/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>21287468

besides what the incels think, having a talented girlfriend is amazing. You are pushed to always improve.

No thats a debt. Stay debt free.

>>21287468
yes, to the extent that you should have a gf you respect and admire, someone who challenges you, expands your world view, and widens your social circle in good and interesting ways. you're more than welcome to enjoy your fill of bimbos, but kick them to the curb when you're ready to grow up.

Depends on her talent.
If she is talented at cooking, cleaning and taking care of children and your plans include having a family, then that's a good investment.
If she is talented at sucking cock but you do not make her suck cocks for money then it's not a good investment.

>>21287600
>>21287711
this is the fucking truth bros. My girlfriend is a useless talentless clingy virgin. She will never say anything that stimulates my brain for more than a second either. I didn't even fall for the virgin waifu meme, I just decided to fuck one and she got too attached. I have avoidant personality disorder and we ended up in a serious relationship. It's been one year and I want to kill myself every day. I actually want to be with her 30 year old sister, who is married and a doctor taking care of some dead beat husband. She will probably divorce him soon, she's jealous of her little sister. But I can't leave this girl, she would legitimately kill herself.

>>21287805

>>21287805
if she is so clingy and dependent on you why not start to drop subtle hints about her big sister being better and how you would like her to be more like her sister?

>>21287468
Yes

But you, as a man, need to be cognizant of your emotions. Especially those in the realm of jealousy. A smart, talented woman will lift you up to places you won’t be able to attain by yourself. But she will attract the attention of other men. Good communication, openness about your feelings, and mutual lighthearted regular activities will keep both of you based.

Don’t be a loser cuck and get jealous when she talks to other men. Instead, empower and support. And then don’t cum in 15 seconds from watching too much porn.

>source, the one, the few, femanon.

>>21287468
take out the word talented and answer your own question. does your girlfriend's talent bring in profit? then no, even a talented gf isn't a good investment.

>>21287887
It is a real gurrrrrllll . Cause watching too much porn makes it so you cant cum. Every male knows this

>>21287805
I'm unironically in a 2 month relationship with someone like that right now. I'm too nice to break it off now. Wtf do I do?

>>21288013
Lol no clue. I've been in mine 2 years

>>21287805
ive been there. breaking up is hard, but at this point you're hurting yourself. and it only gets worse/harder the longer you let this drag on. one year is not that long. get some will power and end it. she probably feels like shit too but she's too weak willed/co dependent/low self esteem to do anything about it. and, to be honest, you are too.

you can try address your problems to hear, but if you're confident that this person will add nothing but negative value to your life make a goddamn decision. high value men attract high value women. fix yourself and man up.

>>21287884
her mother and sister pushed her towards success, and all it has done is made her resent them for it. I think some people are just wired to be useless pieces of shit for life. We just stayed at her sister's the other day. She works 14 hr shifts at the childrens hospital and is still a ball of energy when she comes home, full of wit and excitement. Gf is mopey or in some kind of pain half the day, has never held a job, and gets tired after doing a single chore. The only time that's different is if it involves helping me or animals. She would run out into the street to try and revive a dying rat. But she has no interest in becoming a vet. And it's funny because her sister's husband is also useless piece of shit. She paid for the house and he sits at home all day getting drunk and sleeping. I keep fantasizing that we could switch places. But that will never happen. I've become a shell of a man over the last year. I think about death too often

>>21287887
>A smart, talented woman will lift you up to places you won’t be able to attain by yourself. But she will attract the attention of other men.
Might as well kill yourself. There's nothing more disgraceful than being dumber than your gf.

>>21287963
eh, just saying, i've had my fair share of run-ins with premature ejaculators.

it's actually not a problem at all.. I don't care. and in a way, it's kind of hot.. but mostly only when i'm giving head. cuz i don't want to be down there for 30 minutes lol

but either way, sex is one of the least important parts of a relationship for me, anyway. can't say it's the same for every girl, and sometimes horniness can be enticing in it's own way.. but in reality, sex usually is sorta underwhelming anyway, and it's hotter in fantasy anyway.

anywayyyyy

just fucking cook a meal with me, drink some wine with me, listen to some music with me, hug me from behind, and cuddle with me while we watch horror movies and also participate with me while have to do adult stuff like going to the grocery store and the DMV and be a partner, and you're super duper golden

>>21288086
>she probably feels like shit too but she's too weak willed/co dependent/low self esteem to do anything about it. and, to be honest, you are too.
yes. She lays around all day and I know it makes her feel like a waste of space. She was in school but didn't like it. I don't really think it was for her either. But I don't want her to get some dead end job

it's only been a year but she treats it like a marriage. Kids and house are a forgone conclusion. I think she would be a decent mother. Very empathic girl. Just not really my type, I'm realizing more and more. And dating a 19 year old when you're 26 is fucking hell

>>21288121
Are you me? Lol. I married a girl who I’m unironically no longer attracted to. Hard decision, but deep down I know I need to be with someone who I find attractive and want to have kids with. Familiarity breeds comfort, which makes it even harder.

>>21287468
No. You want a gf who's as useless and dependent as possible.

>>21287887
u lookin for a mate, lass?

>>21287468
Talented and humble gf is absurdly rare, but amazing to have

>>21288215
>forgone conclusion
nooooooooooooo

>19
that is a barely formed human

break up anon

>>21287468
Yes
If she is talented she likely has intelligence, access to resources (good family), skills that can match your skills to make you both stronger (social skills for all of us autists), comes from a decent family, motivation and work ethic
This is a lot better than some 18 year old who drank and fucked her way through high school and rotted her brain with media

>>21288292
What are you going to say to her? Is she physically unattractive?

>>21288367
She was probably on her way to at least becoming a human. Dating me has just stunted all of her growth. This is the biggest mistake of my life. I've made a lot, but they only ever hurt me. I'm deathly afraid of hurting this girl. She comes from a broken home and is the most empathetic person I've ever met. I wanted to die the few times I've made her sad.

>>21288475
She’s cute... Ah man it’s so difficult. She:
- has a good job
- is smart enough (went to good school got nice degree but I’m clearly smarter than her)
- is younger than me so we don’t connect on some things (but only 4 years younger).
- i want kids but I kinda don’t want them to not look like me (she’s latina, short, not ideal body type almost childish desu)
- she’s extremely nice. Like always puts up with my shit and I’m extremely bi-polar, but I can’t help but look at more attractive girls, and we haven’t had sex in months (due to that).
We’ve had discussions ad Infinitum and it’s the same thing:
> you don’t want to work on it then?

>>21287872
best post on biz atm

im investing in my gf, she will produce me passive income as i neet

>>21288845
>- she’s extremely nice. Like always puts up with my shit and I’m extremely bi-polar, but I can’t help but look at more attractive girls, and we haven’t had sex in months (due to that).
We’ve had discussions ad Infinitum and it’s the same thing
very relatable