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20893845 No.20893845 [Reply] [Original]

My fiancee wants an expensive as fuck ring.
I never expected her to be a materialistic person who'd fall for the diamond Jew narrative.

What do anons? Should I just break it off? I'm not selling my linkies just for a symbol of marriage.

Any married anons here have advice?

>> No.20893858

>>20893845
Get that bitch a cubic zirconia. If she ever complains bust her jaw

>> No.20893862

>>20893845
Cubic zarconia

>> No.20893870

>>20893845
>fiancee
ngmi

>> No.20893877
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>>20893845
>He fell for the woman meme

>> No.20893888

Costco has surprisingly very good diamond rings in terms of clarity.

>> No.20893893

>>20893845
Try to talk some sense into her but if she’s annoying and greedy about it then leave her ass. She’s probably just seeking marriage for the social image.
The boomers here will probably scold you for not buying a giant diamond ring for her as soon as she asked. Don’t listen to them they’ve been in the marriage trap for decades and their minds are mush.

>> No.20893953

>>20893845
>I never expected her to be a materialistic person
lmao, she is your fiancee, you should've been well aware by now

>> No.20893958

>>20893845
That's just the start. You'll be laying down 20k for a party and a church service soon.

>> No.20893981

It sucks because she's a genuinely good woman. Tradwife tier who grew up poor and always dreamed of a nice ring, but fuck man why do they gotta make these things so goddamn pricey.

We are not having a wedding so maybe this is just one of those times I gotta pay up.

>> No.20894011

Marriage is by definition is a beta bux transaction. She'll probably go get some alpha fux on the side as well. Anon doesn't like it, she takes half his linkies and he has to pay future earned linkies in alimony.

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>>20893981
>so maybe this is just one of those times I gotta pay up.

And so it begins

>> No.20894028

>>20893981
Just shut it and buy her the ringerino.

>> No.20894041

>>20893981
If you're not having a wedding the very least that you could do is buy an inexpensive but nice ring that you can have re-set in a few years

>> No.20894074
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>>20894014
kek, beta bux begins

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>>20893981
>Tradwife tier who grew up poor and always dreamed of a nice ring

Sounds brain-damaged, are you really going to curse your offspring with low iq? Find a new one.

>> No.20894085

>>20894028
Get a load of this roastie.

>> No.20894133

>>20893845

Depends how much money you have and how much you're willing to spend.

>> No.20894134

Unfortunately the ring meme was the most successful meme to ever exist. Diamond companies basically managed to inception it into every woman core psyche and reinforce it through media for generations. Even my gf who know that diamonds are worthless, still wants a diamond. You should just live together until she ends up pregnant.

>> No.20894141

>>20893845
The conference yesterday revealed to the world the stuttering potheads that run this scam. Price has already tanked 10%. Once it breaks through the $1.50 resistance the panic will begin and small holders and speculators will begin to offload, with the whales already long gone.

>> No.20894145

its a bad sign...i suggest dump her...your FUTURE will be wrecked...trust me...materialistic WOMEN are bad news....let her go and become an ALPHA.... and..dont get her pregnant...these women will use it against u....never give them a chance....

>> No.20894159

I was literally her first boyfriend and we've gone through a lot including her disability getting worse. Fuck it imma make her happy cuz love is an investment. Also, I let he pay for shit like 70% of the time even though I make double what she does.

I don't care if I get memed on bros, love itself is irrational in nature.

>> No.20894192

>>20893858
This

>> No.20894287

>>20894134
I think that only applies to americans and your consumerism. European in the US here, planning to marry my also European gf of 3 years. I talked to her about wanting to get her a diamond ring (I can afford a decent one) and she laughed saying we don't need retarded symbols to show we love each other. She got us both some cute $300 gold rings. Feels good bros.

>> No.20894347

Look into pawn shops. You can get big and nice diamonds in rings for stupid cheap. Then have it set in a cheap solitaire setting at a local jeweler

>> No.20894388

>>20893845
>I never expected her to be a materialistic person
anon, I..

>> No.20894389

>>20893845
Get a group of black guys to deflower her on wedding day instead. That'll teach her.

>> No.20894406

How much is expensive? I paid like 1200 for our engagement ring and another 500 for the wedding band, wasn't too bad in my opinion. Of course I would have rather not paid anything because it's retarded

>> No.20894411

>>20894159
Why does she want a ring if she is disable? Shouldn’t she want a surgery instead?

>> No.20894417

>>20894389
From the description he's given so far I'm pretty sure his fiance is Hannah Hays.

>> No.20894443

>>20893858
>>20894192
Agreed but buy moissanite instead.
>>20893877
It happens to the best of us

>> No.20894491

>>20894287
Grats, honestly

>> No.20894492

>>20893845
Why the fuck would you marry a blue-pilled retard anyway? I told my girlfriend I don't want a marriage ceremony and I completely dismantled the JEWelry kike trick a number of times for her already. She has an insanely strong love for me that borders on unhealthy and healthy. Learn how to not be a spineless cuck then a woman will actually respect you, motherfucker.

>> No.20894537

>>20893858
This right here.
If your girl falls for Jewish tricks you need to set her straight or she will be a poor mother to your children.

>> No.20894540
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>>20894417

>> No.20894538

>>20894491
Thank you anon

>> No.20894568

>>20894492
she is probably an autist with no friends aswell, am i guessing right? bc there is going to be all kinds of peer pressure otherwise

>> No.20894590

>>20894041

Fucking roastie detected get off this board. Giving two fucks about a ring that you’ll lose in the bathtub or get stolen by some nigger.

>> No.20894614

>>20894540
They look like they're related.

>> No.20894628

>>20893845
Don’t marry her dude are you crazy? Marrying in today’s society lmaoo ngmi

>> No.20894662

>>20894628

Literally marriage was part of a society that no longer exists.

We live in planet of the apes now.

>> No.20894669

>>20893953
op is autistic

>> No.20894711

>>20894662
Not only does that society no longer exist but the women don't either. Even if all the financial laws were repealed tomorrow we're still stuck with a pool of women with 1000 cock stares that are Chad widowed.

>> No.20894737
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>>20894568
She was a cheerleader in high school. If she had autism she would have a deadpan face and be the type who would converse with losers like you about pokemon and anime or some shit. Have sex, incel.

>> No.20894778

>>20894737
imagine the New Car Scent

>> No.20894786
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20894786

>>20894711
Take the massacre reset button pill. The world needs to be cleansed.

>> No.20894787

>>20893845
there is a mineral that looks like diamond is almost as hard as diamond but is 10x cheaper
but i forgot name of it
it was in documentary about diamonds scam/hoax
also this>>20893858

>> No.20894803

>>20894737
>>20894737
That bitch a hoe sry for your loss dont let me around your whore

>> No.20894823
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>>20894803
You sound like a nigger

>> No.20894852

>>20893845
If wanting a ring is enough to make you break up with her then you shouldn't be marrying in the first place.

>> No.20894859

>>20894823
I'm not

You sound like a dumbass

Enjoy your reply

>> No.20894869

>>20894787
moissanite?

>> No.20894923
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>>20894852
The Incel who runs away from an occasionally problematic woman vs the Chad who beats the troublesome behavior out of her. What is it with most men nowadays?
>I can't wait to move away from this state
>I can't wait to move out of this country
>I can't wait to move to Mars
>I can't wait for sex robots that I can impregnate
You can run, but the problems will always catch up to you unless you grow a spine and put an end to them.

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20894935

>>20894859
>the autistic weeb got butthurt because I insulted his anime
Kek

>> No.20894944

>>20893845
Be the leader not a cuck

>> No.20894985

buy that hoe a ring pop. If she doesn't want that, then she doesn't deserve the diamond ring. also cubic zirconia.

>> No.20894996

>>20893845
Ditch her.
She's no wife material.
Or marry her and regret later while being miserable.

>> No.20895036

>>20894287
does she know about your link stack? what's the sex like?

>> No.20895097

>>20893845
Why the fuck would you get married in 2020? Do you understand how stacked the deck is against you?

>> No.20895130

>>20893981

I hope you're larping, but if you're not, then you're going to be a divorce statistic very soon.

How many men has she had sex with, including you?

No hymen no diamond no exceptions

>> No.20895144

>>20893845
Buy a Moissonite ring or whatever theyre called. got one for my fiance just as durable as diamond if not stronger. also 3x more affordable

>> No.20895150

>>20893858
>cubic zirconia
is this the "new" trick? I've never heard about it.

>> No.20895195

>>20894159
shes disabled lol. what does she look like?

>> No.20895245
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20895245

>>20895195

>> No.20895295

>>20895245
cool

>> No.20895334

>>20893981
moissanite

>> No.20895340

>>20893845
why the fuck are you marrying in the frist place? are you religious?

>> No.20895399

>>20895245
look at THOSE FEET!!

>>20893845
get the zirconia as the other anons said, don't tell her what it is, also make her sign a prenup.

>> No.20895413

>>20894737
saw this pic before. might not be legit OP.

>> No.20895421

>>20894737
Answer the question weeb
If she has friends they will definitely tell her to dump ASAP if all you guys do is signing the fucking papers

>> No.20895429

tell her to earn it herself by working hard. what's wrong with the world is that people will find this offensive/immoral/wrong. that is all.

>> No.20895456

>>20893888
who gives a shot about clarity.
bitches want big ass diamonds
also bitches are stupid so get her a fake one

>> No.20895458
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20895458

>>20895399
Yeah her feet, face and brain are fucked. Nigger seems to like it though.

>> No.20895478

>>20894159
downs?

>> No.20895509

>>20895413
I posted it once before. Wouldn't surprise me if others saved it and posted it themselves.

>> No.20895544

>>20895509
>saving an average girls average pic
>then posting it in the same thread as you

sheesh

>> No.20895546
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>>20895421
She chose me over her toxic friends over 3 years ago. She's seen the improvement in herself and so have I. Why tf do you have such a hard on for "muh frens huh huh"? Get a family/community, you fucking rootless heathen

>> No.20895590
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20895590

>>20895544
Believe what you want, incel. Having sex and finding a good girlfriend is not as difficult as you imagine it to be, so long as you have a good personality along with a big dick and know how to use it. I suppose it would be a challenge for you then lol

>> No.20895770

>>20893858
>>20893862
Fuck that shit. Just smash up a glass pickle jar and throw the shards in a rock tumbler. Pick a tumbled shard that looks vaguely like a faceted diamond and set it in a band made from a filed and polished brass hex-nut. It's not like she'll be able to tell.

>> No.20895791

>>20893888
>clarity
Don't buy her a jeweler's loupe and she'll never know.

>> No.20895987
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20895987

>>20893858
>zirconia
>>20893862
>Cubic

$30 sounds crazy low for 925 silver cz.

are the rings in pic solid material for marriage? inb4 stone falls off after 2 months.

>> No.20896031

>>20894141
I know bots on /pol/ but I didn't believe the existence of this kind of bots on /biz/

>> No.20896102

>>20894159
I heard a story of some dude's grandfather proposed to the grandmother with a plain ring. Then, throughout the marriage, they kept adding to the band and over the course of the decades, the ring's value pushed up to almost 10K.

No need to spend all at once. Try something like this and add during each significant milestone in your marriage. Like when Chainlink hits 1K EOY.

>> No.20896126

>>20896102
Waste of money, the ring is for the initial gesture, gets shown off immediately. Adding to it down the line is a total waste of money. Either get it at the start or not at all.

>> No.20896142

If she's frugal everywhere else then get her the ring, but don't spend more than you can afford. Don't take relationship advice from a bunch of 12 year olds ripping each other off with ERC20 tokens all day long.

>> No.20896154

>>20893845
You're willing to break up with your fiancee for something so trivial? Obvious bait thread.

>> No.20896173

>>20895590
Imagine priding yourself on being a sex toy for a girl. Total feminity.

>> No.20896207

>>20896031
You should already be aware that there is a Vishnu on the blockchain

>> No.20896218

>>20894923
but there are hoards of unthinking retards who will foist the problems on you to the full extent of the law as a matter of course so that they don't have to consider alternatives to their 'understanding' of the world. also, space is nice and you can't get cheap space in normie friendly areas

>> No.20896245

>>20895036
My link stack is nonexistent since I only hodl btc and eth, for a couple of years now. The sex is amazing and almost daily. I was with a Chinese American girl before I met her, who was literally a (small-time) model, but could barely talk to her about anything. All her interests were influencer-tier shit. I'm from Southern Europe and knew more about China/America's history than she did. Sex was boring too despite her being super hot. A couple of months after breaking up with her I met my soon-to-be wife. She's not a model but she's very attractive (more than my ex in my opinion but my friends disagree bcs coomers), a nerd majoring in Physics, and great person to be around. Don't look for the good housewife that you'll buy retarded gifts for anons, look for a freaky cute girl that loves you as much as you love her and is the right fit for you.

>> No.20896264

>>20893845
if she wants something that expensive > 3k shes not the one shes irresponsbile financially
my wife wanted nothing more than 2k and made sure I didnt spend a dollar more by coming with me and forcing my hand to go lower

>> No.20896275

My fiancé told me that I could buy her a shitty $50 ring if I wanted to and she wouldn't care. I ended up getting a nice moissinite gold ring that was $2k, but that’s only because I can easily afford it and felt like exceeding her expectations. She was actually kinda pissed at me when I told her how much it cost

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>>20893845
Every girl I date I suggest getting them a plain gold band instead of a diamond and they love the idea, I’ve never had this issue, but, you must sell it. Here are your talking points:
>Not pretentious
>Stealth wealth
>Unless you’re dropping helicopter money on the ring, they all look the same
>Stands out in its own way
>Avoids profiting off of African child slave
Labor blah blah

Another cheaper alternative/path is to get her a ring using her birthstone. April is diamond so you’re fucked if that’s the case, but every other month would result in a considerably cheaper stone.

>> No.20896376

>OP got engaged with an Asian
lmao

>> No.20896448

>>20894417
HHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH

>> No.20896483

>>20896102
I thought about doing the same thing, even posted it on biz a while ago I think, to have a floral or other type of ring with gem or other sockets you can fill up during anniversaries. Would be cute, I guess...

>> No.20896518

>>20893845
Just remember if you get her a shit ring and you are out with her others will assume you're poor because of it, if that matters to you

>> No.20896546

>>20893981
Srsly just go on Etsy and get it commissioned. You can get a very nice actual special one for like $600 instead of giving a (((jewelry store))) many thousands of dollars for a rock around a loopy piece of metal.

>> No.20896612
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>>20896173
Imagine being an incel in 2020

>> No.20896625
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20896625

>>20893845
>My fiancee wants an expensive as fuck ring.
gg
don't kneel to women

>> No.20896638

>>20896275
That's a keeper. Well done.

>> No.20896725
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20896725

Here's what you do. Get her a basic as fuck ring and if she acts like a spoiled cunt then you know with certainty that will only be the beginning of her materialism and you being sucked dry financially for the rest of your life and probably in this day in age divorced. If shes appreciative and humble and content than I would surprise her with the ring of her dreams. You only live once so why not make the ones you love happy even it's an over priced rock...

>> No.20896761

>>20893981
Consider getting her a birthstone ring instead.

>> No.20896849

>>20894159
if its a mental disability youre in for it.

>> No.20896902

>>20896612
Im married

>> No.20897038

>>20893981

Did you try redpilling her on the diamond trade, the wedding tax, and the fact that the tradition of the ring itself was artificially created in the last 100 years to sell more jewry?

Also, rings that don't have diamond cost much less. My wife was happy with a lab-grown sapphire ring that cost 400 dollars.

>> No.20897162

>>20893858
>>20893862
>google cubic zarconia
>all these pro-diamond websites seething and shilling against it

Sounds based

>> No.20897600

>>20894159
Based, don't listen to the bitter virgins on here

>> No.20897626

is there anything wrong with lab grown diamonds?
i assume they would only notice if they brought them to a (((jeweler)))

>> No.20897679

>>20897038
It doesn't really matter to them, the point is a ring is a social signaller: signals wealth and how much their partner cares about them. The tradition aspect isn't important but something will always fill that role. Women are social and materialistic, this is healthy for them to a degree. A decent girl will be 'fine' with a cheap or non-diamond ring but it will always hurt her a little. These things matter to them even if they say otherwise. My wife always said the ring didn't matter and even after i got her the ring said "you shouldn't have spent so much" but she was clearly ecstatic and was so proud to show it off. It was really nice, especially as i had an autistic proposal where I'd waited so long for the ring to arrive that i just did it the second it came, thought it would be romantic but she was just kind of confused.

>> No.20897705

>>20897626
No. They're 30% cheaper but literally the same. Anyone who goes natural is literally pissing money away.

>> No.20897985

>>20893981
Buy her a nice looking ring. Communicate that this is temporary, but a sign of your commitment to buy her the best. You love her and want the best for her. You will give it to her but she must trust you to achieve the lofty heights youve promised. You want to share this dream life with her, if you buy the ring she deserves and the one that you desire its not possible to make it. Anon its hard to find a woman that you can tolerate consistently, one that doesn't naturally challenge you all the time, especially if shes white. She has high standards and rightly so.

>> No.20898078

>>20893845
Don’t be a poor gag and buy your wife a nice ring.

>> No.20898151

>>20894083
This is the blackpill, imagine if there was reverse natural selection, women wouldn't be so retarded when it comes to finances

>> No.20898216

Diamond dealer here. I used to make weekly AMAs on /pol/. Ask me anything.

>> No.20898234

If you need proof, let me know.

>> No.20898286

>>20894347
>>20894787
>>20896102
>>20896546
>>20897985
^ actually good advice in this thread

>> No.20898336

>>20898151
You ever heard of Korea? Or almost any Asian country? It's almost as if they have so many gold digging sluts because their IQ is higher on average or something...

>> No.20898396

fucking retards

Buying something expensive for a proposal shows you that YOU CARE AND ARE WILLING TO EXPRESS IT IN A MANNER THAT MATTERS - WITH YOUR HARD EARNED CASH YOU FUCKING DIMWITTED FUCKNUTS

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>>20893877
lmao what do you do for sex/companionship anon?

>> No.20898602

>>20893858
fpbp

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>>20898396

>> No.20898620

>>20893981
>guy is putting his fiance on a pedestal in the middle of the 4chan business board
>debating whether to give in to her nagging and spend thousands of dollars on jewish garbage mined by slaves in the congo
>"comeon guise shes tradwife top tier guise"

You have already been cheated on. You will get divorced. You will get depressed. All because you refuse to stop putting women on a pedestal and have self respect to make your own decisions and stand by them.

>> No.20898672

Buy a CZ ring, don't tell her otherwise. Give it to her, if she's worth a darn she will be happy. If by chance she has it appraised and finds out its fake, watch her response...if she blows up, dump that bitch. If she's cool shes a keeper, she can earn a real one throughout the marriage.

>> No.20898692

>>20896245
>chinese american
Anon... why are you fucking with asian american women. They are universally garbage once theyve had family in america for a generation or two. Stick to just "asian" or "chinese." Theyre at least more interesting and less batshit on the women side.

>> No.20898738

NO HYMEN, NO DIAMOND...you don't wife up a slut

>> No.20898768

>>20898738
degenerates marry degenerates porn user

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>>20893858
FpBp

>> No.20899097

>>20893845
Wife didn't expect anything in terms of cost. Just told me what she wanted visually in the ring. Keep your head on a swivel anon, some people change dramatically as soon they're married. I'm not going to tell you to break it off but if more red flags you didn't expect start popping up then I would consider it.

>> No.20899121

>>20897600
Dirty skank

>> No.20899326

>>20897162
Just went on a journey browsing these sites, I think I might have caught cancer. They don't even try to hide that the only selling point of diamonds is being expensive because they're expensive and that you can show off how much was spent on you. Outright saying diamonds are not even an investment and have no resale value while trying to FUD the competition. This crap is 100% shit test.

>> No.20899375

>>20893858
BASED

>> No.20899431

>>20896612
I can smell your stinky cooter from here roasty

>> No.20899486

>>20897679
Just because she was happy because you got her an expensive ring like a retard doesn't mean you should have done it

>> No.20899523

>>20897985
Don't listen to this guy

>> No.20899557

>>20898396
You realize that money could go towards a down payment on a house right

>> No.20899687

>>20899557
then it's not a PURE EXPRESSION OF COMMITMENT in the FUCKING ONLY FORM that MATTERS: CASH MONEY

You could say that you bought yourself a high velocity masturbator for the proposal with a similar logic

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20899733

>>20893845
>bought wife fancy diamond
>Her: dies
>Me: forever alone and $50K poorer
yeah get her something really nice!

>> No.20899852

Cubic zirconia but tell her it’s real. By saying it’s real you’re not lying, it’s a real cubic zirconia

>> No.20899955

Tell her "hellz nah, I ain't got that kind of money" wait for her to break it off for you. Ez.

>> No.20900220

>>20894869
This is the answer OP. It's what I got for my wife. Looks much better than any diamond I was willing to pay for. Much heavier than CZ so it feels real.

>> No.20900301

>>20893845
anon my gf used to want a $40,000 ring, which i always laughed off and she would get butthurt but I didn't care. A couple months later, she's begging me to propose and saying i can "just " get a $25k ring. I laugh it off again but she's crazy for me so another few months later she's saying pls marry me idc if the ring only costs 10 grand. Repeat again and now she's down to 5k which seems reasonable enough for me.

>> No.20900373

>>20900301
bro ur woman is a fucking retard lmao

40k for a ring kek

im rich as fuck irl, mid 9 figures so 40k is piss to me, but my wife, knowing how much money i have, never asked for no 40k diamond de beers jewish trick ring

she wanted a gorgeous opal and i got her one

>> No.20900382

>>20900301
repeat two more times and get her a plastic one

>> No.20900405

>>20900373
she's a rich girl. I dont think she ever actually expected to get a 40k ring out of me tho

>> No.20900432

>>20893845
Reach out to me. Wholesale diamond dealer. Do not buy from Costco, Blue Nile, Kays, or any of these retailers. Theyre selling you something with a 600%-1000% markup with very low quality. I can create a custom diamond ring with GIA certificate that will only lose 10% of its value after purchase. StonedNHammered@gmail.com

>> No.20900437

>>20893845
Lab created diamonds are a fraction of the cost and literally identical (Note: I'm not talking about CZ).
Do that.

>> No.20900509

>falling for the vaginal jew
ngmi

>> No.20900682

>>20900437
Lab diamonds hold 0% of their purchase value. Might as well invest into something that will hold its value. Even lab diamonds are 3-5k and you can get a 1.3kt VS1 or VVS2 H color or better for same price, mined natural diamond.

>> No.20900726

>>20893845
natural uncut diamonds can channel power, dont get jewed though.

>> No.20900826

>>20896612
I’m white so of course I’m an incel. It’s hard unless you’re a 8/10 at least. God I wish I was black it would be easier getting women

>> No.20900835

>>20893845
Marriage is a trap.

>> No.20900870

>>20898336
But I don’t want asian women. That shows that I’m an incel to the world who couldn’t get white women. Terrible advice and bluepilled

>> No.20900955

the price of the ring * (10 - (years of knowing e/o before marriage)) = how much she'll take from you when you divorce

>> No.20900970

>fiancr wanted her birthstone for engagement ring
>is willing to plan our wedding with only money we for sure have
>has started cooking everyday since we moved in together

I think I made it biz

>> No.20901780

>>20899687
you're already paying the bills and having kids with her, how's that for commitment? if that's not enough for the bitch she's just testing to see how much of a spineless cuck you are.

seriously though, you must be a roastie because "pure expression of commitment" is total feminine gibberish. they only care about the ring because of social pressure, it's purely about impressing other women and has nothing to do with love.

>> No.20902350

>>20900726
Uncut wins again.

>> No.20902433

>>20893845
she's making sure she's marrying the kind of man who can put his foot down and say no to stupid wastes of money. You should have done it immediately, definitely don't mention you needed a 4chan thread to come to a decision

>> No.20902480

>>20893845
Sit her down and explain to her the marketing stunt that diamond ring really are. If she won't change her position, let her go. A $5,000 ring is followed by a $50,000 wedding. You don't want to go down that road.

>> No.20902570

Just as a mean of credibility, my whole wedding was €500 and I used a €20 steel ring for both the engagement and the wedding. Upgraded to a €40 silver ring after five years and she was very happy about it. Chose your women properly.

>> No.20902601

>>20894134
Unfortunately its just one of those things thats socially reinforcing itself in a feedback loop. Doesnt matter if you know diamonds are a scam. Doesn't matter is she knows diamonds are a scam. Its all about social status and bragging rights. She'll still look and *feel* low status when she doesn't have the gaudy meme ring, and that's all that matters

>> No.20903354

>>20894134
>diamond companies
Jews, anon. The diamond meme, deBeers, etc, was set up by Jews, is run by Jews, and like you said, memed into women's brains by Jews for the last 80 years or so. Diamonds aren't rare. Even good ones. But when one company (jews) controls the flow, they are expensive.

>> No.20903418

>>20896308
Agreed. Rubies and emeralds are cooler.

>> No.20903423

Tell her you get X for now, and 5 years you will upgrade, 10 years an so on

>> No.20903470

>>20893845

Why do people choose diamonds for their stone? Emerald and Ruby are far superior.

>> No.20904182

>>20894737
Imagine calling everyone an incel like a blue-haired bitch with septum and no father.

Oh and before you call me an incel too like you do even with married men, I have a girlfriend and yes of course I have sex.

Stop projecting yourself like that, I bet if that's really your girl she's fucking another guy and you know it.

>> No.20904964

>>20898396
Studies show that couples who go into debt or pay more for an engagement ring are more likely to separate.

>> No.20905015

>>20904964
Easily explained, since the most common reason for divorces is financial issues.

>> No.20905111

>>20893858
this. don't tell her it isn't real diamond. if she goes to get it appraised and finds out it isn't real, she was gonna divorce you anyway and you'll be glad you didn't waste any more money on her.

>> No.20906086

>>20893845
Kick her to the curb if she doesn’t accept a 25c plastic ring

>> No.20906114

>>20893845
I went Moissanite. Some random shop on Etsy go me a decent ring for $650. When we clean it at the jewelers every so often they value it around $4k because even they think it’s diamond.

>> No.20906123

>>20893845
They're all like that get her the ring she wants but then don't spend on the wedding

>> No.20906216

My gf kicked me out because I was unemployed during the pandemic. When my link moons she's probably going to come begging me to come back but I'm going to tell her to fuck off.

>> No.20906409

>>20905111
Rings all come with a certificate and i imagine girls ask each other about the stats as a result

>> No.20906437

>>20904964
Yeah i bet, go ahead and link these studies bro

>> No.20906451

>>20893845

Pump and dump her.

>> No.20906495

>>20900682
> H colour
Just get her a hardened piece of shit

>> No.20906516

I was going to pick it but over time my girl changed and decided she actually did care. I told her to pick it and gave a budget and explained the criteria I was using. Moissanite and big or vintage and smol. She eventually settled on as old piece from the 1920's that was below budget. Her tastes are confusing because she'd go from Edwardian to art deco, first wanting a huge marquise, then wanting a round, finally picking an old European cut. Maybe she didn't know what she liked and changed her mind as she learned what's available. Lab diamonds far outclass mined diamonds but it's still tricky because supply is controlled so you're likely paying about 60% what a mined diamond would cost for similar clarity and carat weight, but color tends to be more colorless. Moissanite I'd urge caution as the patent expired and you have lots of chinks and jeets pushing DEF shit that would be graded as a fancy diamond based on color if it came from the ground, and it's a weird color. The yellow brown ones look normal enough but the green and blue ones are unusual. It could be a good thing if she likes it but an 8mm blue-green moissy won't pass as a diamond the same way a true colorless one would. If you pick a less flashy cut even some experts could be fooled for a minute. The downside is color stands out much more if your emeralds and asschers, especially as they go up in size of the facets. If she's materialist you'd want to strike a balance. Bigger than all her friend's stones but not so much bigger that it would be called fake out of envy. 8-9mm is what I consider the cutoff point unless you are very rich or want to admit to selling off a significant amount of your holdings for it. I personally liked moissanite more because it has a little more fire. Not cubic zirconia disco ball effect, more like a subtle flamboyance. It looks like what you imagine a perfectly cut diamond would be. Pic related is a bright ass lamp but they come to life under sunlight.

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>>20906516
Might help if I post the pic

>> No.20906633

>>20899486
Yeah it does, you don't into the female mind. These things materially matter in the female world, where a promotion helps you compete with other men comparing their adornments is how women compete. You render her low status by ignoring these things even if she has to "agree" with your logic. That's a recipe for her looking elsewhere. More to the point you really should be interested in making her happy, if not don't be with her. You don't have to be.

>> No.20906656

>>20895150
you must be from africa

>> No.20906671

>>20893981
Screencap yourself and remember the moment you became a cuck.

>> No.20906688

>>20895245
so this is what white feminism is now

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20906725

>>20893845
massive sell signal OP

dump it

>> No.20906858

Tell her no, I got my wife on short leash and it's been a blessing. Fucks like a champ, 5 years left in the mortgage, sunny vacations spots. Make memories, dont consume.

>> No.20906921

>>20906858
Post fugly wife

>> No.20906929

>>20893845
What's expensive to you OP?

>> No.20907738

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