost to his own agenda and whims, which happen to run contrary to those of the shadow rulers, so they do everything in their power to smear him in order to either eventually bring him to heel or remove him from power altogether. You don't understand how close they are to winning, and virtually the only thing left standing in their way of victory and world domination is Trump, somehow.

>> No.21615716

>>21601018
Why have a joint account if you're not going to verify that the income of one party is going into it at the ratio agreed on?
I'm also wondering what he thought the point of his wife putting large sums let alone all her income into a joint account was? What was he going to spend that accumulated money on if his wife was already contributing a share he thought was acceptable to the rent/mortgage, utility bills, emergency bill fund, and kid's requirements? (I notice a lot of redditors are married without children)

What does he think the point of his wife being at work rather than at home mothering is? After the basic expenses of a household with kids are paid for, it's for nicer consumer goods. What need is there to have a shared fund if the shared burdens and benefits are already being paid for with sufficiently shared contributions?
Such a thing would only create the kind of animosity as happened in this guy's marriage - although she revealed a bit too much by revealing it explicitly as an escape route from him! But he still should have had enough sense and decorum to leave her some financial independence in the first place. Ironic he didn't, since this "shared account" thing probably seemed an egalitarian redditor-acceptable thing to him. Or perhaps it felt too emasculating or capitalist to him to formalise a fixed contribution of her income to the shared expenses - nobody wants to treat their wife like a tenant paying rent to them. But if that's how such a request would have been taken, the foundation of the marriage was all wrong to begin with.

>> No.21615748

>Retards still fall for the get married scam

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>>21615448
>he took all of the Republican stereotypes and cranked them up to 11.
Did he though? I mean, it doesn't seem like it. He's not even typically republican in many ways it seems.
Is it because postmodernism has imposed the critical-theory view of racism/sexism/etc on people now? Where you are to be blamed just for your status within a theorized system of heirarchy?
It's all so strange.

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Imagine getting cucked this hard, and then having to ask a bunch of people on the internet, "If your getting cucked"?

>> No.21615869

>>21614176
Thanks, I'm very redpilled about it. By my owm mom tbf. And I live in Colombia, where fortunately we still have the same pair of balls between our legs. But I don't know for how long. The left its getting pretty big this last years. With theie shitty rules and policies.

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>>21601018

Meanwhile an alternate, non retarded couple far far away:

>Hi honey lets merge finances and have a joint account
>Okay, but I still would like to keep a savings account for a rainy day or something i want to save up for
>Okay no problem, I might keep mine too

Now because neither can communicate they are getting divorced over 25k lmao. There is of course the other side of the coin that she thinks she is in an abusive relationship and needs the cash to bug out which is a much bigger problem.

>> No.21616137

>>21616025
It's the woman's fault, tard.

>> No.21616145

>>21609606
Yea, those types are screwed and when you ever find them rebuke their demonic and disgusting claims about evolution or fornication.

Not all of us are bad, desu. Wish you the best, God willing we all make it in this fallen and depraved world, and if not, we already made it to heaven through Jesus Christ, which is much valuable than the materials of this world.

>> No.21616744

>>21616025
>>Okay, but I still would like to keep a savings account for a rainy day or something i want to save up for
They're saying she was right not to do this and to lie about it instead, because otherwise the husband would somehow force her to spend the money on something else
But if the husband tries to force or coerce her down the line to give up her stash, then isn't that the red flag for her to leave? It's not like he can have free access to an account that's just in her name. It doesn't make sense to me

>> No.21616772

>>21601018
> Go to plebbit - hear about how men are bad
> Come to /biz - hear about how women are bad
So fucking sick of this, just want want it all to go away

>> No.21616965

>>21606437
Paternity tests aren't illegal, you have to go through courts to have them recognized however. Most fathers make them in Switzerland and Belgium though.

>> No.21617011

>>21615448
Trump is a saint compared to Bush jr and "nobel prize starting wars" Obama.

>> No.21617208

>>21616772
>/biz
go back

>> No.21617880

>>21605651
Even so, shit like this most definitely happens in real life so it's worthy of discussion regardless

>> No.21618034

>>21615849
Really pisses me off that so many guys out there aren't redpilled